Sɔntɛnde, yu kin fil lɛk dis? We yu go na big pati, mitin, ɔ ples we pipul dɛn kin ful-ɔp, yu kin rili taya ɛn taya. Bɔt i rili fayn fɔ de na os ɛn rid buk, wach fim yu wan, ɔ jɔs tɔk to yu tayt padi dɛn. If yu fil lɛk dis, yu kin bi pɔsin we gɛt di pɔsin in pasɔnaliti trayt fɔ ‘ introvert ’. Dis nɔto sik ɔ bad tin. Dis na tin we rili nɔmal. So lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis tide.
Udat na dis Introvert?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, pɔsin we de introvert kin gɛt dɛn ɛnaji frɔm dɛn yon tink ɛn insay wɔl. Dis min se dɛn kin lɛk fɔ de wit wetin de apin insay dɛn yon maynd pas fɔ de wit wetin de apin na do. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ gɛt dip padi biznɛs wit wan ɔ tu pipul dɛn pas fɔ wok wit bɔku bɔku pipul dɛn.
We yu yɛri di wɔd ‘introvert’, sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink se i min pɔsin we rili shem, nɔ de tɔk to ɛnibɔdi, ɛn lɛk fɔ de in wan. Dat kin bi tru insay sɔm kes dɛm, bɔt di kayn pɔsin we introvert kin go fa fawe pas dat. If yu na introvert ɔ extrovert na aw yu de intarakt wit di wɔl we de rawnd yu ɛn aw yu de gɛt ɛn spɛn yu ɛnaji.
Di wɔd dɛn we dɛn kɔl introvert ɛn extrovert na wan sayɛnsman we nem Carl Jung bin mek dɛn fɔs insay di 1920 dɛm. I bin tɔk se pipul dɛn we de introvert de chaj dɛn ɛnaji bak bay we dɛn de tɔn to dɛn yon maynd ɛn spɛn tɛm dɛn wan. Bɔt pipul dɛn we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri kin gɛt dɛn ɛnaji frɔm we dɛn de nia ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn we dɛn de wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Tink bɔt am lɛk we yu de chaj fon. Introvert de chaj op bay we i de in wan, we extrovert de chaj op bay we i de wit pipul.
Yu na pɔsin we de introvert? Si if yusɛf gɛt dɛn kwaliti dɛn ya
Dɛn se lɛk wan pat pan tri pipul dɛn na di wɔl gɛt abit dɛn we de mek dɛn want fɔ du sɔntin. Pan ɔl we nɔto ɔlman go sho dɛn kwaliti dɛn ya di sem we, sɔm tin dɛn de we kin apin. Lɛ wi si aw bɔku pan dɛn tin ya fit yu.
| Di kwaliti we pɔsin gɛt | Wan simpul ɛksplen |
|---|---|
| Wi nid fɔ sɛt mɔt fɔ mek di maynd gri. | I at fɔ pe atɛnshɔn we bɔku nɔys de rawnd yu we yu de wok ɔ stɔdi. A kin lɛk fɔ wok na rum we kwayɛt. |
| Fɔ tink gud wan | Bifo yu du sɔntin jɔs we yu si ɔ yɛri sɔntin, yu de tray fɔ tink gud wan bɔt am, stɔdi am, ɛn ɔndastand am. |
| Fɔ no yusɛf | Dɛn kin ɔndastand gud gud wan aw dɛn de fil, wetin dɛn de tink, wetin dɛn ebul fɔ du, ɛn tin dɛn we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du. |
| Fɔ tek tɛm fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin | A nɔ kin disayd fɔ du sɔntin kwik kwik wan. Di bɛst disizhɔn na afta yu dɔn tink bɔt ɔl di aspek dɛn ɛn tink bɔt di ɔda we dɛn we yu go ebul fɔ du am. |
| Fɔ ɛnjɔy fɔ de yu wan | Fɔ de yu wan nɔto lod. Na sɔntin we de mek pɔsin gɛt rɛst ɛn kɔrej in maynd. |
| Nɔ lɛk fɔ wok togɛda | A kin lɛk fɔ wok mi wan ɔ wit wan ɔ tu pipul dɛn pas fɔ wok wit bɔku pipul dɛn. |
| Fɔ lɛk fɔ rayt pas fɔ tɔk | A kin si am se i izi ɛn izi fɔ tɔk bɔt mi aidia dɛn bay we a rayt (imel, mɛsej) pas fɔ tɔk am wit mɔt. |
| Fɔ fil taya afta yu dɔn de wit krawd | Afta yu kam bak frɔm pati ɔ ivin, yu kin fil taya pan yu bɔdi ɛn yu maynd. |
| Fɔ gɛt wan anful bɛst padi dɛn | Pan ɔl we a dɔn lɔs bɔku padi dɛn, a gɛt rili dip padi biznɛs wit di smɔl wan dɛn we a dɔn lɛf. |
Wetin mek sɔm pipul dɛn kin bi pipul dɛn we de tink bɔt dɛnsɛf? Yu tink se na chenj na di bren?
