He wahangu tō tamaiti i ētahi wāhi? Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te Selective Mutism - me kōrero tāua!

He tino kōrero nui tāu tamaiti i te kāinga, e pānui tonu ana, e kōrero nui ana ahakoa e takaro ana. Engari ina haere rātou ki te kura, ki ngā whare o ngā whanaunga, ki ngā pāti rānei, te āhua nei kua wahangu katoa tōna waha? Ka pōkaikaha noa iho rātou i ō rātou māhunga, kāore e kōrero ina pātaihia mai tētahi mea ki a rātou? Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe he whakama tēnei, he pakeke rānei, he paku kōrero noa iho rānei. Engari he mea hohonu ake pea, he mate hinengaro nā te wehi me te manukanuka . I tēnei rā, ka kōrero tātou mō tēnei mate e kiia nei ko te 'Selective Mutism'.

He aha te Mutism Kōwhiringa?

Ki te whakarāpopototanga, ko te Wahangu Whiriwhiri ko te kore e taea te kōrero i roto i ētahi āhuatanga pāpori, i ngā wāhi e kore ai koe e pai, e mataku rānei. Ehara tēnei i te mea āta whakaarohia . I ngā wāhi e mōhio ana koe, e haumaru ana hoki, pērā i te kāinga, ka taea e koe te kōrero me te kore raruraru. Engari i ngā wāhi pērā i te kura, i ngā wāhi rānei kei reira ngā tāngata tauhou, te āhua nei kua mau tō reo.

He rerekē tēnei i te tangata e mā ana. He mate manukanuka te wahangu whiriwhiri. He maha ngā wā ka tīmata i te tamarikitanga, tata ki te 5 tau te pakeke. He maha ngā wā ka kitea e ngā tamariki kōhungahunga me ngā ākonga o te tau tuatahi. Heoi, ka pāngia hoki ngā taiohi me ngā pakeke.

E kiia ana he nui ake te kitea o tēnei mate i roto i ngā kōtiro i ngā tama. Engari tera pea nā ngā tirohanga a te hapori. Heoi, he tino onge tēnei mate. Kotahi i roto i te 100 tāngata ka pāngia.

He aha ngā tohu o te tangata e pāngia ana e te wahangu whiriwhiri?

Ko te kupu "whiriwhiri" i roto i te ingoa e kī ana he mea tēnei ka puta i roto i ngā āhuatanga kua tohua anake . Arā, ka taea e koe te kōrero me te kore raruraru i roto i ngā āhuatanga e pai ana koe. Heoi, i roto i ngā āhuatanga e kore ai koe e pai, e mataku rānei, ka tino uaua, ki te kore e taea, te kōrero.

Ka rerekē pea ēnei tohu i ia tangata, i ia tangata. Ko ētahi tāngata kāore e kōrero, ko ētahi ia he iti noa te reo e kōrero ana.

He āhua kāore e taea te kōrero, te tata rānei ki te kōrero

Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te karo i te kōrero i ngā wā katoa e taea ana, me te whakamutu rānei i te kōrero. Tērā pea ka pēnei te āhua:

• Kei te āhua kāore e taea e koe te kōrero. Ka puta tēnei nā te mea kua whakapakeketia tō hinengaro e te nui rawa o te wehi me te manukanuka. Ahakoa te āhua nei kāore koe e hiahia ki te kōrero, ehara tēnei i te mea e mahia ana e koe i runga i te whakaaro, engari ka tupu noa iho.
• He pūmau tōna tinana, ā, te āhua nei kua kōhatuhia ia ki te kōhatu. Pērā i te tia e mau ana i te mārama, e mataku ana.
• He āhua kau te āhua o te mata .
• Ka karo i te pa atu ki ngā kanohi.
• Ka karo, ka kore rānei e whai wāhi ki ngā taunekeneke pāpori . Whakaarohia, ina pātai te kaiako i tētahi mea i roto i te akomanga, ka titiro te tamaiti nei ki te papa i te wā e whakautu ana ngā tamariki kē atu.
• Kāore rātou e tono ana mō ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e rātou. Hei tauira, ka haere pea rātou ki te wharepaku i te kura me te kore e tono ki te kaiako, ā, ka tono pea rātou mō tētahi mea i roto i ō rātou kākahu.Tērā anō hoki ngā wā me mimi koe.
• Ka whanonga āta whakararuraru kia kore ai e kōrero (hei tauira, te tohetohe, te tangi).

