Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci uza kushiywa yedwa emotweni epakiweyo aze abe nengozi? (Ukhuseleko lwabantwana kwimoto epakiweyo) Masiyinyamekele le nto!

Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba silumke kangakanani na, sinokwenza iimpazamo ezincinci esingazicingiyo, akunjalo? Ingakumbi xa kuziwa kubantwana bethu, nezinto ezincinci zinokuba yingxaki enkulu. Omnye umzekelo onjalo kukushiya umntwana omncinci yedwa emotweni epakiweyo. Oku kunokuba yingozi ngaphezu kokuba ucinga. Ubusazi? Ngemini eshushu, okanye nangemini eqhelekileyo, ingaphakathi lemoto epakiweyo linokufudumala ngokukhawuleza. Abantwana abancinci banokukhawuleza bafumane imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-heat illness , enokuthi ikhule ibe yimeko esongela ubomi ebizwa ngokuba yi-heatstroke. Akupheleli apho, abantwana banokufaka igiya ngengozi emotweni baze babangele ingozi, babhajwe esitulweni, okanye bade balimele ngeefestile.

Khumbula, ubushushu ngaphakathi emotweni epakishwe ngemini eshushu bunokufikelela kumanqanaba abulalayo kumntwana ngemizuzu embalwa nje!

Kutheni silibale oku? Umntwana angashiywa njani yedwa emotweni engazi?

Xa usiva oku, usenokucinga, "Owu, oko bekungayi kwenzeka kum." Kodwa kunokwenzeka nakubani na. Khawucinge nje, ubunemini exinezelekileyo ... okanye awuzange ulale kakuhle. Okanye ufumana umnxeba obalulekileyo ngelixa uqhuba... okanye imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla itshintshile kancinci... Ngamaxesha anje, nokuba singabazali abalungileyo kangakanani na, sinokulibala ukuba umntwana wethu omncinci usemotweni ngaphandle kokuqaphela.

Umzekelo, masithi uza kumsa umntwana wakho kwindawo yokugcina abantwana ngenye imini. Kodwa umnxeba endleleni uyakuphazamisa, ngoko ke uya ngqo eofisini uze ulibale ukumshiya umntwana wakho. Jonga ukuba yintoni enokwenzeka ngento nje encinci!

Sithetha ngale nto kuba inokwenzeka nakubani na. Kufuneka ulumke kakhulu, ingakumbi ngeentsuku apho uhlengahlengiso lwakho lwemihla ngemihla lutshintsha khona.

Ngoko ke singamsindisa njani umntwana kwingozi enje?

Kulungile, masibone ukuba zeziphi amanyathelo esinokuwathatha ukuthintela olu hlobo lwesiganeko esibuhlungu. Ezi zizinto ezilula kakhulu, kodwa zinokunceda ekusindiseni ubomi.

Yenza ezi zinto ngaphambi kokuba ungene emotweni:

Ukuba ulandela le mikhwa, unganciphisa kakhulu iimpazamo zakho:

• Beka nantoni na oyifunayo imini yonke – njengefowuni yakho, ibhegi yesikolo, okanye ibhegi yeofisi – kwisitulo esingasemva apho umntwana akhoyo. Emva koko xa uphuma emotweni, kufuneka uvule ucango olungasemva uze ukhumbule umntwana.
• Xa umntwana wakho ekwisihlalo esingasemva, beka isilwanyana esikhulu esifakwe izinto kwisihlalo esingaphambili ukuze sikukhumbuze. Ngamanye amaxesha, ungasibeka kwisihlalo semoto somntwana okanye kwisihlalo sokunyusa . Xa usibona, uya kukhunjuzwa ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ungasemva.
• Cwangcisa iminxeba yokulandelela.Oko kuthetha ukuba, ukuba kufuneka umse umntwana wakho kwenye indawo (umz., kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, esikolweni), xelela umntu (njengomyeni wakho, utitshala wegumbi lokugcina abantwana) ukuba akubize ukuba umntwana akafiki ngexesha. Ukuba omnye umntu umsa umntwana (umz., umakhulu, utatomkhulu, umalume, njl.njl.), fowunela loo mntu emva kwexesha elicwangcisiweyo lokufika uze ubuze, "Ngaba umntwana uphumile?"
• Seta i-alamu kwifowuni yakho eneringithoni eyahlukileyo xa kufuneka ushiye umntwana wakho. Yithiye igama le-alamu ngegama lomntwana nendawo ahlala kuyo, njengokuthi "Baby Day Care." Ngale ndlela, uya kukhumbula xa i-alamu ikhala.

