Omusawo bw’akugamba nti olina kookolo w’amabeere, era ng’agenda mu maaso katono, Stage III oba IV, kiteekwa okuba nga kyawulikika ng’ekikonde mu mutwe. Kya bulijjo okuwulira ng’ensi yo yonna egwa mu kaseera ako. Naye ekisinga okukaluba, ekisinga okukuzitoowerera osanga kwe kulowooza ku ngeri y’okubuulira ab’omu maka go, abantu abasinga okukusemberera - omwami wo, abaana, maama wo, taata wo. Kino kisingako ku kuwa mawulire gokka. Olina okukola ku nneewulira zo ez’okutya, ennaku, n’obusungu, awamu n’enneewulira z’ab’omu maka go. Naye toli wekka. Abakyala bameka mu nsi abayise mu mbeera efaananako bwetyo? Ka twogere ku ngeri y’okufuula emboozi eno enzibu ey’amaanyi eri buli muntu mu maka go.
Amawulire gano ogamenya otya awaka?
Ebiseera ebisinga abantu abasinga basooka kubuulira munnaabwe, kwe kugamba, bba oba mukyala waabwe, ku mawulire ag’ekika kino. Ekisinga obulungi nti babeera naawe ng’omusawo akuwadde obulwadde buno. Naye ekyo tekibaawo bulijjo. Oluusi oyinza okuwulira amawulire ng’oli wekka.
Teebereza maama wa balo afudde kookolo. Emirundi emeka gy’oyinza okulowoozaako emirundi ebiri okubuulira omuntu bw’atyo? Naye ekisinga obulungi mu kiseera nga kino kwe kwogera amazima mu bwesimbu era mu bwangu nga bwe kisoboka .
Bw’ogezaako okukweka ebintu bino olw’okutya okubirumya, ng’olowooza nti olina okubikuuma, kijja kwongera okuwulira ekiwuubaalo era kijja kulemesa omukwano gwammwe.
"Kyabulijjo okuwulira ennaku. Olina okubaleka ne bakifulumya," abasawo n'ababuulirira bwe bagamba. Kiyinza okukuzibuwalira okugumiikiriza okubalaba nga bakaaba n’okunyiiga. Naye kirungi okusinga okussa mu bucupa enneewulira ezo.
Osobola okubuulira bazadde bo oba baganda bo butereevu. Oba, ekyo bwe kiba kikuzibuwalira nnyo, oyinza okusaba munno oba mukwano gwo gwe weesiga akubuulire amawulire ago. Totya kubuulira b’eŋŋanda z’ewala oba mikwano gyo emirala. Babuulire mpolampola ng’olina obuvumu. Okubuulira buli muntu ekintu kye kimu emirundi n’emirundi kiyinza okukumalamu amaanyi mu nneewulira.
Kino okibuulira otya abaana?
Kino osanga kye kitundu ekisinga okukaluba. Abaana bo bwe baba nga bakyali bato, kino okitegeera otya? Obabuulira otya amazima nga tobatiisa?
Teebereza abaana bo balina emyaka 3 ne 6. Ne mu myaka emito bwe gityo, kiba kirungi okubabuulira amazima. Naye kitegeerekeka olw'emyaka gyabwe.
"Gamba butereevu nti, 'Maama alina kookolo. ' Kookolo."Totya kigambo ''. Singa okweka ekigambo ekyo, bwe bakiwulira okuva eri omuntu omulala, bayinza okuba n'ekibuuzo ekinene mu birowoozo byabwe nti, "Maama, lwaki tewambuulira mazima?" Ekyo kijja kwongera okubaleetera okutya.
Osobola okukinnyonnyola mu ngeri ennyangu: "Maama alina ejjinja ebbi munda mu mubiri gwe. Y'ensonga lwaki awulira ng'alwadde katono. Omusawo amuwa eddagala okusaanuusa ejjinja n'okuliggyamu. Eddagala eryo liyinza okumuleetera enviiri okugwa, era awulira ng'akooye oluusi. Bw'olaba abakulu nga bakaaba, ekyo tokitya, kya bulijjo."
Engeri gy’oyogeramu n’abaana erina okwawukana okusinziira ku myaka gyabwe.
| Ekibinja ky'emyaka gy'omwana | Engeri y'okwogera |
|---|---|
| Abaana abato n’abaana abato (emyaka 3-7) . | Kozesa ebigambo ebyangu ennyo. Kitegeeze bulungi nti tezisiigibwa era nti si musango gwabwe. Kozesa enfumo nga "ejjinja mu lubuto lwa maama." |
| Abaana abagenda ku ssomero (emyaka 8-12) . | Osobola okwogera mu bujjuvu katono. Babuulire obujjanjabi bwe buli (e.g., okugwa kw’enviiri okuva mu chemo) n’engeri gye kinaakukosaamu. Babuuze ebibuuzo, mwogere ku bye batya. |
| Abaana abato (Teens) . | Yogera mu lwatu ng’omuntu omukulu. Basobola okunoonya amawulire ku yintaneeti, n’olwekyo beera mwesimbu ku mbeera yo entuufu (Eddaala III oba IV), obujjanjabi bw’oyinza okukozesa, n’engeri gy’oyinza okutegeera. Bakkirize okwogera enneewulira zaabwe. Era mwogere ku ngeri gy’oyinza okubayambamu. |
Obategeerera otya embeera yo entuufu?