Sayɛnsman dɛn nɔ dɔn fɛn yet di rayt rizin we mek pɔsin de introvert ɔ extrovert, bɔt dɛn dɔn si se difrɛns dɛn de we nɔ klia pan di we aw pipul dɛn we gɛt dɛn tu kayn pɔsin ya in bren de wok .
Risach dɔn sho se di wan dɛn we de introvert kin gɛt mɔ blɔd we de flɔ na di frɔntal lobe na dɛn bren pas di wan dɛn we de kɔmɔt na do. Dis pat na di bren de ɛp wi fɔ mɛmba tin, sɔlv prɔblɛm, ɛn plan fɔ tumara bambay.
Wan ɔda impɔtant tin na dat di tu pipul dɛn kin ansa difrɛn we to di kemikal we dɛn kɔl dopamine , we kin mek di bren gladi ɛn satisfay. pan ɔl we di wan dɛn we de introvert ɛn di wan dɛn we de kɔmɔt na do gɛt di sem kayn dopamin na dɛn bren, di wan dɛn we de kɔmɔt na do in bren kin gɛt bɔku stimuleshɔn ɛn gladi at frɔm dopamin. Bɔt pɔsin we de introvert kin fil am mɔ lɛk lod pas big stimulus. Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, sɔntin we de gi pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na do ‘kik’ kin fil lɛk ‘dreyn’ to pɔsin we de introvert.
Ɔmɔs kayn introvert pipul dɛn de?
Fɔ bi introvert nɔto wan-sayz-fit-ɔl lɛbl. Saikɔlɔjis dɛn se i tan lɛk skel. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin rili introvert. Ɔda wan dɛn kin de sɔmsay na di midul pan di skel. Dɛn kɔl dɛn ‘ambiverts’ . Dat min se dɛn gɛt balans pan ɔl tu di introverted ɛn extroverted traits.
Tipikli, introvert kin gɛt sɔm extrovert trayt, ɛn extrovert kin gɛt sɔm introvert trayt. Wan stɔdi bin sheb pipul dɛn we de introvert to 4 men kayn pipul dɛn.
| Introvert Tayp | Aw dɛn pipul ya tan lɛk? (Aw dɛn tan lɛk?) |
|---|---|
| Sɔshial Introvert | Dis na di "klasik" introvert we wi ɔl sabi. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ de na smɔl grup dɛn ɛn na say dɛn we kwayɛt pas fɔ de na bɔku bɔku pipul dɛn ɛn ples dɛn we nɔys de. |
| Tink Introvert | Dɛn pipul ya tan lɛk pipul dɛn we de drim. Dɛn kin spɛn bɔku tɛm fɔ tink. Dɛn gɛt sɛns fɔ mek tin dɛn. |
| Introvert we de wɔri | Dɛn pipul ya kin lɛk fɔ de dɛn wan nɔto jɔs bikɔs dɛn lɛk am, bɔt bak bikɔs dɛn nɔ kin fil fayn ɛn shem we dɛn de nia pipul dɛn. |
| Introvert we de kɔntrol insɛf | Dɛn pipul ya nɔ kin tink tumɔs, bɔt bɔku tɛm bifo dɛn du sɔntin. Dɛn nɔ de du sɔntin kwik kwik wan. Dɛn kin tek sɔm tɛm fɔ du sɔntin. |
Introvert min se pɔsin de shem?
Dis na di say we bɔku pipul dɛn kin kɔnfyus. Bɔku pipul dɛn tink se introvert min pɔsin we de shem. Bɔt no kɔnekshɔn nɔ de bitwin dɛn tu.
