IVF ndi mapasa: Maphunziro omwe tingaphunzire kuchokera ku nkhani ya Amanda

Palibe chinthu chokongola kuposa kulota kukhala mayi kapena bambo. Koma nthawi zina ulendo wokwaniritsa maloto amenewo ungakhale wovuta pang'ono. Mwamwayi, chifukwa cha sayansi ya zamankhwala yapamwamba masiku ano, tili ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa malotowo kudzera mu mankhwala monga IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ). Lero tikulankhula za mayi wachikondi dzina lake Amanda yemwe adadutsa ulendo woterewu. Nkhani yake itiphunzitsa maphunziro ambiri ofunika, makamaka kwa alongo athu ndi anzathu omwe akuyembekezera mapasa kapena akuganiza zolandira chithandizo cha IVF.

Ulendo wa IVF ndi kusankha kuchuluka kwa mazira oti asamutse

Amanda ndi mwamuna wake, Kenneth, anatenga pakati pa nthawi yoyamba yoyezetsa IVF, koma anataya mimba. N'zosachita kunena kuti izi zinali zopweteka kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake, pamene anapita kukalandira chithandizo chachiwiri cha IVF, Amanda anaganiza kuti, "Nthawi ino, tiyenera kusamutsa mazira onse atatu."

Koma monga momwe akunenera, "Dokotala wanga wokondedwa anandifotokozera zoopsa zake ndipo anandilimbikitsa kusamutsa mazira awiri. Pamapeto pake, tinabereka mapasa. Ndine wokondwa kwambiri lero kuti sitinasamutse mazira atatu!"

Chofunika kwambiri chomwe tiyenera kumvetsetsa apa ndichakuti madokotala nthawi zonse amayesetsa kuonetsetsa kuti mayi ndi mwana wosabadwa ali otetezeka kwambiri. Makamaka ngati mazira awiri atengedwa ali aang'ono, mwayi wokhala ndi mapasa ndi wokwera kufika pa 60%. Ngakhale kuti ndi chisangalalo kukhala ndi ana awiri kapena atatu nthawi imodzi, tiyeneranso kudziwa zoopsa zachipatala zomwe zimabwera nazo.

Mimba inali yovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimayembekezera

Amanda akunena kuti ndi mtsikana wathanzi komanso wodziwa bwino za thanzi lake. Ndicho chifukwa chake ankaganiza kuti mimbayo ikhala yosavuta. Koma kutenga mapasa m'mimba mwake sikunali kophweka monga momwe ankaganizira.

Iye anati, "Ndinayamba ntchito kwa miyezi itatu yoyambirira. Koma mwadzidzidzi ndili ndi masabata 20, ndinayamba kubereka . Chinali chozizwitsa kuti madokotala anatha kuletsa kubereka ndipo ndinatha kupitiriza kubereka ana."

Pambuyo pa izi, Amanda anayenera kukhala m'chipatala kwa milungu 11 akugona. Pomaliza pake, ana onse awiri anabadwa milungu 8 isanakwane, zomwe zikutanthauza kubadwa msanga.Ndi momwe ndinabadwira m'dziko lino.

Kubereka mwana msanga ndi chimodzi mwa mavuto akuluakulu omwe makolo amakumana nawo. M'malo molota kuti mwana wawo agone kunyumba akangobadwa, n'zovuta kwambiri kuganiza zoti ayenera kuyang'ana mwana wawo m'chipinda chagalasi mu chipinda chosamalira ana aang'ono (NICU). Kupweteka ndi nkhawa sizingathe kufotokozedwa m'mawu.

Musaiwale momwe zimakhudzira thanzi la maganizo

Kuwonjezera pa ululu wakuthupi, zonsezi zimakutopetsa maganizo. Amanda akuvomereza moona mtima kuti, "Ndinali ndi vuto la kupsinjika maganizo pambuyo pa zoopsa komanso kuvutika maganizo pambuyo pobereka ana anga. Kaya muli ndi thanzi labwino bwanji, kukumana ndi vuto ngati limeneli kungakuvutitseni maganizo."

Ngakhale thupi limafooka chifukwa chogona pabedi, limatha kupezanso mphamvu zake. Koma kuwonongeka kwa malingaliro kumatenga nthawi kuti kuchiritsidwe. Kumafuna thandizo. Mu mkhalidwe ngati uwu, ndikofunikira kulankhula ndi mwamuna wanu, banja lanu, makamaka dokotala wanu . Palibe chifukwa chochitira manyazi kapena kuvutika nokha.

Moyo ndi mapasa: mavuto ndi chisangalalo

Chifukwa cha kusakhwima kwawo msanga, ana a Amanda ali kumbuyo pang'ono pa zochitika zina zakukula, makamaka luso loyendetsa thupi. "Monga makolo, nthawi zonse timakhala ndi nkhawa kuti adzakhala ndi mavuto ena kwa nthawi yayitali," akutero Amanda.

Palinso mavuto ena okhudza kusamalira mapasa.

Zinthu monga kuyamwitsa ana awiri nthawi imodzi, komanso kumva kuti sakuthandizidwa akamalira nthawi imodzi, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri masiku oyambirira.

"Koma zoona zake, akamakula, zinthu zimakhala zosavuta pang'ono. Chifukwa amasewera wina ndi mnzake. Chifukwa chake pali zabwino ndi zoyipa zokhala ndi mapasa."

Pamapeto pake, Amanda akufotokoza nkhani yofunika kwambiri. "Ngakhale zonsezi, ndingalimbikitse aliyense amene akuganiza za `( IVF )`. Popanda `(IVF)` sitikanakhala ndi ana athu. Ngakhale ndi ululu womwe tidakumana nawo, ndikanakhala ndi mwayi kachiwiri, sindikanasintha chilichonse."

Phunziro lalikulu lomwe tingaphunzire kuchokera m'nkhani yake ndikukhala odziwa bwino komanso okonzeka. Ndikumana ndi izi, ndipo ndikayamba ulendo wanga wodziwa zambiri komanso wokonzeka kukumana ndi zinthu ngati izi, ndimadzimva kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zokumana ndi zinthu zosayembekezereka.