Zvakaoma zvikuru kutsungirira kuchema kunoitika kana tafirwa neshamwari kana nhengo yemhuri. Kare, kureva kuti, munguva yevabereki vedu, kwaive netsika dzakanaka kwazvo dzekupa simba kumhuri munguva dzekuchema kwakadaro uye kuratidza kuchema kwavo. Mumwe munhu aishanyira imba yemariro, oisa korona, dzimwe nguva aigadzirira chikafu ochipa, uye otumira tsamba achiratidza kuchema kwavo. Zvese izvi zvaipa vaichema simba guru uye kunzwa kuti vakanga vasiri vega.
Asi zvinhu zvachinja zvakanyanya mazuva ano. Zvinhu zvinenge zvese zvinoitika kuburikidza nesocial media ikozvino. Kana mumwe munhu afa, tinowanzoona nhau paFacebook kana paWhatsApp. Nzira iyi ine zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira. Sezvo pasina mitemo yakajeka yekutevedzera pakuratidza tsitsi pasocial media, dzimwe nguva mhinduro yatinoisa kana mubvunzo watinobvunza zvinogona kukuvadza munhu ari kuchema zvakanyanya. Saka, zvakakosha kuti tizive zvishoma nezveizvi.
Ko social media yakaita kuti zvive nyore here kutaura mashoko ekunyaradza?
Kutaura zvazviri, maererano naJocelyn DeGroot, nyanzvi yekutaurirana inoongorora izvi, masocial media haana kuchinja zvakanyanya maratidziro atinoita kusuruvara kwedu. Vanhu vaimbonyora tsamba kuvadikanwi vavo, vachipemberera mazuva avo ekuzvarwa, uye vachiyeuka zuva ravakafa. Iye zvino, zvinhu izvozvo zviri kuitika panzvimbo dzakadai seFacebook neInstagram.
Pane zvakanakira zvakawanda pane izvi.
- Kuzivisa munhu wese panguva imwe chete: Fungidzira kuti zvakaoma sei kufonera munhu wese wovaudza kuti, "Tine urombo kunzwa kuti wafa" iwe uchiri kuchema. Nekutumira nhau pasocial media kamwe chete, munhu wese anoda kuziva anogona kunzwa. Izvozvo zvinozorodza zvikuru.
- Rutsigiro kubva kuboka guru: Panguva yakaita seiyi, mashoko ekunyaradza uye mashoko anogamuchirwa kubva kushamwari dzisingawanzo taura zvakanyanya zvinopa mhuri simba rakawanda. Vanonzwa sekuti "tiri newe."
Asi yeukai, pamwe chete nezvakanakira izvi, kune mikana yakawanda yekuti zvinhu zviitike zvingatitadzisa kugadzikana uye zvinotirwadza.
Ndezvipi zvikanganiso zvatinoita tisingazvizivi?
Nekuti masocial media inzvimbo yakavhurika, dzimwe nguva maitiro evanhu anogona kuita kuti munhu ari kuchema anzwe seasina simba.
Chinhu chekutanga kutsvaga ruzivo rusina basa.Kune vamwe vanhu, havasi shamwari dzako dzepedyo, asi ishamwari paFacebook. Asi vanofunga kuti vane kodzero yekuziva zvese. Vanobvunza mibvunzo yakaita sekuti "Wakarasikirwa sei?", "Chii chakashata?", "Chii chakaitika pakupedzisira?" semashoko anowanikwa nemunhu wese.
Sezvinotaurwa naMai DeGroot, "Kana muri shamwari dzepedyo nemunhu wacho, pamwe vanenge vakupai ruzivo rwacho neimwe nzira (sekufona) musati maita Facebook. Kana muchifanira kuvabvunza pachena kuti, 'Chii chakaitika?', zvinoreva kuti hazvisi nyaya yenyu."
