Ndizachibadwa kumva kusungulumwa, chisoni, ndi kudzimva wolakwa kwambiri amayi anu, abambo anu, kapena munthu wapafupi nanu, amene mwamusamalira mwachikondi komanso modzipereka kwa nthawi yayitali, ataloledwa ku malo osamalira okalamba. Mafunso monga "Kodi sindinamusamalire bwino?" ndi "Kodi ndinapanga chisankho choyenera?" ayenera kuti adabwera m'maganizo mwanu kambirimbiri. Musaganize kuti muli nokha ndi malingaliro awa. Izi ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakumana nazo.
Kodi mungachepetse bwanji kulemera komwe mukumva?
Nthawi zina, kupanga chisankho chonga ichi n'kofunika kuti wokondedwa wanu akhale otetezeka komanso osangalala. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, simungasiye kumva chisoni komanso kudziimba mlandu. Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite panthawiyi ndikulankhula za momwe mukumvera ndi banja lanu kapena mnzanu wodalirika. Nthawi zina, kulowa nawo gulu lothandizirana ndi ena omwe adakumanapo ndi zomwezo kapena kupeza thandizo kuchokera kwa aphungu kungakuthandizeni kumva bwino.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi kuuza munthu wina zakukhosi kwanu, osamubisa mumtima mwake. Kumbukirani kuti simuli nokha.
Kodi mumatani ngati wokondedwa wanu wakwiya?
Pokhapokha ngati matenda a dementia a wokondedwa wanu atakula kwambiri, sangakonde malo atsopano. Nthawi zina amazolowera bwino malo atsopano. Koma nthawi zambiri, makamaka kumayambiriro kwa matendawa, angakudzudzuleni, akulira ndikukufuulirani nthawi iliyonse mukapita, "Nditengereni kunyumba."
Pa nthawi ngati iyi, mtima wanu ukhoza kukhala wopweteka kwambiri. Koma dzikumbutseni chifukwa chake munapanga chisankhochi . Munapanga chisankhochi chifukwa simunathe kuwapatsa chisamaliro chapadera chomwe amafunikira kunyumba, sichoncho? Chifukwa chake, khalani oleza mtima ndipo muwapatse chikondi ndi chisamaliro chambiri. Apatseni nthawi yoti azolowere malo awo atsopano. Chikondi chanu chachikondi ndi chamtengo wapatali kwambiri kwa iwo panthawiyi.
Kodi muli ndi kukayikira za chisamaliro cha tsiku ndi tsiku?
Mantha akulu kwa anthu ambiri ndi akuti, "Kodi anthu kumeneko adzasamalira bwino amayi/abambo anga?" Izi zingakhale zovuta kuzivomereza, chifukwa ngakhale kuti mwadzipereka kwa wokondedwa wanu kunyumba, wogwira ntchito m'modzi m'nyumba yosungira okalamba ayenera kusamalira anthu angapo nthawi imodzi.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa zenizeni apa. Mutha kupeza lingaliro la kusiyana kumeneku kuchokera pa tebulo ili m'munsimu.
| Dipatimenti Yosamalira | Chisamaliro chomwe munapereka kunyumba | Chisamaliro choperekedwa m'nyumba zosungira okalamba |
|---|---|---|
| Chisamaliro chaumwini | Munthu m'modzi walandira chidwi chanu chonse. | Wantchito m'modzi amasamalira anthu 8 kapena kuposerapo. |
| Maphunziro | Muli ndi chikondi ndi chidziwitso. Mwina simunaphunzitsidwe bwino. | Ngakhale ambiri ali ndi chidziwitso ndi maphunziro, ena angakhale ndi maphunziro ochepa. |
| Kusaka zolakwika | Mukhoza kuthetsa vuto mwamsanga mukaliwona. | Vuto liyenera kufotokozedwa kwa wogwira ntchito kapena manejala woyenera. |
Kodi mumamanga bwanji ubale wabwino ndi antchito?
