He aha ka wā ʻōpiopio? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia manawa koʻikoʻi no kāu keiki!

I ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki, nui nā loli e hele ana iā lākou, ma ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo, ʻeā? ʻO kēia ka manawa a mākou e kapa ai he wā ʻōpio. He manawa kūlohelohe a koʻikoʻi kēia i ke ola o kēlā me kēia keiki. No laila, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ia mea me nā kikoʻī hou aku. I loko o kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki ke kū i nā pilikia he nui. Mai hopohopo, e wehewehe kākou i nā mea āpau ma nā ʻōlelo maʻalahi.

He aha ka manaʻo maoli o ka wā ʻōpio?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka wā ʻōpiopio e pili ana i nā loli kino a me nā hormonal a ke kino o kāu keiki e hele ai i ko lākou neʻe ʻana mai ka wā kamaliʻi a i ka wā oʻo moekolohe. Ua like ia me ka hōʻailona a ke ʻano iā ʻoe, "I kēia manawa ua mākaukau ʻoe e lilo i kanaka makua." I loko o kēia manawa, ʻaʻole wale ke kino o kāu keiki e hele nei i nā loli nui, akā ke hele nei hoʻi lākou i nā loli nui i ko lākou noʻonoʻo a me nā manaʻo. ʻO ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai a hoʻopau ai kēia mau loli no kēlā me kēia keiki hiki ke ʻokoʻa iki ma muli o ko lākou kāne, lāhui, a me nā mea pili i ke kaiapuni.

Ma kēia ʻatikala, ke kapa nei mākou i kahi 'keikikāne' he keiki nona nā testicles i ulu a ke hana nei i kahi hormone i kapa ʻia ʻo 'Testosterone'. ʻO ke 'kaikamahine' he keiki nona nā ovaries i ulu a ke hana nei i kahi hormone i kapa ʻia ʻo 'Estrogen'. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo he nui aku nā loli kino o kekahi mau keiki inā lawe lākou i nā mea pale puberty a i ʻole ka hormone therapy e hoʻoulu ai i nā ʻano wahine/kāne.

He aha ke kumu o ka wā makua?

ʻO ka wā ʻōpiopio ke kaʻina hana kūlohelohe e hoʻololi ai ke kino o kāu keiki i kanaka makua. I loko o kēia manawa, e oʻo ana nā ʻōkana nui a me nā ʻōnaehana kino o kāu keiki, a e hoʻomākaukau ana ko lākou kino no ka hānau ʻana i ka moekolohe . E ʻike ana kāu keiki i ka ulu nui ʻana ʻaʻole wale ma ke kino, akā, ma ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau.

Akā, hoʻokahi mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai, ʻoiai ke lilo nei ke keiki i kanaka makua ma o ka wā ʻōpio, ʻaʻole e pau ka ulu ʻana o ko lākou lolo a hiki i ko lākou mau makahiki he iwakālua a hiki i ka hopena . ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui loa kā mākou alakaʻi, ke aloha, a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā lākou i kēia manawa.

Pehea e hoʻomaka ai ka wā ʻōpio?

He ʻano moʻolelo ʻepekema kēia, akā e wehewehe maʻalahi wau i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo. Aia kekahi ʻāpana kūikawā o ka lolo o kāu keiki i kapa ʻia ʻo "Hypothalamus." Hoʻomaka ka wā ʻōpiopio i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai kēia "Hypothalamus" e hana i kahi hormone i kapa ʻia ʻo "Gonadotropin-releasing hormone" a i ʻole "GnRH".

A laila, hoʻouna ka `(Hypothalamus)` i ka hormone `(GnRH)` i kekahi ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ka lolo, ʻo ia hoʻi ka `(Pituitary gland).` A laila, hoʻokuʻu ka `(Pituitary gland)` i ʻelua mau hormones hou aʻe, ʻo ia hoʻi ka `(Luteinizing hormone)` (`LH`) a me ka `(Follicle-stimulating hormone)` (`FSH`).

