Kodi moyo ndi wotani kwenikweni ndi mapasa? - Nkhani ya mayi (Moyo Ndi Mapasa)

Kodi mukuyembekezera mapasa? Kapena mukuganiza za izi? Mapasa ndi madalitso awiri omwe amabwera kunyumba kwanu nthawi imodzi. Koma kodi timalankhuladi za mavuto ndi zovuta zomwe zimabwera ndi chisangalalo chimenecho? Lero tikambirana za nkhani ya mayi wina dzina lake Maureen yemwe adakumana ndi zoterezi. Kudzera mu nkhani yake, tiyesa kumvetsetsa momwe moyo ulili ndi mapasa .

Nkhani ya Maureen: Mapasa pambuyo pa IVF

Maureen Downey ndi mwamuna wake Bo Emerson anali kale ndi ana awiri. Iwo anali kuganiza zokhala ndi mwana wachitatu, koma Maureen anataya mimba kangapo. Choncho anaganiza zogwiritsa ntchito njira yatsopano yoberekera, IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), kuti akhale ndi mwana.

Pa nthawiyo Maureen anali ndi zaka 42. Madokotala adamuika mazira awiri m'chiberekero. Iwo sankafuna mapasa kwenikweni, koma ankaganiza kuti zingakhale bwino ngati akanafuna. "Kwa munthu amene sanaberekepo ana, n'zomveka kuti angafune mapasa chifukwa mwina ndi mwayi wawo wokhawo," akutero Maureen. "Koma tinkangofuna mwana wachitatu. Choncho sindinkaganiza kuti ndimafuna mapasa. Koma ndinkayembekezera kuti mazira onse awiri akhale bwino."

Kodi kukhala ndi pakati pa mapasa ndi kosiyana ndi momwe zimayembekezeredwa?

Maureen akunena kuti mimba yake inayenda bwino, popanda mavuto aakulu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sanafunike kukhala pabedi. Komabe, anayenera kusiya ntchito yake kale kwambiri kuposa mimba zake ziwiri zapitazi. Anayeneranso kukumana ndi zinthu zambiri zatsopano zomwe sanakumanepo nazo kale.

"Ndinali ndi kutentha pamtima komwe sindinakumanepo nako kale. Nthawi yoyamba izi zinachitika, ndimaganiza kuti ndinali ndi vuto la mtima. Zinali zoopsa kwambiri. Ndinalinso ndi ululu wambiri m'thupi langa lonse. Kunena zoona, mwezi ndi theka wa mimba yanga unali wotopetsa komanso wotopetsa kwambiri. Sindinamve choncho pamene ndinali kubereka ana anga awiri oyamba."

Kawirikawiri, mukakhala ndi mapasa, chiberekero chimakula, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ziwalo za m'mimba zikhale zolimba kwambiri. Izi zingayambitse kupweteka pachifuwa, kuvutika kupuma, komanso kupweteka kwa thupi. Ngati mukukumana ndi zizindikiro izi, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu za izi.

Kodi chinachitika n’chiyani anawo atabadwa?

Pa masabata 39, omwe ali pafupi ndi nthawi yonse yobereka, Maureen anali atakonzekera kubereka mwana kudzera mu opaleshoni.Rebecca ndi Joey anabadwa ndi opaleshoni yochitidwa opaleshoni. Ngakhale kuti zonse zinkaoneka kuti zikuyenda bwino, Maureen anakumana ndi mavuto ambiri kuposa momwe ankayembekezera atabereka.

Chiberekero chake sichinali kugwira bwino ntchito, choncho anayamba kutuluka magazi ambiri. Matendawa amatchedwa Postpartum Hemorrhage .

Mtundu uwu wa kutuluka magazi ambiri ndi wadzidzidzi. Ku Sri Lanka, pazochitika zotere, wodwala amaloledwa nthawi yomweyo ku Emergency Treatment Unit (ETU) ndikupatsidwa chithandizo chofunikira.

Maureen akunena kuti zinamutengera chaka chonse kuti akhalenso ndi mphamvu komanso thanzi labwino, zomwe zimakupangitsani kudziwa momwe analili wofooka.

Chaka choyamba: nthawi yovuta kuposa momwe amayembekezera

Maureen akunena kuti si munthu watsopano pakulera ana. Popeza adalera ana awiri kale, anali atakonzekera zonse asanabweretse mapasa kunyumba. Chipinda cha mwana, zovala, ndi zinthu zina zofunika zonse zinali bwino.

"Usiku woyamba titabwerera kunyumba kuchokera kuchipatala, tinaganiza kuti tili ndi zonse zomwe tinkafunikira. Zovala zoyera zinali zokonzedwa bwino m'madirowa. Koma usiku woyamba umenewo, makanda anali onyowa kwambiri ndipo ankasanza kangapo kotero kuti tinayenera kudula zilembo za zovala zatsopano zomwe zinali m'mabokosi ndi kuvala. Sitinakonzekere zimenezo konse."

Zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri kwa Maureen. Iye anati, "Ndinafunika kukweza kwambiri udindo wanga poganizira momwe ntchitoyi inalili yovuta."

" Chaka choyamba chimenecho chili ngati maloto omwe ndikukumbukira. Kumbali ina, panalibe wondithandiza. Kumbali ina, chinali chodabwitsa kwambiri pathupi langa, lomwe linataya magazi ambiri ndipo linali lofooka. Kuphatikiza apo, zinali zotopetsa kwambiri panthawiyo, ndi kuyamwitsa tonse awiri."

Kodi moyo wokhala ndi mapasa uli ngati 'circus'?

Maureen akunena kuti amakonda malo odzaza phokoso komanso osakhazikika.

"Amakhala ndi phokoso kwambiri. Chilichonse chimakhala chovuta. Makamaka makanda akakhala aang'ono, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kupita kusitolo, kuyika awiri m'mipando yagalimoto, kuti tonse tikhale m'galimoto. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tonse tazolowera phokosolo. Koma mnzanga amene ali ndi mwana m'modzi yekha akabwera kunyumba kwanga, ndawaona akudumphadumpha. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi chifukwa chakuti tili ndi ana anayi kunyumba. Koma phokoso lalikulu limachokera kwa mapasa."

Nkhani ya Maureen imatisonyeza kuti mapasa ndi dalitso komanso vuto lomwe limayesa kuleza mtima, mphamvu, ndi chithandizo cha makolo kwa wina ndi mnzake mokwanira.