Ingabe ucansi lomlomo lungabangela ukukhulelwa? Ake sithole ukuthi kuyiqiniso noma cha!

Uma kukhulunywa ngocansi, ikakhulukazi kubantu abasha, ungase ube nemibuzo eminingi ngisho nemibono eyiphutha engqondweni yakho. "Ungakhulelwa Oral Sex ?" umbuzo abantu abaningi abanawo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuyaphoxa ukuwubuza. Kodwa ukwazi iqiniso ngezinto ezinjengalezi kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho kanye nokuthula kwengqondo yakho. Ngakho-ke, namuhla sizokhuluma ngalokhu ngokwesayensi, ngesiSinhala ongakuqonda, nangendlela ehlanganisa zonke izici.

Kuyini Oral Sex ?

Kalula nje, isenzo sokusebenzisa umlomo, izindebe, noma ulimi lomuntu ukuvuselela izitho zangasese zomunye umuntu (ipenisi, isitho sangasese sowesifazane, izitho zangasese zangaphandle) noma indunu. Lena indlela esetshenziswa eminye imibhangqwana ukufeza ukwaneliseka ngokocansi.

Umbuzo omkhulu: Ungakhulelwa yini ngocansi lomlomo wedwa?

Nansi impendulo ecacile kuwe: Cha! Akukho nhlobo ithuba Pregnancy ngenxa Oral Sex lomlomo kuphela.

Ake sibone ukuthi kungani. Ukuze ukukhulelwa kwenzeke, izinto ezimbili ezibalulekile kumele zifezwe:

1. Sperm sendoda kumele singene Vagina sowesifazane.
2. Leso sidoda kumele sidlule Uterus futhi sihlangane (sivundiswe) Ovum Fallopian Tube .

Manje cabanga ngakho, kwenzekani uma isidoda sikhishwa ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo? Isidoda singena emlonyeni. Ukusuka lapho, siya emgudwini wokugaya ukudla (emphinjeni, esiswini, njll.). Uhlelo lokugaya ukudla kanye nohlelo lokuzala (uhlelo oluqukethe isibeletho nama-ovari) yizinhlelo ezimbili ezihlukene ngokuphelele, ezingahlobene. Isidoda esingena emlonyeni asikwazi ukuhamba siye esibelethweni sithole iqanda. Siyabhujiswa ohlelweni lokugaya ukudla.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi noma ngabe isidoda singena emlonyeni noma sigwinywa, ngeke kuholele ekukhulelweni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda lokhu ngokucacile.

Ngakho-ke, azikho yini izimo lapho ucansi lomlomo lungahlotshaniswa nokukhulelwa?

Yebo. Kodwa akungenxa nje yocansi lomlomo. Qonda kahle, kulezi zimo, isizathu sokukhulelwa ukuthi isidoda singena esithweni sangasese sowesifazane ngesinye isenzo.

• Uma umbhangqwana wenza ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane ngaphambi noma ngemva kocansi lomlomo: Uma umbhangqwana wenza ucansi lomlomo bese (noma ngaphambi) wenza Vaginal Sex lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ikhondomu noma ikhondomu, isidoda singangena esitho sangasese sowesifazane bese sikhulelwa. Kulesi simo, ukukhulelwa kubangelwa ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, hhayi ucansi lomlomo.
• Uma isidoda sifakwa ezandleni bese izandla zithinta isitho sangasese sowesifazane: Ngemva kokukhipha isisu, uma isidoda sifakwa ezandleni noma eminweni futhi leyo minwe ifakwa ngokushesha esitho sangasese sowesifazane, kunethuba elincane kakhulu lokuthi isidoda sizongena futhi ukukhulelwa kungenzeka. Amathuba okuthi lokhu kwenzeke aphansi kakhulu, kodwa hhayi zero.

Ngakho-ke, khumbula, ukuze kukhulelwe, isidoda kumelwe ngandlela-thile singene esithweni sangasese sowesifazane.

Ingozi yangempela yocansi lomlomo: Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STDs / STIs )

Nakuba ucansi lomlomo lungabangeli ukukhulelwa, ingozi enkulu nesobala kakhulu ukuthi kungenzeka kube nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STDs - Izifo Ezithathelwana Ngocansi / STIs - Izifo Ezithathelwana Ngocansi). Lokhu kuyinto okungafanele ithathwe kalula.

Lezi zifo ezibizwa ngokuthi STDs zingadluliselwa kalula kusuka komunye umuntu kuya komunye ngocansi lomlomo. Kwenzeka kanjani lokho?

• Ngokuthinta umlomo noma izitho zangasese ngoketshezi lomzimba olufana nesidoda, ‍- Pre-cum , noma uketshezi lwesitho sangasese somuntu onegciwane.
• Ngokuthintana nezilonda, amabhamuza, noma izinhlungu ezithweni zangasese, emlonyeni, noma emphinjeni womuntu onegciwane.

Ezinye zezinhlobo eziyinhloko STDs ezingadluliselwa ngocansi lomlomo yilezi:

• Herpes (isifo esibangela amabhamuza endaweni yesitho sangasese nasemlonyeni)
• Gonorrhea
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
• I-HPV (I Human Papillomavirus - igciwane elibangela izinhlungu zesitho sangasese kanye nomdlavuza)
• Igciwane lesandulela ngculazi (i- Human Immunodeficiency Virus- Igciwane elibangela ingculaza) - Nakuba lokhu kungenakwenzeka, akunakugwenywa, ikakhulukazi uma kunezilonda emlonyeni.