Hele kēia mau hormones a hoʻoulu i nā gonads - nā ovaries i nā kaikamahine a me nā testes i nā keikikāne. ʻO ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai kēlā mau glands e hoʻokuʻu i nā hormones wahine - ʻo ka estrogen i nā kaikamahine a me ka testosterone i nā keikikāne. ʻO kēlā mau hormones ke kumu o nā loli kino a me ka noʻonoʻo a mākou e ʻike ai i ka wā ʻōpio. ʻAʻole anei he ʻano hana kupaianaha kēlā?

I ka manawa hea e hoʻomaka ai nā kaikamahine i ka wā ʻōpio?

Hoʻomaka ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine (ʻo ka poʻe me nā ovaries) i ka wā ʻōpiopio ma waena o 8 a me 13 mau makahiki. ʻOi aku kēia ma kahi o ʻelua mau makahiki ma mua o nā keikikāne. Ua hōʻike kekahi mau noiʻi e hoʻomaka paha nā kaikamahine ʻeleʻele a me Hispanic i ka wā ʻōpiopio ma mua iki o nā kaikamahine keʻokeʻo (ma kahi o 7 1/2 mau makahiki). No laila, mai hopohopo inā he ʻokoʻa iki nā hoaaloha o kāu kaikamahine.

I ka manawa hea e hoʻomaka ai nā keikikāne i ka wā ʻōpio?

Hoʻomaka pinepine nā keikikāne (nā mea me nā testicles) i ka wā ʻōpio ma waena o nā makahiki 9 a me 14. ʻO ia ma kahi o ʻelua mau makahiki ma hope o nā kaikamahine. Eia nō naʻe, hiki ke loaʻa kekahi mau ʻokoʻa lāhui ma aneʻi. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka wā ʻōpio e nā keikikāne ʻeleʻele a me Hispanic ma mua iki o nā keikikāne keʻokeʻo.

He aha kēia mau mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "Tanner Stages" a i ʻole nā ​​​​​​pae o ka oʻo ʻana i ka moekolohe?

ʻO Tanner Staging, a i ʻole Sexual Maturity Rating (SMR), he ʻano hana ia i hoʻohana ʻia e nā kauka e hoʻopaʻa a nānā i ka ulu ʻana o nā ʻano moekolohe lua i nā keiki i ka wā ʻōpio. I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he alakaʻi ia i nā pae o ka wā ʻōpio e hele ai kāu keiki a me ka wā e hiki mai ai.

Akā he mea nui loa kēia : Nui nā ʻano o nā mea i manaʻo ʻia he 'maʻamau' i ka wā e pili ana i ka manawa a me nā pae o ka wā ʻōpiopio. Hoʻomohala kēlā me kēia keiki i ko lākou wikiwiki ponoʻī. He alakaʻi maʻamau wale nō kēia "Tanner Staging", ʻaʻole ia he kānāwai paʻa e hahai ai. No laila, mai hoʻohālikelike i ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki me nā keiki ʻē aʻe, ʻae?

Pehea e hana ʻia ai nā kahua Tanner o nā kaikamahine?

Aia nā Pae Tanner ʻokoʻa no nā loli umauma a me ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho pubic i nā kaikamahine. Aia kekahi mau loli kino ʻē aʻe e hana ʻia. He alakaʻi maikaʻi kēia mau Pae Tanner i nā loli hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i ke kino o kāu kaikamahine. ʻElima mau pae o ka wā ʻōpio i nā kaikamahine.

