Unodawo here kubatana kwakadzama nemanzwiro kuti ude mumwe munhu pabonde? (Demisexuality) Ngatitaurei nezvazvo!

Dzimwe nguva unonzwawo seizvi here? Shamwari dzako padzinotaura zvinhu zvakaita sekuti, “Aa, akanaka, ndinomuda” paunotanga kusangana nemumwe munhu mutsva, haunzwi saizvozvo here? Kana kuti unonzwa uchida mumwe munhu pabonde mushure mekunge wava kumuziva zvakanaka, kuva neushamwari hwepedyo, kana hukama hwakadzama? Ndiyo mhando yemamiriro ezvinhu atichataura nezvawo nhasi. Izvi zvinonzi 'Demisexuality'.

Chii chinonzi 'Demisexuality'?

Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, 'Demisexuality' ipfungwa yepabonde . Vanhu vanozviti 'Demisexuality' vanongoda mumwe munhu chete mushure mekunge vawana hukama hwepfungwa hwakadzama nemunhu iyeye. Zvichienzaniswa nevanhuwo zvavo, vanhu vazhinji 'Demisexuality' havawanzoda zvepabonde . Vamwe vanogona kunge vasina hanya nebonde, kana kutoshaya hanya zvachose.

Funga nezvazvo, vanhu vazhinji vanogona kunzwa kuda mumwe munhu pabonde, vangave vaine hukama naye hwepamoyo kana kwete. Vanogona kukwezvwa pabonde nemunhu wavasingazive kana kusangana naye kekutanga. Asi `Demisexual` haanzwi kuda pabonde uku kwekutanga.

Asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti hapana vimbiso yekuti kubatana kwepfungwa kuchaita kuti munhu akwezvwe pabonde. Zvisinei, kubatana ikoko kwakakosha kunyangwe pakufunga nezvebonde. Kunyangwe kana kukwezvwa kwakadaro kukaitika, chishuwo chebonde chinowanzova chakaderera.

Nguva inotora kuti hukama hwemanzwiro uhwu hukure inosiyana kubva pamunhu kuenda kune mumwe. Kune vamwe 'vane hungochani', hukama uhwu hunogona kukura nekukurumidza. Kune vamwe, hunogona kuitika mushure memakore ekufambidzana. Hukama uhwu hwemanzwiro hahufanirwe kunge huri 'manzwiro erudo'. Hunogonawo kuva hushamwari hwepedyo uye hune hushamwari.

Ndingaziva sei kuti ndiri munhu werudzii? Pane here bvunzo ye 'demisexuality'?

Kwete, hapana bvunzo inogona kukuudza chaizvo kuti zvepabonde zvako zvakaita sei. Asi unogona kuzvibvunza mibvunzo iyi:

• Ndiani waunoda zvepabonde naye? Vanoita kuti unzwe sei?
• Unonzwa kuda zvepabonde here? Kana zvakadaro, kangani? Kunzwa kwacho kwakasimba zvakadini?
• Kukwezvana pabonde kunokosha zvakadii paunosarudza kufambidzana nemumwe munhu?
• Unonzwa uchida zvepabonde nevanhu vatsva vausingazive here?

Hapana mhinduro dzakarurama kana dzisina kururama kumibvunzo iyi.Asi kufunga nezvemibvunzo iyi kunogona kukubatsira kunzwisisa hunhu hwako hwepabonde .

Zvinorevei kuva "asexual" kana kuti " asexual spectrum" ?

Vanhu vanozviti "vanhu vasina rudo rwepabonde" havanyanyi kufarira zvepabonde kana kuti havambozvifariri zvachose. Vanogonawo kurasikirwa nerudo panyaya dzepabonde.

Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde dzimwe nguva vanotsanangurwa neshoko rekuti "asexual" nekuti havawanzonzwa vachida zvepabonde. Zvisinei, vanogona kunzwa kuda zvepabonde uye kufarira zvepabonde mushure mekunge vaumba hukama hwepfungwa nemumwe munhu.

Kusiyana nevanoda zvepabonde nevanhurume kana vanhukadzi, vanhurume kana vanhukadzi vanowanzo sangana nekukwezvwa pabonde, zvisinei nekuti vanoda zvepabonde sei.

Musiyano uripo pakati pe'Demisexual' ne'Graysexual' ndeupi?

`Demisexuality` ne`Graysexuality` zvakafanana zvishoma, asi pane musiyano mudiki. Vanhu vanozviti 'Graysexuality' havawanzo kunzwa kuda zvepabonde, kana kuti havana chido chekuita zvepabonde. Zvisinei, kusiyana nevanhu 'Demisexual', vanhu 'Graysexuality' havadi kubatana nemanzwiro kuti vanzwe kuda zvepabonde. Ndiwo musiyano mukuru.

Chii chinonzi 'Demiromantic' ichi?

