‘Hnute cancer dotu’ tih thumal i hriat hian engtin nge i ngaih? (Breast Cancer) - Heng rilru put hmang te hi han sawi ila

I dealing with breast cancer , i hre tawh ngei ang, "I fighter," leh "Chak takin awm la, he indona hi bei rawh" tih te hi i hre tawh ngei ang. Heng slogan te hi T-shirt leh social media post-a pink ribbon hmanga siamah te i hmu tawh ngei ang. Chakna leh huaisenna pe tura siam an ni. Mahse, heng thute hi i hriat leh i hmuh hian eng nge i ngaihtuah tak tak? "Fighter" tih label hi mi zawng zawngin an duh em? Hemi chungchang hi tlem a zau deuhin sawi ila.

"Fighter" tih thumal hnuaia ngaihtuahna tha tak chu.

A hmasa berah chuan miin “indo mi” tia a koh che hian thil tum ṭha tak a nei fo tih kan hriatthiam a ngai a ni. Cancer natna vei hi a harsat zia an hria. Chuvangin heng thute hi huaisenna pe turin, fuih nan, nangmah chauh i ni lo tih hriat nawn tir nan an hmang thin.

Ngaihtuah teh, cancer awareness programme i en hian “fight” tih thumal hi hman a ni nasa hle. “Fight Against Cancer” leh “Let’s Fight” te hian he natna nena inzawm hlauhna leh tanpui theih lohna hi tihbo a, chu ai chuan rilru tha tak, tha tak siam a tum zawk a ni. Mi thenkhat tan chuan hei hi chêttîrtu chak tak a ni tak zet a ni. “Fighter” anga i inhriat hian enkawlna hmachhawn tur leh ni harsa tak tak paltlang turin chakna nasa tak a pe che a ni. Chutiang chu a ni lo.

Mahse... engvangin nge he ‘militant’ label hi mi zawng zawngin an duh loh?

Hetah hian a flip side chu kan rawn tarlang e. Breast cancer vei zawng zawng hian "fighter" nih hi an duh vek lo. Chutiang a nih chhan hi eng emaw zat a awm.

• The pressure to always be strong: "Fighter" i nih chuan khawtlang chuan huaisen leh positive taka awm reng turin a beisei che a ni. Mahse, chu chu nun tak takah chuan a dik em? Lungngaihna, hlauhna leh tap duhna ni a awm thin. Enkawlna (`Chemotherapy avanga taksa a chau em em ni a awm thin . Chûng ni zînga pakhatah chuan chak lo anga i inhriat chuan, “indonaah i chak lo” tihna em ni? He pressure ngei pawh hi a chang chuan phurrit lian tak a ni thei.

• Hei hi kan thlan indona a ni lo: Indona hi a tlangpuiin mi pakhatin duhthlanna hmanga a luhna thil a ni. Mahse cancer chu chutiang chu a ni lo. Tu pawhin hmuh duh thil a ni lo; taksaa natna lo awm a ni. Chuvangin mi thenkhat tan chuan hei hi “indona” a ni an tih hian an duh loh zawnga indona hmunah an paih lut ang maiin an inhria.

• “Hneh” leh “hneh” tih ngaihdan: “Indona” tih thumal nen hian “hneh” leh “hneh” tih thumal hi a lo awm a. Cancer chu tihdam a nih chuan, chu mi chuan “indonaah hnehna” a chang niin an sawi. Chuti a nih chuan, mi pakhat chu cancer natnain a thi a nih chuan, chu mi chu “indonaah a chak lo” tihna em ni? “A bei ṭha lo” em ni? Hei hi ngaihdan dik lo leh hrehawm tak a ni. Mi nun chu damdawi lam thil, enkawlna hlawhtlinna leh cancer awm dan ang chiteah a innghat a, chu mi “indona thlarau”-ah a innghat lo.

• Experience awlsam zawka siam: Cancer zinkawng hi a buaithlak hle. Ngaihtuah tur tam tak a awm a, chung zingah chuan natna, operation (mastectomy ang chi), enkawlna avanga nghawng tha lo , sum leh pai lama harsatna, chhungkaw chunga nghawng, leh rilru lama harsatna te a tel. Thumal pakhat, “indona” tih maia i boil vek chuan mi thenkhat chuan an thil tawn thukzia chu a bo tawh ang maiin an hria.

Hei hi "indona" a nih loh chuan hei hi eng nge ni?

"Militant" tih label i duh loh chuan i thil tawn sawina atan thumal dang i hmang thei bawk. Hei hi i thutlukna a ni vek. Mi thenkhat chuan an thil tawn chu hetiang hian an hmu thin.

I rilru put hmang chu ni rawh se – chu chu a pawimawh ber a ni.

He thawnthu pumpui atanga kan hriatthiam tur ber chu i rilru put hmang sawi chhuah dan dik leh dik lo a awm lo tih hi a ni.

• “Fighter” anga i inhriat chuan, chu rilru put hmang chuan chakna a pe che a nih chuan, chu chu a ropui hle. Chu chakna nen chuan i zinkawng zawh rawh.
• Chu thu i hriat chuan i la thinrim a nih chuan, i lungngai a nih chuan, chu rilru put hmang chu 100% in a dik a ni. Chutianga inhriat theihna tur dikna i nei vek a ni.

I ṭhian hnai tak, chhungte emaw, doctor emaw hnenah i rilru put hmang sawipui rawh. A châng chuan, counselor hnêna professional ṭanpuina dîl chu a ṭangkai thei a ni. A pawimawh ber chu label-a fit mai ni lovin, he hun harsa tak paltlang tura puih theihna tur kawng zawn hi a ni.

Engtin chiah nge keini, kan chhehvela mite kan nih angin kan tanpui ang?

Chhungkaw member emaw, thian emaw hnute cancer an neih chuan i thlawp thei ang. Mahse, an duh zawngin i tih a ngai a ni.

• “Fighter i ni” i tih hmain an rilru put hmang zawt hmasa phawt ang che. An rilru put hmang chu ngaithla rawh.
• Thu hmanga fuih ai chuan thiltih kawngah tanpui rawh . “Ei tur ka siamsak thei che em?”, “Damdawi inah ka lo kal ve thei ang em?”, “Inchhung hnathawhnaah tanpui i mamawh em?” Chûngte chu thu ril lo aiin a hlu zâwk hle.
• “Chak takin awm rawh,” tih kha bansan la, “Lungngaihna i neih pawh a pawi lo, i bulah ka awm,” ti rawh. An rilru put hmang zawng zawng chu an hriat theih nan phalsak rawh.

A tawpah chuan hei hi i zinkawng a ni. Eng hming nge i vuah duh tih chu nangmahin i rel a ni. “Indona” a ni thei a, “zin chhuahna” a ni thei a, eng pawh a ni thei bawk. A tha vek.