Khumbula ezi zinto xa uhamba ngemoto:

Sifanele sihlale sigxile nokuba sisemotweni.

• Beka iGPS yakho apho uya khona kwaye ulandele imiyalelo yayo. Ngale ndlela, akuyi kuba lula ukuma okanye ukuphazamiseka kwiindawo ezithile endleleni.
• Thetha nomntwana wakho, cula iingoma, kwaye udlale imidlalo naye ngelixa uqhuba. Ngale ndlela, uya kuhlala ukhumbula ukuba umntwana wakho usemotweni.
• Ungaze usebenzise ifowuni yakho okanye isixhobo esingenazandla xa usemotweni. Ukumamela i-voicemail okanye ukuthetha nomntu ongengomntwana wakho kunokukuphazamisa ngokupheleleyo kumntwana wakho.

Wakufika kwindawo oya kuyo, qiniseka ukuba wenza oku kulandelayo:

Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo!

• Yenza umkhwa wokuvula ucango olungasemva rhoqo xa upaka imoto yakho, nokuba umntwana usesitulweni esingasemva okanye akunjalo. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yindlela ethi "Look Before You Lock". Ngale ndlela, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlolwa ukuba umntwana ulapho na. Nje ukuba oku kube ngumkhwa, awuyi kukulibala.
• Ezinye iimoto ezintsha zineenkqubo zokukhumbuza izihlalo ezingasemva . Oko kukuthi, xa ucima imoto, ikukhumbuza ukuba "ujonge kwisitulo esingasemva." Kodwa khumbula, zodwa azanele ukukhusela abantwana. Kufuneka silumke sodwa.

Ngaba ufuna ukuxelela abanye abagcini ngale nto?

Ngokuqinisekileyo! Qiniseka ukuba ubacacisela ngokucacileyo abanakekeli bomntwana wakho, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, okanye nabani na onokuthi amthathe umntwana wakho emotweni malunga neengozi zezithuthi ezishushu kunye nendlela yokugcina umntwana wakho ekhuselekile. Qiniseka ukuba nabo bayawalandela la macebiso. Kaloku, ukhuseleko lomntwana wakho luxanduva lomntu wonke.

Wenza ntoni xa abantwana bakho bengena emotweni ngokunyenya?

Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abancinci badla ngokuba ziingqwabalala kakhulu. Banokungena emotweni singazi. Khawucinge nje, ukuba babona ithoyizi emotweni, ukuba bangena emotweni bedlala ukuzimela ngaphakathi endlwini, okanye ukuba bafuna "ukuqhuba" njengabazali babo... iingozi ezingalindelekanga zinokwenzeka nangaloo maxesha.

Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokhuseleko ekufuneka uzikhumbule:

• Akukho xeshaUngaze ushiye abantwana abancinci bodwa emotweni epakiweyo okanye kufutshane nayo. Nokuba ungena nje endlwini okanye evenkileni imizuzwana embalwa, musa ukuyenza loo nto. Loo mizuzwana imbalwa ingakhokelela kwingozi enkulu.
• Soloko utshixa imoto yakho kwaye ubeke izitshixo phezulu apho abantwana bangenakukwazi ukufikelela khona. Nceda ukhumbuze iindwendwe ukuba zenze okufanayo.
• Musa ukunika umntwana wakho izitshixo zemoto okanye i-keyfob yokudlala ngazo. Basenokuyivula okanye bayiqalise imoto bengazi.
• Bachazele abantwana ukuba imoto ayisiyondawo yokudlala, kwaye akufuneki bangene bodwa kuyo. Kwakhona, baxelele ukuba ukuba bafuna into emotweni, mabacele umntu omdala.
• Kubantwana abadala kancinci, oko kukuthi, abantwana abaneminyaka eqala eguqeni ukuya kwiminyaka embalwa ubudala, ungabafundisa nokubetha ixilongo ukuba abakwazi ukuphuma emotweni.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana unyamalala ngequbuliso?

