Izinzuzo ezinhle zokugcina usana lwakho luseduze nawe (Indawo Yokuhlala)!

Ingabe ungumama omusha? Noma usanda kuba nomntwana ? Uma kunjalo, siyakuhalalisela wena nomntwana wakho! Lesi isikhathi esimnandi, kodwa futhi singakhathaza kancane. Ikakhulukazi ngemva kokuthola umntwana, kusobala ukuthi ukulala kahle ebusuku kubalulekile. Ngakho-ke, abanye omama bacabanga ukuthi kungaba ngcono ukuthumela umntwana egumbini lokunakekela izingane esibhedlela bese umvumela ukuba alale isikhashana. Kodwa, bewazi ukuthi ukugcina ingane yakho eduze kwakho kunezinzuzo eziningi kuwe nomntwana wakho? Namuhla, sizoxoxa ngale ndlela ebizwa ngokuthi "Indawo Yokuhlala" .

Kuyini "Indawo Yokuhlala"? Kulula kakhulu!

Kalula nje, "Ukulala" kusho ukugcina ingane yakho ekamelweni lakho, eduze kwakho amahora angama-24 ngosuku, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala ngemva kokubeletha ingane yakho, esikhundleni sokuyishiya endaweni yokunakekela izingane ehlukile. Cabanga ukuthi kungaba mnandi kanjani ukuba nengane yakho eduze kwakho, iphunga iphunga lakho futhi izwa ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakho!

Izifundo eziningi zithole ukuthi akukho mehluko omkhulu ngesilinganiso sokulala umama akutholayo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugcina ingane yakhe naye noma ekamelweni elihlukile. Kodwa-ke, ukugcina ingane yakho nawe kusukela ekuqaleni kuvumela wena nomntwana wakho ukuthi nilale kahle ebusuku futhi kukusiza ukuthi wakhe ubuhlobo obuhle kanye nesimiso ngokushesha. Lena inketho engcono kakhulu kini nobabili.

Lesi yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu sokuba wazi ingane yakho entsha futhi usondelane nayo. Izingane ziyaliqaphela kahle izwi likanina, iphunga, kanye nokushaya kwenhliziyo. Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho izizwa ikhululekile futhi iphephile uma unaye. Indlela ethi "Indawo Yokuhlala" ikuvumela ukuthi ujwayele ukunakekela ingane yakho ngaphambi kokuba uye ekhaya. Lokhu futhi kukusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kanye nezimpawu ezincane.

Yiziphi izinzuzo ze-"Rooming-In" kumama?

Njengomama omusha, nawe unokuningi ongakuzuza kule ndlela. Bheka lezi zinzuzo:

• Lala kahle futhi ulale kahle: Ungase ucabange, "O, ungalala kanjani nomntwana wakho eduze?" Kodwa empeleni, uma unomntwana wakho, ungamuzwa ngokushesha nje lapho evuka. Khona-ke ungenza ngokushesha lokho umntwana wakho akudingayo bese nobabili niphinde nilale. Ukubeka umntwana wakho egumbini lokunakekela izingane, umlinde ukuthi akhulume nawe, bese uvuka uhambe kungakuphazamisa ngokuphelele ukulala kwakho.
• Uzothola ukuzethemba ekuphatheni nasekunakekeleni ingane yakho: Kuvamile ukuzizwa ukhathazekile kancane lapho ugeza, ukhala, futhi uncelisa ingane yakho ezinsukwini zokuqala. Kodwa uma ingane yakho inawe njalo, uzothola ithuba lokuyithinta, ukuyiphakamisa, nokukhuluma nayo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngenxa yalokho, ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, uzomangala ukuthi unekhono elingakanani ekunakekeleni ingane yakho.
• Qonda izinkomba zomntwana wakho: Ngisho noma izingane zingakhulumi, zisitshela izidingo zazo ngezinkomba ezincane. "Ukuzibeka endaweni" kukusiza ukuthi uqaphele ngokushesha lezi zinkomba.
• Ingabe ingane ilele?
• Ulambile?
• Ingabe uzizwa engakhululekile noma enenkinga?
• Uyafuna ukuthula isikhashana?