• Pae 1: ʻO kēia ke kahua ma mua o ka puberous. I loko o kēia manawa, ʻaʻole ʻokoʻa ke ʻike ʻia ʻana o nā kaikamahine. Eia nō naʻe, ke oʻo nei ko lākou mau kelepa adrenal a ke ulu nei kā lākou mau ovaries.
• Pae 2: ʻO kēia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai nā loli kino. ʻO ka maʻamau, ma waena o 8 a me 13 mau makahiki, hoʻomaka nā kaikamahine e ʻike i kēia mau mea:
• Hoʻomaka nā umauma e ʻōpuʻu, a lilo nā wahi ʻeleʻele a puni nā nipples (areolas) i mea nui aʻe.
• Hoʻomaka ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho pubic me ka lahilahi ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua o ka labia.
• Piʻi ke kiʻekiʻe ma 2 3/4 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 7 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
• Ke nui iki aʻe nei ka clitoris.
• Ke ulu nei ka ʻōpū.
• E honi paha ʻoe i ka hou. E kōkua ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka deodorant.
• Pae 3: Hoʻolalelale nā ​​loli kino i kēia wā. Ma waena o 9 a me 14 mau makahiki:
• Ke hoʻomau nei ka ulu a me ka ulu ʻana o nā umauma.
• Hoʻomaka ka lauoho axillary e ʻike ʻia, a ke hoʻomau nei ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho pubic. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka lauoho pubic i kēia manawa, ʻoi aku ka wili, a ke ʻano e like me ka huinakolu i luna.
• Piʻi koke ke kiʻekiʻe, ʻoi aku ma mua o 3 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 8 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
• Hiki ke loaʻa ka ʻili ʻāpala no ka mea e lilo ka ʻili i mea ʻaila.
• Pae 4: ʻO kēia ka manawa e hiki ai i ka wā ʻōpio ke piʻi i kona kiʻekiʻe. Ma waena o nā makahiki 10 a me 15:
• Ke hoʻomau nei ka ulu ʻana o nā umauma. Hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ka ʻāpana ʻeleʻele a puni ka nipple (areola) mai ka ʻiʻo umauma a ʻike ʻia he puʻupuʻu kaʻawale.
• ʻO ke ʻano o ka lauoho ma kahi pilikino he huinakolu nō ia, a i kēia manawa, ua nui loa nā lauoho ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke helu.
• Hiki ke hoʻomau i ka piʻi ʻana o ke kiʻekiʻe ma 2 3/4 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 7 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
• Hiki ke hoʻomau ka ʻāʻī.

ʻO kēia ka hā o ka pae i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine i kā lākou pōʻaiapuni menstrual, a i ʻole menstruation. Hoʻomaka pinepine ia ma kahi o 12 mau makahiki (pinepine ma kahi o ka makahiki like me ko lākou mau makuahine a me nā kaikuahine). Hiki i kekahi mau kaikamahine ke hoʻomaka ma mua a ma hope paha. Hoʻomaka pinepine ka menstruation ma kahi o ʻelua mau makahiki ma hope o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka ulu ʻana o nā umauma a hoʻomaka ka lauoho pubic. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻomaka i kou wā ma mua o ʻekolu mau makahiki ma hope o ka wā ʻōpio, e ʻike i ke kauka.

• Pae 5: ʻO kēia ke kahua hope loa. Hoʻopau pinepine ka ulu ʻana i kēia pae. Ke hiki nei nā kaikamahine i ke kino i ka wā makua. Hiki i ka lauoho lehulehu ke iho i lalo a hiki i nā ʻūhā, a hiki i kekahi mau kaikamahine ke loaʻa kahi laina lauoho a hiki i ka puʻupuʻu. Hiki i ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine ke hiki i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe i ka makahiki 16, akā ʻaʻole paha e hiki i kekahi ke hiki i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe piha a hiki i ko lākou 20. ʻAʻole paha e hiki i kekahi mau kaikamahine kēia pae ʻelima o ka lauoho lehulehu; ʻo ia paha ko lākou kūlana 'maʻamau'.

Pehea e hana ʻia ai nā pae Tanner o nā keikikāne?

Aia nā Pae Tanner ʻokoʻa no nā loli o ke kino kāne a me ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho pubic. Aia kekahi mau loli kino ʻē aʻe. No nā mākua, he alakaʻi maikaʻi kēia mau Pae Tanner i nā loli hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i ke kino o kāu keiki kāne. ʻElima mau pae o ka wā ʻōpiopio i nā keikikāne.

