Ngaba ungakugcina ukuchuma kwakho kwixesha elizayo? Masifunde ngoLondolozo lokuKhula

Mhlawumbi ukhe wayilibazisa into yokuba nomntwana ude ugqibe imfundo yakho okanye uqalise umsebenzi ozinzileyo. Okanye, ngelishwa, kuye kwafuneka ufumane unyango lwesifo esifana nomhlaza. Ngexesha elinje, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuzibuza, "Ngaba ndiza kuze ndikwazi ukuba nomntwana?" Kodwa ngenxa yenkqubela phambili kwezonyango namhlanje, kukho ubuchwepheshe obunokukunceda kule meko. Yiloo nto sithetha ngayo namhlanje.

Yintoni Ukugcinwa Kokuzala?

Ngamafutshane, oku kuquka ukugcina iiseli zakho zokuzala okanye izicubu ngokukhuselekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuba nomntwana kwixesha elizayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba amaqanda akho, isidoda, iimbumba , okanye izicubu zokuzala ziqandisiwe ngendlela ekhethekileyo kwaye zigcinwe zikhuselekile ukuze zisetyenziswe kwixesha elizayo.

Le ndlela ingasetyenziselwa abantu abadala kunye nabantwana abancinci ngamanye amaxesha. Ingahlulwahlulwa ibe ziinxalenye ezimbini eziphambili:

1. Izizathu zonyango: Oku kwenzelwa ukuthintela naluphi na ubungozi ekuzaleni kwakho ngenxa yemeko yempilo okanye unyango.

2. Ukugcina Abantwana Ngokuzikhethela: Ukuba uhlehlisa ukuzala ngenxa yezizathu zakho, umzekelo, umsebenzi, imfundo, okanye ude ufumane iqabane elifanelekileyo, ungasebenzisa le ndlela ngaphambi kokuba ukuzala kwakho kunciphe njengoko ukhula.

Kutheni kufuneka sicinge ngale nto?

Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokuchaphazela amandla akho okuba nabantwana kwixesha elizayo (ukuzala). Ngamanye amaxesha kungabangelwa yimeko ngokwayo, okanye kungabangelwa lutyando okanye amayeza. Oku kukwaxhalabisa abo bacinga ngokuba nabantwana abakwiminyaka yabo yokugqibela yama-30 okanye ama-40, kuba izifundo zibonise ukuba ukuzala kwendalo kuyehla xa ukhula.

Ziziphi iindlela zokugcina ukuzala?

Iindlela ezisetyenziswayo koku ziyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwisini. Makhe sijonge iindlela eziphambili zabasetyhini namadoda.

Iindlela zabasetyhini

• Ukuqandisa Amaqanda: Oku kuquka ukunika inaliti yehomoni ukukhuthaza ama-ovari ukuba avelise amaqanda amaninzi kunalawo anokukhutshwa kumjikelo wenyanga oqhelekileyo. Emva koko ugqirha uyawasusa amaqanda emzimbeni, awaqandise ngendlela ekhethekileyo, aze awagcine.
• Ukuqandisa iqanda: Le ndlela ifana nokuqandisa iqanda. Apha, amaqanda nawo ayasuswa emzimbeni. Kodwa ke loo maqanda axutywa nembewu yeqabane lakho okanye yelungu elinikelayo ukuze kwenziwe iimbumba. Le nkqubo ibizwa ngokuba yi -IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) . Ezi mbumba zidaliweyo zinokufakwa kwisibeleko ngoko nangoko, ukuba kuyimfuneko, okanye ziqandiswe ukuze zisetyenziswe kwixesha elizayo (Embryo Cryopreservation).
• Ukuqandisa Izicubu Zesibeleko:Khawuthelekelele ukuba ungxamile ukuqala unyango lomhlaza kwaye awunalo ixesha lokulinda iiveki ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu ukuze iihomoni zivelise amaqanda akho. Kulapho ungasebenzisa le ndlela. Apha, iqhekeza elincinci lesicubu liyasuswa ngotyando kwii-ovari zakho kwaye liqandiswe. Xa lonke unyango lwakho lomhlaza luphelile kwaye lixesha lokucinga ngokuba nomntwana, oogqirha bakho baya kufaka elo qhekeza lesicubu emzimbeni wakho. Ukuba elo candelo liphinda lisebenze, unokufumana ithuba lokukhulelwa ngokwendalo okanye nge-IVF.
• Ukutshintshwa kwe-Ovarian (Oophoropexy): Ukuba unyango lwe-radiation lunikezelwa kwindawo ye-pelvic, ii-ovaries zinokonakala. Ukuthintela oku, ugqirha otyandayo uhambisa ii-ovaries okwethutyana aye kwisisu esingaphezulu, kude nendawo apho i-radiation ithunyelwa khona.
• Ukukhusela Imitha: Ngexesha lonyango lwemitha, ama-ovari agqunywa yisikhuselo esikhethekileyo esenziwe nge-lead ukunciphisa ukuvezwa yimitha.

Iindlela zamadoda

• Ukuqandisa isidoda: Le yindlela elula nesetyenziswa kakhulu ngamadoda. Isampuli yesidoda iyaqokelelwa, iqandiswe, ize igcinwe.
• Ukuqandisa Izicubu Zamasende: Amanye amadoda asenokungabi nambewu yesidoda kwimbewu yawo. Kwakhona, amakhwenkwe angakafiki kwixesha lokufikisa awavelisi imbewu yesidoda. Kwimeko ezinjalo, iqhekeza elincinci lezicubu lingasuswa kwimbewu yamasende, livavanywe ukuba alinambewu yesidoda, lahlulwe lize liqandiswe.
• Ukukhusela Imitha: Njengakwabasetyhini, izikhuselo ezikhethekileyo zelothe zisetyenziselwa ukukhusela amasende ngexesha lonyango lwemitha kumadoda.

