Ngaba umama wakho othandekayo, utata, okanye umakhulu wakho uqalise ngequbuliso ukuthetha izinto ezingaqhelekanga, ukoyika umntu, okanye ukukucaphukela ngaphandle kwesizathu? Ngaba bayabona okanye beva izinto ezingekhoyo? Usenokuziva ulusizi kakhulu, woyika, kwaye ukhathazekile xa ubona oku. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-dementia-related psychosis, okanye i-psychosis. Oku kuyinxalenye ye-dementia ngokwayo. Kodwa khumbula, ukuba ayinyangwa, inokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinkulu kakhulu.
Kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ukunyanga le meko?
Ngamafutshane, i-dementia sisifo apho ukusebenza kwengqondo kuyehla kancinci kancinci, ingakumbi ukulahlekelwa yinkumbulo. I-Psychosis liqela leempawu ezongezelelweyo ezinokwenzeka kwesi sifo. Kulapho ungakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kokwenyani kunye ne-fantasy.
Wonke umntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo uza kuba nale meko ngaxa lithile ebomini bakhe. Ngaphezu kokulahlekelwa yinkumbulo, oku kudideka kwengqondo yeyona nto ibangela intlungu kumguli nakuwe, wena mntu ukhathalelayo. Nangona kungekho nyango loku, ngamayeza afanelekileyo kunye nolunye unyango, ezi ngcinga neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo zinokulawulwa kwaye iingxaki ezinkulu zinokuthintelwa. Ngoku makhe sijonge ukuba yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba ayinyangwa.
| Ingxaki enokwenzeka ukuba ayinyangwanga | Inkcazo yento enokwenzeka kuyo |
|---|---|
| Ukuqhekeka kobudlelwane | Isigulane ngequbuliso siba nomsindo, sikrokre, size sikhalimele. Umzekelo, banokutyhola umntwana wabo ngokuthi "uba imali yam." Nokuba bayaqonda ukuba la ngamazwi nje athethwayo ngenxa yesifo kwaye ayingomazwi athethwayo ngokwenene, loo mazwi asenokubangela intlungu enkulu kumntu ophulaphuleyo. |
| Ihlazo kunye nesizungu | Isigulana sinokuba neentloni zokuxelela abanye ukuba zibona okanye ziva izinto ezingekhoyo. Bazigcina ezi zinto kubo besoyika ukuba "abanye baza kundilahla, bandihleke." Ubulolo ababuvayo xa bevakalelwa kukuba akukho mntu uyiqondayo into abajongene nayo buyoyikeka. |
| Iingxaki zokulala | Ubumnyama bobusuku lixesha eloyikekayo kubo. Basenokubona isithunzi eludongeni baze bakhwaze bathi, "Kufike isela." Abanye abantu bayadideka malunga nokuba amaphupha abo ayinyani okanye angamanga. Oku kwenza kube nzima kwisigulana kunye nabanye abasendlini ukuba balale kakuhle. |
| Ukulaliswa esibhedlele kunye namakhaya abantu abadala | Ngamanye amaxesha, xa indlela umguli aziphatha ngayo ingakwazi ukulawuleka, abanakekeli kufuneka bamse kwiYunithi yoNyango oluNgxamisekileyo (ETU) yesibhedlele. Ukuba le meko iyaqhubeka, abanye banokude bagqibe ekubeni bathumele umntu abamthandayo kwikhaya labalupheleyo. Oku kubuhlungu kwaye kubiza imali eninzi. |
| Ukulimala emzimbeni kunye neengozi | Le meko inokubangela ukuba isigulana sizilimaze okanye sizilimaze nabanye. Umzekelo, banokucinga, "Umfazi wam uzama ukundityhefa," baze bazame ukumhlasela. Okanye banokucinga, "Kukho umntu ondisukelayo," baze bazame ukutsiba kwibalcony okanye babaleke baye esitalatweni. |
| Ukwanda kwezifo kunye nobude bobomi buyancipha | Ukuba esi sifo sengqondo asinyangwa, i-dementia inokuba mandundu ngokukhawuleza. Izifundo zibonise nokuba abantu abanezi mpawu banamathuba amaninzi okufa kwangethuba kunabo bangenazo. |
Simele senze ntoni?
