Kev tham nrog peb cov menyuam yaus, uas yog, sib pauv tswv yim nrog lawv, yog ib yam dab tsi uas ua rau peb zoo siab thiab txaus siab ua niam txiv, puas yog? Qhov tseeb, cov menyuam kawm tau ntau yam los ntawm cov kev sib tham txhua hnub nrog peb thiab nrog lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig lawv, los ntawm cov kev paub uas lawv muaj. Nruab nrab ntawm hnub nyoog plaub thiab tsib xyoos, uas yog, thaum lawv loj me ntsis, ntau tus menyuam pib mus kawm preschool lossis kindergarten. Yog li ntawd, lawv cov txuj ci lus, uas yog, txoj kev uas lawv sib txuas lus, dhau los ua qhov tseem ceeb heev kom ua haujlwm ua ke nrog lwm tus hauv chav kawm thiab kawm tej yam tshiab.
Cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog 4-5 xyoos tham li cas?
Koj puas paub tias thaum cov menyuam yaus cov txuj ci lus maj mam loj hlob tuaj, lawv txoj kev hais lus kuj loj hlob zoo nkauj heev. Yog hais kom meej, thaum muaj plaub lossis tsib xyoos, txawm tias cov lus qhia uas zoo li nyuaj me ntsis rau cov menyuam yaus, xws li "hnav koj nkawm khau thiab coj koj lub hnab tuaj," tuaj yeem nkag siab thiab ua tau tib yam. Tsis yog li ntawd xwb, lawv kuj tuaj yeem qhia koj nrog kev zoo siab txhua yam uas lawv tau ua, hais, thiab pom thoob plaws hnub. Xav txog qhov kev xyiv fab uas koj xav thaum lawv rov qab los tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv thiab hais tias, "Niam, tus xib fwb tau muab ntau lub hnub qub rau kuv hnub no!"!
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, lawv tuaj yeem xav txog cov dab neeg me me ntawm lawv tus kheej. Tej zaum cov dab neeg ntawd tsis muaj lub ntsiab lus ntau, tab sis lawv yog lub ntiaj teb uas lawv tuaj yeem xav txog hauv lawv lub siab. Tsis tas li ntawd, lawv zoo ntawm kev mloog ib zaj dab neeg uas koj qhia rau lawv thiab rov hais dua hauv lawv cov lus. Thaum peb feem ntau nug, "Yuav ua li cas tom ntej, tus tub?" hauv ib zaj dab neeg, lawv kuj tuaj yeem hais tias, "Ces tus tub huabtais tuaj ..."
Cov lus thiab kab lus zoo li cas?
Lub sijhawm no, lawv pib siv plaub lo lus lossis ntau dua hauv lawv cov kab lus. Piv txwv li, "Txiv, kuv xav tau qhov khoom ua si ntawd." Lawv cov lus, lossis tus lej ntawm cov lus uas lawv paub, txuas ntxiv mus. Lawv khaws cov lus tshiab uas koj hais sai heev.
Feem ntau, peb yuav tsum nkag siab tag nrho txog yam uas ib tug me nyuam hais thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no. Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum yuav muaj tej yam me me. Qhov ntawd yog, tej zaum yuav pom qee qhov yuam kev ntawm kev loj hlob ntawm lub suab. Piv txwv li, tej zaum yuav muaj qee cov ntawv tsis hais tau meej, thiab tej zaum yuav hnov lub suab zoo li 'த' es tsis yog tsab ntawv 'ஸ' (lusping). Tsis tas li ntawd, qee tus me nyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov tub hluas, tej zaum yuav muaj qhov hais lus tsis meej me ntsis thaum lub sijhawm no. Feem ntau ntawm cov no yuav ploj mus rau lawv tus kheej nrog lub sijhawm . Tab sis yog tias koj txhawj xeeb txog nws tiag tiag, nws yog qhov zoo dua los tham nrog kws kho mob txog nws.
Kuv ua tau dab tsi los txhim kho kuv tus menyuam txoj kev txawj sib tham?
Muaj ntau yam koj ua tau los pab koj tus menyuam txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci lus. Qhov tseeb, koj yog lawv thawj tus xib fwb. Tej yam yooj yim xws li nyeem phau ntawv, hu nkauj ua ke, ua si nrog cov lus, nug lawv cov lus nug yooj yim, thiab tham nrog lawv tsis tu ncua tuaj yeem pab lawv nthuav lawv cov lus thiab txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci mloog. Nov yog qee txoj hauv kev uas koj tuaj yeem pab tau:
- Tham txog tej xwm txheej ntawm hnub ntawd: Thaum koj tus menyuam rov qab los tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv me nyuam yaus, lossis thaum lawv rov qab los tsev los ntawm kev ua si, nug lawv tej yam xws li, "Hnub no muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, tus tub/ntxhais?", "Leej twg tau los ua koj tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws hnub no?", "Koj tau kawm tej yam tshiab dab tsi hnub no?" Mloog ua siab ntev thiab txaus siab rau tej yam uas lawv hais. Qhia rau lawv tej yam me me txog koj hnub no. Piv txwv li, "Hnub no, niam tau ua koj pluas mov nyiam tshaj plaws rau koj." Qhov no yuav pab lawv nkag siab tias nws muaj nqis npaum li cas los qhia lawv tej kev paub thiab kev xav rau lwm tus, thiab nws yog ib qho ib txwm muaj.
