Ingabe ingane yakho nayo inayo i-(ADHD)? Ake sifunde ngqo ngalokhu kwelashwa kwe-(Therapy)!

Wake wazizwa sengathi ingane yakho ayihlaliseki, iyathuthumela kakhulu, noma inobunzima bokunaka? Uma ubona lezi zimpawu enganeni, odokotela ngezinye izikhathi bathi ingane ingaba nesimo esibizwa ngokuthi `(ADHD - Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)` . Ngakho-ke, kulokhu, kanye nemithi, enye into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwelashwa okunikezwa laba bantwana, okungukuthi `(Therapy)` . Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngokuthi iyini `(Therapy)` nokuthi ingasiza kanjani izingane zethu nge `(ADHD)`.

Iyini indlela yokwelapha ingane ene-ADHD?

Kalula nje, "Ukwelashwa" kuyindlela ekhethekile esiza izingane ezine-"ADHD" ukuthi zibhekane nobunzima ezibhekana nabo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke ngenxa yesimo sazo esikhethekile. Lokhu kufana nengane ekhuluma nomeluleki oqeqeshwe ngokukhethekile, noma "uMeluleki" oqeqeshiwe, futhi ehlanganyela emisebenzini yomuntu ngamunye. Phakathi nale mihlangano, ingane ifundiswa amakhono amaningi abalulekile adingekayo empilweni yansuku zonke, emsebenzini wesikole, nasebudlelwaneni nabantu.

Cabanga nje, uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokulalela okushiwo othile, inenkinga yokuhlala igxile entweni eyodwa, noma inenkinga yokugxila emsebenzini wesikole, le "Therapy" ifundisa ingane indlela yokuthuthukisa kancane kancane lezo zinto. Lokhu akusona isijeziso noma indlela yokumphoqa ukuba enze noma yini, kodwa kuyinto eyenziwa ngendlela enobungane kakhulu futhi iwine inhliziyo yengane.

Ezinye izingane zingase zibe nezinye izinkinga ezincane kanye ne-ADHD. Isibonelo, ubunzima bokugcina ibhalansi, ukungakwazi ukubhala kahle nangokucacile, njll. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kukhona olunye uhlobo olukhethekile lwe-"Therapy" olubizwa ngokuthi "Occupational Therapy" . Lokho futhi kunikeza ingane ukwesekwa okudingekayo.

Odokotela bavame ukunikeza izingane ezine-ADHD imithi. Le mithi ingasiza ekuthuthukiseni isikhathi sokunaka kwengane, ukuzithiba, kanye nekhono lokuhlala izolile ngaphandle kokuzulazula. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu okudingeka siyikhumbule sonke ukuthi imithi yodwa ingase inganele. Uma imithi ihlanganiswa nokwelashwa, singalindela imiphumela emihle kakhulu. Uma zombili lezi zinto zihamba ndawonye, ​​intuthuko yengane iyasheshiswa futhi kunethuba elikhulu lokuthi leyo ntuthuko izoba yaphakade.

Kungani lokhu "(Ukwelashwa)" kubaluleke kangaka ezinganeni ezine-"(ADHD)"?

Lezi zindlela zokwelapha "(Ukwelashwa)" zinikeza impumuzo enkulu kanye nokulula ezinganeni ezine-"(ADHD)" emsebenzini wesikole kanye nasemisebenzini yasekhaya yansuku zonke. Uma ubona ingane yakho ithuthuka ngezindlela ezincane usuku nosuku, uzozizwa nenjabulo enkulu nethemba.

Nazi ezinye zezinzuzo eziyinhloko zalolu hlobo lokwelapha ezinganeni:

• Ukujwayela ukwenza izinto ngendlela ehlelekile:Esikhundleni sokusabalalisa izincwadi namathoyizi yonke indawo njengakuqala, kancane kancane bajwayela ukugcina izimpahla zabo nezincwadi zihlelekile, ukugcina amakamelo abo ecocekile, kanye nokugcina isikhathi. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngekusasa labo.
• Kuba lula ukugxila emsebenzini wesikole: Esikhundleni sokuphazanyiswa yinto ethile njalo, bafunda ukugxila kulokho okufundiswa uthisha kanye nesifundo. Lokhu kwandisa nekhono labo lokufunda.
• Bafunda ukulalela ngokucophelela lokho okushiwo abanye: Bafunda ukulalela ngesineke nangokucophelela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyinto eshiwo uthisha, into oyishoyo, noma into eshiwo umngane. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni okuhle.
• Bafunda ukuhlalisana kahle nabanye nokuhlalisana kahle: Esikhundleni sokulwa njalo nabangani babo, bafunda ukudlala ndawonye, ​​ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yeqembu, nokuchazela abanye imibono yabo.
• Izinkinga zokuziphatha ziyancipha: Izinkinga zokuziphatha njengokuphamazela, ukuthukuthela ngokushesha, nokuphazamisa abanye kancane kancane, futhi bafunda ukulawula imizwa yabo.

Njengoba la makhono ethuthuka, ingane izizwa kahle ngayo. Ithuthukisa inkolelo yokuthi "Nami ngingakwenza."

Enye into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ezinye izingane ezine-ADHD zingabhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu, ukudabuka, nokukhungatheka. Cabanga ukuthi kumelwe ukuba kudabukisa kangakanani ngengane ukubuzwa njalo izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Kungani ungahlali uthule?" nokuthi "Kungani ungalaleli engikushoyo?" ngabanye.

