A ngaihtuah a: "Aw my... a hma zawng aiin a hmeltha zawk, ka hmangaih em em!" I ngaihtuah: "Ka thawk chhuak dawn, ka chak lo lutuk, balloon ang mai ka ni... min khawih chuan ka au chhuak ang!" Ni e, hei hi naupai tih awmzia chu a ni. Hemi hun chhung hian nupa tam tak hmangaihna nun chu roller coaster-a chuang ang mai a ni. An pahnih hian eng thil nge thleng dawn tih te, an rilru put hmang tur te, leh midangte rilru put hmang tur te chu an sawi lawk thei lo. Chutiang thil chu i tawng ve tawh em? Tichuan hlau suh. I sawi dawn nia.
I hmangaihna nun kawng dal dan tur
Nupa hian naupai laiin an inlaichinnaah harsatna tenau te an tawk fo thin. Hei hi chhan tam tak a awm a.
Taksa chhunga hormone inthlak danglamna ,
rilru inthlak danglam nghal , tuar theih loh khawpa
hahna , an taksa inthlak danglam chungchanga ngaihtuahna, hmalam hun hlauhna, leh a chang chuan doctor-te sawi angin sex hman theih lohna te hian hei hi a nghawng vek thei a ni. Hemi hun chhung hian in pahnih in inhnaih zawk tur ni mahse, a chang chuan a kalh zawngin a thleng thin. In inkarah hian emotional distance nasa tak a awm thei. Ngaihtuah teh, hun rei tak chhunga in inhnaih tawnna chu a tawp nghal vek ang maia inhriatna chu, mahse in pahnih hian a chhan chu in hrethiam lo.
A awlsam zawngin sawi ila, mi tam tak chuan inpawlna chu sex hmanna chauh a ni tih an ngaihtuah a. Chuvangin chu chu a theih loh chuan mahni chauha awm tur niin an ngai. Chu chu tihsual lian ber a ni.
Mithiamte chuan sex hman hi mi pahnih inkara inpawlna tawn theihna awmchhun a ni an ti. I ti thei lo a nih pawhin, in inzawmna nghet taka i vawn theihna tur kawng dang tam tak a awm.
In khawih, inkuah, ṭhut dun leh inbiakna, a châng chuan thawmhnaw tel lova inkuah mai mai leh chu rilru put hmang insem mai pawh hian in inzawmna tichaktuah kawng thui tak a zawh thei a ni.
Inbiakna hi a pawimawh ber a ni.
Mi pahnih inkara hmangaihna rilru siam thei thiltithei ber chu
inbiakpawhna hi a ni . I mumang te, i beiseina te, i hlauh te, i duhthusam thup te i sawi hian in inzawmna a tichak a ni. Mahse hetah hian buaina chu a awm. Ngaihtuah teh, i pasal kekawr ipteah i lu chu kuah leh nghah mai mai i duh a ni. Mahse, sex hman tura sawmna niin a ngai. Sex hman a tum hian i hnar thin. A tawpah chuan a thinrim a, in lungngai a, in pahnih hian in inthiam lo hle bawk. Hetah hian eng thil nge kal sual? A awlsam khawp mai.
In pahnih inkarah hian inbiakpawhna, inhriatthiamna a awm lo. A pawimawh ber chu i kawppui hriatthiam tir hi a ni. "Tunah hian sex hman ka duh lo" i tih hian amah emaw, in inzawmna emaw i hnawl tihna a ni lo. Chutih lai chuan i ngaihtuahna zawng zawng chu i pum chhunga naute, leh i taksaa thil thlengte chu a ni.
Biological changes avanga hetiang hian i awm tih hi hmangaihna nen hriatthiam tir rawh .
A chang chuan hei hi pasal tan pawh a harsa thin.
Nupui naupai chuan mipat hmeichhiatna hman chu hreh mah se, chutiang chu a ni reng reng lo. A châng chuan
pasal pawhin sex hman chungchânga ngaih dân inang lo tak tak a nei thei bawk. Hmangaih che mah sela, tlem tal inthiarfihlim a tum mai thei. A chhan pakhat chu ‘nu’ ang chauha a hmuh che vang a ni. Hmeichhiain ‘nu’ ang chauha a inngai a, pakhat ang maia a che a, a pasal pawhin ‘nu’ ang chauha a hmuh chuan inlaichinna hnai tak neihna tur daltu lian tak a ni thei. Chuvangin, ‘Nu’ i nih lai hian nupui hmangaihtu leh mipat hmeichhiatna hmang thiam tak i ni bawk tih theihnghilh suh. Dik tak chuan mipa tam tak chuan an taksa chu eng ang pawhin danglam mah se, engtik lai pawhin an nupui naupai chu an duhawm hle niin an ngai. Chu chu in hriatthiam phawt chuan in pahnih hian a hma ang bawka hmangaihna nei rengin in awm thei ang. A pawimawh ber chu kan mamawh inhriatthiam tawn leh inzah tawn hi a ni. Entîr nân, pasal chuan
a nupui chu a duh zâwnga a ke massage a pe thei a. Nupui chuan a pasal mamawh a hrethiam thei a, hlim taka a awm theih nan a pui thei a, sex hmang lo pawhin a pasal chu a hlim thei hle.