Chinhu chechipiri kutaura zvinhu zvisina kukodzera uye zvinorwadza . Vanhu vazhinji munharaunda medu havadzidziswi kuratidza kusuruvara zvakanaka. Saka vamwe vanhu vanotaura zvinhu zvinorwadza vasingazvizivi. Semuenzaniso, kana mumwe munhu akafirwa nababa vake, mumwe munhu anoti, "Oh, ndinonzwawo kurwadziwa kwako, imbwa yangu yakafawo vhiki rapfuura." Izvozvo zvinoita kuti kufa kwababa vemunhu iyeye kusakosha. Zvinogona kuvarwadza zvakanyanya.
| Zviito | Zvisaitwa |
|---|---|
| Taura mashoko ekunyaradza zviri nyore uye zvepachokwadi. Chimwe chinhu chakadai sekuti, "Ndine urombo kunzwa nezvenyaya iyi. Dai mawana simba." Zvakakwana. | Usabvunze chikonzero cherufu kana ruzivo rwemunhu rusina basa pachena. |
| Taura nezvekurangarira kwakanaka kwawakaita nemunhu iyeye. (Muenzaniso: "Aive munhu ane mutsa zvikuru, ndinoyeuka rimwe zuva ...") | Usapa mazano akadai sekuti, "Ari panzvimbo iri nani iye zvino," kana kuti "Zviri nani kuenda usina kutambura." |
| Kana zvichibvira, tumirai runhare kana meseji pamusoro pemashoko ari pasocial media. | Usaenzanisa kusuruvara kwako nekusuruvara kwemunhu iyeye, uchiti inyaya isina chekuita nechiitiko ichocho. |
| Bvunza kuti, "Pane chandingakubatsira nacho here?" | Chenjerera paunenge uchishandisa emoji. Dzivisa kushandisa emoji inonyemwerera kana isina kukodzera. |
Saka, tingaratidza sei mashoko edu ekunyaradza?
Pane zvimwe zvinhu zviri nyore zvatinogona kuita pasocial media kuti tibatsire vamwe tisingavakuvadzi.
1. Taura zviri nyore uye zvechokwadi
Hamudi mashoko makuru kana mitsara mirefu. Kungoti, "Ndine urombo kunzwa nhau idzi. Izvi zvinofanira kunge zvakakuomerai kutsungirira. Ndiri pano kana muchida kutaura." Chinhu chakakosha ndechekuzvitaura nemwoyo wese.
2. Ipai mazano, musazvikudza.
Izvi zvakakosha zvikuru. Vamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti zvavanotaura zvichaita kuti kusuruvara kwemunhu kupere. Usataure zvinhu zvakaita sekuti, "Ari panzvimbo iri nani iye zvino," "Zvese zvichafamba zvakanaka nenguva," "Usachema, iva nesimba." Sezvakataurwa naMai DeGroot, "Haungafadzi munhu. Unofanira kumurega achinzwa kusuruvara kwake." Basa redu harisi rekubvisa kusuruvara kwake, asi kuti vanzwe kuti havasi vega vari mukusuruvara kwavo.
3. Usanyarara.
Unogona kungotaura nemunhu iyeye paFacebook. Asi usataure chero chinhu nekuti haudi. Kunyangwe kusiya katsamba kadiki, mhinduro yakaita sekuti "Ndine urombo nekurasikirwa kwako," zvinobatsira zvikuru munhu iyeye panguva iyoyo. Chinhu chikuru chete ndechekunzwa kuti mumwe munhu ari kufunga nezvake.
Chekupedzisira, usagumira ipapo nekuti wasiya mhinduro pasocial media. Ingori mavambo chete. Kana zvichibvira, vafonere mumazuva maviri kana matatu. Siya meseji wovabvunza kuti, "Makadini?" Bvunza kuti, "Pane chandingakubatsira here? Unoda kuenda kuchitoro here? Unoda rubatsiro nechimwe chinhu kumba here?" Sekunge vanhu vedu vaimbobika chikafu chemariro, kuita chipo chidiki kunokosha kupfuura mashoko zana pasocial media.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Paunenge uchiratidza kuchema pasocial media , nyora zviri nyore, zvipfupi, uye zvechokwadi. Hapana chikonzero chekutsanangura zvakawanda.
- Dzivisa kubvunza chikonzero cherufu kana zvimwe zvinhu zvemunhu pachena. Zvinogona kunyadzisa munhu wacho.
- Dzivisa kupa mazano akadai sekuti, "Zvese zvichanaka." Asi, vabvumire kuchema uye varatidze kuti uri pamwe navo.
- Kunyangwe kana usiri pedyo nemunhu iyeye, kunyangwe meseji pfupi yekuti "Ndine urombo" inogona kuva simba guru kwaari.
- Usangotaura mashoko chete pasocial media, asi kana zvichibvira, ratidza rutsigiro rwako rwechokwadi nekufona kana kubatsira iwe pachako.
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