Urashaka kubyara impanga? Cyangwa urimo kubitekerezaho? Impanga ni umugisha ubiri ugera iwawe ako kanya. Ariko se koko turavuga ku bibazo n'ingorane bizanwa n'uwo munezero? Uyu munsi tugiye kuvuga ku nkuru y'umubyeyi witwa Maureen wahuye n'ibintu nk'ibyo. Dukoresheje inkuru ye, tuzagerageza gusobanukirwa uko ubuzima bw'impanga bumeze mu by'ukuri.
Inkuru ya Maureen: Impanga nyuma yo kubyara umwana utwite (IVF)
Maureen Downey n'umugabo we Bo Emerson bari basanzwe bafite abana babiri. Bari bateganyaga kubyara umwana wa gatatu, ariko Maureen yakuyemo inda inshuro nyinshi. Nuko bahitamo gukoresha uburyo bushya bwo kubyara, IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), kugira ngo babyare umwana.
Icyo gihe Maureen yari afite imyaka 42. Abaganga bamushyizemo intanga ebyiri mu nda. Ntabwo bifuzaga impanga mu by'ukuri, ariko batekereje ko byaba byiza baramutse babishatse. Maureen agira ati: "Ku muntu utarigeze abyara mbere, birumvikana ko yakwifuza impanga kuko ishobora kuba ari yo mahirwe ye yonyine." Ariko twifuzaga umwana wa gatatu gusa. Rero sinatekerezaga ko nshaka impanga. Ariko nizeye ko intanga zombi zizaba zimeze neza."
Ese gutwita impanga bitandukanye n'ibyo byari byitezwe?
Maureen avuga ko gutwita kwe byagenze neza, nta ngorane zikomeye. Ibyo bivuze ko atagombaga kuguma mu buriri. Ariko, byabaye ngombwa ko areka akazi mbere cyane y’uko atwita inda ebyiri zabanje. Yanahuye n’ibintu byinshi bishya atari yarigeze abona mbere.
"Nagize ikibazo cyo kuribwa mu gifu ntari narigeze mbona mbere. Ubwa mbere byabaye, nibwiraga ko mfite indwara y'umutima. Byari bibi cyane. Nagize n'ububabare buke umubiri wanjye wose. Mu by'ukuri, ukwezi n'igice gushize ntwite byari binaniza cyane kandi binaniza. Sinigeze numva ntyo igihe nabyaraga abana banjye babiri ba mbere."
Ubusanzwe, iyo ufite impanga, nyababyeyi irakura, bigashyira igitutu kinini ku ngingo zo mu nda. Ibi bishobora gutera ububabare mu gituza, kugorwa no guhumeka, ndetse no kubabara umubiri. Niba ufite ibi bimenyetso, ni byiza kubibwira muganga wawe.
Ni iki cyabaye nyuma y'uko abana bavutse?
Ku byumweru 39, hafi y’igihe cyuzuye, Maureen yari afite gahunda yo kubagwa.Rebecca na Joey bavutse hakoreshejwe uburyo bwo kubaga bwa C-section. Nubwo byose byasaga nkaho byagenze neza, Maureen yahuye n'ingorane nyinshi kuruta uko yari abyiteze nyuma yo kubyara.
Umura we ntiwari urimo gufunga neza, bityo atangira kuva amaraso menshi. Iyi ndwara yitwa kuva amaraso nyuma yo kubyara .
"Ibintu nyuma y'uko abana bavutse byari bigoye cyane kurusha uko nabyiteze. Ndatekereza ko natakaje hafi kimwe cya gatatu cy'amaraso mu mubiri wanjye. Natashye mfite intege nke cyane ku buryo ntashoboraga kugenda, kandi mfite ikibazo gikomeye cyo kubura amaraso."
Ubwo bwoko bwo kuva amaraso menshi ni ikibazo cyihutirwa. Muri Sri Lanka, muri ibyo bihe, umurwayi ahita yinjira mu Kigo cyita ku Buvuzi bw’Ibanze (ETU) agahabwa ubuvuzi bukenewe.
Maureen avuga ko byamutwaye umwaka wose kugira ngo agarure imbaraga n'ubuzima bwiza, ibyo bikaguha ishusho y'uburyo yari afite intege nke.
