As mama ɛn papa, wi ɔl want wi pikin dɛn fɔ gɛt sɛns ɛn gɛt sɛns, nɔto so? Bɔt sɔntɛnde wi kin wɔnda se, ‘Wetin rili na sɛns ? Wetin a go du fɔ mek mi pikin gɛt mɔ sɛns?’ Sɔm pikin dɛn sabi fɔ du matematiks, ɔda wan dɛn sabi fɔ mek nyu tin dɛn ɛn fɔ tink gud wan. Ɔl dɛn tin ya na pat dɛn pan sɛns. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt sɛns ɛn aw wi go ɛp wi pikin dɛn fɔ du ɔl wetin dɛn ebul fɔ du.
Yu tink se sɛns na sɔntin we dɛn bɔn wit? Ɔ sɔntin we kɔmɔt na di envayrɔmɛnt? (Hɛriditi vs Envayrɔmɛnt)
Wan kwɛstyɔn we bɔku pipul dɛn kin aks na, ‘Na intɛlijɛns bɔn, dat na sɔntin we kɔmɔt frɔm jin, ɔ na sɔntin we kɔmɔt frɔm di say we wi de gro ɔp?’ Fɔ tru, dɛn tu tin ya impɔtant ikwal pan dis.
Tink bɔt am, sɔm pikin dɛn kin bɔn wit gud abiliti fɔ lan ɛn ɔndastand. Na sɔntin we kɔmɔt frɔm jin. Bɔt dat nɔmɔ nɔ go du fɔ am. If da pikin de gɛt gud edyukeshɔn, gud ples fɔ lan, ɛn ɛnkɔrej am, da sɛns de we dɛn bɔn wit go gɛt mɔ sɛns. Wi de kɔl dat ‘virtuous cycle’. Dat min se sɔntin we gud kin mek pɔsin gɛt sɔntin we bɛtɛ pas am.
Jɔs lɛk di bɛst kayn sid. I nɔ mata aw di sid gud, i nɔ go gro fayn if i nɔ gɛt gud grɔn, wata, ɛn san layt , nɔto so? Na so i bi.
Semweso, di ɔda say pan dis sɛf na tru. Ivin if dɛn bɔn pikin wit gud sɛns, if dɛn gro ɔp na say we nɔ gɛt chans fɔ lan ɛn nɔ ɛnkɔrej dɛn, da sɛns de kin dull as tɛm de go. So mɛmba se, nɔto jɔs di tin dɛn we pikin gɛt fɔ no if i gɛt sɛns, bɔt na di say we i de gɛt am bak.
Yu kin trɔst dɛn IQ nɔmba dɛn ya nɔmɔ?
Bɔku tɛm wi kin yuz intɛlijɛns tɛst, ɔ IQ tɛst fɔ no if pɔsin gɛt sɛns. Bɔt dɔktɔ ɛn masta sabi bukman dɛn se yu nɔ fɔ mɛzhɔ pikin bay dis IQ nɔmba nɔmɔ. Infakt, we yu de tink bɔt di pikin in sɛns, bɔku tin dɛn de we impɔtant pas di IQ mak.
Di bɛst tin we de sho se di pikin de biev.
- Yu tink se di pikin kin aks kwɛstyɔn bikɔs i want fɔ no mɔ?
- Yu rili want fɔ lan nyu tin dɛn?
- Yu kin ple difrɛn rol dɛn we yu de ple? (Dɛn de ple di rol)
- Yu gladi?
Dɛn kwaliti ya min se di pikin in bren de divɛlɔp fayn fayn wan. So nɔ wɔri tumɔs bɔt IQ skɔ. Nɔto dɛn nɔmɔ de sho aw pikin ebul fɔ du sɔntin.
Bren Fɔd
di pikin in bren de bigin fכ divεlכp na di bεlε. Na dat mek di it we mama gɛt fayn fayn it dɛn we i gɛt bɛlɛ impɔtant so. Afta dat, fɔ gi pikin in bɛlɛ na di bɛst gift we pikin kin gi dɛn bren. Wae yu pikin bigin fɔ it sɔlid it, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu put gud it insay am. Sɔntɛm yɔŋ pikin dɛn nɔ kin want fɔ tray nyu it dɛn smɔl, bɔt dɛn kin mek dɛn no difrɛn flawa dɛn smɔl smɔl.
Di tebul we de dɔŋ ya de gi yu wan aidia bɔt di it we pikin nid fɔ wan de.
| Di kayn it we dɛn kin it | Di tin we dɛn nid ɛvride (smɔl it dɛn) . |
|---|---|
| Frut ɛn vɛjitebul dɛn | 5-6 veal we dɛn kin kɔl |
| Ɔl di grens dɛn | 5 vel dɛn we dɛn mek |
| Mit, fish, chukchuk | 2-3 veal we dɛn kin kɔl |
| Milk ɔ it dɛn we dɛn mek wit milk | 2-3 veal we dɛn kin kɔl |
Mɛmba se, dɛn tin ya nɔto di bɔku bɔku mɔni we dɛn kin gi big pipul dɛn, bɔt na smɔl pat dɛn we fayn fɔ pikin dɛn. Dɔn bak, if yu de gi yu pikin vaytamɛn ɔ minral sɔpɔtmɛnt, yu fɔ gi am di rayt we we yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu fɔ gi am .