Hei hian i tih duh loh thil ti tura nawr luih tihna a ni lo. I hmangaih tak mamawh ngaihtuah a, i theih ang anga an tan hmun siamsak tihna a ni.
Naupai laia hmangaihna vawn nun theihna kawng tangkai tak tak 7
In inzawmnaa hmangaihna leh inpawhna vawng reng thei tur tips tangkai tak tak te chu hetiang hi a ni.
| Thurawn | Eng nge tih tur |
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| 1. Sex leh inpawlhona hi ngaihthah suh. | I inhmangaih hmasak ber ang maiin han ngaihtuah teh. Sex hman i beisei reng reng lo a, mahse duhthusam i nei a ni. Chuvângin, chu duhna tihlawhtling thei tûrin hmangaihna nên in enkawl ang che. |
| 2. Flirt tan leh rawh. | Inneihna hnua nun a buaithlak chuan inlaichinna bul tantu thilte chu i theihnghilh thin. Chu thilte chu hre reng ang che. In nuihzat ula, hmangaihna thu sawi la, inngaizawng ula. |
| 3. Kar khatah vawi khat ‘date night’ neih thin ang che | Kar khatah ni khat chu in pahnih tan chauh dah rawh. Chumi chhung chuan naute pindan painting emaw, naute hming vuah emaw sawi suh. In pahnih chungchang chauh sawi rawh. Naute a pian hnuah pawh he tih dan hi vawng reng ang che. |
| 4. Inzawmnaah mak tihna belhchhah | Mi dangin a ngaihtuah loh tur thil ti rawh. Candle hmangin inbual la, in pahnih in duh em em movie en la, surprise gift pe rawh. Thil tenawm tak pawh hian danglamna nasa tak a thlen thei. |
| 5. Pasalte: I nupui naupai chu hmangaihna nen enkawl rawh. | In inhmu hmasak ber ṭum khan in sensitivity leh hmangaihna ang bawkin enkawl rawh. A ropui hle ang a, in pahnih in inhnaih lehzual theih nan a pui bawk ang. |
| 6. Nupuite tan: Naupai laiin i pasal chu kawppuiah siam rawh | I naupai chungchang hi i thian tha ber emaw, i nu emaw nena sawi dun chu thil awlsam tak a nih laiin, heng thilte hi i pasal hnenah sawi chhuah a pawimawh hle. Doctor appointment-ah hruai la, ultrasound scan neihpui rawh. Damdawi lam thila sex hman theih loh chhan a awm chuan i pasal hnena hrilhfiah turin i doctor hnenah ngen rawh. |
| 7. In pahnih tan: In inzawmna vawng reng turin proactive takin awm rawh. | In inzawmna chu hnungtawlh tir suh. I inpawhna a tlahniam nia i hriat chuan thil engemaw ti vat rawh. Thil hlu tak in tih angin in inzawmna leh in inhmangaih tawn ang che u. |
A tawpah chuan a pawimawh ber chu lainatna, inhriatthiamna leh hmangaihna nena in enkawl hi a ni. Hei hi hun harsa tak ni mah se, i nunah mi thar a lo luh hun duhawm tak a ni bawk.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Naupai lai hian inzawmnaah hian inpawhna (intimacy) a danglam hi thil pangngai a ni. Lungngai suh, nangmah chauh i ni lo.
- Intimacy hi sex hman mai mai a ni lo. Inkuah te, inbiakna te, leh kut inthlak te pawh chutiang bawk chuan a pawimawh hle.
- I kawppui nen i rilru put hmang, hlauhthawnna leh mamawh chungchang zalen tak leh hmangaihna nena inbiakna neih hi a chinfelna tha ber a ni.
- A châng chuan in pahnih hian he hun hi hlauhna leh lungkhamna in nei thei a ni. Mawhpuh tawn ai chuan pakhat zawk thlirna atanga ngaihtuah tum zawk ang che.
- Mipat hmeichhiatna chungchangah damdawi lam ngaihtuahna emaw rinhlelhna emaw i neih chuan i doctor emaw, doctor emaw rawn hmasa phawt ang che .
Naupai, inlaichinna, sex, hmangaihna, inpawhna,
naupai , inbiakpawhna
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