Sizokhuluma ngokushaya indlwabu? Lokhu akusikho okufanele kube namahloni ngakho!

Cishe uke wezwa igama elithi 'ukushaya indlwabu'. Nakuba abanye abantu bekhuluma ngakho benamahloni nokwesaba, empeleni kuyinto evamile futhi yemvelo. Ake sixoxe ngakho obala namuhla, ngendlela oyiqondayo, akunjalo? Ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nolwazi olufanele ngalokhu.

Kalula nje, ukushaya indlwabu isenzo sokuthinta izitho zangasese zomuntu siqu noma izindawo zomzimba ezizwelayo ukuze kutholakale ukukhuthazwa noma injabulo ngokocansi. Lokhu kuyinto evamile kakhulu engabonakala kwabesifazane, amadoda, kanye nabantu banoma yimuphi ubudala. Eqinisweni, ukushaya indlwabu kudlala indima ebalulekile ekuthuthukisweni kocansi okunempilo . Kuyindlela yemvelo kakhulu yokufunda ngomzimba wakho, ukuthola injabulo, nokufinyelela ukwaneliseka ngokocansi, okungukuthi, i-orgasm.

Ungasebenzisa izandla zakho, iminwe, amathoyizi ocansi, noma ezinye izinto ukwenza lokhu. Ungathinta, ucindezele, uhlikihle, noma uhlikihle izitho zakho zobulili. Abanye abantu bangafaka neminwe yabo noma ithoyizi locansi, njengesidlidlizi, esithweni sangasese sowesifazane noma endunu. Abanye bangasebenzisa ithoyizi locansi noma umcamelo ukuvuselela ipenisi, i-labia, noma i-clitoris.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungajabulela futhi ukuthinta ezinye izindawo zomzimba ezikhipha ukungcola, njengezingono namasende . Ngezinye izikhathi, ukusebenzisa i-lubricant kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukungezwani okubangelwa yilokhu kuthinta . Ukufunda, ukubuka, noma ukucabanga ngamaphupho ocansi ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu nakho kungandisa injabulo futhi kukusize ufinyelele ekufikeni kokwaneliseka. Indlela yawo wonke umuntu yokushaya indlwabu ihlukile. Kuyinto yomuntu siqu kakhulu, futhi kunezindlela eziningi zokukwenza.

Ukushaya indlwabu kungenziwa wedwa noma nomlingani wakho. Kuvamile futhi ukushaya indlwabu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uya ocansini nabanye abantu noma cha. Ungase ucabange ukuthi abantu abangashadile kuphela abashaya indlwabu. Kodwa-ke, abantu abangashadile nalabo abasebudlelwaneni bocansi nabo bayashaya indlwabu.

Uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo ezitholakala ngokushaya indlwabu?

Eqinisweni, ukushaya indlwabu kuhle kuwe. Kunezinzuzo eziningi zomzimba nezengqondo. Izifundo zikhombisile ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kungenza lokhu okulandelayo:

Akukho ukwesaba ukukhulelwa. Futhi, ingozi yezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( ama-STI ) iphansi kakhulu (kodwa kungcono ukugcina amathoyizi owasebenzisayo ehlanzekile, futhi ungawabelani nabanye). Enye into ukuthi uma usufike esikhathini sokuvuthwa, amahomoni amabili abizwa ngokuthi `( Dopamine )` kanye `( Oxytocin )` ayakhishwa emzimbeni. Ihomoni `(Dopamine)` ngezinye izikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi `ihomoni yenjabulo' , kanti `(Oxytocin)` yaziwa nangokuthi `ihomoni yothando'. Lawa mahomoni andisa imizwa emihle njengenjabulo emzimbeni wakho. Futhi, lawa `(Isebenza ngokumelene ne-hormone yokucindezeleka ebizwa ngokuthi i-cortisol . Ngakho cabanga ukuthi lokho kuhle kangakanani!

Izinzuzo ezikhethekile zokushaya indlwabu kwabesilisa

Izifundo zokushaya indlwabu kwabesilisa zikhombisile ukuthi akugcini nje ngokuba nempilo, kodwa futhi kuyazuzisa empilweni yesikhathi eside. Ucwaningo olulodwa luthole ukuthi amadoda akhipha indlwabu njalo angaba nengozi ephansi yomdlavuza wendlala. Ukuphuma indlwabu njalo kungasiza ekuvimbeleni ukunqwabelana kwezinto ezibangela umdlavuza kundlala. Kudingeka ucwaningo olwengeziwe ngalokhu, kodwa lezi yizindaba ezinhle.

Izinzuzo eziyingqayizivele zokushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane

Kunezinzuzo eziningi ezifakazelwe zokushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane. Abesifazane abashaya indlwabu banamathuba amaningi okuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi nabalingani babo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bayazi ukuthi bangayijabulisa kanjani imizimba yabo. Ukushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane kusiza futhi ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu bokuya esikhathini . Ukufinyela kwemisipha kanye nokugeleza kwegazi okwandayo okuhambisana ne-orgasm kunciphisa ubuhlungu. Ukushaya indlwabu kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukoma kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye nobuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi, okwenziwa abanye besifazane njengoba bekhula.