• Pae 1:ʻO kēia nō hoʻi ke kahua ma mua o ka ʻōpiopio. I loko o kēia manawa, ʻaʻole ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o nā keikikāne, akā ke oʻo nei ko lākou mau kelepa adrenal.
• Pae 2: Maanei e hoʻomaka ai nā loli kino. ʻO ka maʻamau, ma waena o 9 a me 14 mau makahiki, hoʻomaka nā keikikāne e ʻike i kēia mau mea:
• Ka ulu ʻana o nā ʻōpū (e nui aʻe ana nā testicles a me ka scrotum).
• Hoʻomaka ka lauoho lahilahi e ʻike ʻia a puni ka penis a ma lalo o nā armpits.
• Piʻi ke kiʻekiʻe (ma waena o 2 a me 2 1/2 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 5-6 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki), hiki ke hoʻoulu i nā ʻeha ulu.
• Me nā loli i ke ʻano o ke kino, emi iho ka nui o nā ʻiʻo adipose i loko o ke kino.
• Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke honi i ka hou, a pono paha ʻoe i ka deodorant.
• Pae 3: Hoʻolalelale nā ​​loli kino. Ma waena o nā makahiki 10 a me 16, ʻike nā keikikāne i:
• Ke hoʻomau nei ka ulu ʻana o ka penis a me nā testicles. Hiki ke loaʻa nā moeʻuhane pulu i ka pō.
• Lilo ka lauoho pubic ma ka ʻāpana genital i ʻeleʻele, ʻālohilohi, a ulu i ke ʻano o kahi huinakolu.
• Ke hoʻomau nei ke kiʻekiʻe i ka piʻi ʻana (mai 2 3/4 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 7 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki a ʻoi iki aʻe ma luna o 3 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 8 kenimika)).
• Hoʻonui ka hou ʻana, hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻonui ʻia o ke ʻala o ke kino.
• Hoʻololi ka leo (ʻoiai e haki ana ka leo `(Cracking)`).
• Hoʻonui ka nui o nā ʻiʻo.

I loko o kēia pae ʻekolu, hiki i kekahi mau keikikāne (ma kahi o 50 pakeneka) ke loaʻa i kahi ulu ʻana o ka umauma, kahi kūlana i kapa ʻia ʻo "Gynecomastia". Eia naʻe, nalo pinepine kēia i ka hopena o ka wā ʻōpio. ʻO ka mea maʻamau kēia ma waena o nā makahiki 11 a me 15. Inā he kumu kēia i nā pilikia kino a pilikanaka paha, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ke kauka o kāu keiki.

• Pae 4: ʻO ka manawa e hiki ai i ka wā ʻōpio ke kiʻekiʻe loa. Ma waena o nā makahiki 11 a me 16, nā keikikāne:
• Hoʻonui ka nui o ka penis, ʻeleʻele ka ʻili o ka scrotum a me nā testicles. Hoʻomaka nā wrinkles ʻulaʻula i kapa ʻia ʻo rugae e hana ma nā testicles.
• Ulu ka lauoho o ke kino i ka pae makua. He ʻāpiki a he huinakolu ka lauoho ma ka wahi pilikino.
• Piʻi koke ke kiʻekiʻe, ʻo ka maʻamau he 4 ʻīniha (ma kahi o 10 kenimika) i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
• Loaʻa ka ʻākea.
• Ke haki mau nei ka leo.
• Pae 5: ʻO kēia ka pae hope loa. Pau ka wā ʻōpio ma kēia pae. Hoʻopau nā keikikāne i ko lākou ulu ʻana a me ka ulu ʻana o ke kino.
• Aia paha i kēia pae e hoʻomaka ai ka nui o ka poʻe e ulu i ka lauoho maka.
• Hiki i ka lauoho pubic ke lōʻihi a hiki i nā ʻūhā, a hiki i kekahi mau keikikāne ke loaʻa kahi laina lauoho e lōʻihi ana a hiki i ka ʻūhā.
• Ua oki ka hapa nui o nā keikikāne i ka ulu ʻana o ke kiʻekiʻe i ka piha ʻana o 17 mau makahiki, akā hiki i kekahi ke hoʻomau i ka ulu ʻana a hiki i ko lākou mau makahiki he iwakālua.

