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Ua mehameha pū anei kāu keiki? (Mehameha) E nānā kākou pehea e hiki ai iā kākou ke kōkua i kēia?

Creator: Dr. Priya Sammani
Published: 2026-07-04T22:04:49.000Z

Dr. Priya Sammani, MBBS, PG Dip. FMMedical Verification

He mea maʻamau ia no kēlā me kēia keiki ke manaʻo mehameha a mehameha i kekahi manawa o ko lākou ola. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui. Akā, ma ke ʻano he makuahine a he makuakāne paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu keiki i kekahi mau mākau koʻikoʻi e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻoponopono i kēia mehameha, e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a e noho pili. Kāhea mākou i kēia mau mākau pili kaiaulu . He mea nui loa kēia no ke olakino noʻonoʻo o ke keiki.

No laila, i kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ʻekolu mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e kūkulu i kēia mau mākau pilikanaka. He mau mea maʻalahi loa kēia, akā kiʻekiʻe loa nā hopena.

1. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻopili maikaʻi me kāu keiki!

ʻO kēia ka mea nui loa. E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia lā, ma ka liʻiliʻi no kekahi mau minuke, a e ʻimi i ka manawa e hoʻolilo ai me lākou. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ʻo kahi keiki e hoʻi mai ana mai kahi lā paʻakikī ma ke kula e manaʻo nei i kahi aloha a me ka nānā iki mai iā ʻoe, ʻeā?

He kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi paha: E nīnau i nā nīnau maʻalahi e like me: "Pehea ke kula i kēia lā, e ke keiki kāne/kaikamahine?" "He aha ka mea kūikawā i kēia lā?" "ʻO wai kou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa i kēia lā?"
E hoʻolohe pono i ka mea a kāu keiki e ʻōlelo nei: Ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i kāu kelepona a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana i ke TV, e nānā i kāu keiki a hoʻolohe i kāna mea e ʻōlelo nei me kou manaʻo piha . Me he mea lā e kamaʻilio ana ʻoe me kahi kanaka liʻiliʻi.
E nānā i loko o nā maka, e minoʻaka, a e ʻapo: Hiki i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi ke hoʻoluʻolu a palekana i ke keiki. Hiki i kāu ʻapo mehana ke holoi i nā kaumaha he nui i loko o ka puʻuwai o ke keiki.
E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou aia mau ʻoe ma laila no lākou: E hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka manaʻo "Aia ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā me ʻoe me ka nānā ʻole i ka pilikia." A laila e hoʻokokoke aku lākou iā ʻoe ma kahi o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia hoʻokahi.

I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e aʻo ana kāu keiki ʻo kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻoponopono ai i ka mehameha, ʻo ia ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kahi mea a lākou i ʻike mua ai, ʻo ia hoʻi ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe. E like kēia me kahi puʻuhonua palekana no lākou.

E noʻonoʻo, inā ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i 15 mau minuke i ka lā, e noho pū me kāu keiki, a hoʻolohe i kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai me ke keakea ʻole ʻia, pehea ka nui o ka pilina e hana ʻia ma waena o ʻolua? Malia paha e kaʻana like ke keiki me ʻoe i kahi pilikia liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka hauʻoli āna i kū ai i kēlā lā. ʻO ia ka mea e hoʻokuʻu ai i kona manaʻo a kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi nui iā ʻoe.

2. Pono anei kākou e kōkua i kā kākou keiki e hana i nā pilina maikaʻi?

He kuleana koʻikoʻi ko nā hoaaloha i ke ola o ke keiki. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi e hōʻemi nui i ka mehameha. No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e kūkulu i nā pilina maikaʻi a olakino .

