Tsiku lofunika kwambiri komanso lokongola kwambiri pa moyo wanu likubwera posachedwa... tsiku lomwe mwana wanu adzabwera padziko lapansi. Ndizachibadwa kumva mantha pang'ono, mantha, komanso nkhawa panthawiyi. Koma ngati mukonzekera chilichonse pasadakhale, mutha kukumana ndi tsiku lalikululo ndi mtendere wamumtima komanso chidaliro chachikulu, sichoncho? Ndicho chifukwa chake timapanga "Ndondomeko Yobereka," kutanthauza, ndondomeko yobereka. Tiyeni tiwone momwe tingachitire izi ndendende.
Kodi Ndondomeko Yobadwira iyi ndi chiyani?
Mwachidule, dongosolo lobereka ndi kabuku kakang'ono komwe mumalemba za zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe simukonda panthawi yomwe mukuyembekezera mwana wanu, kuyambira nthawi yomwe mumayamba kumva ululu mpaka mwana atabadwa. Zili ngati kukonzekera chilichonse musanapite paulendo. Izi zimakupatsani mwayi wolankhulana ndi osamalira, madokotala ndi anamwino za malingaliro anu pasadakhale. Kenako, patsiku lalikulu, mutha kuyang'ana kwambiri pakubweretsa mwana wanu padziko lapansi popanda kuda nkhawa ndi zomwe mungachite.
Taganizirani izi, kodi mungafune kuti magetsi azimitsidwe m'chipinda chomwe mudzakhala mukubereka mwana wanu? Kodi mungafune kuti nyimbo yofewa iziimbidwe? Kapena mungakonde kuti mwamuna wanu akhale pafupi nanu? Mutha kuphatikiza chilichonse chomwe mungaganizire mu izi.
Koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira izi. Dongosolo lobereka si lamulo lokhazikika lomwe silingasinthidwe. Chifukwa sitingathe kuneneratu momwe mwana adzakhalire. Nthawi zina, zinthu zosayembekezereka zingachitike. Mu mkhalidwe wotere, kuti inu ndi mwana wanu mukhale otetezeka , dokotala wanu angafunike kusintha dongosololi. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kukhala osinthasintha komanso okonzeka kuchita chilichonse.
Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuikidwa mu ndondomeko ya kubadwa?
Ngakhale mungafune kuwonjezera zambiri pa izi, ndikofunikira kuzisunga mwachidule komanso momveka bwino momwe mungathere. Izi zipangitsa kuti aliyense aziwerenga ndikumvetsa mosavuta. Nthawi zambiri, tsamba limodzi kapena awiri limakhala lokwanira. Kuti zikhale zosavuta kwa inu, tiyeni tiwone mfundo zomwe zingaphatikizidwe mu dongosololi patebulo.
| Gawo lomwe likukonzekera | Zinthu zoti muganizire (zitsanzo) |
|---|---|
| Chidziwitso choyambira | Dzina lanu, dzina la dokotala ndi nambala ya foni, chipatala chomwe mudzaberekere mwana wanu, komanso amene mukufuna kukhala nanu panthawiyo (monga mwamuna, mayi). |
| Chilengedwe m'chipindamo | Zinthu zomwe zimakuthandizani kupanga malo abwino. Mwachitsanzo, kodi mukufuna kuzimitsa magetsi? Kodi mumakonda kukhala chete? Kapena kusewera nyimbo yofewa/Pirith? Kodi mukufuna kujambula zithunzi kapena makanema? |
| Chifuniro pa nthawi ya chikondwerero | Zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva bwino mukakhala ndi ululu. Mwachitsanzo: Kodi mukufuna kuyenda? Kodi mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mpira woberekera? Kodi mukufuna kusamba ndi madzi ofunda? |
| Kusamalira ululu | Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ganizirani ngati mutenga mankhwala ochepetsa ululu kapena ayi. Kodi mutenga epidural ? Kapena mudzayesa kuchepetsa ululu pogwiritsa ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi opumira, kutikita minofu, ndi zina zotero? Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za izi ndipo mudziwe njira zomwe zingakuthandizeni. |