Pehea ka hopena o ka wā ʻōpio i nā manaʻo?

I ke komo ʻana o kāu keiki i ka wā ʻōpio, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi loli nui i ko lākou mau manaʻo. ʻO ka piʻi koke ʻana o nā hormones moekolohe a me ke kaomi mai ke kaiāulu e hiki ai i kahi keiki ke loaʻa i nā loli o ka naʻau, ka huhū koke, a me nā hakakā me nā ʻohana. E noʻonoʻo i ka nui o nā mea e hana nei i loko a ma waho o ko lākou kino!

I loko o kēia manawa, ke hele nei kāu keiki i nā loli nui i ko lākou ʻano a me ke ola kaiaulu. Hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā ʻano manaʻo like ʻole, me ka haʻahaʻa o ka manaʻo ponoʻī, ka makemake, ka huikau, a me ka makaʻu e pili ana i ko lākou moekolohe. No laila, he mea nui loa kou ahonui a me kou hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia manawa.

Eia nō naʻe, inā kū mai nā pilikia koʻikoʻi o ka naʻau a i ʻole ke ʻano - e like me ka hopohopo, ke kaumaha, nā loli nui o ka naʻau, a i ʻole ka huhū - he mea nui e ʻike i ke kauka o kāu keiki. Hiki i kāu keiki ke pōmaikaʻi mai ka psychotherapy, ʻo ia hoʻi ka talk therapy, a, inā pono, ka lāʻau lapaʻau.

Āhea ka pau ʻana o ka wā ʻōpio?

No nā kaikamāhine, pau ka wā ʻōpio ma waena o nā makahiki 15 a me 17. No nā keikikāne, pau ia ma waena o nā makahiki 16 a me 17. ʻOkoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki, no laila hiki ke ʻokoʻa kēia mau pae makahiki.

ʻEhia ka lōʻihi e hiki ai i ka wā ʻōpio?

ʻO ka maʻamau , ʻelua a ʻelima mau makahiki ka lōʻihi o ka wā ʻōpiopio. Akā, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki, no laila, he paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo pololei i ka lōʻihi o ka wā ʻōpiopio. He paʻakikī ke ʻike pololei i ka lōʻihi o ka manawa. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo, ke hele nei ke kino o kāu keiki ma kahi pae kūlohelohe o ke ola.

He aha nā hormones e pili ana i ka wā ʻōpio?

Aia kekahi mau hormones koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka wā ʻōpio, a mākou i kamaʻilio ai ma mua iki, ʻeā?

• ʻO ka hormone hoʻokuʻu Gonadotropin (GnRH): ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻomaka ai ka wā ʻōpio i kēlā me kēia keiki.
• ʻO ka hormone Luteinizing (LH): Hoʻoulu kēia hormone i nā pūnaewele i loko o nā ovaries o nā wahine e hana i nā hormones e pili ana i ka estrogen, a hoʻoulu i nā pūnaewele i loko o nā testicles o nā kāne e hana i ka testosterone.
• ʻO ka hormone hoʻouluulu Follicle (FSH): Hoʻoulu kēia hormone i ka hana ʻana o ka estrogen i loko o nā ovaries, a hoʻoulu pū i nā pūnaewele i loko o nā ducts hana sperm o nā testicles e kōkua i ka hana ʻana i ka sperm.
• Testosterone: ʻO kēia ka hormone moe nui i nā keikikāne. I ka wā ʻōpio, ʻo ka piʻi ʻana o ka testosterone ke kumu o nā loli he nui, me ka piʻi ʻana o ke kiʻekiʻe, ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho ma ke kino a ma nā ʻāpana pilikino, ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka penis, nā testicles, a me ka prostate gland, a me ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka libido.
• ʻEstrogen:ʻO kēia ka hormone moe nui i nā kaikamahine. I ka wā ʻōpio, ʻo ka piʻi ʻana o ka estrogen ke kumu o nā ʻano moe lua e like me ka ulu ʻana o ka umauma a me nā loli i ke ʻano o ke kino (curvature). Hoʻopilikia pū ia i ka menstruation, me nā hormones ʻē aʻe.
• Progesterone: ʻO kēia kekahi hormone wahine ʻē aʻe. Hāʻawi ia i nā loli o ka umauma i ka wā ʻōpio, a he mea nui hoʻi no ka menstruation a me ka hāpai kino olakino.

