Thaum twg koj yuav tsum tham txog qhov no nrog koj cov menyuam?
Thaum muaj tej yam zoo li kev ua phem siv phom tshwm sim, cov menyuam yaus yuav tsis tau npaj siab los tham txog nws tam sim ntawd. Nws yuav siv sijhawm ntev rau lawv los ua thiab nkag siab txog nws. Ib txhia menyuam yaus xav tham, tab sis lawv tsis paub yuav pib li cas. Yog tias lawv tuaj cuag koj thaum koj ua haujlwm hauv chav ua noj lossis tu lub tsev, nws yuav yog ib qho cim qhia tias lawv xav tham nrog koj txog ib yam dab tsi. Xav txog nws, qee zaum lawv yuav pib nug koj cov lus nug me me es tsis txhob nug koj ncaj qha. Muaj lwm cov menyuam yaus uas, es tsis txhob tham , kos duab, hu nkauj, lossis ua ib yam dab tsi kos duab . Ntawd yog lawv txoj kev. Tab sis yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis txaus siab rau qhov xwm txheej, lossis tsis xav tham tam sim ntawd, tsis txhob tham kiag li . Qhov ntawd tsuas yog ua rau lawv ntshai ntxiv xwb. Yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam xav paub txog ib yam dab tsi tab sis zoo li ntshai nug, koj tuaj yeem nug nrog kev hlub heev, "Hlub, puas muaj dab tsi koj xav tham txog?" lossis "Koj puas xav txog ib yam dab tsi?"Peb yuav tsum qhia dab tsi rau cov menyuam txog kev siv phom tua neeg?
Qhov no yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev. Cov lus nug uas koj tus menyuam nug yog cov lus qhia zoo tshaj plaws txog seb koj yuav tsum muab ntau npaum li cas. Tsis txhob sim hais txhua yam ib zaug. Lwm yam uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog:- Qhia qhov tseeb, tab sis yooj yim: Qhia qhov tseeb txog qhov tau tshwm sim. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis txhob hais txog cov ntsiab lus uas txaus ntshai lossis tsis tsim nyog , tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov menyuam yaus. Ua kom yooj yim thiab mus rau qhov uas lawv tuaj yeem daws tau. Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem hais ib yam dab tsi zoo li, "Tub/ntxhais, muaj qee yam tshwm sim uas ua rau ob peb tus neeg chim siab, tab sis nws dhau lawm. Muaj cov neeg laus uas tuaj yeem saib xyuas cov neeg koom nrog." Koj lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb yuav tsum yog kom txo lawv qhov kev ntshai thiab ua rau lawv xav tias muaj kev nyab xeeb.
- To taub thiab txhawb nqa koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav: Tsis txhob saib tsis taus qhov uas cov menyuam hais lossis lawv txoj kev xav. Yog tias lawv qhia koj tias lawv chim siab lossis ntshai, tsis txhob sim tswj lawv txoj kev xav los ntawm kev hais tej yam xws li, "Auj, tsis txhob xav txog nws. Yuav tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau koj." Hloov chaw, rov hais dua qhov lawv hais, ua rau lawv xav tias nkag siab. "Yog lawm, tub, kuv nkag siab tias koj ntshai heev txog qhov xwm txheej no. Qhov ntawd yog qhov ib txwm muaj." Thaum koj hais tej yam zoo li no, cov menyuam paub tias koj yeej mloog lawv thiab nkag siab lawv.
- Qhia cov lus tseeb raws li tus menyuam lub hnub nyoog thiab qib kev nkag siab: Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam zoo ib yam. Lawv lub hnub nyoog, lawv lub hlwb, thiab txoj kev uas lawv nkag siab txog tej yam sib txawv. Yog li, xav txog seb cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem nkag siab thiab nqus tau tej yam ntau npaum li cas. Yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam kam tham, koj tuaj yeem pib los ntawm kev nug, "Koj hnov dab tsi txog qhov xwm txheej ntawd?" lossis "Koj cov phooj ywg hais dab tsi hauv tsev kawm ntawv?" Qhov no yuav pab koj nkag siab txog yam uas tus menyuam twb paub lawm thiab yam uas nyob hauv lawv lub siab.