Umwaka wa mbere: igihe kigoye kurusha uko byari byitezwe
Maureen avuga ko atari umushya mu kurera abana. Kubera ko yari yarareze abana babiri mbere, yari yateguye byose mbere yo kuzana impanga mu rugo. Icyumba cy'umwana, imyenda, n'ibindi bikoresho byose byari bimeze neza.
"Mu ijoro rya mbere twagarutse mu rugo tuvuye mu bitaro, twatekereje ko dufite ibyo dukeneye byose. Imyenda isukuye yari iteguye neza mu kabati. Ariko muri iryo joro rya mbere, abana bari batose cyane kandi bararuka inshuro nyinshi ku buryo byabaye ngombwa ko duca udupapuro tw'imyenda mishya yari mu dusanduku tukambara. Ntabwo twari twiteguye na gato."
Byari ibintu bitangaje kuri Maureen. Agira ati: "Nagombaga kongera imbaraga zanjye cyane bitewe n'uburyo aka kazi kari kagoye."
"Uwo mwaka wa mbere ni nk'inzozi mu kwibuka kwanjye. Ku ruhande rumwe, nta muntu wari uhari wo kumfasha. Ku rundi ruhande, byari ugutungurwa gukomeye ku mubiri wanjye, wari watakaje amaraso menshi kandi wari ufite intege nke. Hejuru y'ibyo, icyo gihe byari biruhije cyane, twonsa twembi."
| Amahirwe yo kugira ubunararibonye | Ubunararibonye bwa Maureen (ku mpanga) |
|---|---|
| Igihe cyo gutwita | Ububabare budasanzwe mu gituza no kubabara umubiri. Birarushya cyane kuruta gutwita rimwe gusa. |
| Nyuma yo kubyara | Gutakaza kimwe cya gatatu cy'amaraso y'umubiri bitewe no kuva amaraso menshi (kuva amaraso menshi) no kubura amaraso menshi. |
| Igihe cyafashe kugira ngo umubiri ukire | Byatwaye umwaka wose kugira ngo wongere kugira imbaraga. |
| Ubunararibonye bw'umwaka wa mbere | Ni akazi kenshi kurusha uko ubitekereza. Ni igihe kirushya cyane nta gusinzira, nta muntu wo gufasha, nta n'uwo kwitabaza. |
Ese ubuzima bw'impanga bumeze nk'aho ari 'circus'?
Maureen avuga ko akunda ahantu harangwa urusaku n'ituze.
"Niba utekereza ko umuryango wawe uhabwa ubufasha bwiza n'umwana umwe gusa, impanga zishobora kuba impinduka ikomeye kuri wewe. Bameze nk '"urusigisiyo" rwabo ruto ."
"Bavuga cyane. Ibintu byose biragoye. Cyane cyane iyo abana bakiri bato, biragoye cyane kujya mu iduka, gushyira babiri mu ntebe zo mu modoka, kugira ngo twembi tugume mu modoka. Jye n'umugabo wanjye twese tumenyereye urusaku. Ariko iyo inshuti yanjye ifite umwana umwe gusa ije iwanjye, nabonye batera hejuru. Ndatekereza ko biterwa nuko dufite abana bane mu rugo. Ariko urusaku rwinshi ruturuka ku bana b'impanga."
Inkuru ya Maureen itwereka ko impanga ari umugisha n'ikibazo kigerageza kwihangana kw'ababyeyi, imbaraga zabo, no gushyigikirana kwabo mu buryo bwuzuye.
Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo
- Niba utwite impanga, gutwita bishobora kugorana cyane kurusha uko wabyiteguramo umwana umwe. Itegure mu mutwe no mu mubiri.
- Hari ibyago byo kugira ingorane nko kuva amaraso menshi nyuma yo kubyara. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa gukurikiza amabwiriza ya muganga neza no kumenyesha muganga ibimenyetso bidasanzwe.
- Umwaka wa mbere wo kurera impanga ushobora kugorana cyane kurusha uko ubitekereza. Niba bishoboka, bizagufasha cyane kubona inkunga y'umuryango cyangwa umuntu uzagufasha.
- Ni ingenzi cyane ko wowe n'umukunzi wawe mushyigikirana, kwihangana no kumvikana muri iki gihe. Ibi ni nk'imikino yo mu ikipe.
- Ubunararibonye bwose buratandukanye. Ubunararibonye bwa Maureen ni bumwe. Ubunararibonye bwawe bushobora kuba ubundi. Ariko ni ngombwa kumenya izo mbogamizi mbere y'igihe.
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