Fɔ gɛt twins na fayn drim fɔ bɔku pipul dɛn. Udat nɔ lɛk fɔ si tu bebi dɛn we fiba dɛnsɛf, we wɛr di sem klos ɛn ple togɛda? Bɔt bɔku tɛm wi nɔ kin tink bɔt di rial tin we de biɛn dis drim, di kɔst we i go tek, ɛn di sakrifays dɛn we wi nid fɔ mek fɔ am. Tide wi de tok abaut wan mama we nem Leslie we bin go tru dis kain expiriens. In stori go rili impɔtant to bɔku pipul dɛn na wi kɔntri, mɔ di wan dɛn we de sɔfa wit pikin we nɔ gɛt pikin ɛn we de tink bɔt tɛknik lɛk `(IVF)`.
Leslie in stori: Frɔm di sɔri we pɔsin kin fil we i nɔ bɔn pikin to di gladi at we twins kin gɛt
Leslie na mama we ol 33 ia. In ɛn in man we nem Hit dɔn ɔlrɛdi gɛt wan bɔy pikin we ol 5 ia. I bin gɛt bɛlɛ bay insɛf, ɛn dɛn nɔ bin gɛt ɛni spɛshal tritmɛnt. Bɔt afta dat, Lɛsli bin gɛt big prɔblɛm fɔ bɔn pikin. I bin gɛt bɔku bɛlɛ dɛn we nɔ de na di bɛlɛ , we rili denja. Bikɔs ɔf dis, dɔktɔ dɛn bin advays Lɛsli ɛn Hit fɔ mek dɛn nɔ tray fɔ bɔn pikin dɛn igen.
So bikɔs dɛn bin rili want fɔ bɔn ɔda pikin, so dɛn disayd fɔ tɔn to IVF. fכ simpul wan, IVF - In Vitro Fεtilayzεshכn na we dεn de kכmbayn mama in eg εn papa in sεl dεm na do na di bכdi insay labכtכri fכ mek wan εmbrayo, we dεn kin put insay di mama in uterus. Dis bin tan lɛk di las chans we dɛn bin gɛt fɔ bɔn mɔ pikin dɛn.
Kɔst ɛn Imɔshɔn: Pik IVF Tritmɛnt
Leslie ɛn Heath bin spɛn $22,000 fɔ dis tritmɛnt , we na bɔku bɔku mɔni na wi kɔntri in mɔni. Dis na bɔku mɔni. Na dat mek dɛn bin tink se, instead fɔ spɛn bɔku mɔni, dɛn go gɛt twins if i pɔsibul. Akɔdin to Leslie, "Wi nɔ go to di dɔktɔ ɛn se wi want twins. Wi se, 'Wi nɔ go ebul fɔ bɔn pikin, wi nid yu ɛp, dis na di wangren we we wi gɛt. So i go bɛtɛ ivin if wi gɛt twins.'" Bikɔs di kɔst na di sem ilɛksɛf wi gɛt wan pikin ɔ tu. So if dis na di las chans, dɛn bin tink se i go bɛtɛ fɔ mek dɛn dɔn di famili.
Dis stori we i de tɛl rili tɔch wi at.
"A no tink se yu fit put praiz fo yu famili. Di we aw a de luk am na, hau a laki fo get mai pikin dem... A de kray wen a tink abaut am. Di pat we at pas evritin na se i so dia. Di oda sait na adopshon, we tu de rili dia."
Dis sho se dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ no di valyu we pikin gɛt wit mɔni. Mama ɛn papa dɛn nɔ kin tink tumɔs bɔt fɔ mek ɛni sakrifays fɔ am.
Dɔktɔ in advays ɛn impɔtant tin dɛn we yu fɔ disayd fɔ du
Bifo di IVF tritmɛnt, Lɛsli in dɔktɔ bin mek shɔ se dɛn go na di advays bɔt aw fɔ bɔn pikin. Dis na bin rili impɔtant tin bikɔs insay dis prɔses, dɛn bin gɛt fɔ dil wit bɔku tin dɛn we dɛn nɔ bin ebul fɔ tink bɔt. Fɔ ɛgzampul, wetin fɔ du wit di embryo dɛn we lɛf afta di tritmɛnt, udat go gɛt di embryo dɛn if di man ɛn in wɛf dayvɔs, ɛn aw fɔ dil wit di prɔblɛm we dɛn kin gɛt fɔ bɔn twins we dɛn dɔn gɛt wan pikin.