E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki e pili ana i nā hoaaloha: E nīnau i nā nīnau e like me, "ʻO wai ka hoaaloha punahele a kāu keiki kāne/kaikamahine?" "No ke aha ʻoe e makemake nui ai iā ia?" "He aha kāu makemake e hana pū me ia?" a e ʻike i nā hoaaloha o loko o kāu keiki a me kēlā mau pilina aloha.
E aʻo mai iaʻu pehea e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha:
E lokomaikaʻi, e kaulike: e aʻo iā lākou pehea e kōkua ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, pehea e kaʻana like ai i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani, a pehea e mālama like ai i nā kānaka a pau.
E hoʻokomo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka pāʻani: Inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mehameha, e kono iā lākou e hui pū me ʻoe i kāu pāʻani.
E Hoʻololi i ka Hana: E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mea a pau i ka manawa kūpono i ka wā e pāʻani ai a kamaʻilio ai, a e hoʻomanawanui a hiki i kou manawa.
E hoʻolohe pono: Ke kamaʻilio ana kekahi hoaaloha, e hoʻolohe pono a e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou.
Haʻuki Maikaʻi: Inā lanakila a eo paha ʻoe, e ʻae me ka hauʻoli, e aʻo aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe, a paipai iā lākou e hoʻāʻo hou me ka huhū ʻole.
E aʻo i kāu keiki e ʻōlelo no lākou iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: Inā hana hewa kekahi a inā paha e hana ʻino ʻia ana lākou, e aʻo iā lākou e ʻōlelo kūʻē iā ia, a inā ʻike lākou i kekahi e hana ʻino ʻia ana, e aʻo iā lākou e kū no lākou. E kūkulu kēia i ko lākou hilinaʻi iā lākou iho .

Ke manaʻo nā keiki he ʻāpana lākou o kahi ʻohana, he hui o nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole he kaiāulu, ʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo mehameha. Manaʻo lākou, "ʻAʻole wau mehameha, aia kekahi poʻe e mālama mai iaʻu a aloha mai iaʻu."

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ua like ka hoaaloha me kahi puka makani ʻē aʻe i loko o ke ao o kahi keiki. Ma o kēlā puka makani, ʻike lākou i nā mea hou, aʻo, a hauʻoli. No laila, ʻo kāu kuleana ke kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i kēlā puka makani i maʻemaʻe a nani.

3. E aʻo aku i kāu keiki e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e lokomaikaʻi, a e hōʻike i ka mahalo.

ʻO ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mahalo no nā mea liʻiliʻi loa hiki ke lawe mai i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka ʻoluʻolu i kahi keiki. Hoʻoikaika pū kēia mau mea i nā pilina pili kanaka a hoʻēmi i ka mehameha.

E hōʻike i nā keiki pehea e kōkua ai:
Ma ka home: E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāu keiki i ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe me nā hana liʻiliʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, e waiho ana i kāna mau mea pāʻani, e kōkua iā ia e lawe i nā kīʻaha i ka papa ʻaina, a i ʻole e hoʻoinu wai i kahi pua.
Ma ke kula: Nā mea e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi hoaaloha i kahi penikala a mea holoi paha inā ʻaʻohe a lākou, e hana ana i kahi lokomaikaʻi iki no ke kumu.
I loko o ke kaiāulu: Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokumu i kahi kumu hoʻohālike nui me nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi ʻīlio a pōpoki paha i kahi meaʻai ma ke alanui, a i ʻole ke kōkua ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule e keʻa ma ke alanui (ma lalo o kāu nānā ʻana).
E aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi: E kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ko lākou kaumaha a me nā pilikia, e aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi i nā holoholona.
E aʻo aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e mahalo aku iā ʻoe: ʻOiai inā hana kekahi i kahi lokomaikaʻi liʻiliʻi a hāʻawi paha iā ʻoe i kahi makana, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻōlelo ʻana "mahalo." E aʻo aku kēia i kāu keiki i ke ʻano waiwai o ka mahalo .
E lilo ʻoe iho i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi:Ke kōkua mai kāu keiki iā ʻoe a hana paha i kahi mea lokomaikaʻi, e hoʻomaikaʻi aku iā lākou. E ʻōlelo, "Mahalo, e ke keiki kāne/kaikamahine, no ke kōkua ʻana mai iaʻu." A laila e maopopo i kāu keiki ka maikaʻi o kēia.

