I ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, ʻike koke ko lākou lolo i nā mea. No laila, ʻo nā ʻano maikaʻi a mākou e hoʻokomo ai i loko o lākou i kēia manawa, he kōkua nui ia no ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa. ʻO kekahi ʻano maʻamau waiwai nui, ʻo ia ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke iā lākou mai ka wā ʻōpiopio. Manaʻo paha kekahi mau mākua, "Auē, he aha ka mea e maopopo ai i kēia keiki liʻiliʻi ma ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke?" Akā, aia kekahi mea ʻoi aku ma mua o kou manaʻo! I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i nā pono kupaianaha o ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, a pehea e hana ai.
He aha nā pono o ka heluhelu ʻana i nā keiki? No ke aha he mea nui kēia?
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā keiki i aʻo ʻia i ka ʻōlelo mai ka wā ʻōpiopio ma ke kula. ʻO kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻolohe ai lākou i ka ʻōlelo, ʻo ia ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke iā lākou.
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ke keiki e heluhelu i kahi puke ma o lākou iho, pono lākou e loaʻa kekahi mau mākau heluhelu kumu (nā mākau heluhelu mua) . Eia nā mea nui loa:
- ʻIke i nā huaʻōlelo he nui a hiki ke hoʻohana iā lākou. E like me ka pāʻani ʻana me kahi mea pāʻani hou ke loaʻa iā ʻoe, ua like nā huaʻōlelo me nā mea pāʻani hou no lākou.
- ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ua hana ʻia nā huaʻōlelo me nā leo liʻiliʻi i hoʻohui ʻia ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia he ʻike phonemic . Eia kekahi laʻana, hoʻomaopopo mālie lākou ua hana ʻia ka huaʻōlelo "pēpē" me nā leo ʻelua "ব" a me "বা".
- Ke hoʻomaopopo nei he mau leka a me nā huaʻōlelo nā mea ma kahi ʻaoʻao o kahi puke. Hoʻomaopopo lākou he mau laina a me nā pōʻai ke kū nei i kahi mea.
- Ke ʻike ʻana i nā leka o ka pīʻāpā.
I kēia manawa, manaʻo paha ʻoe he mea pono nā mea pāʻani nui a me nā kāleka flash no ke aʻo ʻana i kēia mau mea. ʻAʻole loa! ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e kōkua iā lākou e aʻo e heluhelu ma o lākou iho, ʻo ia ke heluhelu pinepine iā lākou.
Pehea lākou e loaʻa ai ke kōkua mai nā puke i ko lākou wā liʻiliʻi?
Ma waena o hoʻokahi a ʻekolu makahiki, i ka wā e kamaliʻi ana kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, nui nā loli nui i ko lākou ola. He mea hoihoi loa kekahi mau mea, akā aia kekahi mau pilikia. No laila, he mea maikaʻi no lākou ke lohe i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana o nā keiki liʻiliʻi ʻē aʻe i ko lākou mau pilikia, nā makaʻu (e like me ka makaʻu i kekahi mea ma lalo o ka moena!), A i ʻole pehea lākou i aʻo ai e hoʻohana i ka lua.
ʻO kēia ka manawa e hoʻonui koke ʻia ai kā lākou huaʻōlelo ma kahi lele nui. Aʻo pū lākou e pili ana i nā leka, nā kinona, nā kala, ke aniau, nā holoholona, a me nā kau. Hoʻi hou mai kēia mau mea a pau i ka noʻonoʻo ke heluhelu lākou i nā puke. He manaʻo maikaʻi ke koho i nā puke me nā kiʻi maikaʻi a hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi a ʻōlelo.
Akā, ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea āpau, ʻoiai lākou e makemake nui ana e aʻo e pili ana i ke ao nei a ʻike i ia mea, he mea nui loa ka pilina me ʻoe. ʻO ka heluhelu pū ʻana i nā puke i nā manawa a pau e hoʻoikaika ai i kēlā pilina. Hoʻolilo ia i ke keiki liʻiliʻi i mea palekana a hoʻomaha.