Le nkqubo yenzeka njani?

Indlela nganye kwezi isebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Masizijonge ngeenkcukacha ezithe vetshe.

Ukuqandisa iqanda kunye ne-embryo

Le nkqubo iqala ngokukhuthazwa kwe-ovarian, nto leyo efuna ukuba uzifake i-hormone yonke imihla kangangeentsuku ezili-10.

Inkqubo yokubuyisa iqanda yenziwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia, oko kuthetha ukuba ulele kwaye awuziva ntlungu.

• Ugqirha ukhokela inaliti encinci kakhulu kwilungu lobufazi ukuya kwi-ovary esebenzisa isikhokelo se-ultrasound .
• Amaqanda aphuhlileyo akhutshwa kancinci kancinci ngaloo naliti.
• Emva koko amaqanda ayaqanduselwa ngqo, okanye aqhanyiswe, kudalwe iimbumba, aze aqandiswe.

Awuyi kuva ntlungu ngexesha lenkqubo, kodwa unokufumana ukungakhululeki okuthile, njengokudumba, kwiintsuku ezingaphambi kwenkqubo nangeentsuku ezimbalwa emva kwayo.

Ukugcinwa kwezicubu zesibeleko

Oku kwenziwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia jikelele. Olu lutyando lwe-keyhole (i-Laparoscopy) .Yindlela ekwenziwa ngayo loo nto.

• Ugqirha wenza imingxunya emibini ukuya kwemine esiswini.
• Kufakwa isixhobo esithambileyo esinekhamera kwaye kujongwa ingaphakathi lesisu.
• Iqhekeza lezicubu zesibeleko liyasuswa kusetyenziswa izixhobo ezincinci.
• Emva koko izixhobo ziyasuswa kwaye amanxeba ayavalwa.

Ngokwesiqhelo ungaya ekhaya emva kweeyure ezimbini emva kolu tyando.

Ukuqandisa isidoda

Le yinkqubo elula kakhulu. Okufuneka ukwenze kukuziphulula amalungu esini uze unike isampuli yesidoda kwikomityi ekhethekileyo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kunzima ukunika isampuli enjalo ngenxa yemeko yempilo, uxinzelelo lwengqondo, intlungu, okanye izizathu zonqulo/zenkcubeko, kukho iindlela oogqirha abanokunceda ngazo.

• Amayeza: Kukho amayeza anokunceda ekukhupheni isidoda.
• Ukuvuselela Ukungcangcazela: Ukungcangcazela okuvela kwisixhobo esikhethekileyo kunokukhuthaza ukuphuma kwesisu.
• Ukukhupha i-electroejaculation: Oku kwenziwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia. Ukukhupha i-ejaculation kubangelwa ngumbane othambileyo othunyelwa sisixhobo esifakwe nge-anus kufutshane ne-prostate gland.

Ngaba kukho naziphi na iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga okanye iingozi?

Njengakwezinye iinkqubo zonyango, kukho iingozi ezithile ezibandakanyekayo kwezi nkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, ezi azixhaphakanga. Ugqirha wakho uza kukuchazela konke oku.

• Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba ukopha okanye usulelo lunokwenzeka ngexesha lokukhupha iqanda okanye isidoda.
• Kukho amathuba aphezulu okuba namawele okanye abantwana abaninzi ngexesha lenkqubo ye-IVF. Kunokubakho nomngcipheko okhulayo wokuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha, ukuzalwa komntwana obunzima obuphantsi, ukuphuphuma kwesisu, kunye nokukhulelwa okungaphandle kwesibeleko.
• Kukho umngcipheko omncinci kakhulu wokosuleleka, ukopha, kunye nokonakala kwamalungu angqongileyo ngexesha lotyando lwe-keyhole.
• Iihormone ezinikwa ukuvuselela ama-ovari zonyusa amanqanaba e-estrogen emzimbeni. Oku kunokunyusa kancinci umngcipheko wokuqhekeka kwegazi.
• Kunqabile kakhulu, ukukhuthazwa kwe-ovarian kunokubangela imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi -Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS) .

Ziphumelela kangakanani ezi ndlela?

Le yingxaki enabantu abaninzi. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ayizizo zonke iindlela zokugcina inzala eziqinisekisa ukukhulelwa okupheleleyo .

Ukuqandisa iqanda, isidoda, kunye ne-embryo zezona ndlela zisetyenziswa kakhulu nezingqinisisiweyo. Ezinye iindlela azikaxhaphaki kangako okwangoku, ngoko ke idatha malunga nempumelelo yazo isaqokelelwa.

Impumelelo iyahluka kumntu nomntu. Ixhomekeke kwiminyaka yakho, i-body mass index (BMI), ezinye iimeko zempilo, kunye nokuba ukhe walufumana na unyango lwe-IVF ngaphambili.Zininzi izinto ezibandakanyekayo. Ngugqirha wakho kuphela onokukunika umbono ongcono wempumelelo ngokusekelwe kwimeko yakho.

Leliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthetha nogqirha?

Ukuba uthatha isigqibo ngale nto, kungcono ukwenze ngokukhawuleza . Ixesha elifanelekileyo leli:

• Ngaphambi kokuba uqale unyango lwesifo esifana nomhlaza.
• Ukuba ungumfazi olibazisa ukuba nabantwana, ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engama-35 ubudala .
• Kwangoko nje wakufunyaniswa ukuba unesifo esinokuchaphazela ukuzala kwakho.

Nokuba sele ugqibile unyango olunokuchaphazela ukuzala, ungalahli ithemba. Usenokhetho oluthile oluseleyo. Ngoko ke qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho ngale nto.