Kodi mukukumbukira tsiku limene dokotala anakuuzani kuti mwana wanu ali ndi autism? Mwina munamva ngati dziko lonse lakugwerani. Mwadzidzidzi, moyo wanu, maloto anu, mapulani anu, chilichonse chinasintha. Izi si zanu zokha, komanso za amayi ndi abambo onse omwe akumana ndi izi. Koma uwu si mapeto a ulendo, koma chiyambi cha ulendo watsopano, wapadera. Lero, tiyeni tikambirane za momwe tingasungire ubale wachikondi komanso wolimba m'banja pamene mukuyenda ulendo watsopanowu.
Matenda a Autism ndi vuto lomwe limakhudza banja lonse.
Madokotala amanena kuti matenda a autism samakhudza mwana yekha, komanso banja lonse . Monga momwe mwala umagwera m'dziwe, kuwonjezera mwana wokhala ndi autism m'banjamo kungakhudze mayi, bambo, abale, agogo, ndi achibale ena. Ngakhale banja lililonse ndi losiyana, pali mavuto ena omwe aliyense amakumana nawo. Kukula kwa mavutowa kumatha kusiyana malinga ndi kuopsa kwa matenda a autism a mwana. Koma mavuto omwe timakumana nawo ndi ofanana kwambiri.
Vuto loyamba: Kusintha kwa ziyembekezo za makolo
Kodi tili ndi maloto angati pa mwana wathu? Adzapita kusukulu ndikuphunzira bwino, kupita ku sukulu, kupeza ntchito yabwino, kukwatira ndikukhala mosangalala... Tili ndi maloto chikwi ngati awa m'maganizo mwathu. Koma tikazindikira kuti mwana wathu ali ndi vuto la autism, ziyembekezo zimenezi zimasintha kwambiri. Zili ngati kukonzekera ulendo wokongola wopita ku Italy ndikutsika ndege ndikumva "Takulandirani ku Holland."
Mungakwiye mwadzidzidzi, mungamve chisoni . Mungaganize kuti, "Ndimafuna kupita ku Italy! N’chifukwa chiyani munandibweretsa kuno?" Koma ngati muli ndi chisoni ndi Italy, simudzatha kuona kukongola kwa Holland, tulips, ndi mphepo.
Ndipo ulendo uwu ndi womwewo. Mwina sungakhale moyo womwe mumaganizira. Koma moyo uwu ndi wosiyana, wapadera, komanso wokongola . Kuti tiwone kukongola kumeneko, tiyenera kusankha bwino.
Vuto Lachiwiri: Kuopa Abale ndi Alongo
Ngati pali ana ena kuwonjezera pa mwana yemwe ali ndi autism, chimodzi mwa mantha akuluakulu omwe makolo amakhala nawo ndi akuti, "Kodi mwana winayo adzatsala? Kodi iye adzandisiya?" Ndizachibadwa kumva ngati mulibe nthawi yosamalira ana anu ena, ndi zinthu monga chithandizo ndi maulendo a dokotala, pamene mukuthamangathamanga kuti mupeze mwana wanu wokhala ndi autism.
Koma modabwitsa, kafukufuku wapeza kuti abale ndi alongo a ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amazolowera bwino m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo.Amaphunzira kutenga udindo ndi kusonyeza chifundo mwachangu kuposa ena.
Koma sizikutanthauza kuti tiyenera kuwaiwala. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuwapatsa mwayi wokhala ndi nthawi yokhala okha ndi ife.
| Mavuto omwe abale ndi alongo angakumane nawo | Zimene tingachite monga makolo |
|---|---|
| Kuganiza kuti alibe chisamaliro cha makolo. | Khalani nokha tsiku limodzi pa sabata ndi mwana ameneyo (monga, amayi amakhala ndi mwana amene ali ndi autism pamene abambo akusewera ndi mwana wina). |
| Kuchita manyazi kapena mantha ndi khalidwe la m'bale wanu akabwera kunyumba kapena kusukulu. | Lolani mwana wanu kuti alankhule momasuka za momwe akumvera. Muthandizeni kumvetsetsa kuti ndi zachilendo kuti inu mumve choncho. |
| Kukwiya kuti sangathe kuchita zomwe akufuna chifukwa cha m'bale wawo wa autistic. | Lemekezani malingaliro a mwana wanu. Fotokozani kuti, "Simukunena zimenezo chifukwa ndinu mwana woipa." Athandizeni kuthana ndi malingaliro amenewo. |
Nthawi zina, pamene mwana wa autism sangathe kudziletsa, abale ake amatha. Ubwenzi umenewo ndi wolimba kwambiri.
