Ndani adzapanga zisankho zokhudzana ndi chithandizo chanu chamankhwala mukachoka kwa ife? (Malangizo Oyambirira)

Mwatsoka, taganizirani kuti mwadzidzidzi mwadwala kwambiri, kapena mwachita ngozi, ndipo simungathe kulankhula kapena kupanga zisankho. Ndiye, ndani amasankha mtundu wa chithandizo chamankhwala chomwe mukufuna kukupatsani, komanso mtundu wa chithandizo chomwe mukufuna kusiya? Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe tonsefe timaopa kuganizira, koma tiyenera kuganizira za icho. Chifukwa panthawi ngati iyi, mutha kuletsa okondedwa anu kuti asasowe chochita. Ndicho chimene tikulankhula lero, chomwe chimatchedwa ' chitsogozo chamtsogolo '. Mwachidule, Chitsogozo cha Patsogolo ndi chikalata chalamulo chomwe chimafotokoza momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna pankhani ya chithandizo chanu chamankhwala ngati mukadali ndi thanzi labwino komanso simungathe kupanga zisankho mtsogolo. Anthu ambiri sakonda kulankhula za zinthu zotere, akuganiza kuti ndi "zoipa." Koma iyi ikhoza kukhala mphatso yayikulu kwambiri yomwe mungapatse banja lanu. Chifukwa ingathandize kuti asamavutike kupanga zisankho zovuta kwa inu. Ndipo zinthuzi si za okalamba okha. Ngozi zingachitikirenso achinyamata, eti?

Pali mitundu iwiri ya Malangizo Oyambirira.

Tingathe makamaka kulankhula za mitundu iwiri ya zikalata. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa ziwirizi.

Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji chikalatachi?

Popeza chikalata ichi ndi chalamulo, ndi bwino kuchikonza mothandizidwa ndi loya. Pamenepo sipadzakhala kukayikira za kuvomerezeka kwake.

• Lembani momveka bwino: Lembani momveka bwino komanso mwachidule zomwe mukufuna.
• Ma siginecha a Mboni: Mboni ziwiri zisayine. Ngati n'kotheka, Justice of the Peace atsimikizire kusaina.
• Sungani makope: Sungani kope loyambirira pamalo otetezeka m'mafayilo anu. Perekani makope kwa banja lanu, woimira wanu, ndi dokotala wa banja lanu. Pemphani dokotala wanu kuti asunge kopi ya izi pamodzi ndi zolemba zanu zachipatala.
• Khadi la Chikwama: Sungani khadi laling'ono m'chikwama chanu kapena m'chikwama chanu. Lembani chinthu chonga "Ndili ndi Malangizo Oyambirira. Tsatanetsatane ndi makope ake angapezeke kuchokera kwa ... munthu/malo."

Chofunika kwambiri: kulankhulana momasuka!

Mukamaliza kulemba chikalatachi, muyenera kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu, woimira wanu, ndi banja lanu za icho. Muwafotokozere maganizo anu, makhalidwe anu, ndi momwe mumamvera pankhani ya moyo wabwino. Ganizirani izi motere. Munasankha mwana wanu wamkazi kukhala woimira, koma simunamufotokozere zomwe mukufuna. Mukataya chidziwitso, angasankhe kukulumikizani ndi makina chifukwa cha chikondi, ngakhale simukufunadi kutero. Panthawiyo, adzakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Koma ngati munafotokoza zomwe mukufuna pasadakhale, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti apange chisankho choyenera poganiza kuti, "Umu ndi momwe amayi/abambo amafunira, ndipo ndidzachita zomwe mukufunazo."

Kodi mungasankhe ndani ngati woimira wanu?

Ichi ndi chisankho chofunika kwambiri chomwe mungapange. Munthu wapafupi nanu sangakhale chisankho chabwino nthawi zonse. Mwachitsanzo, mkazi/mwamuna wanu wokondedwa kapena mwana wanu, chifukwa cha chikondi chanu komanso kusafuna kutaya inu, angakakamize kuti mupitirize kulandira chithandizo motsutsana ndi zomwe mukufuna ngakhale madokotala akunena kuti palibe mankhwala. Chifukwa chake, sankhani munthu amene mungamudalire mokwanira kuti akwaniritse zomwe mukufuna, kaya akhale zotani, mwanzeru osati mwamaganizo. Fotokozani maganizo anu momveka bwino kwa munthuyo.

Kodi oda ya DNR ndi chiyani?

Mwina mwamvapo mawu akuti `(Do-Not-Resuscitate / DNR)`. Izi zimatanthauza kuti "musayese kutsitsimutsa mtima." Ngati kugunda kwa mtima kwa munthu kapena kupuma kwake kwasiya, madokotala nthawi zambiriKuyesa kutsitsimutsa munthu kumachitika pochita zinthu monga CPR (Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation). Koma odwala ena, makamaka omwe ali kumapeto kwa matenda osachiritsika, safuna kuchita izi. Lamulo la DNR ndi lamulo lalamulo kwa madokotala kuti asayese kutsitsimutsa munthu ngati mtima wawo wasiya kugunda. Izi zitha kuphatikizidwanso ngati gawo la Advance Directive yanu. Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za izi.

Sinthani chikalatachi pakapita nthawi.

Malingaliro ndi makhalidwe athu amasintha pakapita nthawi, sichoncho? Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kubwerezanso chikalatachi zaka zingapo zilizonse ndikusintha ndikusintha ngati pakufunika kutero. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuchibwerezanso ngati pali kusintha kwakukulu m'moyo wanu (monga matenda aakulu, imfa ya wachibale). Ngati simutero, ena angadabwe ngati chikalata chomwe chakhalapo kwa zaka zambiri chikuyimirabe zomwe mukufuna. Kupanga chikalata chonga ichi kungakhale kovuta pang'ono komanso kotopetsa maganizo. Koma mtendere wamumtima kapena mpumulo womwe umapereka ndi wofunika. Sikuti umangotsimikizira kuti mumayang'anira tsogolo lanu, komanso umathandiza anthu omwe mumawakonda kwambiri pamavuto awo panthawi yovuta. malangizo apatsogolo, chifuniro cha moyo, mphamvu yachipatala ya loya, woyimira, DNR, chifuniro chomaliza, chisamaliro chachipatala, chisamaliro cha kumapeto kwa moyo, chikalata chalamulo