- Mloog zoo rau yam koj tus menyuam hais: Qhov no tseem ceeb heev. Thaum twg ua tau, thaum koj tus menyuam los qhia koj ib yam dab tsi, tsum tsis txhob ua li koj ua, ntsia nws, thiab mloog zoo rau yam nws hais. Qhov no yuav qhia nws tias koj mloog nws thiab yam nws hais muaj nqis rau koj. Qhov no yuav ua rau nws xav qhia koj ntau ntxiv thiab qhia ntau ntxiv rau koj.
- Tham txog cov phau ntawv uas nej nyeem ua ke: Tom qab nyeem ib phau ntawv, nug cov lus nug xws li, "Koj nyiam tus cwj pwm twg hauv zaj dab neeg?", "Koj xav tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim tom ntej?", "Peb tau kawm dab tsi los ntawm zaj dab neeg no?" Tham txog cov duab hauv zaj dab neeg. Hais tej yam xws li, "Saib qhov no, tus luav ntxim hlub npaum li cas?", "Lub paj ntawd muaj xim dab tsi?" Qhov no yuav pab lawv nkag siab zaj dab neeg zoo dua, kawm cov lus tshiab, thiab txhim kho lawv cov kev xav.
- Tham txog cov yeeb yaj kiab hauv TV, cov yeeb yaj kiab, thiab cov kev ua si uas koj saib ua ke: Thaum koj saib ib daim duab tas luav lossis cov yeeb yaj kiab kev kawm hauv TV nrog koj tus menyuam, tham txog yam uas tab tom tshwm sim. Nug tej yam xws li, "Nws ua dab tsi?" thiab "Koj puas xav ua li ntawd thiab?" Tsis tas li ntawd, thaum ua si, piv txwv li, thaum pov pob, tham txog, "Tam sim no yog leej twg lub sijhawm?" thiab "Peb tab tom ua dab tsi tam sim no?" Qhov no pab lawv kawm hais lus txog yam lawv pom thiab ua, thiab hais nws rau hauv txoj kev uas lwm tus tuaj yeem nkag siab.
- Khaws cov ntaub ntawv nyeem ntawv xws li phau ntawv thiab cov ntawv xov xwm kom yooj yim rau cov menyuam yaus: Teeb ib lub txee ntawv lossis ib lub thawv zoo nkauj uas lawv tuaj yeem khaws thiab nthuav lawv. Xaiv cov phau ntawv uas muaj cov duab loj, muaj yeeb yuj uas lawv nyiam. Ua li ntawd, lawv yuav xav khaws cov phau ntawv thiab nyeem lawv thaum twg lawv xav tau. Qhov no yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo los txhawb kev nyiam nyeem ntawv txij li thaum yau.
- Pab koj tus menyuam tsim ib phau album zoo li "Nov yog kuv" lossis "Nov yog peb tsev neeg": Ua ib phau album zoo nkauj los ntawm kev muab cov duab ntawm cov tswv cuab hauv tsev neeg, cov duab ntawm cov tsiaj thiab cov khoom ua si uas koj tus menyuam nyiam, cov khoom plig me me uas nws tau txais, thiab cov duab kos uas nws tau kos. Tham nrog nws txog txhua daim duab. Kev nug cov lus nug xws li "Tus no yog leej twg?", "Koj puas nco qab tias peb mus qhov twg hnub ntawd?", "Koj kos qhov no thaum twg?" muab sijhawm zoo rau nws rov qab nco txog cov kev nco qub thiab tham txog lawv. Qhov no yuav txhim kho nws lub cim xeeb thiab muaj peev xwm qhia cov xwm txheej yav dhau los raws li kev txiav txim.
Xav txog nws, ua txhua yam no zoo li ywg dej thiab saib xyuas ib tsob nroj me me. Yog cov tes me me pab no uas ua rau nws cov lus sib tham tawg paj zoo nkauj.
Kuv yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob thaum twg?
Feem ntau, peb yuav txhawj txog tej yam me me yam tsis muaj laj thawj. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg, kev ntshai, lossis kev txhawj xeeb txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev txawj hais lus lossis qhov meej ntawm qhov nws hais, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog kws kho mob txog nws. Qee zaum nws yuav tsis yog qhov teeb meem loj, tab sis kev paub txog nws tuaj yeem pab koj xav tias zoo dua.