Bi introvert na wan kayn pɔsin we yu gɛt. Bɔt fɔ shem na sɔntin we pɔsin kin fil. Dɛn tu tin ya rili difrɛn.
Pɔsin we de shem nɔ kin fil fayn ɛn i kin fred we i de wit ɔda pipul dɛn, mɔ we i de bifo pipul dɛn we i nɔ no. Dɛn kin swet, gɛt at we de rɔn, ɔ ivin gɛt bɛlɛ at. Dɛn kin avɔyd tin dɛn lɛk pati bikɔs dɛn nɔ lɛk dɛn bad bad filin dɛn de .
Bɔt, pɔsin we de introvert kin avɔyd sɔshal sityueshɔn nɔto bikɔs i kin gɛt bad bad filin. Bifo dat, dɛn kin fil mɔ trɛnk ɛn fil fayn we dɛn de dɛn wan ɔ wit wan ɔ tu pipul dɛn. Dis min se pɔsin we de introvert nɔ kin avɔyd fɔ go pati bikɔs i de fred am, bɔt na bikɔs i lɛk fɔ rid buk na os.
Di mistek we di sosayti de tink bɔt pipul dɛn we de introvert
Bɔku ɔda mistek dɛn de na di sosayti, lɛk di aidia se pɔsin we de introvert kin shem. Lɛ wi luk sɔm pan dɛn.
| Di Myth we dɛn kin tɔk bɔt | Di Rial Stori |
|---|---|
| Introverts nɔ kin lɛk fɔ gɛt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. | Fɔ bi introvert nɔ min se yu na padi. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink dat bikɔs dɛn nɔ gɛt bɔku padi dɛn ɛn dɛn kin lɛk fɔ de kwayɛt na say dɛn we pipul dɛn kin gɛda. Bɔt dɛn kin bi pipul dɛn we rili gud ɛn we gɛt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. |
| Introvert nɔ kin bi lida. | Pan ɔl we bɔku tɛm, pipul dɛn we de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn kin kam na wi maynd we wi tink bɔt lida, pipul dɛn we de tink bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn kin bi big lida dɛn bak. Dɛn kin tek tɛm lisin to wetin ɔda pipul dɛn de tink ɛn pe atɛnshɔn pan di tin dɛn we dɛn want fɔ du fɔ lɔng tɛm. Dis kin mek dɛn bi lida dɛn we rili sabi du tin. |
| I at fɔ no pɔsin we de introvert. | Dɛn nɔ kin tɔk bɔku wit ɔlman, bɔt dɛn kin gɛt rili dip padi biznɛs wit dɛn smɔl tayt padi dɛn. Dɛn padi dɛn de sabi dɛn gud gud wan. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ tɔk dip dip wan pas fɔ tɔk tin dɛn we de ɔp ɔp. |
If yu na pɔsin we de introvert, nɔ ɛva tink se na wikɛd tin. Na pat pan yu pɔsin. No di tin dɛn we yu ebul fɔ du ɛn ajɔst yu layf fɔ fit yu. If yu fil se dɛn kwaliti ya de mek yu gɛt big prɔblɛm fɔ yu ɛvride layf, wok, ɔ padi biznɛs, yu kin tink bɔt fɔ go to pɔsin we sabi du in wok. Yu kin gɛt gayd bay we yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ .
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Bi introvert na wan kayn pɔsin we yu gɛt. I nɔto sik, we pɔsin in maynd wik, ɔ we i nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ tin fɔ it.
- Fɔ bi pɔsin we de tink bɔt insɛf ɛn fɔ shem na tu tin dɛn we rili difrɛn .
- Pɔsin we de introvert kin gɛt trɛnk we i de spɛn tɛm in wan ɔ wit smɔl grup. Wan pɔsin we de kɔmɔt na ɔda kɔntri kin gɛt trɛnk we i de wit bɔku bɔku pipul dɛn.
- Fɔ bi pɔsin we de introvert nɔto sɔntin we de ambɔg fɔ bi lida ɔ fɔ gɛt sakrifays. Dɛn gɛt dɛn yon spɛshal tin dɛn we dɛn ebul fɔ du.
- If yu na introvert, gladi fɔ am. Krio envayrɔmɛnt we de gi yu trɛnk ɛn mek yu fil fayn.
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