Hoʻopuka nā kelepa adrenal o kāu keiki i nā ʻano hormone ʻē aʻe i kapa ʻia ʻo androgens. ʻO kēia mau hormones ke kumu o nā ʻano moekolohe lua - ʻo ia hoʻi ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho pubic a me ka lauoho ma lalo o ka lima (adrenarche). ʻOiai ʻo kēia adrenarche e hana ʻia me ka hoʻonui ʻia o nā hormones moekolohe i ka wā ʻōpio, hiki i nā kelepa adrenal ke hana i nā androgens e hoʻopilikia i ka lauoho pubic. Hoʻokahi o nā kaikamahine ʻehā e loaʻa ka adrenarche ma mua o ko lākou ulu ʻana i nā umauma (thelarche).

He aha nā pilikia e hiki ke kū mai i ka wā ʻōpiopio?

ʻElua mau pilikia nui e hiki ke kū mai i ka wā ʻōpiopio: ka wā ʻōpiopio mua a me ka wā ʻōpiopio lohi . Hiki i kēia mau kūlana ke hana:

• Nā hemahema meaʻai, ʻo ia hoʻi, nā maʻi ʻai.
• Ka ʻike ʻia ʻana i nā hormones mai ke kaiapuni.
• Nā puʻupuʻu e hoʻopilikia ai i ka hana ʻana o nā hormone.
• Nā kūlana hoʻoilina.

I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke kumu no kēia.

He aha ka wā ʻōpiopio mua?

Manaʻo nā kauka ʻo ka wā ʻōpiopio mua ka wā e hoʻomaka ai nā ʻano moekolohe lua ma mua o 8 mau makahiki no nā kaikamahine a ma mua o 9 mau makahiki no nā keikikāne (Tanner Stage 2), a ʻo nā pae ʻē aʻe o ka wā ʻōpiopio e hana koke ma hope.

He aha ka lohi o ka wā ʻōpiopio?

Manaʻo nā kauka i ka lohi o ka wā ʻōpiopio:

• Inā he 13 makahiki o ke kaikamahine a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ka ulu ʻana o nā umauma (Tanner Stage 2).
• Inā he 14 makahiki o ke keikikāne a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ka ulu ʻana o kona mau ʻōpū (Tanner Stage) 2.

Eia kekahi, inā ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ka menstruation o ke kaikamahine i loko o ʻekolu mau makahiki o Tanner Stage 2, a i ʻole ma ka makahiki 15, hiki i nā kauka ke kapa aku iā ia he amenorrhea mua. I ia mau hihia, he mea nui loa ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo lapaʻau.

Āhea wau e kamaʻilio ai me ke kauka e pili ana i ka wā ʻōpio o kaʻu keiki?

Inā loaʻa i kāu keiki kekahi o kēia mau mea, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka:

• ʻAkeʻake nui e nalowale ʻole ana.
• ʻO ka ʻeha hiki ʻole ke hoʻomanawanui ʻia ke piʻi ʻoe i luna.
• Nā hōʻailona o ke kaumaha, ka hopohopo, a i ʻole kekahi maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo.
• ʻO ka menstruation kūpono ʻole ma hope o ka makahiki mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka menstruation.
• ʻOi aku ma mua o ka ʻeha maʻamau o ka menstruation a me ke kua.