| Nthawi yomwe mwana wabadwa | Momwe mungafunire kubereka mwana wanu. Mwachitsanzo, kodi simungakonde kuchitidwa opaleshoni ya episiotomy pokhapokha ngati pakufunika kutero? Kodi mungakonde kuonera mwana akubadwa kudzera pagalasi? Kodi mungakonde kuti mwamuna wanu adule chingwe cha umbilical? Kodi mungakonde kuti mwana akhale pachifuwa panu nthawi yomweyo mukangobadwa (kukhudzana ndi khungu ndi khungu)? |
| Ngati pakufunika opaleshoni ya cesarean (C-section) | Ngati mutachitidwa opaleshoni yopaleshoni mosayembekezereka, kodi mungakonde kukhala ndi ndani mu chipinda chochitira opaleshoni ? (Zipatala zina sizingalole izi, koma ndikofunikira kufotokoza zomwe mukufuna). |
| Pambuyo pobereka mwana | Kodi mudzadyetsa bwanji mwana wanu (kuyamwitsa kapena kumupatsa botolo?), kodi mukufuna kuti mwana wanu azikhala nanu nthawi zonse kapena nthawi zina m'chipinda chosungira ana? Kodi mukufuna kuti mwana wanu alandire mankhwala oletsa kutupa? Ngati ndi mnyamata, kodi mukufuna kuti adule kuchipatala? Chonde tchulani zomwe mumakonda pa zonsezi. |
Kodi ndiyenera kulankhula ndi ndani za dongosololi?
Mukamaliza kupanga Ndondomeko Yobereka iyi, choyamba kambiranani bwino ndi mwamuna wanu komanso anthu ena omwe angakuthandizeni. Kenako, onetsetsani kuti mwawonetsa dokotala wanu ndipo kambiranani nayenso.
N’chifukwa chiyani izi n’zofunika?
- Zipatala zina zingakhale ndi malamulo awoawo.
- Zokhumba zanu sizingakhale zoyenera pa nkhani ya zamankhwala.
- Mukakambirana zonsezi pasadakhale, mutha kuchepetsa mafunso ndi kusamvana kosafunikira mphindi yomaliza. Dokotala angachitenso zomwe zili zotetezeka kwa inu ndi mwana wanu, pomwe akulemekeza zomwe mukufuna.
Kodi ndiyenera kupereka kwa ndani kopi ya ndondomeko yobereka?
Mukangopanga dongosolo lanu, chitani izi.
- Perekani kopi kwa dokotala wanu ndipo muisunge mu fayilo yake.
- Perekani kopi ina ku chipatala kapena malo omwe mudzalowetsedwe kuti mukaberekere mwana.
- Perekani kopi kwa mwamuna wanu ndi othandizira ena.
- Sungani makope ena angapo m'chikwama chanu. Ngati dokotala wanu palibe tsiku limene mwana wanu anabadwa, dokotala wina akhoza kukhalapo panthawi yobereka. Kope ili lidzakhala lofunika kwambiri panthawiyo.
Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti kupanga dongosolo lobereka sikofunikira. Ngakhale popanda dongosololi, chipatala chidzachitabe zinthu mogwirizana ndi zomwe mukufuna. Koma kuganizira zinthuzi pasadakhale ndikulankhula ndi mwamuna wanu ndi dokotala za izo kudzakupatsani mphamvu, ufulu, ndi ulamuliro pa tsiku lalikulu limenelo.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Ndondomeko yobereka ndi mndandanda wosavuta wa zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuchita mukakhala ndi mwana wanu. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kwa inu, ogwira ntchito yanu yothandizira, komanso ogwira ntchito zachipatala .
- Ili si buku la malamulo, ndi dongosolo chabe. Kuti mwana wanu ndi inuyo mukhale otetezeka, khalani okonzeka kusintha dongosololi ngati pakufunika kutero.
- Zokhudza dongosolo lanuOnetsetsani kuti mwakambirana ndi dokotala wanu ndipo mufunseni maganizo ake.
- Lembani dongosololi mwachidule, momveka bwino, komanso patsamba limodzi kapena awiri. Liyenera kukhala losavuta kuwerenga.
- Mukapita kuchipatala kukabereka mwana wanu, musaiwale kutenga makope ena owonjezera a dongosololi.
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