Te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kore-waha

• Engari ko ngā kupu , ka whakamahia e rātou ngā oro e mārama ana te katoa, pērā i te "Uu huun" (āe) me te "Āh ā" (kāo).
• Hei karo i te kōrero , ka tuhia e rātou ngā mea, ka mahi i ngā mea pēnei i te whakaatu i tētahi mea ki a koe i roto i tētahi pukapuka .
• Ka whakamahi i ngā nekehanga me ngā āhua o te kanohi hei utu mō ngā kupu (hei tauira, te pōkaikaha, te tohu).

He iti, he iti rānei te kōrero

• Kua tae te wā ki te whakautu.
• Ka whakautua e rātou mā te kupu kotahi, e rua rānei , ka whakamahia rānei he rerenga poto rawa.
• Ka ngunguru, ka pepeke, ka pōturi rānei tā rātou kōrero, me te kōrero hāhā.
• Ka kōrero me te reo kua rerekē (hei tauira, pērā i te karetao, mā te whakarerekē rānei i te teitei o tōna reo noa).

He aha i puta ai tēnei wahangu whiriwhiri?

Kāore anō kia tino mārama ngā tohunga ki te tino take o tēnei, engari e whakaaro ana rātou he maha ngā āhuatanga ka whai pānga ki tēnei.

Ētahi atu āhuatanga hauora hinengaro

He hononga kaha tō te wahangu whiriwhiri ki ētahi atu āhuatanga hauora hinengaro. Ehara i te mea koinei anake ngā take, engari ko te hunga whai āhuatanga pēnei ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia e te wahangu whiriwhiri.

• Mate Manukanuka Hapori: He mea tino noa tēnei i waenga i te hunga whai wahangu whiriwhiri. E ai ki ngā tohunga, kei waenganui i te 75% me te 100% o te hunga ka pāngia e ngā āhuatanga e rua.
• Phobias: Te wehi nui ki ngā mea maha.
• Ētahi atu mate manukanuka.
• Mate Autōmia.
• Manukanuka Wehenga: Te nui rawa o te wehi kei wehea koe i ōu mātua.
• Mate ahotea muri i te whara (PTSD): Te ahotea hinengaro e puta ana i muri i tētahi aituā mamae.

Hītori whānau, ngā awe ira rānei

Ka taea e ngā mate manukanuka te horapa i roto i ngā whānau. Ko te tangata whai wahangu whiriwhiri, he nui ake te tūponotanga ka whai whanaunga tata (matua, teina, tuakana, tamaiti) kei a ia te mate, tētahi atu mate manukanuka rānei.

Ētahi atu mate kōrero

Tērā pea ka whanake te wahangu whiriwhiri i ētahi tamariki nā te manukanuka mō te āhua o tā rātou kōrero, nā te uaua rānei ki te mārama ki ngā kōrero a ētahi atu (hei tauira, ngā mate tukatuka rongo , ngā whakaroa ako).

Ka pā mai pea tēnei i ngā uauatanga kōrero, pērā i te kore matatau o te reo . Tērā pea ka whanake te wahangu whiriwhiri i ētahi tamariki nā te mea kāore rātou e pai ki ō rātou ake reo, e mataku rānei ki te āhua o te tangi ina kōrero rātou.

Ngā āhuatanga pāpori

Ka taea hoki e ētahi āhuatanga pāpori te whakawhanake i te wahangu whiriwhiri i roto i ngā tamariki.

• Te whakatoi a ētahi atu.
• Ngā āhuatanga kino, ngā mahi tukino rānei.
• Ngā raruraru whānau (hei tauira, te tukino kare ā-roto, ā-waha, ā-tinana rānei i te kāinga).
• Te neke ki tētahi whenua, ki tētahi rohe rānei e kōrerotia ana tētahi atu reo matua.