Feem ntau, muaj cov hnub nyoog txwv uas ib tug me nyuam muaj peev xwm ua tau qee yam thaum lawv loj hlob. Peb hu cov no ua cov theem tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob. Muaj cov theem tseem ceeb zoo sib xws thaum nws los txog rau kev hais lus.
Thaum muaj li ntawm 4 xyoos, feem ntau cov menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm ua cov no:
- Hais cov kab lus plaub lo lus lossis ntau dua. Piv txwv li, "Niam, kuv tshaib plab thiab kuv xav tau mov," lossis "Txiv, peb puas mus ua si tau?"
- Rov hais cov lus thiab kab lus los ntawm ib zaj nkauj lossis ib zaj dab neeg. Nws yuav tsum hais tau ib zaj nkauj luv luv lossis ib nqe los ntawm ib zaj nkauj menyuam yaus uas koj hu.
- Tham txog tsawg kawg yog ib yam uas tau tshwm sim thaum nruab hnub. Piv txwv li, "Kuv ntog thaum kuv ua si hnub no," lossis "Tus xib fwb tau hais ib zaj dab neeg zoo rau kuv hnub no."
Thaum muaj li ntawm 5 xyoos, feem ntau cov menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm ua cov no:
- Qhia ib zaj dab neeg luv luv uas muaj tsawg kawg yog ob qho xwm txheej. Piv txwv li, "Kuv sawv ntxov no. Tom qab ntawd kuv txhuam kuv cov hniav," lossis "Tus me nyuam mus rau lub tiaj ua si. Tom qab ntawd kuv caij lub viav vias."
- Teb cov lus nug yooj yim txog ib phau ntawv lossis ib zaj dab neeg, xws li "Tus dev nyob hauv zaj dab neeg muaj xim dab tsi?" thiab "Tus ntxhais fuabtais mus qhov twg lawm?"
- Muaj tsawg kawg yog peb lossis plaub zaug sib pauv lus. Qhov no txhais tau tias thaum koj nug ib yam dab tsi, koj teb, thiab tej zaum lawv yuav nug koj ib lo lus nug. Lawv xav txuas ntxiv kev sib tham dua li tsuas yog teb ib lo lus xwb.
- Yuav tsum siv tau thiab paub cov lus paj huam yooj yim. Piv txwv li, cov lus uas suab zoo ib yam li 'bat-cat', xws li 'cat - table', 'house - door', yuav paub thiab hais tau.
Tsis muaj txoj cai hais tias txhua yam no yuav tshwm sim rau txhua tus menyuam tib yam lossis tib lub sijhawm. Ib txhia menyuam ua cov no sai dua me ntsis, thiab ib txhia siv sijhawm ntev dua me ntsis. Qhov ntawd yog ib txwm muaj. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam ua ntau yam no lig, lossis yog tias koj lossis lwm tus muaj teeb meem nkag siab txog qhov nws hais meej, ces nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tham nrog kws kho mob txog qhov ntawd.
Tsis tas li ntawd xwb, yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem hnov lus , piv txwv li, yog tias lawv tsis tig rov qab thaum koj tham, yog tias lawv qhib TV nrov dhau, lossis yog tias muaj lwm yam txog koj tus menyuam uas tsis muaj feem cuam tshuam rau ib qho ntawm cov no thiab uas ua rau koj ntxhov siab, mus ntsib kws kho mob.
Nco ntsoov tias, yog koj muaj lus nug dab tsi, txawm tias me me xwb los xij, nws yog ib qho zoo uas koj mus ntsib kws kho mob. Nws tsuas yuav pab kom koj lub nra hnyav xwb.
Thaum kawg, ob peb yam uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov
Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv txoj kev no ntawm kev txhim kho koj tus menyuam plaub lossis tsib xyoos txoj kev hais lus, koj txoj kev hlub, kev ua siab ntev, thiab kev txhawb siab yog qhov kev txhawb zog loj tshaj plaws uas nws yuav tau txais. Ua si nrog nws, luag nrog nws, tham nrog nws, mloog zoo rau qhov nws hais. Qhuas nws thaum nws hais ib lo lus tshiab, tsim ib zaj dab neeg me me, thiab hais nws.
Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam zoo ib yam, thiab lawv kawm tau ntau yam sib txawv. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob muab koj tus menyuam piv rau lwm tus menyuam. Ua li ntawd tsuas yog ua rau koj tu siab xwb, thiab nws yuav tsis zoo rau koj tus menyuam. Cia lawv loj hlob raws li lawv lub sijhawm, raws li lawv txoj kev.
Yog koj muaj teeb meem lossis muaj kev tsis ntseeg, tsis txhob yig mus nrhiav kev pab kho mob. Nws yog koj lub luag haujlwm.
Koj siv tau cov lus los ua kom koj tus me nyuam lub ntiaj teb zoo nkauj, thiab pab lawv qhia tau ntau yam hauv lawv lub siab! Zoo siab rau koj rau qhov ntawd!
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