Mi zawng zawng bula awm duh mi i ni em? Extrovert chu tu nge ni?

Party emaw, get-together emaw-a kal tura tih i nih chuan ‘ni lo’ tih i duh lo em ni? Mi tharte nena inhmuhkhawmna leh mipui pawl khat nena inhmuhkhawmna hian hlimna leh chakna nasa tak a pe che em? Chutiang a nih chuan extrovert i nih theihna chance a awm . Mize hrang hrang kan nei vek a, chu chu kan mizia a ni. Chûng mizia hriatchhuah chu a châng chuan a harsa deuh thei a ni. Hemi chungchang hi vawiinah hian chipchiar zawkin han sawi ila.

He extrovert hi tu nge ni?

A awlsam zawngin, extrovert chu pawn lam atanga an chakna leh ngaihvenna dawngtu a ni a, chu chu midang nena inpawh tawnna atanga an hmuh a ni. Heng thumal pahnih `(Extrovert)` leh `(Introvert)` te hi Carl Jung, psychology chungchang sawiin theihnghilh theih loh mipain a rawn luhtir hmasa ber a ni. Mite chu an chakna an direct dan azirin chi hnih ah then theih a nih thu a sawi bawk.

Extrovert chu a tlangpuiin thusawi thiam tak, mipui nena inpawh tak, active tak leh mi laka inngaitlawm tak a ni tlangpui. I office-ah hian mi zawng zawng nuihzatthlak leh inbiakna nei, mi zawng zawng hre chiang, office trip emaw party emaw i dahkhawm chuan anmahniin an buatsaih hmasa ber tur an ni tih han ngaihtuah teh. Chu mi chu extrovert a ni thei. Thian pawl lian tak an nei a, thian thar siam kawngah pawh an thiam hle bawk.

Kan mize hi kan dam chhungin a danglam thei a. Naupan lai khan mi ngawi reng, introverted tak i ni mai thei. Mahse tunah chuan puitling i nih tawh chuan mi social tak, extroverted tak i ni tawh. Kan genes te, kan evolution te, leh kan seilianna boruak te hian kan mize danglam tak a siam a ni.

Extrovert leh Introvert: An pahnih hi eng nge an danglamna?

I mizia chi hriatthiamna chuan harsatna chinfel dan thar i zawng thei a, in inlaichinna siam\hatna tur, leh i chakna leh chak lohnate hriatthiamna a pe thei che a ni. An pahnih inthlauhna ber chu i chakna i hmuh dan hi a ni. Extrovert chuan mi nena inpawh leh inpawh tawnna atang hian chakna a hmu thin. Introvert chuan mahni chauha awm leh an chhungril lam ngaihtuah a\angin chakna an hmu \hin.

Heng inthlak danglamna te hi a hnuaia table atang hian chiang zawkin kan hre thei ang.

Introvert chuan an ngaihtuahna leh rilru put hmang chu a thup fo va, anmahni chauha an awm laiin a thawk tha ber thin. Mahse extrovert chuan harsatna a tawh chuan midang biak a, chu ngaihtuahnate chu a chhuah chhuah hmangin a chinfelna a zawng chhuak thin. Stress leh lungkhamna kan enkawl hian introvert-in ngawi renga awm a duhna hi a hlawkna a ni thei. Tin, extrovert-te proactivity leh team nena thawhhona an neih hian hruaitu tha tak angin a langsar hle bawk.

Engtin nge extrovert i nih leh nih loh i hriat theih ang?

Extrovert nge introvert tih hriat hi science dik tak a ni lo. A tehna pakhat mah a awm lo. Mahse i mize chi hrang hrang hriat theihna tur kawng engemaw zat a awm. Kawng khat chu Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) ang chi online personality test neih hi a ni. A nih loh leh, extrovert pakhat nen hian common traits i nei em tih i hmu thei bawk.

Chutiang thil ṭhenkhat chu hetiang hi a ni:

• Mi dangte nêna hun i hman hian chakna leh hahdamna i nei ṭhîn .
• If you’re alone for too long , i chakna a tlachham ang a, nunna nei lo angin i inhria ang a, i bo ang.
• Mi ngaihven hlawh ber nih i duh a, thil hriat loh hmachhawn pawh i hlau lo.
• Inbiakna bul tan chu nuam i ti a, i hriat loh tak tak nen pawh . A tam zawkah chuan i ngaihtuahna mumal taka siam turin i inbia thin.
• Mite inkhawmna hmuna zin leh party buatsaih turin hma i la fo thin .
• Party emaw, get-together emawa sawmna chu i hnawl tam lo hle .
• Eng boruak leh dinhmun pawh awlsam takin i insiamrem thei. Mahni duhthusam thutlukna siam hian i nunah hlimna a thlen thin.

Hei hi thil dum leh var tak tak a ni lo. Hnathawh lamah chuan extrovert tak, buaina awm lovin meeting kaihruai thei i ni mai thei. Mahse, in lama i lo haw hunah chuan lehkhabu chhiar emaw, mahni chauha movie en emaw duhtu i ni mai thei. Chu chu `(Ambivert)` traits i nei tihna a ni. I mizia hriat chian dan tha ber chu mahni inngaihtuah hi a ni. I thil tawn , i duhzawng thilte chu dik takin ngaihtuah rawh. Tin, kawng tha tak chu i thian rintlak leh i hnaih berte zawh hi a ni.

Extrovert nihna thatna leh that lohna

Extrovert nihna nen hian mizia tha tam tak a awm a. Khawtlang inlaichinna siam thiam tak an ni. Heng khawtlang nun thiamna tha tak takte hian ṭhian nihna vawng reng turin a pui a, an nunah lungawina sang tak an nei bawk. Tin, an ngaihdan chiang taka an sawi chhuah theihna hian vantlang hmaa thusawi leh inbiakpawhna nasa tak hna thawk thiam tak a siam bawk.

Mahse, harsatna nei lo a ni lo. Extrovert tan chuan mahni chauha awm reng hi a harsa thei hle. Tin, an ngaihtuah hmain thu an sawi fo bawk a, chu chuan harsatna engemaw zat a thlen thei bawk. Pawl khata inbiakna an thunun duh avangin ngaithlatu tha nih chu a harsa deuh thei a ni.

Introvert leh extrovert te hian chakna leh chak lohna an nei vek a. Ambivert, a pahnih a tha ber neitu chuan advantage lian ber a nei thei. A pawimawh ber chu i mize chi (personality type) nena inzawm harsatnate hriat chian a, i chaknate hmang tangkai turin a tul anga insiamrem hi a ni.