Vuto lachitatu: Zotsatira pa ukwati
Nkhani imeneyi ndi yovuta kwambiri. Mwana akapezeka ndi autism , imaika mavuto ambiri paukwati uliwonse. Nthawi zambiri, amayi ndi abambo amakumana ndi vutoli mosiyana.
Kawirikawiri, ngakhale amayi akumva chisoni chosatha, amachitapo kanthu mwachangu . Amayamba kufunafuna njira zochiritsira mwana, omwe madokotala angapeze, ndi chilichonse chomwe angachitire mwanayo. Koma abambo ambiri amaganizira ntchito zawo . Ena safuna kuvomereza izi, kapena amayesa kuzithawa.
Pamene awiriwa akuganiza mosiyana, ming'alu yoyamba muukwati imayamba kuonekera. Mayiyo ataya munthu woti akambirane naye za chisoni chake. Yankho labwino kwambiri pa izi ndikupeza nthawi yoti nonse mukhale otanganidwa bwanji. Kungakhale kulankhula kwa mphindi 15 ana atagona, kapena kukhala pamodzi ndikumwa tiyi. Ndikofunikanso kupeza nthawi yokhala nokha.
"Ngakhale mutakhala ndi mphindi 15 zoti muzimusamba nokha, ndizoyenera. Pezani nthawi yoyenera yochitira zinthu zazing'ono, monga chinthu chomwe munkachikonda, monga kuwerenga buku, kumvetsera nyimbo."
Mavuto achinayi ndi asanu: Chimwemwe cha Banja ndi Moyo Wocheza ndi Anthu Ena
Kodi zinthu zomwe tinkachita mosasamala, monga kupita kutchuthi, kupita ku chochitika cha banja, kapena kupita ku phwando la anzathu, tsopano ndi vuto lalikulu? Ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri sakonda kusintha kwa zochita zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku. Choncho zinthuzi zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri kwa iwo.
Koma yankho la izi si kusiya zinthu zimenezo, koma kuzisintha kuti zigwirizane ndi mwana wathu .
- Mukupita paulendo? Pitani kumalo odziwika bwino omwe mumapitako tsiku lililonse. Mwanjira imeneyi, mwana wanu adzazolowera. Ngati mukupita kwina, onetsani mwana wanu zithunzi za malowo pasadakhale ndipo mufotokozere zomwe zikuchitika kumeneko.
- Kupita ku phwando? Chokani msanga pang'ono anthu ena asanafike. Mwanjira imeneyi, mwana wanu akhoza kuzolowera malo ozungulira anthu asanafike. Pitani ndi magalimoto awiri. Ngati mwana wanu akuvutika kukhala kumeneko, mmodzi wa iwo akhoza kumutenga kupita naye kunyumba.
- Mukupita kukadya kunja? Mukayimbira foni ku lesitilanti ndikusungitsa malo, pemphani tebulo pakona pomwe simungasokoneze ena.
Mwana wanu akamachita zinthu mosiyana pamaso pa anthu ena, amakuyang'anani inu ndi mwana wanu modabwitsa. N'zovuta kupirira. Koma pakapita nthawi, mudzaphunzira kunyalanyaza. "Pakapita nthawi, mudzamva ngati mukukula khungu latsopano pansi pa khungu lanu." Ngati wina akukuyang'anani modabwitsa, mudzakhala ndi mphamvu zoti musekerere ndi kunena kuti, "Palibe chodetsa nkhawa, chilichonse chili m'manja ."
Banja lathu siliyenera kukhala ngati "banja langwiro" lomwe limalembedwa m'nyuzipepala. Banja lathu likhoza kukhala lapadera monga momwe timafunira. Ndi ana awa, tingapeze chisangalalo m'malo achilendo kwambiri m'moyo.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Matenda a autistic si vuto lomwe mumakumana nalo nokha, limakhudza banja lonse, ulendo womwe aliyense amadutsamo limodzi.
- Ndi zachilendo kumva chisoni ndi tsogolo lomwe mumaganiza. Koma chisonicho chikatha, yesani kuona kukongola kwa ulendo watsopano wapaderawu.
- Samalani kwambiri ana anu ena. Aloleni alankhule. Ndi amphamvu kuposa momwe mukuganizira.
- Tetezani banja lanu. Mvetserani wina ndi mnzake, mvetsetsanani, ndipo pangani nthawi yocheza.
- Musataye mtima ndi nthawi zosangalatsa za m'banja. Sinthani kuti zigwirizane ndi banja lanu.
- Musadandaule ndi zomwe ena amaganiza. Palibe cholakwika ndi banja lanu kukhala osangalala mwanjira "yosiyana".
- Ngati mukuona kuti zonsezi ndi zovuta kwambiri, chonde lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu kapena mlangizi . Kupempha thandizo ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu.
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