Fɔs, Lɛsli bin want fɔ mek dɛn put tri embryo dɛn na in uterus. Di rizin fɔ dis na fɔ mek i go gɛt di bɛst pan di mɔni we i bin dɔn spɛn. I bin op se at le wan go gɛt sakrifays, ɛn if i pɔsibul, tu go gɛt sakrifays. Bɔt in dɔktɔ nɔ bin de sɔpɔt am atɔl. I se, “No we.” Dis de sho di wok we dɔktɔ dɛn gɛt. Dɛn praymar gol nɔto fɔ mek twins, bɔt fɔ ɛp fɔ briŋ wan wɛlbɔdi pikin na di wɔl.
Afta di ɛnd, dɛn disayd fɔ transfa tu embryo dɛn. Laki, dɛn ɔl tu bin gɛt sakrifays!
Twins: Drim kam tru ɛn harsh rialiti
Leslie in twin gyal pikin dɛn, Bɛlɛ ɛn Madi, gɛt wɛlbɔdi tide. Bɔt di bɛlɛ nɔ bin izi fɔ Lɛsli. I bin gɛt fɔ spɛn siks wiks fɔ rɛst na bed. I de diskraib di fɔs ia afta dɛn bɔn in pikin dɛn se "rili, rili at." Wan rizin fɔ dat na bikɔs in big bɔy pikin we nem Garɛt, bin jɔs ol tu ia da tɛm de.
We Leslie bin de go wit in pikin dɛn, bɔku pipul dɛn bin de kam nia am ɛn se, "O, a want fɔ gɛt twins bak." I go mɔs dɔn laf to insɛf da tɛm de.
"Tek yu. I no izi. Yu no go wan chenj am, bot no bi gem."
Wetin wi nid fɔ ɔndastand frɔm dis stori na dat rial tin kin difrɛn frɔm di fayn fayn pikchɔ we de na do. Bɔt Lɛsli tɛl wan rili fayn stori na di ɛnd. "As had as dat fes yie bin bi, i bin worth am. Wetin bi had yie or tu fo long run ? A go get anoda had yie or tu, wen dem yong."
| Tin dɛn we wi fɔ tink bɔt | Ɛgzampul dɛn frɔm di ɛkspiriɛns we Leslie bin gɛt |
|---|---|
| Mɔni kɔst | Tri raund tritmɛnt bin kɔst $22,000. Dis na invɛstmɛnt we nɔ gɛt ɛni garanti fɔ sakrifays. |
| Fɔ pripia wit yu maynd ɛn bɔdi | fכ tek 6 wiks fכ rεst na bed we uman bεlε. Di fɔs ia afta yu bɔn pikin dɛn kin rili at. |
| Di impɔtant tin fɔ mek dɛn go to dɔktɔ | fכ mek kכmpleks disizhכn dεm, lεk כl di εmbriyo dεm fכ transfa εn wetin fכ du wit di εmbriyo dεm we rεst. I impɔtant fɔ lɛ dɔktɔ go gayd yu. |
| Impekt pan ɔda pipul dɛn na di famili | Di chalenj de dubl we dɛn bɔn twins, bikɔs di big pikin jɔs ol 2 ia. |
Leslie in stori mek wi no klia wan se IVF nɔto jɔs wan mɛrɛsin, bɔt na kɔmpleks waka we gɛt fɔ du wit mɔni, filin, op, ɛn bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Fεtiliti tritmεnt lεk IVF kin bi wan prכsεs we de dia εn we de mek yu fil strεs.
- Fɔ bɔn twins kin tranga pas aw i tan, mɔ we uman gɛt bɛlɛ ɛn di fɔs wan ɔ tu ia afta yu bɔn pikin.
- Wi nɔ go ebul fɔ no di valyu we pikin gɛt wit mɔni, bɔt i impɔtant fɔ tek tɛm tink bɔt di mɔni biznɛs bifo yu yuz tritmɛnt.
- Bifo yu disayd fɔ du ɛnitin lɛk dat, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɔltin bɔt ɔltin . We dɛn de gayd yu, dat go ɛp yu fɔ disayd fɔ du di rayt tin.
- We ɛni chalenj dɔn, mɛmba se di gladi at ɛn lɔv we yu kin gɛt frɔm yu pikin dɛn valyu pas ɛni ɔda tin.











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