Uzoqala ukuqonda lezi zinto ngokushesha. Cabanga nje, ingane yakho imane inyakazisa umlomo wayo kancane... woza, lokho kusho ukuthi isizolamba! Uma usenkulisa, ungase uphuthelwe yilesi sibonakaliso esincane, akunjalo?

• Ungazibona izimpawu zokuncelisa ingane yakho kusenesikhathi ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukuncelisa: Izingane zibonisa izimpawu ezincane ngaphambi kokuba ziqale ukukhala lapho zilambile ngempela. Isibonelo:
• Evula umlomo wakhe, ekhipha ulimi lwakhe.
• Izandla, iminwe, izindebe ziyavuvukala.
• Zifuna iphunga lobisi ngokunikina amakhanda azo kusukela kolunye uhlangothi kuya kolunye (ukususa izimpande).

Uma uncelisa ingane yakho ngokushesha nje lapho ubona lezi zimpawu, izobe isizolile futhi incelise kahle.

• Ukuncelisa ibele kuyaphumelela kakhulu: Ngenxa yokuthi ingane yakho ihlala iseduze, ungayincelisa noma nini lapho ingane yakho ifuna, noma nini lapho ingane yakho icela. Lokhu kubizwa nangokuthi "ukondla uma ufuna." Lokhu kusiza ubisi lwakho lwebele ukuthi lukhule kahle, kuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ithola ubisi oludingayo, futhi kunganciphisa izinkinga eziningi ezingaba khona ngesikhathi sokuncelisa.
• Ukukhala nokungahlaliseki kwengane kuyancipha: Eqinisweni, izingane zithanda ukuba nonina kakhulu. Iphunga lakho, ukufudumala kwakho, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakho kuyinduduzo enkulu kuzo. Ngakho-ke, azikhali futhi azikhathazi kangako uma zinengane yazo.
• Kunciphisa ingozi "yokuzizwa ukhathele" kanye nokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha: Ngemva kokubeletha umntwana, abanye omama bangase babe nokudabuka okuncane, ukukhathazeka, kanye nokucasuka. Lokhu kuvame ukuphela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Kodwa-ke, kutholakale ukuthi amathuba alezi zimo ayancipha lapho umntwana eseduze futhi isibopho nomntwana sikhula.
• Abazali baphumule kahle futhi baphumule phakathi nesonto lokuqala beya ekhaya: Njengoba bejwayele ukunakekela umntwana esibhedlela, ukuya ekhaya akuzwakali njengoshintsho olukhulu. Ngakho-ke, abazali bangasheshe bazivumelanise nokuphila kwabo okusha futhi baphumule.
• Kwandisa ukuthintana kwesikhumba nengane yakho: Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kumama nomntwana. Ukubamba ingane yakho esifubeni sakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi inqunu noma igqoke izingubo ezincane, kusiza ekulawuleni izinga lokushisa lomzimba wengane, kusiza ekulawuleni ukuphefumula, futhi kusiza ingane ukuba izole. Lokhu kwenza umama azizwe ejabule kakhulu futhi exhumene.

Izinzuzo "zokuhlala ndawonye" kwengane yakho encane

Njengomama, indodakazi noma indodana yengane yakho nayo izozuza kule ndlela:

• Ingane nayo ilala kangcono: Njengoba izingane zizizwa ziphephile uma zinonina, zilala kangcono. Futhi, umjikelezo wazo wokulala nokuvuka uba njalo. Lokhu kwenza kube lula ngazo ukujwayela ushintsho phakathi kwemini nobusuku.
• Kusiza ukugcina izinga lokushisa lomzimba:Izinsana ezisanda kuzalwa zinobunzima bokulawula izinga lokushisa lomzimba wazo. Uma ziseduze nonina, zingalondoloza kalula izinga lokushisa lomzimba elizinzile ngoba zifudunyezwa izinga lokushisa lomzimba lomama.
• Bajabula kakhulu isikhathi esiningi futhi abakhali kakhulu: Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, izingane ezinabonina zizolile kakhulu. Njengoba izidingo zazo zisheshe zihlangatshezwane nazo, azikhali kakhulu.
• Amazinga kashukela egazini azinzile: Ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezinceliswa ubisi lwebele, amazinga kashukela egazini alawulwa kahle ngoba zithola ubisi njalo.
• Ukuncelisa ibele kushesha, isikhathi eside, futhi kulula: Izingane zincelisa ngentshiseko enkulu futhi isikhathi eside ngoba zithola ubisi ngokushesha nje lapho zibonisa izimpawu zendlala. Lokhu futhi kuzisiza ukuba zithole isisindo.
• Amazinga ama-hormone okucindezeleka ayancipha: Uma behlukene nonina, amazinga ama-hormone okucindezeleka ezingane anganda. Kodwa-ke, ngoba zizizwa zikhululekile uma zinamama wazo, la mazinga ama-hormone aphansi.
• Ingane iphinde ivezwe kumagciwane avamile, anempilo esikhumbeni sikanina. Lokhu kungasiza ekuvikeleni kumagciwane ayingozi: Isikhumba sethu siqukethe amagciwane amahle asisizayo. Uma ingane iseduze nomama, la magciwane amahle nawo angena esikhumbeni somntwana, esiza ekuqiniseni amasosha omzimba wakhe futhi amvikele kumagciwane ayingozi.

