Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kekahi manawa he ʻokoʻa loa kāu keiki liʻiliʻi mai nā keiki ʻē aʻe? Malia paha he paʻakikī iā ʻoe ke pane i nā nīnau āna e nīnau ai. Inā aʻo koke ʻo ia i nā mea a ʻimi i nā mea hou, he keiki paha ʻo ia me ka naʻauao kupaianaha. Kāhea mākou i kēlā mau keiki he 'akamai'. Akā, ʻaʻole kēia he mea e makaʻu ai. He kūlana kūikawā loa kēia. I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ke ʻano o kēia 'akamai' a he aha nā ʻano o ia keiki.
ʻO wai lā ka mea akamai maoli?
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka 'genius' kekahi kanaka me ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo a hana paha . I ka wā ma mua, ua hoʻohana nā psychologists i ka Intelligence Quotient (IQ) e ana i kēia.
I ka wā ma mua, ua manaʻo ʻia he 'akamai' ke kanaka me ka IQ ma kahi o 140. ʻO ia hoʻi, ma kahi o hoʻokahi i loko o 250 mau kānaka ma ka awelika. Akā ma hope mai, ua ʻōlelo kekahi mea noiʻi he pono ka IQ ma luna o 180. Inā ʻoe e nānā i kēlā ʻano, hoʻokahi wale nō i loko o 2 miliona mau kānaka e manaʻo ʻia he akamai.
Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe wehewehe hoʻokahi o ka 'akamai'. I kēia lā, ʻike nā kauka a me nā loea iā ia he huaʻōlelo ākea e pili ana i ka noʻeau , ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo i nā ʻano hou, a me ka hiki ke loaʻa nā hopena hou i nā pilikia. Kāhea pū mākou i nā keiki me ia mau talena kūikawā he "Gifted".
Aia kekahi kumu kūikawā no kēia?
ʻAʻole maopopo loa i nā kānaka ʻepekema pehea e lilo ai kekahi i mea akamai. Akā, ua ʻike lākou aia kahi pilina genetic . Aia kekahi mau genes e hoʻoholo ai i ko kākou pae o ka naʻauao.
Hoʻopilikia pū kēia mana hoʻoilina i ka hoihoi o ke keiki, ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. No laila hiki i kēia mau genes ke hoʻopilikia pololei i ka maikaʻi o kā lākou hana ma ke kula a ma nā hoʻokolohua naʻauao.
He ʻokoʻa maoli anei ka lolo o kahi 'akamai'?
ʻAe, ua ʻike ʻia nā scan lolo e ʻike ʻia kekahi mau ʻano kūikawā i loko o ka lolo o ka poʻe akamai loa.
- Hoʻonui ʻia ka leo ma kekahi mau ʻāpana o ka lolo: He ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole akamai nā kānaka a pau me ke poʻo nui. Eia nō naʻe, ua ʻike ʻia he ʻāpana nui aʻe ko ka lolo o nā 'akamai' i kapa ʻia ʻo "Gray Matter". ʻO kēia ʻāpana ka wahi nui e hana ai i ka ʻike a kaohi i nā mea e like me ka hoʻomanaʻo, ka nānā ʻana, a me ka ʻōlelo.
- Ka kamaʻilio wikiwiki ma waena o nā ʻāpana o ka lolo:He ʻeleu loa ka ʻāpana "White Matter" o ka lolo o kēia poʻe. Ua like kēia "White Matter" me ke alaloa e hoʻohui ana i nā ʻāpana like ʻole o ka lolo. Ma muli o ka maikaʻi o kēia pūnaewele o nā pilina, hiki iā lākou ke noʻonoʻo wikiwiki a ma nā ʻano paʻakikī.
- ʻIke kiʻekiʻe a me ka naʻauao naʻau: Hiki i nā lolo 'Genius' ke ʻike i kahi kūlana i kapa ʻia ʻo "Superstimulability." ʻO ia hoʻi, hiki iā lākou ke manaʻo hohonu i nā manaʻo o haʻi (kaumaha, hauʻoli). ʻOiai ke kōkua nei kēia iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, hiki nō hoʻi ke lilo i mea luhi a hoʻoluhi hoʻi i kekahi manawa.
He aha nā ʻano o ke 'akamai' i ʻike ʻia i waena o nā keiki?