`Demiromanticism` yakafanana ne`Demiromanticality`, asi pane musiyano mudiki. Kuti munhu 'ane Demiromantic' anzwe kuda mumwe munhu, anofanira kutanga ave nehukama hwepfungwa nemunhu iyeye. Hatisi kutaura nezvekukwezvana pabonde, tiri kutaura nezverudo pano. Munhu wese ane chero chido chepabonde anogona kuva 'Demiromantic'.

Musiyano uripo pakati pe'Demisexual' ne'Pansexual' ndeupi?

Vanhu vanozviti "Pansexual" vanokwezvwa nemunhu wese pabonde, zvisinei nekuti murume kana mukadzi here kana kuti murume . Munhu anogona kuva "Pansexual" uye "Demisexual" panguva imwe chete. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vanogona kukwezvwa nemunhu ane chero hunhu hwepabonde, asi kuti kukwezvwa ikoko kuitike, kubatana kwepfungwa kwataurwa pamusoro apa kunofanira kutanga kwaitika.

Munhu anogona kuva `Demisexual` here kunyangwe ari `Straight` (heterosexual)?

Ehe, zvinogoneka zvechokwadi. Tinoziva kuti kune mazita akati wandei ekuda zvepabonde, akadai sekuti 'Heterosexual' (kukwezva vanhurume kana vakadzi), 'Gay' (ungochani), 'Lesbian' (ungochani), 'Bisexual' (kukwezva vanhurume kana vakadzi) uye 'Pansexual' (kukwezva vanhurume kana vakadzi).

Chiratidzo chekuti 'Demisexuality' chakasiyana. Chinoreva rudzi rwekukwezvana kunonzwa nevamwe uye kuti kunomuka sei.Nezve. Vanhu vazhinji vanozvizivisa nenzira mbiri idzi. Semuenzaniso, unogona kuva 'Heterosexual' asiwo 'Demisexual', kana kuti unogona kuva 'Pansexual' asiwo 'Demisexual'. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, 'Demisexuality' haisi nyaya yekuti unokwezvwa nani, asi kuti kukwezvwa ikoko kunoitika sei.

Sei 'Demisexuality' iyi ichida zita rakasiyana?

Ungangove uchishamisikawo izvi. Kutaura zvazviri, kune vanhu vazhinji vanozviti 'Demisexual', kuva nezita iri kunovapa pfungwa yekuva munharaunda uye yekuva pamwe chete, pfungwa yekuti havasi vega uye kuti kune vamwe vakaita saivo .

Pamwe vanga vachinetseka uye vachivhiringidzika kubvira vachiri vadiki, vachishamisika kuti, "Pane chakaipa neni here?", "Ndakasiyana nevamwe here?", nekuti havana chido chepabonde kana kufarira zvepabonde seshamwari dzavo dzakavapoteredza.

Zita rekuti 'Demisexuality' rinokosha nekuda kwezvikonzero izvi:

• Zvinobatsira vanhu vanoita zvepabonde nevanhurume kana vanhukadzi kuwana nharaunda yavanogona kuzvinzwisisa.
• Kuwana hunhu hwavo kunobatsira vanhu vanoita zvepabonde nevanhurume kana vanhukadzi kuti vanzwe vakachengeteka uye kuti havasi vega .
• Uyewo, zita iri rinobatsira kunzwisisa kuti kukwezvana pabonde nemanzwiro zvakajairika uye zvinogona kuonekwa zvakasiyana nemunhu wega wega, pa "spectrum", uye kuti manzwiro iwayo ese "anoshanda" .
• Chiratidzo ichi chinovapa izwi rekuti vanzwisise zviri pachena chimwe chinhu chavanosangana nacho chavaisagona kutsanangura nemashoko kare.

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Saka, ndinovimba munonzwisisa chimwe chinhu kubva pane zvatataura. 'Demisexual' zvinoreva vanhu vanongonzwa kuda zvepabonde mushure mekunge vaumba hukama hwakadzama nemumwe munhu.

Kusada zvepabonde kunoiswa muchikamu chekusada zvepabonde, sezvo vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vasina varume kana vakadzi vanewo zvishuwo zvepabonde zvishoma pane zvakajairika. Zvisinei, vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vasina varume kana vakadzi iboka rakakosha, sezvo vanogona kukwezvana pabonde uye kuda kuita zvepabonde mushure mekuumba hukama hwepfungwa nemumwe munhu.

Kutaura nezvezvinhu izvi dzimwe nguva kunogona kuita sekunge kwakaoma munharaunda yedu, asi zvakakosha kuti uzvinzwisise uye uremekedze manzwiro ako.

Kana uine manzwiro aya uye uchida rubatsiro rwekutaura nezvawo zvakanyanya, kana kuti kuanzwisisa, usanyara. Ona chiremba kana mupi wezano ane hunyanzvi. Vanogona kukubatsira kuongorora manzwiro aya, kukupa zviwanikwa zvaunoda kuti uwane hunhu hwako, uye kukutungamira. Hausi wega!