Bren trenin eksasaiz!
Lɛk gud it, tin dɛn we de mek di pikin gɛt in bren rili impɔtant fɔ mek i gɛt sɛns.
Simpul tin dɛn we yu kin du
- Rid wan buk togɛda ɛvri nɛt: Put dis abit to yu pikin frɔm we i smɔl. Dis go ɛp fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ yuz wɔd dɛn ɛn fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ imajin.
- Tɔk to yu pikin: We yu de du wok na os ɔ we yu de go waka na do, tɔk to yu pikin bɔt wetin yu de si. Aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk, "Wetin mek dat de apin?" ɛn "Wetin yu tink se go apin nɛks?" fɔ mek dɛn want fɔ no mɔ.
- Ɛp fɔ lan aktif wan: Lɛf yu pikin in wan bifo TV, .Nɔ mek dɛn ple vidio gem ɛn jɔs mek dɛn ple. Dɛn kin jɔs mek di bren nɔ wok. Bifo dat, tek pat pan di tin dɛn we dɛn de du ɛn chenj di we aw dɛn de tink.
- Alaw pikin dɛn fɔ ple: Gi pikin dɛn fridɔm ɛn tɛm fɔ ple. Ilɛksɛf na fɔ ple na dɔti, fɔ drɛs dɔl dɛn, ɔ fɔ mek lɛk se yu na dɔktɔ ɔ ticha wit yu, pikin dɛn kin lan frɔm ɔl dis.
- Alaw yu pikin fɔ pik: Jɔs bikɔs yu papa bin lɛk fɔ ple kriket we i bin smɔl, dat nɔ min se yu bɔy pikin sɛf fɔ lɛk am. Alaw yu pikin fɔ pik wetin i lɛk. I kin bi myuzik inschrumɛnt, drɔ, ɔ spɔt. Ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ du dat.
Sɔm pipul dɛn biliv se we pikin dɛn lisin to klasical myuzik, dat kin mek dɛn gɛt sɛns. No sayɛns nɔ de we de sho dis yet. Bɔt if i ɛnkɔrej pikin fɔ ple myuzik inschrumɛnt, dat kin ɛp fɔ mek i ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn ɛn fɔ kɔrɛkt am.
Yuz Am ɔ Lɔs Am!
Di bren tan lɛk mɔsul na wi bɔdi. If dɛn nɔ du ɛksɛsayz ɛn yuz am, i kin wik. Di tin we dɛn kin gi pikin we i smɔl kin afɛkt am fɔ di res ɔf in layf.
Sayɛnsman dɛn dɔn kam fɔ no se di avɛrej sɛns we pipul dɛn gɛt de go ɔp smɔl smɔl frɔm wan jɛnɛreshɔn to di ɔda wan. Dis na bikɔs ɔf di gud it we wi de gɛt, di gud edyukeshɔn, ɛn di wɔl we de divɛlɔp.
So mɛmba se, di tin we impɔtant pas fɔ rɔnata IQ nɔmba na fɔ tich yu pikin fɔ lɛk fɔ lan. We yu ɛp dɛn fɔ fɛn sɔntin we dɛn lɛk fɔ du ɛn dat de mek dɛn satisfay. If yu giv dat to yu pikin, no wori abaut IQ. Dɛn dɔn ɔlrɛdi gɛt wetin dɛn nid fɔ mek dɛn go bifo na layf.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- di pikin in intelligence na di kכmbaynshכn fכ di jin dεm we dεn bכn wit εn di envayroment we i gro insay.Di envayroment we pikin de gεt rili imכtant.
- Nɔ jɔj pikin bay di IQ tɛst mak nɔmɔ. Di we aw pikin kin want fɔ no mɔ, di gladi at, ɛn di we aw i want fɔ lan, na sɔntin we valyu pas ɔl.
- Fɔ it we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn fɔ it impɔtant fɔ mek di bren gro. Tek kia ɔf di it we di mama ɛn pikin de it frɔm di tɛm we di bɛlɛ bigin.
- Fɔ rid buk, tɔk, ɛn du tin dɛn wit yu pikin, na sɔntin we valyu pas TV ɔ vidio gem dɛn wan tawzin tɛm.
- Alaw di pikin fɔ pik. Ɛp dɛn fɔ fɛn ɛn divɛlɔp dɛn yon tin dɛn we dɛn lɛk.
- If yu gɛt ɛnitin we de mɔna yu ɔ dawt bɔt aw yu pikin de tink, tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ bɔt dat.
- Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tich yu pikin fɔ lɛk fɔ lan ɛn fɔ satisfay wit wetin i de du.
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