Ke kōkua kekahi keiki i kekahi a ʻike i ka minoʻaka ma ka maka o kēlā kanaka, hauʻoli loa ke keiki. Manaʻo lākou "ua hauʻoli kekahi ma muli oʻu." ʻO ia ka makana maoli a lākou e loaʻa ai. ʻO nā mea e like me kēia e hoʻopili ai iā lākou i ke kaiāulu, a nalowale mālie ka mehameha mai o lākou aku. No ka mea, makemake nā kānaka a pau i ka poʻe lokomaikaʻi a kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a emi iki ko lākou mehameha.

He aha kāu e hana ai inā ʻike ʻia he koʻikoʻi iki ka mehameha o kāu keiki?

I ka manawa pinepine, hoʻomanawanui maikaʻi nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio i ko lākou mehameha ma o lākou iho, me ke kōkua o kahi makua a i ʻole he hoaaloha maikaʻi. Eia nō naʻe, ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi ala e launa pū ai me kekahi, e manaʻo ai ua ʻae ʻia, e manaʻo ai ua hoʻomaopopo ʻia, a i ʻole e hoʻomanaʻo he ʻāpana lākou o kēia kaiāulu, e mae mālie ana kēlā manaʻo mehameha.

Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi manawa hiki i kēia manaʻo o ka mehameha ke koʻikoʻi a hiki ke paʻakikī i kahi keiki ke hoʻoponopono. Inā lōʻihi ka mehameha, a inā manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha mau kāu keiki , he mea nui e kamaʻilio me ke kauka o kāu keiki e pili ana i ia mea. Malia paha hiki i kāu keiki ke loaʻa ka ikaika a me nā hoʻolālā e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia kūlana ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea hoʻoponopono a i ʻole kekahi mea lawelawe olakino noʻonoʻo . ʻAʻole ia he mea e hilahila ai, e like me ka lawe ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau no kahi maʻi kino.

E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ke olakino noʻonoʻo o ke keiki he mea nui ia e like me ko lākou olakino kino. No laila, inā kānalua ʻoe e loaʻa ana i kāu keiki kahi pilikia olakino noʻonoʻo, mai kānalua e ʻimi i ke kōkua loea.

No laila, he aha ka leka a mākou e lawe ai i ka home mai kēia moʻolelo?

ʻAe, ʻo ka mea nui loa iā ʻoe mai kā mākou i kamaʻilio ai i kēia lā, ʻo ka hopena maikaʻi loa i ka mehameha o ke keiki, ʻo ia ke hāʻawi iā lākou i ke aloha, ka mālama, a me nā mākau e pono ai lākou e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

E kūkulu i kahi pilina ikaika me kāu keiki.
E kōkua iā lākou e kūkulu i nā pilina maikaʻi a olakino hoʻi.
E aʻo aku iā lākou e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e lokomaikaʻi, a e mahalo.

Me kēia mau mea maʻalahi o kēlā me kēia lā, e lanakila kāu keiki i ka mehameha a ulu aʻe e lilo i kanaka hauʻoli, pilikanaka, a ikaika hoʻi i ka noʻonoʻo. ʻO ia ka moeʻuhane nui o kēlā me kēia makuahine a me ka makuakāne, ʻeā? No laila, e hoʻomaka e hana i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi i kēia lā. E hauʻoli ʻoe a me kāu keiki!