Ukuba umntu omthandayo uneempawu ezinje, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukungabi naloyiko okanye ukuba neentloni, kodwa kukubona ugqirha ngokukhawuleza uze uthethe ngaloo nto.
Khumbula, oku akuyongxaki yomntu omthandayo, kwaye akuyonto bayenzayo ngabom. Yinxalenye nje yesifo. Kufana nenxeba elingapholiyo ngokukhawuleza xa umntu onesifo seswekile esifumana.
Ugqirha uza kuyihlola ngononophelo imeko yesigulana aze anike amayeza afunekayo ukulawula esi sifo sengqondo. La mayeza asebenza ngokulawula iikhemikhali ezithile (ii-neurotransmitters) engqondweni ezingalinganiyo, nto leyo enciphisa ezo ngcinga neemvakalelo eziyingozi.
Iingenelo zonyango
- Isigulana sizola:Umsindo, ukukhwaza, kunye nokurhanela kuncipha, kwaye umguli uyazola.
- Ukhuseleko luyaqinisekiswa: Umngcipheko wokuzilimaza okanye wokuzilimaza abanye uncitshiswa kakhulu.
- Intuthuzelo kusapho: Xa isigulana sizolile, uziva ukhululekile xa usinyamekela. Oku kunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane bentsapho.
- Umgangatho wobomi ophucukileyo: Wena kunye nesigulana siya kukwazi ukuphila ubomi obunoxolo nobusemgangathweni.
Izinto onokuzenza njengomnakekeli
Ukongeza kunyango olunikezelwa ngugqirha wakho, kukho izinto ezininzi onokuzenza.
- Hlala uzolile: Musa ukukhwaza okanye ukucaphuka xa isigulana sicaphukile. Banokukhululeka xa uthetha ngoxolo nangobunono.
- Musa ukuphikisa: Musa ukuzama ukubonisa ukuba oko bakuthethayo "bubuxoki." Umzekelo, ukuba bathi, "Kukho umntu egumbini," endaweni yokuphikisa bathi, "Akukho mntu," yitsho into efana nale, "Kulungile, masibone. Ndikunye nawe, ungoyiki."
- Baphazamise: Xa beziva bexinezelekile, dlala ingoma endala abayithandayo, thetha ngokujonga i-albhamu yeefoto endala, njl. Ngale ndlela, ungaziguqula ingqalelo zabo.
- Yenza indawo ekhuselekileyo: Nciphisa ukukhanya okuqatha kwigumbi lokulala ebusuku. Susa izinto ezidala izithunzi eziyingozi. Musa ukushiya izinto ezifana nezixhobo ezibukhali apho zinokuzifumana khona.
Olu hambo lunzima. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa. Ngeengcebiso zonyango ezifanelekileyo kunye nothando lwakho nobubele bakho, ungajongana nalo mceli mngeni.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ingqondo enxulunyaniswa ne-dementia yinxalenye yesifo ngokwaso, ayilotyala lesigulana.
- Ukungazinyangi ezi mpawu kunokuba nemiphumo emibi, efana nokuqhekeka kobudlelwane beentsapho, iingozi, kunye nokwanda kwesi sifo.
- Ukuba ubona iimpawu ezifana nokubona okanye ukuva izinto ezingekhoyo, musa ukuba neentloni okanye ukoyika kwaye bonana nogqirha.
- Ngamayeza afanelekileyo kunye nonyango, le meko inokulawulwa ngempumelelo kakhulu kwaye umgangatho wobomi bomguli ungaphucuka.
- Kuphephe ukuphikisana nesigulana. Endaweni yoko, zama ukuzola, ngobubele, kwaye usiphazamise.
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