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Ua kom tej yam luv luv thiab yooj yim rau cov menyuam yaus thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no. Nco ntsoov qhia lawv tias muaj cov neeg laus xws li niam, txiv, thiab cov xib fwb los saib xyuas lawv thiab tiv thaiv lawv. Ua rau lawv xav tias muaj kev nyab xeeb .Piv txwv li, yog tias muaj xov xwm txog kev tua phom hauv tsev kawm ntawv, koj tuaj yeem tham txog yam uas lawv lub tsev kawm ntawv ua kom lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb. Piv txwv li, kaw lub rooj vag tsev kawm ntawv kom ruaj ntseg, kaw lub qhov rooj sab nraud kom ruaj ntseg, thiab ua kev cob qhia thaum muaj xwm txheej ceev.Rau cov menyuam yaus me me, nws nyuaj rau 'hais' qhov lawv xav li cas los ntawm cov lus. Lub sijhawm ntawd, koj tuaj yeem siv cov khoom xws li phau ntawv duab, cov duab kos uas koj kos koj tus kheej, los pab lawv. Koj tuaj yeem hais kom lawv kos duab qhov lawv xav li cas.
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Koj tuaj yeem tham nrog cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog no hauv txoj kev uas me ntsis ntxiv, tab sis hauv txoj kev uas lawv nkag siab. Tham txog qhov nws yog qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm rau kev ua phem rau ib tug neeg, tua ib tug neeg, thiab siv cov khoom txaus ntshai xws li phom hauv txoj kev tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog no feem ntau nug cov lus nug zoo li, "Kuv puas muaj kev nyab xeeb tiag tiag?" lossis "Kuv yuav tiv thaiv kuv tus kheej li cas?" "Vim li cas tib neeg ua li no?" Piav qhia rau lawv txog yam peb lub zej zog thiab lawv lub tsev kawm ntawv ua los tiv thaiv lawv. Cia lawv muaj lawv lub tswv yim .Cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas (13+ xyoo)
Cov tub ntxhais hluas muaj peev xwm muaj kev xav thiab kev xav zoo heev txog tej yam xws li kev siv phom tua neeg. Yog li koj tuaj yeem nug lawv ncaj qha, "Koj xav li cas txog qhov uas tau tshwm sim?" Mloog lawv cov kev xav. Koj tuaj yeem tham txog vim li cas tib neeg thiaj ua rau lwm tus mob li ntawd. Nws yuav yog vim lawv muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb , lossis lawv muaj teeb meem tswj lawv txoj kev npau taws, lossis lawv siv tshuaj yeeb lossis cawv . Qhia rau lawv paub tias muaj cov neeg hauv zej zog uas tuaj yeem pab lawv hauv cov xwm txheej no (xws li cov kws kho mob, cov xib fwb, tub ceev xwm, cov thawj coj kev ntseeg). Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias yog lawv xav npau taws, chim siab, lossis ntxhov siab, lawv tuaj yeem tham nrog koj lossis lwm tus neeg laus uas ntseeg siab yam tsis khaws cia rau lawv tus kheej.Nco ntsoov kom koj tus menyuam hais tias yog. Qhov no kuj yog lub sijhawm zoo los tham txog qhov txaus ntshai ntawm tshuaj yeeb thiab cawv. Yog tias koj nrhiav tsis tau cov lus teb rau ib lo lus nug uas koj tus menyuam nug tam sim ntawd, hais tias, "Kuv tsis paub tseeb, tus tub, tab sis kuv yuav nrhiav nws thiab qhia rau koj." Los yog, sim nrhiav cov lus teb ua ke siv cov vev xaib uas tsim nyog rau hnub nyoog thiab ntseeg tau.Txawm koj tus menyuam muaj pes tsawg xyoo los xij, ua siab ntev mloog . Qhov ntawd yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Cia cov menyuam nug cov lus nug, tham txog lawv qhov kev ntshai, thiab qhia koj txhua yam uas lawv xav txog. Nws tuaj yeem ua rau lawv thiab koj zoo siab thaum lawv qhia lawv txoj kev xav tawm los.
Kuv yuav tsum paub dab tsi ntxiv?
Muaj lwm yam me me uas koj ua tau ntxiv rau kev tham.- Ceev faj txog yam koj cov menyuam saib: Txwv qhov koj cov menyuam pom txog kev ua phem nrog rab phom hauv TV, online, thiab social media. Txawm hais tias cov menyuam yaus yuav xav paub, cov xwm txheej thiab cov ntsiab lus ntawd tuaj yeem ua rau lawv chim siab, ntshai, thiab ntxhov siab ntau dua. Ceev faj txog ntau npaum li cas koj tham txog hom xov xwm no rau ntawm lawv xub ntiag. Tsis txhob tso cov xov xwm hauv koj lub TV txhua hnub hauv tsev.