He aha ngā raruraru pea o te wahangu whiriwhiri?

Ka pā kino pea tēnei āhuatanga ki tō koiora i ngā huarahi maha.

• Te whakamā o te pāpori, te mokemoke, te noho motuhake rānei.
• Te whanaketanga o ētahi atu āhuatanga, tohu rānei e pā ana ki te manukanuka.
• Te pānga ki ngā mahi mātauranga, ki te whakatutukitanga rānei o te mahi .

Me pēhea te tautuhi i tēnei?

He maha ngā wā ka tātaritatia te wahangu whiriwhiri e tētahi tohunga hauora hinengaro , pērā i te tākuta hinengaro, te tohunga hinengaro rānei. Ka taea hoki e ngā Tohunga Mate Kōrero-Reo, e ngā Kaiwhakaora Kōrero rānei te āwhina ki te whakakore i ētahi atu āhuatanga me te whakatau i te mate.

Mā te tākuta e tātaritanga tēnei mate ka tirohia ngā tohu me ngā whanonga. Ka pātai atu rātou ki a koe (ki tāu tamaiti rānei) mō ēnei wheako me ētahi atu āhuatanga pea e whai wāhi ana ki tēnei.

I te nuinga o te wā, ka whakamahia e tō tākuta ngā pātai me ngā rārangi arowhai hei whakatau mēnā kei a koe te mate. E ai ki te DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fifth edition text revision™) a te American Psychiatric Association, kia taea ai te tātaritanga o te wahangu whiriwhiri, me tutuki i a koe ēnei paearu e rima:

1. Kāore tonu e kōrero i ngā wā pāpori e tika ana kia kōrero koe, engari kāore he raruraru ki te kōrero i ētahi atu wā.

2. Ka pāngia te oranga pāpori, te oranga mātauranga, te oranga mahi rānei e te kore kōrero.

3. Neke atu i te kotahi marama te roa o te kore e taea te kōrero.

4. Ehara i te mea kāore e taea e koe te kōrero, te mārama rānei ki te reo matua e whakamahia ana e ētahi atu te kore kōrero.

5. Kāore e taea te uaua ki te kōrero te puta mai i tētahi atu mate kōrero, pērā i te whanoke . Waihoki, kāore e taea te hono anake ki te mate autism , ki ngā mate schizophrenia , ki ētahi atu āhuatanga hinengaro rānei.

He rongoā kei reira? Ka taea te whakaora katoa?

Mā te rongoā, ka taea te whakaiti i te kaha o ngā tohu me te auau o te puta mai. Mēnā ka kitea, ka rongoātia hoki i te wā wawe, ka memeha katoa pea ngā tohu o ētahi tāngata.

Ko ngā maimoatanga tino noa ko:

Te rongoā hauora hinengaro

Te whakaora hauora hinengaro (ina koa ko te Whakaora Whanoke Hinengaro, CBT rānei)) te maimoatanga tuatahi e whakamahia ana i te nuinga o te wā. Koinei hoki te mea e tino kitea ai ngā hua. Mā te rongoā whanonga koe e āwhina ki te mārama me te aro atu ki te manukanuka me ētahi atu kare ā-roto e puta ai te wahangu whiriwhiri. Ka āwhina hoki i a koe ki te whakahaere i ngā whanonga whakararuraru ka haere tahi me te mate.

I te wā e rongoatia ana ngā tamariki ki tēnei rongoā, he mea nui kia whai wāhi mai ō rātou kaitiaki (ngā mātua, ngā kaitiaki). He mea tino nui tā rātou tautoko mō te angitu o te rongoā.

Whakaora Kōrero

Ko te mahi tahi me te kaiwhakaora kōrero ko te mahi tahi me te kaiwhakaora kōrero. He tino āwhina tēnei ina kitea te wahangu whiriwhiri me te mate kōrero.

Ngā rongoā

Mena kāore e whai hua te whakaora hauora hinengaro, te kōrerorero rānei anake, ka taea hoki te whakamahi i te rongoā hei wāhanga o te maimoatanga.

