Zvakajairika kunzwa kusurukirwa kukuru, kusuruvara, uye kuzvipa mhosva mushure mekunge amai vako, baba, kana mumwe munhu wepedyo newe, wawagara uchimuchengeta nerudo uye nekuzvipira kwenguva yakareba, agamuchirwa mumusha wevanorwara/vanochengetwa vakwegura. Mibvunzo yakaita sekuti "Handina kumuchengeta zvakanaka here?" uye "Ndakaita sarudzo chaiyo here?" inofanira kunge yakadzokororwa mupfungwa dzako kakawanda. Usafunge kuti uri wega une manzwiro aya. Iyi inyaya inowanzo sangana nevanhu vazhinji.
Ungaderedza sei uremu hwaunonzwa?
Dzimwe nguva, kuita sarudzo yakaita seiyi kunokosha kuti mudikanwi wako agare zvakanaka uye akachengeteka. Asi kunyangwe zvakadaro, haugone kurega kusuruvara uye kuzvipa mhosva. Chinhu chakanakisa chaunogona kuita panguva ino ndechekutaura nezvemanzwiro ako nemhuri yako kana shamwari yaunovimba nayo. Dzimwe nguva, kubatana neboka rekutsigirana nevamwe vakambosangana nezviitiko zvakafanana kana kuwana rubatsiro kubva kumupi wezano kunogona kukubatsira kuti unzwe zviri nani.
Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekutaurirana manzwiro aya nemumwe munhu, usingamuvharire mukati. Yeuka kuti hausi wega.
Unoita sei kana munhu waunoda akatsamwa?
Kana chirwere chepfungwa chemudiwa wako chakanyanya kukura, vangasada nzvimbo itsva. Dzimwe nguva vanojairana zvakanaka nenzvimbo itsva yavanogara. Asi kazhinji, kunyanya pakutanga kwechirwere, vanogona kukupomera mhosva, kuchema uye kukupopotera pese paunoshanyira, "Ndiendese kumba."
Panguva yakaita seiyi, moyo wako ungave uchirwadziwa zvikuru. Asi zviyeuchidze kuti sei wakasarudza izvi . Wakasarudza izvi nekuti waisakwanisa kuvapa rubatsiro rwakakosha rwavanoda kumba, handiti? Saka, iva nemoyo murefu uye uvape rudo rwakawanda neruremekedzo. Vape nguva yekujaira mamiriro avo matsva. Rudo rwako runokosha zvikuru kwavari panguva ino.
Une kusava nechokwadi here nezvekuchengetedzwa kwezuva nezuva?
Chinonyanya kutyiwa nevanhu vazhinji ndechekuti, "Vanhu vari ikoko vachachengeta amai/baba vangu zvakanaka here?" Izvi zvinogona kuoma kunzwisisa, nekuti kunyangwe wakazvipira kune waunoda kumba, mushandi mumwe chete mumusha wevakwegura anofanira kutarisira vanhu vakawanda panguva imwe chete.
Tinofanira kunzwisisa chokwadi pano. Unogona kuwana pfungwa yemusiyano uyu kubva patafura iri pazasi.
| Dhipatimendi reKutarisira | Kutarisirwa kwawakaita kumba | Kutarisirwa kunoitwa mudzimba dzevakwegura |
|---|---|---|
| Kutarisirwa kwemunhu oga | Munhu mumwe chete ndiye akakukwezva iwe zvizere. | Mushandi mumwe chete anotarisira vagari vasere kana kupfuura. |
| Kudzidziswa | Une rudo neruzivo. Ungasava neruzivo rwebasa. | Kunyange zvazvo vazhinji vaine ruzivo nekudzidziswa, vamwe vangave vasina kudzidziswa kwakawanda. |
| Kugadzirisa matambudziko | Unogona kugadzirisa dambudziko nekukurumidza kana wangoriona. | Dambudziko rinofanira kuziviswa kune mushandi kana maneja akakodzera. |
Munovaka sei hukama hwakanaka nevashandi?