ʻO ka mehameha o nā keiki, nā pilina pili kanaka, ke olakino noʻonoʻo, nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua, ka launa pū ʻana, ka lokomaikaʻi, ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki

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Ua mehameha pū anei kāu keiki? (Mehameha) E nānā kākou pehea e hiki ai iā kākou ke kōkua i kēia?
Dr. Priya SammaniMedical Verification
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📋Table of Contents
1. 1. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻopili maikaʻi me kāu keiki!
2. 2. Pono anei kākou e kōkua i kā kākou keiki e hana i nā pilina maikaʻi?
3. 3. E aʻo aku i kāu keiki e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e lokomaikaʻi, a e hōʻike i ka mahalo.
4. He aha kāu e hana ai inā ʻike ʻia he koʻikoʻi iki ka mehameha o kāu keiki?
5. No laila, he aha ka leka a mākou e lawe ai i ka home mai kēia moʻolelo?
He mea maʻamau ia no kēlā me kēia keiki ke manaʻo mehameha a mehameha i kekahi manawa o ko lākou ola. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui. Akā, ma ke ʻano he makuahine a he makuakāne paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu keiki i kekahi mau mākau koʻikoʻi e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻoponopono i kēia mehameha, e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a e noho pili. Kāhea mākou i kēia mau mākau pili kaiaulu . He mea nui loa kēia no ke olakino noʻonoʻo o ke keiki.
No laila, i kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ʻekolu mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e kūkulu i kēia mau mākau pilikanaka. He mau mea maʻalahi loa kēia, akā kiʻekiʻe loa nā hopena.
1. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻopili maikaʻi me kāu keiki!
ʻO kēia ka mea nui loa. E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia lā, ma ka liʻiliʻi no kekahi mau minuke, a e ʻimi i ka manawa e hoʻolilo ai me lākou. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ʻo kahi keiki e hoʻi mai ana mai kahi lā paʻakikī ma ke kula e manaʻo nei i kahi aloha a me ka nānā iki mai iā ʻoe, ʻeā?
He kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi paha: E nīnau i nā nīnau maʻalahi e like me: "Pehea ke kula i kēia lā, e ke keiki kāne/kaikamahine?" "He aha ka mea kūikawā i kēia lā?" "ʻO wai kou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa i kēia lā?"
E hoʻolohe pono i ka mea a kāu keiki e ʻōlelo nei: Ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i kāu kelepona a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana i ke TV, e nānā i kāu keiki a hoʻolohe i kāna mea e ʻōlelo nei me kou manaʻo piha . Me he mea lā e kamaʻilio ana ʻoe me kahi kanaka liʻiliʻi.
E nānā i loko o nā maka, e minoʻaka, a e ʻapo: Hiki i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi ke hoʻoluʻolu a palekana i ke keiki. Hiki i kāu ʻapo mehana ke holoi i nā kaumaha he nui i loko o ka puʻuwai o ke keiki.
E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou aia mau ʻoe ma laila no lākou: E hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka manaʻo "Aia ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā me ʻoe me ka nānā ʻole i ka pilikia." A laila e hoʻokokoke aku lākou iā ʻoe ma kahi o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia hoʻokahi.
I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e aʻo ana kāu keiki ʻo kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻoponopono ai i ka mehameha, ʻo ia ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kahi mea a lākou i ʻike mua ai, ʻo ia hoʻi ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe. E like kēia me kahi puʻuhonua palekana no lākou.
E noʻonoʻo, inā ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i 15 mau minuke i ka lā, e noho pū me kāu keiki, a hoʻolohe i kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai me ke keakea ʻole ʻia, pehea ka nui o ka pilina e hana ʻia ma waena o ʻolua? Malia paha e kaʻana like ke keiki me ʻoe i kahi pilikia liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka hauʻoli āna i kū ai i kēlā lā. ʻO ia ka mea e hoʻokuʻu ai i kona manaʻo a kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi nui iā ʻoe.