I ka manawa hea a pehea e pono ai i kahi keiki ke heluhelu i nā puke?
Inā hiki, ʻo ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā he pahuhopu nui ia.ʻOi loa aku i ka wā e koho ai ʻoe i nā manawa kikoʻī, e like me ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana a ma mua o ka wā moe, e maʻa kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka noho ʻana me kahi puke a me ka hoʻomaha ʻana. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i nā puke i kēlā me kēia manawa a makemake kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e heluhelu i kahi puke.
Inā makemake kāu keiki liʻiliʻi iā ia, e hoʻopaʻa iā ia ma kou ʻūhā i kou heluhelu ʻana i ka puke. E hōʻoluʻolu kēia iā ia, e hauʻoli, a e hoʻomaha. E hōʻike pū ia iā ia e hāʻawi ana ʻoe i kou manaʻo piha iā ia i kou hōʻike ʻana iā ia i nā mea hou. E hoʻonui kēia i kona hoihoi i ke komo ʻana i nā mea hou aku.
Makemake nā kamaliʻi e hana i kā lākou hana ponoʻī. No laila, e hoʻopuka i ʻekolu a ʻehā paha puke a ʻōlelo, "E koho i kekahi o kēia." ʻO kēlā me kēia puke āna e koho ai, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia. E noi iā ia e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻohuli i nā ʻaoʻao, a e noi i ke kōkua i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea ma ka ʻaoʻao. Ke loaʻa nā ʻōlelo maʻamau a hana hou ʻia, e like me nā mele hānai, e makemake kāu kamaliʻi e hoʻopau i nā ʻōlelo. Ke hiki ʻoe i kēlā manawa, e kū a hoʻokuʻu iā ia e hoʻopau.
E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea i ka wā e heluhelu ai i nā puke:
Eia kekahi mau mea nui ʻē aʻe:
- E heluhelu i kekahi puke a kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e noi ai. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā ʻo ia ka puke hoʻokahi a lākou e noi ai i kēlā me kēia pō no nā pule, a i ʻole he mau mahina paha. Inā makemake lākou ia mea, ʻo ia hoʻi he mea kūikawā ia no lākou.
- E ʻoluʻolu e heluhelu i ka moʻolelo i maopopo iā ʻoe.
- E heluhelu me ka manaʻo maikaʻi. E hoʻohana i nā leo like ʻole no nā huapalapala like ʻole, e hoʻokiʻekiʻe a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha i kou leo inā pono.
- E koho i nā puke pepa mānoanoa (nā puke papa) a i ʻole nā puke lole. Ma kēlā ala, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e hoʻopā a pāʻani me lākou me ka hopohopo ʻole e pili ana i ka haehae ʻana o nā ʻaoʻao.
- E hoʻohana i nā pēpele, nā mea pāʻani manamana lima (e like me "Itsy Bitsy Spider"), a i ʻole e hōʻike i nā mea liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka moʻolelo i ka wā e heluhelu ana i nā puke.
- E paipai iā lākou e paʻi lima a hīmeni pū i ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke me nā mele mele.
- E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kiʻi. E kuhikuhi i nā mea a e kapa iā lākou. A laila e noi i kāu keiki e kapa pū me ʻoe iā lākou, a e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou ke pane mai lākou.
- E nīnau i nā nīnau hāmama: "No ke aha ʻoe e manaʻo ai e hele ana ka liona i loko o ka nahele? He aha kou manaʻo e hiki mai ana?" E paipai kēia iā lākou e noʻonoʻo iki e pili ana i ka moʻolelo a nīnau i nā nīnau.
- E heluhelu kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i kekahi kanaka ma ka puke i kapa ʻia ma hope o lākou. He mea leʻaleʻa loa ia no lākou!
- E hoʻolilo i mea leʻaleʻa! E hōʻike i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi he mea leʻaleʻa ka heluhelu puke.