Ukuba awumfumani umntwana wakho nangaliphi na ixesha, ungoyiki uze uqale ujonge ngaphakathi endlwini. Emva koko, jonga ngononophelo zonke izithuthi ezikufutshane. Ungalibali ukujonga ngakumbi kwiibhutsi zeemoto. Ezo ziindawo apho abantwana bathanda ukuzimela khona.

Ubungenza ntoni ukuba ubunokubona umntwana eshiywe yedwa emotweni?

Le yinto esifanele siyiqaphele sonke. Ukuba wakha wabona umntwana eyedwa emotweni, nazi izinto onokuzenza:

• Fowunela inombolo 119 (inombolo yongxamiseko yamapolisa) ngoko nangoko. Okanye uxelele ipolisa elikufutshane.
• Kwakhona, ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela umntu akuncede ufumane umqhubi. Ukuba ukwindawo yokupaka iimoto, njengevenkile, ivenkile enkulu, okanye ibala lemidlalo, ungacela nomqhubi ukuba ahlolwe.
• Ukuba imoto ayitshixwanga, vula ucango ngoko nangoko uze uvulele umoya, ingakumbi ukuba kushushu ngemini.
• Ukuba umntwana ubonakala engaphilanga kakuhle okanye akashukumi, mkhuphe ngononophelo umntwana emotweni uze umse kwindawo enomthunzi okanye enomoya opholileyo. De kufike uncedo, galela amanzi abandayo emzimbeni nasebusweni bomntwana. Sula umzimba ngelaphu elimanzi.
• Ukuba umntwana uvaleleke ngaphakathi emotweni ngelixa itshixiwe, okanye ukuba ubonakala ngathi akakho zingqondweni, khawuleza uphule ifestile uze ukhuphe umntwana. Kwimeko enjalo, ukusindisa ubomi bomntwana yeyona nto iphambili. Amazwe amaninzi anemithetho 'yamaSamariya Alungileyo' , ebonelela ngokhuseleko olusemthethweni kwabo bonakalisa imoto ukuze basindise umntwana. NaseSri Lanka, kwimeko engxamisekileyo enjalo, akukho ngxaki yomthetho ngayo nayiphi na into eyenziwayo ngenjongo yokusindisa ubomi bomntwana.

Ngoko ke, yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule kwinto esithethe ngayo namhlanje?

Ngamafutshane, bazali, bagcini abathandekayo, imoto epakiweyo inokuba yindawo eyingozi kakhulu kumntwana omncinci. Ubushushu bunokuba yingozi nakubomi, bubangele ubushushu.Iimeko ezinje zinokwenzeka. Kwakhona, kukho ithuba lokuba umntwana angangena ngempazamo emotweni, abangele ingozi ngokushukumisa isihlalo, okanye avule iifestile.

Ngoko ke, nokuba sixakeke kangakanani na, nokuba sixhalabile kangakanani na, soloko ucinga kabini malunga nokuba umshiye umntwana wakho emotweni okanye hayi. Musa ukucinga ukuba, "Oko akuyi kwenzeka kum." Musa ukuvumela ukungaziphathi kakuhle kube yintlekele enkulu. Sonke masiqaphele oku kwaye sikhusele abantwana bethu abancinci. Ukuba unemibuzo engaphezulu malunga noku, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho okanye ugqirha wezingane. Baza kukunika iingcebiso ezingcono.

Ukhuseleko lomntwana , iingozi zeemoto, ukubetha kobushushu, ukhuseleko lwezithuthi, iingcebiso zokuba ngumzali, ukuba bodwa kwabantwana, iimeko ezingxamisekileyo