Ko ngā rongoā tino noa mō te wahangu whiriwhiri ko ngā SSRI (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) . Ahakoa e whakamahia ana ēnei hei rongoā i te pouri, ka taea hoki e rātou te āwhina i ngā mate manukanuka pēnei i te wahangu whiriwhiri. Tērā pea ka āwhina ētahi atu rongoā. Ka taea e tō tākuta (te tākuta rānei o tō tamaiti) te kōrero atu ki a koe mō ēnei mea, me te āwhina i a koe ki te whiriwhiri i te mea tika māu.

He pai ake te pātai ki tō tākuta mō ngā pānga taha o ngā rongoā.

He aha ngā mea ka tupu mēnā he momo wahangu whiriwhiri tōku, tō taku tamaiti rānei?

Mena kei te pāngia te tamaiti e tēnei āhuatanga, ka pā ki āna mahi kura, ki te āhua o tā rātou taunekeneke ki ngā hoa, me tōna kaha ki te kimi hoa. I ētahi wā, ka whakamatautauria pea ngā tamariki kia noho puku, ahakoa i roto i ngā āhuatanga tino nui.

Ki te mea he wahangu whiriwhiri tōu i a koe e pakeke ana, ka pā tonu pea ngā pānga kino. Ka uaua pea te kimi hoa me te hanga whanaungatanga (pāpori, ngaio, aroha). Ka pā hoki ki ō akoranga me tō mahi.

Mō te tini o te tangata, ka memeha haere ngā tohu i a rātou e pakeke haere ana. Heoi, i ētahi wā ka mau tonu ngā tohu, ā, ka rite ki ētahi atu mate manukanuka (ina koa ko te manukanuka pāpori).

Ki te kitea wawetia, ā, ka rongoatia, he tino pai ngā hua. Ki te kitea wawetia, ā, ka rongoatia, ka taea e te nuinga o te tangata te whakakore i tēnei mate, te aro atu rānei ki tēnei mate, ka ora tonu. Kātahi ka kore e nui te pānga ki ō rātou oranga.

Heoi, ki te kore e kitea, kāore hoki e rongoatia, kāore e tino pai ngā hua. Ehara tēnei i te mate morearea, engari he nui ngā pānga kino.

Ka taea te ārai i te wahangu whiriwhiri?

Engari, kāore e taea te ārai i te wahangu whiriwhiri. Kāore ngā tohunga i te tino mārama ki te pūtake, nō reira kāore he huarahi hei whakaiti i te mōrearea o tōna puta.

Me pēhea taku āwhina i taku tamaiti mēnā he wahangu whiriwhiri tōna?

Tērā pea ka pōuri koe ina kore tō tamaiti e kōrero i ētahi wā, ā, ina mea koe, "Kōrero, kōrero," engari kāore ia e kōrero. Ka nui ake pea tēnei pōuri ina uaua tō tamaiti ki te karo i te kōrero, pērā i te tangi.

Engari, ko te mea nui kia maumahara ko te wahangu whiriwhiri he mate hinengaro. Ehara i te mea ka taea e tāu tamaiti te whakahaere. Engari, ka taea e koe te whakahaere i te mate o tāu tamaiti me te āhua o tāu urupare ki āna tohu.

Anei ētahi mea nui hei maumahara māu:

• Kia whakamarie, kia haumaru hoki tāu tamaiti. Kaua e akiaki, kaua hoki e akiaki i a ia ki ngā wāhi e mataku ai, e manukanuka ai rānei ia. Ehara hoki i te mea pai te kōrero mō tēnei raruraru ki mua i a ia, nā te mea ka whakama ai ia, ka nui ake hoki tōna mataku.
• Whakaitihia te wehi me te manukanuka, kātahi ka neke atu. Tīmata mā te whakatenatena i tāu tamaiti kia whakapuaki i a ia anō i ngā huarahi e pai ai ia ki a ia. Tuatahi, āta whakamōhiotia ia ki ngā taunekeneke pāpori, kātahi ka āwhina i a ia kia kōrero.
• Kia manawanui, ā, hoatu he wā ki tāu tamaiti kia kōrero. Ki te kōrero koe mōna, tera pea ka whakaaro rātou kei te hē rātou. Mā tēnei ka uaua ake mā rātou te wikitoria i tō rātou wehi me te manukanuka mō te kōrero. Āwhina kia mārama rātou he mea pai te whakaaro i mua i te whakautu, me te whai wā hoki.
• Whakamoemititia āna mahi. Ki te kōrero tō tamaiti, whakamoemititia ia mō tēnā. Hoatu he utu ki a ia (me ngā kupu) mō āna mahi. Kia pai tōna ngākau ki te kōrero.
• Kaua e ngana ki te whakatenatena i a rātou mā te whiu i a rātou. Ko ngā tamariki e wehi ana kei whiua mēnā kāore rātou e kōrero, tera pea ka uaua ake ki a rātou te kōrero nā te mea ka nui ake tō rātou mataku.

He aha ngā momo mea e "whakaoho ana" i te wahangu whiriwhiri?

Ko ngā "whakaoho" o te wahangu whiriwhiri he āhuatanga, he take rānei e kore ai e kōrero te tangata whai mate pēnei. Ko ētahi tauira noa ko:

• Te āhua nei he tino tata te noho a ētahi atu tāngata, me te mea nei kei te tomo rātou ki ō rātou ake rohe .
• Ko ētahi e kōrero nui ana, e whanonga kino ana.
• He tangata ke, he tāngata hou.
• Ko ngā āhuatanga ā-tinana o ētahi atu, hei tauira , ko te hunga roa rawa, ā, he nunui te āhua.
• Ngā nekehanga, ngā whanonga rānei a ētahi atu, hei tauira, te hunga e āhua manukanuka ana, e kore e pai ki te hoahoa, e mahi ana rānei i ngā nekehanga kino .
• Ngā wāhi he nui ake te tangata, he nui ake te haruru.
• Ngā wāhi e pā ana ki ngā maharatanga pouri, kino.
• Ngā wāhi kāore anō kia tae atu ahau i mua.
• He mea hou rawa, he āhuatanga rānei kua pā ki te tamaiti tētahi wheako kāore i angitu i mua.

Ko ēnei ētahi o ngā mea e tino kitea ana. Tērā pea he rerekē, he motuhake ake ngā mea e pā ana ki ētahi tāngata i ēnei. Ka taea hoki te huri i ngā mea e pā ana i roto i te wā.

He momo autism te wahangu whiriwhiri?

Kāo, he rerekē ngā āhuatanga e rua o te Mate Ngaro Whiriwhiri me te Mate Āhuatanga Autism. Heoi, he nui ake te tūponotanga o te hunga whai autism ki te pāngia e te mate ngaro whiriwhiri.

Hei whakamutunga, ngā mea hei maumahara (Karere hei tango ki te kāinga)

Ko te wahangu whiriwhiri he āhuatanga e kore ai e taea e te tamaiti te kōrero nā te wehi, te manukanuka rānei. He maha ngā wā ka tīmata mai i te tau kura, engari ka pā hoki ki ngā taiohi me ngā pakeke. He mea nui kia mārama ko ngā tamariki me tēnei āhuatanga ehara i te mea he pakeke, he kore aro rānei. Ehara hoki i te mea ka taea e rātou te whakahaere i a rātou anō.

Ki te whakaaro koe he wahangu whiriwhiri tō tamaiti, kōrero ki tā rātou tākuta tamariki, ki tētahi atu tohunga hauora rānei. He maimoatanga kei te wātea, ā, ko te wawe o te tīmatanga o te maimoatanga, ko te pai ake o te hua. Mā tō whakatenatena me tō tautoko, ka taea e tāu tamaiti te ako ki te kōrero mōna ake me te kore e ngaro tōna reo i te wehi, i te manukanuka rānei.

` Te wahangu whiriwhiri, te kore kōrero, te hauora hinengaro o ngā tamariki, te manukanuka, te mataku pāpori, ngā mate kōrero, ngā whanonga o ngā tamariki