2. Pono anei kākou e kōkua i kā kākou keiki e hana i nā pilina maikaʻi?
He kuleana koʻikoʻi ko nā hoaaloha i ke ola o ke keiki. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi e hōʻemi nui i ka mehameha. No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e kūkulu i nā pilina maikaʻi a olakino .
E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki e pili ana i nā hoaaloha: E nīnau i nā nīnau e like me, "ʻO wai ka hoaaloha punahele a kāu keiki kāne/kaikamahine?" "No ke aha ʻoe e makemake nui ai iā ia?" "He aha kāu makemake e hana pū me ia?" a e ʻike i nā hoaaloha o loko o kāu keiki a me kēlā mau pilina aloha.
E aʻo mai iaʻu pehea e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha:
E lokomaikaʻi, e kaulike: e aʻo iā lākou pehea e kōkua ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, pehea e kaʻana like ai i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani, a pehea e mālama like ai i nā kānaka a pau.
E hoʻokomo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka pāʻani: Inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mehameha, e kono iā lākou e hui pū me ʻoe i kāu pāʻani.
E Hoʻololi i ka Hana: E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mea a pau i ka manawa kūpono i ka wā e pāʻani ai a kamaʻilio ai, a e hoʻomanawanui a hiki i kou manawa.
E hoʻolohe pono: Ke kamaʻilio ana kekahi hoaaloha, e hoʻolohe pono a e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou.
Haʻuki Maikaʻi: Inā lanakila a eo paha ʻoe, e ʻae me ka hauʻoli, e aʻo aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe, a paipai iā lākou e hoʻāʻo hou me ka huhū ʻole.
E aʻo i kāu keiki e ʻōlelo no lākou iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: Inā hana hewa kekahi a inā paha e hana ʻino ʻia ana lākou, e aʻo iā lākou e ʻōlelo kūʻē iā ia, a inā ʻike lākou i kekahi e hana ʻino ʻia ana, e aʻo iā lākou e kū no lākou. E kūkulu kēia i ko lākou hilinaʻi iā lākou iho .
Ke manaʻo nā keiki he ʻāpana lākou o kahi ʻohana, he hui o nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole he kaiāulu, ʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo mehameha. Manaʻo lākou, "ʻAʻole wau mehameha, aia kekahi poʻe e mālama mai iaʻu a aloha mai iaʻu."
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ua like ka hoaaloha me kahi puka makani ʻē aʻe i loko o ke ao o kahi keiki. Ma o kēlā puka makani, ʻike lākou i nā mea hou, aʻo, a hauʻoli. No laila, ʻo kāu kuleana ke kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i kēlā puka makani i maʻemaʻe a nani.
3. E aʻo aku i kāu keiki e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e lokomaikaʻi, a e hōʻike i ka mahalo.
ʻO ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mahalo no nā mea liʻiliʻi loa hiki ke lawe mai i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka ʻoluʻolu i kahi keiki. Hoʻoikaika pū kēia mau mea i nā pilina pili kanaka a hoʻēmi i ka mehameha.
E hōʻike i nā keiki pehea e kōkua ai:
Ma ka home: E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāu keiki i ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe me nā hana liʻiliʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, e waiho ana i kāna mau mea pāʻani, e kōkua iā ia e lawe i nā kīʻaha i ka papa ʻaina, a i ʻole e hoʻoinu wai i kahi pua.
Ma ke kula: Nā mea e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi hoaaloha i kahi penikala a mea holoi paha inā ʻaʻohe a lākou, e hana ana i kahi lokomaikaʻi iki no ke kumu.
I loko o ke kaiāulu: Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokumu i kahi kumu hoʻohālike nui me nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi ʻīlio a pōpoki paha i kahi meaʻai ma ke alanui, a i ʻole ke kōkua ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule e keʻa ma ke alanui (ma lalo o kāu nānā ʻana).
E aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi: E kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ko lākou kaumaha a me nā pilikia, e aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E aʻo iā lākou e lokomaikaʻi i nā holoholona.
E aʻo aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e mahalo aku iā ʻoe: ʻOiai inā hana kekahi i kahi lokomaikaʻi liʻiliʻi a hāʻawi paha iā ʻoe i kahi makana, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻōlelo ʻana "mahalo." E aʻo aku kēia i kāu keiki i ke ʻano waiwai o ka mahalo .
E lilo ʻoe iho i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi:Ke kōkua mai kāu keiki iā ʻoe a hana paha i kahi mea lokomaikaʻi, e hoʻomaikaʻi aku iā lākou. E ʻōlelo, "Mahalo, e ke keiki kāne/kaikamahine, no ke kōkua ʻana mai iaʻu." A laila e maopopo i kāu keiki ka maikaʻi o kēia.
Ke kōkua kekahi keiki i kekahi a ʻike i ka minoʻaka ma ka maka o kēlā kanaka, hauʻoli loa ke keiki. Manaʻo lākou "ua hauʻoli kekahi ma muli oʻu." ʻO ia ka makana maoli a lākou e loaʻa ai. ʻO nā mea e like me kēia e hoʻopili ai iā lākou i ke kaiāulu, a nalowale mālie ka mehameha mai o lākou aku. No ka mea, makemake nā kānaka a pau i ka poʻe lokomaikaʻi a kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a emi iki ko lākou mehameha.
He aha kāu e hana ai inā ʻike ʻia he koʻikoʻi iki ka mehameha o kāu keiki?
I ka manawa pinepine, hoʻomanawanui maikaʻi nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio i ko lākou mehameha ma o lākou iho, me ke kōkua o kahi makua a i ʻole he hoaaloha maikaʻi. Eia nō naʻe, ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi ala e launa pū ai me kekahi, e manaʻo ai ua ʻae ʻia, e manaʻo ai ua hoʻomaopopo ʻia, a i ʻole e hoʻomanaʻo he ʻāpana lākou o kēia kaiāulu, e mae mālie ana kēlā manaʻo mehameha.
Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi manawa hiki i kēia manaʻo o ka mehameha ke koʻikoʻi a hiki ke paʻakikī i kahi keiki ke hoʻoponopono. Inā lōʻihi ka mehameha, a inā manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha mau kāu keiki , he mea nui e kamaʻilio me ke kauka o kāu keiki e pili ana i ia mea. Malia paha hiki i kāu keiki ke loaʻa ka ikaika a me nā hoʻolālā e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia kūlana ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea hoʻoponopono a i ʻole kekahi mea lawelawe olakino noʻonoʻo . ʻAʻole ia he mea e hilahila ai, e like me ka lawe ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau no kahi maʻi kino.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ke olakino noʻonoʻo o ke keiki he mea nui ia e like me ko lākou olakino kino. No laila, inā kānalua ʻoe e loaʻa ana i kāu keiki kahi pilikia olakino noʻonoʻo, mai kānalua e ʻimi i ke kōkua loea.
No laila, he aha ka leka a mākou e lawe ai i ka home mai kēia moʻolelo?
ʻAe, ʻo ka mea nui loa iā ʻoe mai kā mākou i kamaʻilio ai i kēia lā, ʻo ka hopena maikaʻi loa i ka mehameha o ke keiki, ʻo ia ke hāʻawi iā lākou i ke aloha, ka mālama, a me nā mākau e pono ai lākou e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
E kūkulu i kahi pilina ikaika me kāu keiki.
E kōkua iā lākou e kūkulu i nā pilina maikaʻi a olakino hoʻi.
E aʻo aku iā lākou e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e lokomaikaʻi, a e mahalo.
Me kēia mau mea maʻalahi o kēlā me kēia lā, e lanakila kāu keiki i ka mehameha a ulu aʻe e lilo i kanaka hauʻoli, pilikanaka, a ikaika hoʻi i ka noʻonoʻo. ʻO ia ka moeʻuhane nui o kēlā me kēia makuahine a me ka makuakāne, ʻeā? No laila, e hoʻomaka e hana i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi i kēia lā. E hauʻoli ʻoe a me kāu keiki!
ʻO ka mehameha o nā keiki, nā pilina pili kanaka, ke olakino noʻonoʻo, nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua, ka launa pū ʻana, ka lokomaikaʻi, ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki
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