Yu no fil se yu go se ‘no’ wen dem aks yu fo go pati o get-together? Yu tink se we yu mit nyu pipul dɛn ɛn kam togɛda wit wan grup, dat kin mek yu gladi ɛn gɛt trɛnk? If na so, chans de fɔ mek yu na pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri . Wi ɔl gɛt difrɛn abit dɛn, dat na, wi abit dɛn. Sɔntɛnde, fɔ no dɛn kwaliti dɛn ya kin tranga smɔl. Lɛ wi tɔk mɔ bɔt dis tide .
Udat na dis ɛkstrovert?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri na pɔsin we de gɛt in ɛnaji ɛn intres frɔm di ɔda wɔl, dat na, frɔm sɔshal aktiviti wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Dɛn tu wɔd ya `(Extrovert)` ɛn `(Introvert)` na Carl Jung, we na pɔsin we nɔ go ebul fɔ fɔgɛt we dɛn de tɔk bɔt sayɛns, bin fɔs introduks dɛn. I bin tɔk se dɛn kin sheb pipul dɛn to tu kayn pipul dɛn akɔdin to di we aw dɛn de dayrɛkt dɛn ɛnaji.
Bɔku tɛm, pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri kin tɔk to pipul dɛn bad bad wan, i kin lɛk fɔ spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn, i kin du tin wit ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn i kin lɛk fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn. Imajin se sɔmbɔdi de na yu ɔfis we de smayl ɛn tɔk to ɔlman, we sabi ɔlman, ɛn if yu put togɛda ɔfis trip ɔ pati, na dɛn fɔs fɔ ɔganayz am. Da pɔsin de kin bi pɔsin we de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn. Dɛn gɛt bɔku padi dɛn, ɛn dɛn rili sabi fɔ mek nyu padi dɛn bak.
Bɔt wan tin we wi fɔ mɛmba na dat nɔbɔdi nɔ de pan wi 100% extroverts ɔ 100% introverts . Wi ɔl de sɔmsay bitwin dɛn. Sɔntɛnde, yu kin fil lɛk se yu gɛt dɛn tu kwaliti dɛn. Wi de kol dis kain pipul ``Ambiverts``.
Wi pɔsin kin chenj ɔlsay na wi layf. Sɔntɛm yu na bin pɔsin we rili kwayɛt ɛn we de introvert we yu bin smɔl. Bɔt naw, as yu dɔn big, yu na pɔsin we rili de wit ɔda pipul dɛn, we de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn. Wi jin, wi evolushɔn, ɛn di say we wi de gro ɔp, ɔl de ɛp wi fɔ bi spɛshal pɔsin.
Extrovert and Introvert: Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin di tu?
We yu ɔndastand di kayn pɔsin we yu bi, dat go ɛp yu fɔ fɛn nyu we fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn, fɔ mek yu padi biznɛs bɛtɛ, ɛn fɔ ɔndastand di tin dɛn we yu ebul fɔ du ɛn di tin dɛn we yu nɔ ebul fɔ du. Di men difrɛns bitwin dɛn tu na aw yu de gɛt yu ɛnaji. Wan extrovert kin gɛt ɛnaji frɔm we i de intarakt wit pipul dɛn ɛn we i de spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Introvert kin gɛt ɛnaji frɔm we i de in wan ɛn pe atɛnshɔn pan dɛn insay.
Wi kin ɔndastand dɛn chenj ya klia wan frɔm di tebul we de dɔŋ ya.
| Di kwaliti dɛn we pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri gɛt | Di kwaliti dɛn we pɔsin we de introvert gɛt |
|---|---|
| A lɛk fɔ wok na grup. | I lɛk fɔ wok in wan. |
| A lɛk fɔ tray nyu tin dɛn. | A kin kɔntrol mi bɔku tɛm. |
| I tan lɛk pɔsin we rili aktif ɛn strɔng. | A kin tink gud wan bifo a du sɔntin. |
| A kin lɛk fɔ tɔk bɔt prɔblɛm dɛn ɛn sɔlv dɛn. | Wan gud lisin, we sabi mek tin dɛn. |
| I de mek padi dɛn izi wan. | Fɔ kip dip, smɔl sɛklɔ fɔ padi dɛn. |
| Sɔntɛnde chans de fɔ du tin dɛn we yu nɔ tink (impulsively). | A lɛk fɔ de mi wan wit di tin dɛn we a de tink bɔt. |
Bɔku tɛm, pɔsin we de introvert kin kip in tink ɛn filin to insɛf ɛn i kin wok fayn we i de in wan. Bɔt pɔsin we de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn, we i gɛt prɔblɛm, i kin fɛn sɔlv bay we i de tɔk to ɔda pɔsin ɛn pul dɛn aidia dɛn de. We yu de manej strɛs ɛn wɔri, di introvert in prɛferɛns fɔ silɛns kin bi advantej. Dɔn bak, di proaktiviti we pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri kin du ɛn di ebul we i ebul fɔ wok wit wan tim kin mek dɛn difrɛn as gud lida dɛn.
Aw yu go no if yu na pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri?