Njira yabwino yothetsera mantha ndi kukayikira kwanu ndikumanga ubale wabwino ndi antchito .
- Lankhulani modekha: Ngati pali vuto, lankhulani modekha komanso mwaulemu ndi wantchito amene akukhudzidwayo. Nthawi zambiri, izi zidzathetsa vutoli. Ngati sichoncho, lankhulani ndi Mtsogoleri kapena Mtsogoleri wa Anamwino.
- Alemekezeni: Kumbukirani, nawonso ndi anthu ogwira ntchito molimbika komanso opsinjika maganizo. Amakondanso kuchitiridwa ulemu.
- Pitani pafupipafupi: Pitani kwa wokondedwa wanu nthawi iliyonse ikatheka.
- Gawani zomwe mukudziwa: Uzani antchito za zomwe amayi/abambo anu amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda, komanso njira zowachepetsera nkhawa.
- Yamikirani zabwino: Auzeni zabwino zomwe akuchita. Komanso, ngati mukuona kuti chinachake chiyenera kusinthidwa, chineneni mofatsa komanso popanda kuwakhumudwitsa.
Kodi mukuopa kutaya zinthu zamtengo wapatali kapena kuchitiridwa nkhanza?
Nkhanza zomwe akatswiri osamalira ana amachita sizichitika kawirikawiri monga momwe zimachitikira kunyumba. Koma sizingatheke. Ngati muli ndi kukayikira kulikonse kuti wokondedwa wanu akuzunzidwa mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo, nenani kwa namwino wamkulu kapena manejala nthawi yomweyo . Ngati muwona nkhanza, nenani kwa mkulu wa chipatalacho ndi bungwe lanu la Adult Protective Services Agency.
Ndi bwino kusunga zinthu zamtengo wapatali, monga zodzikongoletsera, nanu, chifukwa wokondedwa wanu angaiwale kwinakwake, kapena wina angawataye. Komanso, sungani zinthu zanu monga mano opangira mano, magalasi a maso, ndi zothandizira kumva zolembedwa bwino.
Kodi simumapita kwa dokotala pafupipafupi?
Madokotala nthawi zambiri sapita ku malo osungira okalamba ngati awa tsiku lililonse, monga momwe amachitira m'zipatala. Izi zitha kukhala zachilendo kwa inu. Kuchuluka kwa maulendo kudzadalira thanzi ndi zosowa za wokondedwa wanu.
M'mabungwe ena, anamwino kapena othandizira madokotala amalembedwa ntchito kuti apereke chithandizo chamankhwala m'malo mwa madokotala.
Komabe, njira yabwino yolankhulirana ndi dokotala wa wokondedwa wanu ingakhale kuwayimbira foni. Ngati muli ndi nkhawa iliyonse yokhudza thanzi la wokondedwa wanu, musaiwale kulankhula ndi dokotala wawo za vutoli .
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Ndi zachilendo kumva chisoni, kuda nkhawa, komanso kudziimba mlandu wokondedwa wanu akaikidwa m'nyumba yosungira okalamba. Musazengereze kulankhula za izi.
- Zidzatenga nthawi kuti wokondedwa wanu azolowere malo atsopano. Mvetsetsani mkwiyo wake kapena chisoni chake, ndipo mupatseni chikondi ndi chithandizo.
- Pangani ubale wabwino komanso waulemu ndi ogwira ntchito yosamalira odwala. Izi zithandiza kwambiri thanzi la wokondedwa wanu.
- Siyani zinthu zamtengo wapatali kunyumba ndipo lembani zinthu zanu monga mankhwala otsukira mano ndi magalasi momveka bwino. Nenani kwa akuluakulu nthawi yomweyo ngati mukukayikira kuti mwachita zankhanza.
- Kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti munapanga chisankho ichi chifukwa cha chitetezo ndi ubwino wawo. Munachita zonse zomwe mungathe.
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