• Ukuzethemba kwabo kungase kwehle kancane kancane, bathi, "Angikwazi ukwenza noma yikuphi kwalokhu kahle. "
• Bangase bacabange ukuthi, "Ngibangela inkinga kumama, kubaba, nakothisha."
• Kwabanye abantwana, lokhu kungaholela ezimweni zempilo yengqondo zesikhathi eside njengokucindezeleka, umuzwa oqhubekayo wokwesaba okungadingekile (ukukhathazeka), intukuthelo engapheli, kanye nokukhungatheka okukhulu.

Ngakho-ke, lapho ingane ifunda amakhono adingekayo ukuze ilawule i-ADHD yayo ngokwelashwa, iqala ukwenza umsebenzi wayo kangcono kunangaphambili. Bese iqala ukuzizwa ijabule, ikhululekile, futhi izethemba kakhulu. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengqondo yengane iyonke.

Lolu hlobo lokwelapha olubizwa ngokuthi "(ADHD)`` lusebenza kanjani?

Ngishilo ngaphambili ukuthi lokhu kuyasebenza kakhulu. Ku-"ADHD Therapy", izingane zifunda izinto ezintsha hhayi ngokukhumbula izinto ezincwadini, kodwa ngokuzenza. Kufana nokufunda isifundo esibalulekile ngenkathi zidlala futhi zijabulisa.

Umeluleki, noma "uTherapist," wabelana ngemisebenzi ehlukahlukene kanye nemibono emisha nengane esiza ingane ukuthi yakhe kancane kancane amakhono ayidingayo. Le misebenzi yenziwa ngendlela efanelana nobudala bengane, izinga lokuqonda, kanye nezinto eziyithandayo.

• Cabanga nje, ungafundisa ingane inqubo yokufunda, indlela (amakhono okufunda).
• Amakhono emizwelo angafundiswa ukusiza izingane ukuthi zithole futhi zilawule imizwa yazo (intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukwesaba).
• Ungafundisa izivivinyo ezilula zokuqaphela, njengokuphefumula okucabangayo, ukuze kukusize uhlale ugxile. Lokhu kulula kakhulu, kodwa kuyasiza kakhulu.
• Bafundisa nezingane indlela yokuxhumana nabanye ngendlela enobungane neyobungane (amakhono okuxhumana nabantu), indlela yokulinda ithuba labo, kanye nendlela yokusiza abanye.
• Ngale "Therapy", ingane ingafunda namakhono okubhekana nokukhathazeka lapho izizwa yesaba noma ikhathazekile.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane ayilaleli nje kuphela lokho ekufundayo, kodwa idinga nokuzijwayeza amakhono ekuphileni kwayo kwansuku zonke. Umeluleki uyayisiza futhi ayikhuthaze ingane kulokhu. Ngezinye izikhathi, bayinika nemisebenzi emincane okufanele bayenze ekhaya.

Ku-ADHD Therapy, kubalulekile ukwakha ubudlelwano obuhle, obuthembanayo, nobuhle phakathi komelaphi nengane. Ngemuva kwalokho ingane izizwa inesithakazelo kulokho ekufundayo futhi ikhuthazwa kakhulu. Ingane izizwa iphephile ngokuthi "Angingedwa, kukhona umuntu ozongisiza." Kungale ndlela yokuthembana lapho ingane ishukumiseleka khona ukufunda izinto ezintsha nokushintsha ukuziphatha kwayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, la makhono adingekayo asondezwa enganeni ngemisebenzi ethandwa yingane, njengokudweba, ukusebenzisa amathoyizi ahlukene, ukuxoxa izindaba, nokulingisa.

Ngakho-ke, ake sikhumbule kahle lokho esikukhulume ngakho? (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Kuvamile ukuzizwa ukhungathekile futhi ukhathazekile lapho udokotela ekutshela ukuthi ingane yakho ine-ADHD. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukufuna ulwazi olufanele hhayi ukwethuka.

• Ukwelashwa kuyindlela yokwelapha ebalulekile enganeni ene-ADHD, hhayi imithi kuphela. Imiphumela emihle kakhulu itholakala uma kokubili kuhlanganiswa.
• Lokhu "(Ukwelashwa)" kusiza izingane ukuthi zifunde amakhono amaningi abalulekile adingekayo empilweni yansuku zonke, ekufundeni, nasebudlelwaneni bomphakathi. Lokhu kuzisiza ukuthi zithuthukise ukunaka, zihlele umsebenzi wazo, futhi zizwane kahle nabanye.
• Futhi, ukwelashwa kungaba usizo olukhulu ekubhekaneni nobunzima obungokomzwelo obungase buvele ngenxa ye-ADHD. Lokhu kusiza ingane ukuthi ikhulise ukuzethemba kwayo futhi ijabule.
• Uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho ine-ADHD, ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi ikusasa layo lonakele. Ngeseluleko esifanele sezokwelapha, singenza umehluko omkhulu nowakhayo empilweni yengane ngezindlela zokwelapha ezifana ne-"Therapy". Ngakho-ke, hlala unengane yakho ngethemba. Uthando lwakho, ukwesekwa, kanye nesikhuthazo kuzoba amandla amakhulu enganeni yakho ukuze idlule kulolu hambo.

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