Fɔ no if yu na pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri ɔ pɔsin we de tink bɔt insɛf nɔto ɛksaktɔ sayɛns. No wan tin nɔ de fɔ mɛzhɔ. Bɔt bɔku we dɛn de we yu kin yuz fɔ no bɔt di kayn pɔsin we yu bi. Wan we na fɔ tek wan tɛst fɔ pɔsin in pasɔnaliti na di intanɛt lɛk di Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Ɔ, yu kin si if yu gɛt kɔmɔn kwaliti dɛn wit pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na do.
Na sɔm pan dɛn kayn tin dɛn de:
- We yu spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn, yu kin gɛt trɛnk ɛn yu kin fil fayn .
- If yu wan de fɔ lɔng tɛm , yu ɛnaji go dɔn, yu go fil se yu nɔ gɛt layf, ɛn yu go fil se yu de bost.
- Yu lɛk fɔ bi di say we pipul dɛn de pe atɛnshɔn to yu ɛn yu nɔ de fred fɔ gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn we yu nɔ no.
- Yu kin ɛnjɔy fɔ bigin tɔk to pɔsin, ivin wit pɔsin we yu nɔ no atɔl. Bɔku tɛm, yu kin tɔk fɔ mek yu tink gud wan.
- Yu kin tek di fɔs fɔs tin ɔltɛm fɔ ɔganayz trip ɛn pati usay pipul dɛn kin gɛda.
- Yu nɔ kin gri fɔ tek inviteshɔn fɔ go pati ɔ fɔ gɛda.
- Yu kin ebul fɔ adap to ɛni envayrɔmɛnt ɛn sityueshɔn izi wan . Di tin dɛn we yu kin disayd fɔ du fɔ yusɛf kin mek yu gɛt gladi-at na yu layf.
Dis nɔto jɔs blak ɛn wayt tin. Sɔntɛm yu na rili ɛkstrovert na wokples, yu ebul fɔ lid mitin witout ɛni fus. Bɔt we yu kam na os, yu kin bi pɔsin we lɛk fɔ rid buk ɔ wach fim yu wan. Dat min se yu gɛt `(Ambivert)` trayt. Di bɛst we fɔ no bɔt yu pɔsin na fɔ tink bɔt yusɛf. Tink ɔnɛs wan bɔt yu ɛkspiriɛns dɛn , di tin dɛn we yu lɛk. Dɔn bak, wan fayn we na fɔ aks yu padi we yu biliv ɛn we de nia yu.
Advantej ɛn prɔblɛm dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i bi pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri
Bɔku fayn abit dɛn de we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn. Dɛn rili sabi fɔ bil soshal rilayshɔnship. Dɛn gud soshal skil ya kin ɛp dɛn fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ bi padi ɛn gɛt ay levul fɔ satisfay wit dɛn layf. Dɔn bak, di we aw dɛn ebul fɔ tɔk klia wan bɔt wetin dɛn de tink, de mek dɛn rili sabi fɔ tɔk na pɔblik ɛn fɔ du wok dɛn we de mek pipul dɛn tɔk to dɛnsɛf.
Bɔt i nɔ de witout in chalenj dɛn. Fɔ de yu wan ɔltɛm kin rili at fɔ pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri. Dɔn bak, bɔku tɛm dɛn kin tɔk bifo dɛn tink, ɛn dis kin mek sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn kam. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ kɔntrol di tɔk na grup, so i kin at smɔl fɔ mek dɛn bi gud lisin.
Introvert ɛn extrovert ɔl tu gɛt dɛn yon trɛnk ɛn wikɛd tin. Wan pɔsin we gɛt ambivert, we gɛt di bɛst pan dɛn tu tin ya, kin gɛt di big bɛnifit. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ no di prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit di kayn pɔsin we yu bi ɛn mek di ajɔstmɛnt dɛn we yu nid fɔ mek yu ebul fɔ yuz di tin dɛn we yu ebul fɔ du fayn fayn wan.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Extrovert na pɔsin we kin gɛt ɛnaji we i de wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Introvert kin gɛt ɛnaji frɔm we i spɛn tɛm in wan.
- Nɔn pan wi nɔ de 100% wan kayn. Wi ɔl de bitwin dɛn to difrɛn digri dɛn. Pipul dɛn we gɛt kwaliti dɛn fɔ dɛn tu tin ya, dɛn kin kɔl dɛn Ambivert.
- We yu no di kayn pɔsin we yu bi, dat go ɛp yu fɔ ɔndastand yusɛf mɔ, no wetin yu ebul fɔ du ɛn wetin yu nɔ ebul fɔ du, ɛn mek yu padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn bɛtɛ.
- Dɛn tu kayn pɔsin ya gɛt dɛn yon bɛnifit ɛn bad tin dɛn. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ ɔndastand yu nature ɛn tek advantej pan yu trɛnk.
- If yu de gɛt bɔrku diskɔmfɔt bikɔs ɔf wan pɔrsin in pasɔnaliti trayt (e.g., uncontrollable impulsivity or extreme social phobia), i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ bɔt am.
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