- Ua rau cov menyuam xav tias lawv tswj tau lawv tus kheej: Tom qab muaj xwm txheej phem xws li kev tua neeg, ntau tus neeg xav tias lawv tsis muaj zog. Thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no, nrhiav ib yam dab tsi me me los pab lwm tus tuaj yeem pab cov menyuam xav tias lawv tswj tau lawv qhov xwm txheej. Yog tias ua tau, koom nrog koj cov menyuam ua tej yam xws li pub khoom rau cov neeg xav tau kev pab, ua haujlwm pub dawb, lossis sau ntawv los nplij lawv lub siab. Qhia rau lawv txog cov xov xwm zoo txog seb lwm tus pab li cas rau lub sijhawm zoo li no.
- Qhia rau koj cov menyuam tias kev ua tib zoo saib xyuas yuav pab tiv thaiv cov no: Yog tias lawv hnov lossis nyeem ib yam dab tsi uas ib tug neeg tab tom sim ua rau lwm tus mob, lawv yuav tsum qhia rau koj, ib tug xib fwb hauv tsev kawm ntawv, lossis lwm tus neeg laus uas ntseeg siab tam sim ntawd . Yog tias lawv pom ib tug phooj ywg lossis tus neeg paub uas npau taws lossis nyuaj siab heev, qhia rau lawv tias nws tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum qhia rau ib tug neeg laus.
- Yog koj ua tau, tham nrog koj cov menyuam txog kev nyab xeeb ntawm rab phom kom lawv nkag siab. Phom tsis yog khoom ua si, thiab piav qhia yooj yim txog tej yam txaus ntshai uas lawv ua tau.
- Txuas ntxiv ua raws li cov kev coj ua txhua hnub raws li nram no:Tom qab muaj xwm txheej zoo li no, kev ua kom koj tus menyuam ua neej niaj hnub li qub tau yuav pab tau lawv kom muaj kev nyab xeeb. Xyuas kom lawv tau txais kev tawm dag zog txaus, pw tsaug zog txaus, thiab noj mov raws sijhawm. Xyuas kom lawv ua lawv cov haujlwm hauv tsev thiab mus koom cov kis las thiab cov koom haum tom qab kawm ntawv. Tab sis nco ntsoov, yog tias lawv tab tom muaj teeb meem daws cov teeb meem no, tsis txhob yuam lawv. Muab sijhawm rau lawv so.
- Saib xyuas kev ntxhov siab: Nws yog ib qho uas cov menyuam yaus feem ntau yuav ntxhov siab tom qab muaj tej xwm txheej zoo li no. Yog tias koj pom muaj kev hloov pauv loj hauv koj tus menyuam tus cwj pwm (tsis tsaug zog zoo, tsis noj mov, ntshai txhua yam, tsis xav nyob ib puag ncig lwm tus neeg, ntxhov siab tas li, tsis xav ua tej yam uas lawv tau ua yav dhau los) uas kav ntev li ob peb hnub, tsis txhob ncua tham nrog koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis tus kws tshwj xeeb txog kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb rau menyuam yaus (tus kws kho mob lossis tus kws kho mob hlwb rau menyuam yaus). Lawv tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam tswj lawv txoj kev ntxhov siab thiab pab lawv daws qhov teeb meem.
Thaum kawg, tej yam uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov
Hais yooj yim xwb, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog cov xwm txheej txaus ntshai thiab mob siab no thiab mloog lawv.- Mloog ua siab ntev thiab muaj kev hlub. Mloog kom txog thaum lawv hais tiav qhov lawv yuav tsum hais.
- Hais lus yooj yim uas haum rau lawv lub hnub nyoog.
- To taub lawv txoj kev xav (kev ntshai, kev tu siab, kev npau taws) thiab txhawb nqa lawv. Hais tias, "Nws yog ib qho ib txwm rau koj xav li ntawd."
- Koj yeej ib txwm nrog lawv nyob, ua rau lawv xav tias muaj kev nyab xeeb. Khawm lawv.
- Yog koj pom tias koj tus menyuam tus cwj pwm hloov pauv tas li, tsis txhob ncua sijhawm nrhiav kev pab kho mob.
- Koj yuav tsum saib xyuas koj lub hlwb kom zoo. Tsuas yog koj muaj zog koj tus menyuam thiaj li muaj zog.
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