ʻAʻole like nā keiki a pau. No laila, ʻaʻole e loaʻa kēia mau ʻano a pau i ke keiki hoʻokahi. Akā e nānā inā loaʻa i kāu keiki kekahi a ʻoi aku paha o kēia mau ʻano.
| ʻAno | No ka wehewehe maʻalahi ... |
|---|---|
| Ke aʻo wikiwiki nei | Aʻo wikiwiki lākou i nā kumuhana hou a me nā mea paʻakikī ma mua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole pono e haʻi ʻia ʻelua iā lākou. |
| Ka hoihoi pau ʻole | Nīnau mau lākou e like me "No ke aha?" a "Pehea?" Makemake lākou e ʻimi hohonu i hoʻokahi mea. |
| Pono no ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo | Pono mau ko lākou lolo i kahi hoʻokūkū. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo Sum e noho ma ka home . Makemake ʻo ia i nā puʻupuʻu, nā puke, a me nā mea pāʻani hou. |
| Ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o ka makahiki | Hoʻomaopopo maʻalahi lākou i nā haʻawina mai nā papa kiʻekiʻe aʻe ma mua o kā lākou iho. |
| Nā manaʻo hohonu a me ke ʻano naʻauao | He naʻau koʻikoʻi lākou i nā manaʻo o haʻi. E uē paha lākou no ka manawa lōʻihi ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i kahi hiʻohiʻona kaumaha ma kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni. |
| ʻOi aku ka ʻakaʻaka ma mua o ka makahiki | Hoʻomaopopo lākou i nā ʻakaʻaka a nā mākua wale nō e hoʻomaopopo ai. A i ʻole he ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka ʻē ko lākou. |
| Noʻonoʻo kiʻekiʻe | Loaʻa iā mākou nā hopena hana noʻeau a i manaʻo ʻole ʻia no nā pilikia. |
| Ka ʻike ponoʻī kiʻekiʻe | Ua ʻoi aku ko lākou ʻike iā lākou iho, i nā mea e hana nei ma ke kaiāulu, a me ke ao nei ma mua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe. |
He aha kaʻu e hana ai inā manaʻo wau he keiki 'makua' nō hoʻi kaʻu keiki?
Inā he kānalua kou e pili ana i kēia, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana mua ai, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio me nā kumu kula o kāu keiki a me kāu kauka ʻohana . Ma kekahi mau ʻāina, aia nā hoʻokolohua kūikawā e ʻike ai i kēlā mau keiki.
ʻAʻole hiki ke aʻo ʻia kekahi keiki e like me kēia ma ke ʻano maʻamau. Pono lākou i nā ʻano hana kūikawā e hoʻomohala i ko lākou mau hiki. No laila, ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ke kauka a i ʻole kahi loea hoʻonaʻauao, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i kā lākou mau hana hoʻonaʻauao ma ke ʻano e kūpono loa i ke keiki.
Nā hōʻailona i ʻike ʻia i nā pākeke
E like me nā keiki, loaʻa pū kekahi mau ʻano like i nā pākeke akamai loa. Ma waho aʻe o ke aʻo wikiwiki ʻana a me ka hoihoi i nā kumuhana kikoʻī, he mau ʻano maʻamau nō hoʻi kēia.
- Loaʻa kahi ʻano e mālama i kahi āu e hana ai a i ʻole e noho ai i mea haunaele .
- ʻO ka hiki ke hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo a kekahi poʻe e manaʻo ai he 'nā huaʻōlelo ʻino' me ka maʻalahi a me ke kūpono .
- Makemake e hana i ka pō ma mua o ke kakahiaka (Ni GH t owl).
- Makemake e noho mehameha ma mua o nā wahi i piha kanaka.
- Loaʻa kahi hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi loa.
Akā he mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi manawa hiki ke pili kēia akamai kiʻekiʻe me nā kūlana noʻonoʻo e like me ka hopohopo. Eia kekahi, hiki i kekahi poʻe ma ka Autism Spectrum ke loaʻa i nā hiki noʻonoʻo kupaianaha.
ʻO ka mea nui, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia lolo, kēlā me kēia kanaka. He lepili wale nō ʻo 'Genius'. Inā he kānalua kou e pili ana i kāu keiki a iā ʻoe iho paha, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka no ka ʻike hou aku.
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- ʻAʻole i kaupalena ʻia ke ʻano akamai i ka helu IQ wale nō. He hui pū ʻana ia o nā mea he nui, e like me ka noʻeau a me ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo hohonu.
- He mana hoʻoilina ko kēia. ʻO ke ʻano kēia, hiki ke hoʻoilina ʻia i kekahi ʻano mai nā mākua a i nā keiki.
- E makaʻala inā hōʻike ke keiki i ka hoihoi kūikawā, ka hiki ke aʻo wikiwiki, a i ʻole nā manaʻo hohonu.
- Inā he kānalua kou e pili ana i nā hiki o kāu keiki, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana ai, ʻo ia ke kūkākūkā iā lākou me nā kumu o ke kula a me kāu kauka.
- He kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia keiki. ʻO ko kākou kuleana ma ke ʻano he mau mākua ke ʻike i ko lākou mau talena a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomohala iā lākou.
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