Kookolo si y’emu eri buli muntu. Buvunaanyizibwa bwo okunnyonnyola ab’omu maka go kino. Si buli muntu alina kookolo w’amabeere nti ajja kulongoosebwa oba okujjanjabibwa eddagala.
Kiyinza okuba ekizibu okunnyonnyola abaagalwa bo naddala ku Stage IV.Kiyinza okuba ekizibu okukkiriza ekituufu nti "tekisobola kuwonyezebwa ddala, naye kisobola okufugibwa, era olina okugenda mu maaso n'okubeera wansi w'obujjanjabi obw'ekika ekimu."
Ab’omu maka abamu bayinza okutya nti ojja kufa mangu. Bajja kufuna obuweerero okumanya nti waliwo abakyala abawangaala emyaka kkumi n’okusoba nga balina kookolo ow’omutendera ogw’okuna. Mu mutendera III, obudde obwo buyinza n’okusingawo obuwanvu.
Ekisinga obulungi kwe kubeera omwesimbu eri omusawo wo ku by’ayogedde. Singa omwana omuto abuuza ekintu nga, "Maama agenda kufa?" oyinza okugamba nti, "Ekyo tetukirowoozaako mu kiseera kino mwana wange. Abasawo balabirira bulungi Maama. Bwe kiba nga kirabika ekyo kigenda kubaawo, tujja kuddamu okukyogerako."
Osaba otya obuyambi okuva mu maka?
Kookolo mazima ddala ajja kukyusa obulamu bw’amaka go, n’olwekyo kikulu okubeera omutegeevu ku by’oyagala n’ebyo by’olina okwetaaga n’abo abasinga okubeera ku lusegere.
Ask for help explicitly , like "Nze nneetaaga nnyo okwoza engoye ku Lwokubiri n'okusitula abaana okuva ku ssomero ku nnaku endala essatu." Kubanga ne munno tasobola kusoma birowoozo byo.
Ebyetaago byo bijja kukyuka okumala ekiseera. Bw’oba oli mu mutendera ogw’okusatu, oyinza okukaluubirirwa n’obujjanjabi , n’oluvannyuma n’osobola okudda mu bulamu bwo obwa bulijjo mu myezi mitono. Mu mutendera ogw’okuna, oyinza okwetaaga obuyambi obulala. Wajja kubaawo ebiseera by’owulira ng’oli mukulu, n’ebiseera ebirala ng’owulira obuzibu. Kikulu okwogera ku bino byonna n’ab’omu maka go era osalewo ekisinga obulungi eri buli muntu.
Ate era olina okuyiga okukkiriza obuyambi. Bw’oba bulijjo okoze nga weetongodde, kiyinza okukuzibuwalira okusaba obuyambi mu bwangu okuva mu balala n’okkiriza obuyambi bwe bakuwa. Naye mu kiseera kino, si kya buswavu, kyetaagisa.
Totya kwogera ku by'oyagala.
Obujjanjabi bwa kookolo w’amabeere kati bwa mulembe nnyo. Kyokka abakyala abamu bakisanga nga kibudaabuda nnyo okwogera ku mulamwa abantu bangi gwe batya okwogerako. Kwe kugamba, "Ate singa obujjanjabi bwange tebukola?" oba "Ate singa ndowooza nti nnina eddagala kati?"
Mpozzi omusawo agamba nti kookolo wo ow’omutendera ogw’okusatu awona. Naye kiyinza okukubudaabuda okunyumya n’ab’omu maka go ku ekyo ekigenda okubaawo singa si bwe kiri. Oba olyawo omaze emyaka ng’oli mu mutendera ogw’okuna, ng’ogezezzaako buli bujjanjabi obusoboka, era kati olowooza ku kulabirirwa mu kifo ekikuumirwamu abalwadde okukuyamba okuwangaala ennaku zo ezisembayo ng’oli mu buweerero.
Waliwo omugaso ogwekwekeddwa mu kuba n'emboozi zino enzibu. Bw’oyogera ku nsonga eyo, okutya kwo kuggwaawo. Bw'obuulira ab'omu maka go ky'oyagala n'okiwandiika, ojja kulowooza nti, "Okay, kati nnina enteekateeka. Kati nsobola okugiteeka ku bbali ne ndowooza ku bulamu bwokka."
Obubaka Obutwala Awaka
- Beera mwesimbu era muggule eri ab’omu maka go naddala munno ku mbeera entuufu. Tokweka mawulire okubakuuma.
- Bw’oba oyogera n’abaana, kozesa ebigambo ebyangu ebituukagana n’emyaka gyabwe . Totya kigambo "kookolo," wabula kinnyonnyole mu ngeri gye basobola okutegeera.
- Saba obuyambi mu ngeri etegeerekeka obulungi . Abalala tebasobola kusoma birowoozo byo. Okusaba n’okukkiriza obuyambi kabonero ka maanyi.
- Totya kwogera ku mbeera yo, obujjanjabi, n’ebyo by’oyagala mu biseera eby’omu maaso. Emboozi zino zijja kuwa ggwe n’ab’omu maka go emirembe mu mutima n’okutegeera obulungi.
- Toyita mu lugendo luno wekka. Funa obuwagizi okuva eri omusawo wo, ab’omu maka go, ne mikwano gyo gye weesiga. Noonya okubudaabudibwa bwe kiba kyetaagisa.
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