Iseluleko esincane sabazali abasha

Iseluleko esingcono kakhulu esingasinika abazali abasha ukuthi bajwayelane nokulala nokuphumula noma nini lapho ingane yakho ilele ezinsukwini zokuqala ezimbalwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusemini noma ebusuku. Izinsana zincela njalo, futhi zizizwa zikhululekile futhi ziphephile uma ziseduze nawe.

Uma usujwayele ukuqonda izimpawu zendlala yengane yakho, izimo zokulala/ukuvuka, kanye nokondla nokunakekela ingane yakho kuzoba lula kakhulu. Ukuba nengane yakho nawe ngenkathi usesibhedlela kuyindlela enhle yokufunda konke lokhu. Futhi, uma unemibuzo noma udinga usizo, abasebenzi abangochwepheshe bobuhlengikazi esibhedlela bahlala bekulungele ukukusiza. Ungesabi ukubacela usizo.

Kubalulekile futhi ukulawula abantu abeza ukuzokubona!

Esikweni lethu, kuvamile ukuthi izihlobo nabangane bavakashele umntwana omusha. Nakuba kwenziwa ngothando, ukuphumula kubaluleke kakhulu kumama omusha kanye nosana olusanda kuzalwa . Ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini zokuqala.

Ngakho-ke, uma usesibhedlela, kuwumqondo omuhle ukucabanga ngokuthi obani abazokuvakashela kusenesikhathi. Ingabe ufuna ukuvumela izivakashi noma nini lapho uthanda? Noma ufuna ukubekela eceleni isikhathi esithile nsuku zonke futhi uvumele amalungu omndeni aseduze kuphela ukuthi avakashele?

Lesi yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu sokuba wena nomntwana wakho niphumule futhi nisondelane, ngakho-ke ungalokothi unqikaze ukubeka izidingo zakho kuqala.

Abanye omama babeka inothi elincane emnyango wekamelo labo lokulala, njengokuthi "Umama nomntwana balele, ngicela nibuye kamuva." Lowo ngumqondo omuhle. Abanye omama banegama elithi 'ikhodi' kubayeni babo noma amalungu omndeni ukuze babasize ngenhlonipho bacele izivakashi ukuba zihambe lapho zizizwa zikhathele. Izinto ezincane ezifana nalezi zingaba negalelo elikhulu. Umyeni wakho angaba usizo olukhulu ngalesi sikhathi, ephatha izivakashi ngothando.

Ekugcineni, khumbula lokhu.

Umgomo wethu oyinhloko ukukunikeza wena nomntwana wakho ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu, ngenkathi sikulungiselela ukuya ekhaya niyonakekela umntwana wenu. "Indawo Yokuhlala" iyindlela enhle yokusiza ngalokho.

Khumbula:

• Esikhundleni sokuzizwa ukhathele ngokuba seduze nomntwana wakho, ungazizwa ukhululekile ngempela.
• Lena yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqonda izimpawu zomntwana wakho nokwenza ukuncelisa kuphumelele.
• Uma unemibuzo, buza abasebenzi abahlengikazi.
• Cabanga ngokuphumula kwakho. Lawula izivakashi ngothando.

Sifisela wena kanye nenjana yakho ikusasa elinempilo nelijabulisayo!

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