Eia kekahi, e haʻi i kāu kauka e pili ana i kēia mau mea:

• Inā hōʻike kāu keiki i nā hōʻailona o ka wā ʻōpio ma mua o 9 o kona mau makahiki .
• Inā he 15 makahiki o kāu keiki kāne a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike ana i nā hōʻailona o ka wā ʻōpio.
• Inā hōʻike kāu kaikamahine i nā hōʻailona o ka wā ʻōpio ma mua o 8 o kona mau makahiki .
• Inā he 13 makahiki o kāu kaikamahine a ʻaʻole naʻe e hōʻike ana i nā hōʻailona o ka wā ʻōpio.

Inā ʻike ʻoe i nā mea e like me kēia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hopohopo ʻole a kamaʻilio me ke kauka.

Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke kōkua i kaʻu keiki i kēia wā ʻōpio?

He manawa loli nui ka wā ʻōpio no ʻoe a me kāu keiki. Eia pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki:

• E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i nā loli e hana nei i ko lākou kino . E kamaʻilio ākea me ka hilahila ʻole.
• E aʻo iā lākou e pili ana i ka hānau hou ʻana ma ke ʻano moekolohe, ke koʻikoʻi o ka ʻae ʻana, a me nā hana moekolohe palekana .
• E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka hōʻoia a me ke koa ke ʻike lākou i ka makaʻu, ka huikau, a i ʻole nā ​​​​manaʻo paʻakikī ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka wā ʻōpio.
• E lilo i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi no lākou e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i ke kino a me ke ola kino olakino.
• E mahalo i ko lākou pono no ka pilikino a me ke kūʻokoʻa.
• E komo i loko inā he mau pilikia palekana a hoʻonoho i nā palena kūpono.

Hiki i ka wā ʻōpiopio ke lilo i manawa hoihoi, akā paʻakikī hoʻi, i ke ola o kāu keiki, a i ke ola o kou ʻohana. Me nā loli kino, hiki i kāu keiki ke hele i nā loli manaʻo he nui. E hoʻomanaʻo, aia ke kauka o kāu keiki ma laila e kōkua iā ʻoe a me lākou me nā nīnau a hopohopo paha. Hiki iā lākou ke nānā i kāu keiki a hoʻoholo inā e ulu ana ʻo ia e like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia.

He aha ka mea nui a kākou e makemake ai e lawe i ka home mai kēia moʻolelo?

ʻAe, eia nā mea nui e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo mai nā mea a mākou i kamaʻilio ai. He ʻāpana maoli ka wā ʻōpio o ke ola o kēlā me kēia keiki. I loko o kēia manawa, nui nā loli nui, ma ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo.

• He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki: ʻO ke ʻano o ka hiki ʻana o kekahi keiki i ka wā ʻōpio, a me ka manawa e pono ai e hana pēlā, ʻokoʻa paha ia mai kekahi. He mea maʻamau kēlā. Mai hoʻohālikelike iā ʻoe iho me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
• E kamaʻilio ākea: He mea nui e kamaʻilio ākea me kāu keiki e pili ana i kēia mau loli a me ko lākou manaʻo. E hoʻolohe i kā lākou mau nīnau.
• ʻŌlelo aʻo a ke kauka: Inā he kānalua a nīnau paha kāu, ʻoiai inā manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻomaka koke ana ka wā ʻōpio a lohi paha, mai kānalua e ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo mai ke kauka.
• Kou aloha a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana: I kēia manawa, pono kāu keiki i kou aloha, kākoʻo, a me kou hoʻomaopopo ʻana ma mua o ka wā ma mua. E hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi manaʻo palekana a me kahi manaʻo pili.

ʻOiai he manawa paʻakikī kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kumu ikaika no kāu keiki ma kēia huakaʻi nani o ka lilo ʻana i kāne/wahine nui! Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike hou aʻe e pili ana i kēia, e nīnau wale mai.

ʻŌpio , nā hormones, nā kaikamahine, nā keikikāne, ke kahua Tanner, nā loli kino, nā loli noʻonoʻo, ʻōpio, olakino o nā keiki