Twubaha dute abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mikurire? Reka tubimenye

Iyo urebye abantu badukikije muri sosiyete yacu, ushobora kuba warabonye ko hari abantu batandukanye cyane. Uburyo bamwe batekereza, uburyo bumva amakuru, n'uburyo bitwara biratandukanye gato. Impamvu y'ibi ishobora kuba ubumuga bwo mu mutwe cyangwa iterambere (Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe cyangwa iterambere - IDD). Ariko ugomba kuba warumvise ko bigoye gato kuvugana n'abantu nk'abo no kubasobanukirwa, sibyo? Uyu munsi turimo kuvuga uburyo twubaha abantu nk'abo no kubashyira mu kazi kacu.

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe n'iterambere (IDDs) ni iki?

Muri make, izi ni indwara zigira ingaruka ku myigire y'umuntu, ubuhanga bwe mu rurimi, n'imyitwarire ye. Akenshi zitangira mu bwana kandi zishobora kumara ubuzima bwe bwose. Ariko iyi si indwara. Ni kimwe mu bigize ubuzima bwe.

Tekereza gusa, intoki zacu zose si zimwe. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, buri muntu wese ufite IDD aratandukanye. Ndetse n'abantu babiri bafite ikibazo kimwe bashobora kugira imbogamizi zitandukanye, uburyo butandukanye bwo kuvugana, n'ubufasha butandukanye.

Imbonerahamwe iri hepfo igaragaza ubwoko butandukanye bw'izo ndwara.

Reka twige ku ivangura ryitwa 'Ableism'

Ibi bishobora gusa nkaho ari ijambo rishya, ariko bivuze ikintu twese tuzi. Ububasha ni igikorwa cyo gufata umuntu nabi cyangwa kumusuzugura kuko afite ubumuga. Abantu batekereza muri ubu buryo bizera ko umuntu ufite ubumuga adashobora gukora ibintu nk'iby'abandi kandi ko agomba 'guhimba'. Ibi bishobora gukorwa ubizi cyangwa utabizi.

Ibinyuranye n'ibi ni ukwishyira hamwe . Bisobanura kwemera ibyo abandi batandukaniyeho uko bari no kubashishikariza kwitabira ibintu byose biborohera. Muri ubwo buryo, nabo bashobora kugira ibyishimo, ubuzima bwiza, no kugera ku bushobozi bwabo bwose.

Ni gute twafasha kandi tukabubaha aba bantu?

Noneho reka turebe ibintu byoroshye twakora kugira ngo twubahe aba bantu kandi tubashyiremo. Wibuke ko abantu bose batandukanye, bityo icy'ingenzi ni ukubabaza icyo bakunda.

1. Menya kandi ubumuga butagaragara.

Hari ubumuga bushobora kugaragara ku maso yacu. Ibintu nka ADHD , autism , n'ubumuga bwo kwiga ntibigaragara. Rero ntukabaze umuntu ibibazo bitari ngombwa. Ntukavuge amagambo nka "Ntabwo usa n'aho ufite ubumuga." Ibyo byerekana ko ubumuga bwe atari ubw'ukuri, cyangwa ko ntacyo buvuze.

2. Kubaha gahunda yabo

Abantu benshi bafite indwara ya IDD bakunda gukora mu buryo busanzwe kandi buri ku murongo. Bigabanya ubwoba bwabo n'imihangayiko . Rero niba uteganya ikintu na bo, ukakibabwira mbere y'igihe, kandi ugahindura ibintu, bazumva bamerewe neza cyane mu gukorana nawe.

3. Tegura ahantu hatuje

Abantu bafite indwara nka autisme bashobora kugorwa no gusabana. Bashobora kudashobora kwihanganira urusaku rwinshi ahantu hahurira abantu benshi. Niba bishoboka rero, hitamo ahantu hatuje kandi hatarangwa urusaku rwinshi mu gihe uganira na bo cyangwa ukorera. Basanga byoroshye kuganira imbonankubone kuruta kugira abantu benshi baganira icyarimwe.

4. Bashyire mu kiganiro.

Abantu bafite ubumuga bakunze guhabwa akato muri sosiyete nk'abatagaragara. Ntukabikore. Mu gihe uganira na bo , mubarebe mu maso, mubahindukire muvuge. Mu gihe ubabaza ikibazo, mureke basubize. Niba bafite umufasha muri bo, vugana n'uwo muntu, ntuganire n'umufasha gusa.

5. Ibuka ibi bintu mu gihe uganira

• Vuga mu mvugo yoroshye kandi isobanutse neza. Ntukabavugishe nabi. Vuga mu ijwi risanzwe, ukoresheje interuro zoroshye. Ntugakoreshe imvugo mbi nka "Imvura irimo kugwa injangwe n'imbwa," kuko akenshi bafata ibintu uko biri .
• Vuga ikintu kimwe kimwe. Niba ubaza ibibazo cyangwa utanga inama, tanga kimwe kimwe. Aho kuvuga ngo “Ntukiruke,” vuga icyo ushaka gukora neza, nko “genda vuba.”
• Tega amatwi wihanganye. Hari abantu bavuga buhoro buhoro. Bahe umwanya wo gutekereza no kwandika amagambo yabo. Bishobora kandi kubatwara igihe kugira ngo bumve icyo uvuga. Rero ntubihutire.
• Niba utabyumva, vuga ukuri. Niba utumva icyo yavuze, musabe kugisubiramo. Cyangwa se mubaze niba ashobora kubivuga mu bundi buryo. Niba utabyumva nyuma yo kugerageza inshuro nke, ntukigire nk'aho ubyumva. Vuga ikintu kidakuka nko kuvuga uti " Mbabarira , nzi ko ibyo uvuga ari ingenzi, ariko sinabyumvaga."

6. Kubaha imyitwarire n'ingeso zitandukanye

Abantu benshi bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bagorwa no kureba abandi mu maso. Niba hari umuntu ubikoze, ntukabifate nk'aho ari wowe ubwawe. Niba umuntu urwaye indwara ya Tourette agutunguye mu gihe urimo kuvugana na we, tegereza arangije kuvuga hanyuma ukomeze. Ntabwo bashobora kugenzura ibyo bintu. Ntabwo bagerageza kugusuzugura.

7. Ntugafate ko ari ikintu kigomba 'gukosorwa' cyangwa 'gukira'.

Abantu benshi bishimiye ubuzima bwabo. Ntibabona ubumuga bwabo nk'ikibazo kigomba gukemurwa. Rero ntubatere kumva "babi" cyangwa ngo ubatere kumva batameze neza uvuga ibintu nk'ibi ngo "Uri icyitegererezo cyiza."

8. Koresha amagambo akwiye

Aho kuvuga "umuntu ufite ubumuga", vuga "umuntu ufite ubumuga"Ni ukwiyubaha kuvuga ngo “Ndi umuntu.” Ibi byitwa ururimi rw’umuntu ku giti cye . Bisobanura ko twubaha umuntu nk’umuntu wese, atari ukubera ubumuga bwe gusa. Ariko bamwe mu bantu, urugero, abantu bafite autisme, bakunda kwitwa “umuntu ufite autisme” aho kwitwa “umuntu ufite autisme.” Ibi byitwa ururimi rw’indangamuntu ku giti cye . Ikintu cyiza wakora ni ukubaza uti “Wakwifuza kwitwa ute?”

Dukoze mu buryo bwitondewe no kwihangana, dushobora gufasha neza inshuti zacu, abavandimwe bacu, ndetse n'abandi baturage bafite ubumuga bwo mu mikurire.

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