Ngokusho kocwaningo oluthile, abesifazane abashadile abashaya indlwabu babike okulandelayo:

• Ukuya ocansini njalo.
• Ukuzethemba okuphezulu.
• Ukwanda kwesifiso sobulili (' inkanuko yobulili ').
• Ukwaneliseka okukhulu ngomshado wabo kanye nempilo yabo yocansi .

Uma ukhulelwe, ungase uzizwe uvukile kakhulu ngokocansi. Lokhu kungenxa yezinguquko zamahomoni. Ukushaya indlwabu kungasiza ekunciphiseni lokho kucindezeleka ngokocansi. Akukhona lokho kuphela, kungasiza futhi ekunciphiseni ezinye zezimpawu zokukhulelwa, njengobuhlungu besisu esingezansi. Kodwa-ke, uma unenkinga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kungcono ukubonisana nodokotela.

Ingabe ikhona imiphumela emibi yokushaya indlwabu? Ake sibone ukuthi kuyiqiniso noma cha.

Eqinisweni, azikho imiphumela emibi kakhulu yokushaya indlwabu. Kunezinganekwane eziningi ngalokhu ezisakazeke emphakathini. Ungesabi ukuzizwa. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo alufakazeli ukuthi noma yiziphi zazo ziyiqiniso. Ukushaya indlwabu akuzibangeli lezi zinto:

• Ukulahlekelwa umbono.
• Ukukhula kwezinwele ezintendeni zezandla (lena indaba ehlekisayo kakhulu!).
• Ukukhula kwesifo sengqondo.
• Ukufinyela noma ukuhoxa kwepenisi yowesilisa.
• Ukwehla kwenani lesidoda (ukusetshenziswa njalo kunganciphisa isibalo sesidoda okwesikhashana, kodwa ngeke kunciphise unomphela inani lesidoda).
• Ukungasebenzi kahle kocansi (`Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-Erectile`).
• Ukwehla kwesifiso sobulili (`I-Libido`) (eqinisweni, abanye bangase babe nesifiso esikhulu!).
• Ukungazali.

Ngisho noma lezi zinganekwane zingamanga, zingabangela ukungakhululeki okuncane kwabanye abantu. Ake sixoxe ngalokho futhi.

Uzizwa unecala?

Ungase uzizwe unecala noma unamahloni ngokushaya indlwabu. Lokhu kungase kube ngenxa yezinkolelo zenkolo, ezingokomoya, noma zamasiko. Indawo esikhulela kuyo nalokho esikuzwayo kungathonya lokhu. Ngokwesayensi, akukho okubi noma okubi ngokushaya indlwabu. Kodwa-ke, kwezinye izinhlangano zomphakathi, ungase uzwe umbono ohlukile. Uma uzizwa unecala ngalolu hlobo, futhi lukukhathaza, ungase uzuze ngokukhuluma nochwepheshe wezempilo yezocansi noma umeluleki wezempilo yengqondo. Bangakusiza unqobe le mizwa yokuzizwa unecala. Khumbula, awuwedwa.

Ingabe lokhu sekuyimkhuba okunzima ukuwulawula?

Ngezinye izikhathi ukushaya indlwabu kungaba yinto engalawuleki, ephoqelelayo, noma eyeqisayo. Abanye abantu bakubiza ngokuthi ukulutheka ngokocansi noma ucansi oluhambisana nocansi ngokweqile. Uma uphuthelwa umsebenzi, ukhansela izinhlelo nabangani, noma udebeselela imithwalo yakho yemfanelo, ungase uchithe isikhathi esiningi ukushaya indlwabu. Ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile kungathinta ubudlelwano bakho kanye nokuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke.

Kungenzeka yini ukuba nokungakhululeki okuncane ngokomzimba?

Uma ushaya indlwabu kakhulu, ungase uzwe ukucasuka kwesikhumba, ukukhwehlela, noma ukuzwela. Futhi, uma ushaya indlwabu kaningi ngesikhathi esifushane, ipenisi yakho ingase ivuvuke kancane (okubizwa nangokuthi i-edema). Kodwa-ke, le miphumela emincane yomzimba izophela ngemva kosuku olulodwa noma ezimbili zokuphumula. Ukusebenzisa i-lubricant kungasiza ekunciphiseni lokhu.

Ingabe ukuzwela ngokocansi kuncipha?

Uma ushaya indlwabu kaningi noma kaningi, ungase ubhekane nokuncipha kokuzwela ngokocansi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umzimba wakho usujwayele ukukhuthazwa futhi ukuthola kunzima ukujabulela ukuthintwa njalo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ungase ufune ukuzama izindlela ezahlukene zokukhuthazwa ukuze wandise ukuzwela kwakho ngokocansi, mhlawumbe usebenzisa into ehlukile, njenge-vibrator. Noma ungase ufune ukuyeka ukushaya indlwabu isikhashana. Izindlela zokukhuthazwa ezithuthukisiwe zitholakale zandisa ukuvuka kanye nokusebenza kocansi jikelele.