Nzira yakanakisisa yekukunda kutya kwako nekusava nechokwadi ndeyekuvaka hukama hwakanaka nevashandi .
- Taura wakadzikama: Kana paine dambudziko, taura wakadzikama uye neruremekedzo nemushandi ari kutaurwa nezvake. Kazhinji, izvi zvinogadzirisa dambudziko racho. Kana zvisina kudaro, taura neDirector kana Nursing Director.
- Varemekedze: Yeukai, ivo vanhu vanoshanda nesimba uye vane shungu. Vanodawo kuremekedzwa.
- Shanyira kakawanda: Shanyira mudiwa wako pese pazvinogoneka.
- Goverana zvaunoziva: Udza vashandi nezvezvaunofarira nezvausingadei naamai/baba vako, uye nzira dzekuvadzikamisa.
- Tenda zvakanaka: Vaudze nezvezvinhu zvakanaka zvavari kuita. Uyewo, kana uchifunga kuti chimwe chinhu chinofanira kuchinjwa, chitaure zvinyoro nyoro usingavakuvadzi.
Unotya kurasikirwa nezvinhu zvinokosha here kana kuti kushungurudzwa?
Kushungurudzwa nevanochengeta varwere nehunyanzvi hakuna kuwanda sezvinoitwa kumba. Asi hazvigoneki. Kana uine fungidziro yekuti waunoda ari kushungurudzwa mumuviri kana mupfungwa, taura nemukoti mukuru kana maneja nekukasika . Kana ukaona kushungurudzwa, taura nemukuru wechipatara uye neAdult Protective Services Agency yako.
Zvakanaka kuchengeta zvinhu zvinokosha, zvakaita sezvishongo, newe, sezvo mudiwa wako angazvikanganwa kune imwe nzvimbo, kana kuti zvinogona kuraswa nemumwe munhu anogara ikoko. Uyewo, chengeta zvinhu zvako zvakaita semazino ekugadzira mazino, magirazi emaziso, uye zvinhu zvinobatsira kunzwa zvakanyorwa zvakajeka.
Hauwanzoona chiremba here?
Vanachiremba havawanzo shanyira nzvimbo dzinochengeterwa vakwegura dzakadai mazuva ese, sezvavanoita muzvipatara. Izvi zvingava zvitsva kwauri. Kushanya kwacho kunoenderana nehutano hwemudiwa wako nezvinodiwa.
Mune mamwe masangano, vanamukoti kana vabatsiri vevanachiremba vanopihwa basa rekupa rubatsiro rwekurapa panzvimbo pevanachiremba.
Zvisinei, nzira yakanakisisa yekutaura nachiremba wemudiwa wako ndeyekumufonera. Kana uine zvinokunetsa nezvehutano hwemudiwa wako, usakanganwa kutaura nachiremba wavo nezvazvo .
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Zvakajairika kunzwa kusuruvara, kuzvidya mwoyo, uye kuzvipa mhosva mushure mekunge mudiwa wako aiswa mumusha wevakwegura. Usazeza kutaura nezvazvo.
- Zvinotora nguva kuti mudiwa wako ajairane nemamiriro ake matsva. Nzwisisa hasha dzake kana kusuruvara kwake, uye mupe rudo nerutsigiro.
- Vaka hukama hwakanaka uye hune ruremekedzo nevashandi vekuchengeta varwere. Izvi zvichabatsira zvikuru hutano hwemudiwa wako.
- Siya zvinhu zvinokosha kumba uye nyora zvinhu zvako zvakaita semazino emushonga wemazino nemagirazi zvakajeka. Taura kune vane masimba nezvekushungurudzwa kwaunofungidzirwa.
- Gara uchiyeuka kuti wakaita sarudzo iyi nekuda kwekuchengetedzwa kwavo nekugara zvakanaka. Wakaita nepese pawaigona.
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