** Into eyesabekayo ukuthi, isikhathi esiningi la STDs awabonisi zimpawu zangaphandle.** Lokho kusho ukuthi noma wena noma umlingani wakho ningazi ukuthi nine- STD , nisengadlulisela lokhu komunye umuntu. Kuyingozi ukucabanga ukuthi, "Anginalutho olungalungile" ngoba awunazo izimpawu.

Ungazivikela kanjani ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo?

Kunezindlela zokuzivikela ezifweni STDs nokwenza ucansi lomlomo luphephe:

• Condoms : Ukugqoka ikhondomu phezu kwepenisi yendoda ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo kunganciphisa kakhulu ingozi yokuthola STDs . Kukhona ngisho namakhondomu flavored atholakalayo ngale njongo.
• AmaDamu Dental Dams : Kungenzeka ukuthi awukaze uzwe ngalo. liyishidi eliyisikwele, elincane elenziwe nge latex noma polyurethane . Libekwa phezu komgodi wesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma i-anus, futhi ucansi lomlomo lungenziwa ngalo. Lokhu kuvimbela ukuthintana ngqo kwesikhumba nesikhumba.
• Finger Condoms Eminwe (noma Finger Cots ): Uma uvuselelwa ucansi usebenzisa iminwe yakho, ungasebenzisa la makhondomu amancane agqokwa eminweni yakho.
• Ukukhulumisana okuvulekile: Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakho ngempilo yocansi, ubudlelwano bocansi bangaphambilini, nokuthi ngabe uke wahlolwa STD .
• Thola ukuhlolwa STD njalo: Uma uhlanganyela ocansini, ikakhulukazi nomlingani omusha, kuwukuhlakanipha ukuthola ukuhlolwa STD njalo.

Ake sicabange ngesigameko esincane?

Insizwa nentokazi, ake sithi uKavindu noSenali. Babecabanga ukuthi njengoba ucansi lomlomo lungabangeli ukukhulelwa, aludingi ukuvikelwa. Babengazi ukuthi ucansi lomlomo lungadlulisela STDs . Ngemva kwesikhashana, uSenali waba nomphimbo obuhlungu waya kudokotela. Kwakuyilapho ethola khona ukuthi unesifo se Gonorrhea emphinjeni wakhe. Wayesithole kuKavindu. Uyabona ukuthi yini engenzeka uma ungenalo ulwazi olufanele?

Uma kwenzeka ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, kudingeka ukuvikelwa kuzo zombili izinhlangothi!

Uma wenza ucansi ngomlomo kanye nolwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, khona-ke udinga ukucabanga ngezinto ezimbili:

1. Ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa: Lokhu kudinga ukuthi usebenzise uhlobo oluthembekile lokuvimbela inzalo (njengephilisi, i- IUD , noma i-implant).
2. Ukuvikelwa STDs : Lokhu kudinga ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi noma uphuza amaphilisi okuvimbela inzalo, kungcono ukusebenzisa ikhondomu ukuze uzivikele STDs . Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi " Dual Protection okubili."

Indlela eqinisekisiwe engu-100%: Abstinence

Njengoba konke lokhu sekushiwo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi okuwukuphela kwendlela eqinisekile yokuzivikela ekukhulelweni nasezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi ukuzithiba Abstinence . Lokhu futhi kuyisinqumo onaso.

Unemibuzo? Cela usizo, uthole ulwazi olunembile!

Impilo yocansi akuyona into okufanele ifihlwe. Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka ngalokhu,

• Khuluma nodokotela omethembayo.
• Funa iseluleko kuchwepheshe wezempilo, njengomhlengikazi noma Family Health Midwife wezempilo womndeni.
• Ungathola futhi ulwazi olunembile kanye nezinsizakalo ezivela ezindaweni ezifana nemitholampilo kahulumeni Sexual Health Clinics yezocansi kanye ne- Family Planning Association Association. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ulwazi oluqinisekisiwe ngokwezokwelapha ngaphambi kokukholelwa kukho konke okutholayo ku-inthanethi noma konke abangani bakho abakutshela kona.

Umyalezo Wokugcina Wokuya Nasekhaya

Kulungile, nansi ezinye izinto okudingeka uzikhumbule kulokho esikhulume ngakho namuhla:

• Pregnancy akwenzeki Oral Sex lomlomo kuphela. Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka kuphela uma Sperm singena Vagina .
• Ingozi enkulu yocansi lomlomo ukudluliswa kwezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STDs / STIs ).
• Ukuze uzivikele ezifweni STDs , sebenzisa izembozo zokuzivikela ezifana Condoms noma Dental Dams amazinyo ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo.
• Uma wenza ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, sebenzisa indlela yokuvimbela inzalo ethembekile ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa, futhi usebenzise ikhondomu ukuvikela STDs .
• Ungabi namahloni noma wesabe ukukhuluma nodokotela ngempilo yakho yocansi. Ulwazi olunembile luyisivikelo sakho esikhulu.

Wenza izinqumo ngomzimba wakho kanye nempilo yakho. Ngakho-ke, funda kahle ngakho konke futhi wenze izinqumo ezihlakaniphile nezinomthwalo wemfanelo. Kuzoba usizo olukhulu kuwe ukuze uphile impilo enempilo nejabulisayo!

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