ʻAʻole anei ke keiki e noho wale ana ma laila a e hoʻolohe ana? Mai hopohopo!
ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e heluhelu i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi hiki ʻole ke noho mālie hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi manawa, akā e hoʻomanawanui a hoʻomau i ka hoʻāʻo.E huli i kahi puke, a i ʻole kekahi mau ʻaoʻao, e hoihoi iā ia. Inā ʻaʻole holo pono, mai koi iā ia e heluhelu, akā mai poina e hoʻāʻo hou ma hope. E hoʻomanaʻo, makemake nā keiki i nā mea like - inā ʻaʻole hoihoi kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i nā puke, e huli i kahi puke āna e makemake ai a e hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana, i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Makemake kekahi mau keiki kolohe loa e kū a hoʻolohe i kou heluhelu ʻana i nā puke. Makemake kekahi e nānā i hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha ʻaoʻao a neʻe i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. Akā e waiho i ka puke ma laila - e hoʻi hou mai paha ke keiki e nānā hou, a paipai iā ia e hana pēlā.
ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā ʻaʻole e noho mālie kāu keiki liʻiliʻi no ka puke holoʻokoʻa - ke piʻi mālie nei ko lākou manawa hoʻolohe. He manaʻo maikaʻi e hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka puke ʻoiai inā e neʻe ana kāu keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻOi loa aku i ka pō ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana, e ʻae iā lākou e paʻa a pāʻani me kā lākou mau mea pāʻani punahele ʻoiai ʻoe e heluhelu ana i ka puke. ʻO kou leo he mea hoʻomanaʻo hōʻoluʻolu ia ua hiki i ka wā hiamoe a ʻo ka heluhelu ʻana he ʻāpana ia o kēlā hana maʻamau.
E ʻike paha ʻoe ʻoiai ʻoe e heluhelu ana i kahi puke, ke hoʻolohe pono nei kāu keiki, ʻoiai e kala ana a pāʻani ana paha me kahi mea pāʻani punahele. ʻAʻole paha e nānā kekahi mau keiki iā ʻoe a i ʻole ka puke, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole lākou hoihoi a hoʻolohe paha.
Makemake ʻoe e hoʻomohala i kahi ʻano maikaʻi a maikaʻi e pili ana i ka heluhelu ʻana i kāu keiki. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua kaumaha a ʻaʻole makemake kāu keiki i ka puke, e waiho i ka puke a hoʻi hou mai ma hope.
Aia kekahi mau mea ʻē aʻe hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e kūkulu i nā mākau heluhelu mua o kāu keiki ma waho aʻe o ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke:
- E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka lā a pau.
- E hīmeni pū i nā mele, e pāʻani me nā mele, a e haku pū i kāu mau moʻolelo ponoʻī.
- E hāʻawi i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka pepa a me nā penikala kala e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai i ke kākau ʻana.
Eia kekahi, e noʻonoʻo e kaupalena i ka manawa pale (TV a i ʻole nā mea uila ʻē aʻe).
He aha nā ʻano puke maikaʻi no nā kamaliʻi e heluhelu ai?
Makemake nā kamaliʻi e manaʻo he mea nui lākou, hiki iā lākou ke hana i nā mea. No laila, e koho i nā puke hiki iā lākou ke hopu a hele aku, ʻoiai nā mea me nā huaʻōlelo kamaʻāina a hana hou ʻia paha, i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopiha i nā huaʻōlelo. E koho i nā puke me nā huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi ma kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao, ma nā kumuhana a kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e hoihoi ai, i mea e hoʻomau ai i ko lākou hoihoi.
No nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi 1-2 makahiki (12-24 mahina):
He kūpono nā puke pepa mānoanoa no nā kamaliʻi o kēia makahiki. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi inā loaʻa iā lākou nā kiʻi (ʻoi aku hoʻi nā kiʻi) o nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā a nā keiki liʻiliʻi e hana ai. ʻO nā puke e pili ana i ka wā moe, ka manawa ʻauʻau, ka manawa ʻai, a me ka ʻōlelo aloha a me ka haʻalele ʻana he mau koho maikaʻi. E koho i nā puke me nā ʻāpana hiki ke hāpai ʻia a me nā ʻili like ʻole e hoʻopā ai e hoʻomau i nā lima liʻiliʻi.
No nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi 2-3 makahiki (24-36 mahina):
I kēia makahiki, hoʻomaka nā kamaliʻi e hoʻohuli i nā ʻaoʻao o ka pepa maʻamau. No laila, he manawa kūpono kēia e neʻe ai ma mua o nā puke pepa. E koho i nā puke e maʻalahi ke heluhelu a hoʻomanaʻo,A laila hiki iā lākou ke komo pū i ka "Heluhelu".
I kēia manawa, ua hoʻomaka paha ʻoe e ʻike i nā mea a kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e makemake ai. E ʻimi i nā puke e pili ana i nā kaʻaahi, nā unicorn, a i ʻole nā bea teddy. Makemake pū nā keiki liʻiliʻi i kēia makahiki i nā puke e pili ana i nā pēpē, nā ʻohana, a me nā holoholona.
Makemake nā kamaliʻi e loaʻa i nā poʻe a lākou i ʻike ai, e nānā i nā puke hana lima, nā puke paʻi kiʻi, a me nā album kiʻi (me kahi wehewehe maʻalahi). He mea maikaʻi nā puke mele a me nā puke mele no kēia hui makahiki. Malia paha hiki i ka manawa heluhelu puke ke lilo i manawa mele!
Nā ala maʻalahi e mālama ai i nā puke kokoke i ka lima
Makemake nā keiki e koho i kā lākou mau puke ponoʻī. E kau i kekahi mau puke i loko o ka hīnaʻi ma ka papahele a i ʻole ma kahi papa e maʻalahi iā lākou ke hiki. A laila hiki iā lākou ke koho iā lākou iho. E mālama i kekahi mau puke i loko o ke kaʻa, no ka wā e hele ai lākou i ke kauka, a i ʻole i loko o kā lākou ʻeke i nā manawa a pau e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka wā e laina ana lākou ma ka hale kūʻai.
E hele i ka hale waihona puke a i ʻole ka hale kūʻai puke a e ʻae i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e koho i nā puke e heluhelu ai ma ka home. He nui nā hale waihona puke a me nā hale kūʻai puke e loaʻa ana nā manawa moʻolelo no nā keiki liʻiliʻi, a makemake nui nā keiki. Eia kekahi, e ʻae i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e ʻike iā ʻoe e heluhelu ana i nā puke no ka leʻaleʻa. He ala maikaʻi loa ia e hoʻokumu ai i kahi kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi no kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e heluhelu i nā puke.
ʻO ka mea nui loa āu e hoʻomanaʻo ai, ʻo ia
No laila, ua maopopo paha iā ʻoe ke koʻikoʻi o ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke i kāu poʻe keiki liʻiliʻi mai ka wā ʻōpiopio. ʻAʻole wale kēia e kōkua i ka ulu ʻana o ko lākou lolo, nā mākau ʻōlelo, a me nā hana kula, akā kōkua pū ia i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka pilina ma waena ou a me kāu keiki liʻiliʻi.
ʻO ka kaʻana like ʻana i kahi puke me kahi keiki ua like ia me ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i ka ʻike, ka hauʻoli, a me ke aloha i ka manawa hoʻokahi. No laila, mai poina i kēia ʻano hana liʻiliʻi akā ikaika. E ʻimi i kahi manawa i kēlā me kēia lā e heluhelu pū ai i nā puke me kāu keiki. He ʻike waiwai nui ia no ʻolua!
ʻO nā keiki ʻōpio, ka heluhelu puke, ka heluhelu mua ʻana, nā mākua, ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, ka ulu ʻana o ka ʻōlelo, Sri Lanka











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