Bere a wuhui sɛ wo yere rehwɛ akokoaa kwan no, ɛbɛyɛ sɛ wunya anigye a wontumi nkyerɛkyerɛ mu, ɛnte saa? Nanso bere koro no ara mu no, ɛbɛyɛ sɛ wotee ehu nka kakra na wotee asɛyɛde kɛse nka. Ɛno yɛ ade a ɛfata koraa. Sɛnea ɔbea nipadua kɔ nsakrae pii mu bere a ɔresiesie ne ho sɛ ɔbɛyɛ ɛna no, saa ara na w’adwene ne w’asetra nso nya nsakrae kɛse bere a woresiesie wo ho sɛ wobɛyɛ agya no . Ɛnnɛ, yɛrebɛka nsakraeɛ a ɛbɛba w’adwene ne w’asetena mu wɔ asram akron yi mu berɛ a woresiesie wo ho sɛ wobɛyɛ agya no ho asɛm.
So nyinsɛn yɛ biribi a ɛfa mmea nkutoo ho?
Eyi yɛ anansesɛm a nnipa pii gye di. Nokwasɛm ne sɛ, ɛna no na ɔsoa akokoaa no wɔ ne yafunu mu. Ɔno na ɔrehu nsakrae a ɛba ne nipadua mu, nea efi nipadua mu nkwaadɔm mu ba, ne ɔhaw ahorow te sɛ ɔfe. Ɛno nti, sɛ́ agya no, ebia worenhu nsonsonoe kɛse mfiase no. Ebia wubesusuw sɛ, "Eyi nyɛ soronko biara wɔ me nipadua mu."
Nanso ɛnyɛ ɛno ne nokware no. Agya a wobɛyɛ no nso sesa w’adwene.
- So mɛyɛ agya pa ?
- So mɛhwere m’ahofadi bere a manya ba no?
- So metumi atua saa ka yi nyinaa?
- Mɛyɛ dɛn atumi akari pɛ wɔ m’adwuma ne m’abusua asetra mu?
Ebia wo nso wubenya nsɛmmisa, ehu, ne dadwen a ɛte sɛɛ. Nhwehwɛmu ahorow bi ada no adi sɛ mmarima binom nso betumi anya nipadua mu sɛnkyerɛnne te sɛ akisikuru ne adwene a ɛsakra bere a wɔn yerenom anyinsɛn no.
Nea ɛho hia ne sɛ saa nkate ahorow yi yɛ nea ɛfata koraa. Nanso wɔ yɛn man mu no, mmarima twentwɛn wɔn nan ase kakra sɛ wɔbɛka wɔn suro ne wɔn dadwen ho asɛm, enti wɔtaa de saa nkate ahorow yi to toa mu wɔ wɔn komam. Eyi de adwennwen a ɛho nhia ba.
Wɔ agyanom pii fam no, mfiase ankasa a wɔde te nyinsɛn yi nka ne bere a wɔte akokoaa no koma bɔ, wɔte sɛ akokoaa no rebɔ wɔn yafunu mu, anaasɛ wohu akokoaa no wɔ scan (`ultrasound`) so. Ɛno ne bere a nokwasɛm a ɛyɛ sɛ "Meyɛ agya" no bɔ wɔn denneennen.
So asɛm a wɔka sɛ ‘agyanom ntumi nhwɛ nkokoaa’ no yɛ nokware?
Atosɛm kɛseɛ foforɔ ne sɛ "papa ntumi nyɛ nkokoaa nnwuma yie, mmaatan nim saa nneɛma no mu." Yɛate nsɛm a ɛyɛ serew a ɛfa agyanom a wɔhaw bere a wɔsesa mpaboa anaasɛ wɔrekɔguare wɔn ba no ho. Eyi nti na agyanom pii suro sɛ wobedi saa nnwuma no ho dwuma bere a wɔwo akokoaa , a wosusuw sɛ wɔrentumi nyɛ no yiye no.
Nanso nokware no ni.Abofra a wɔbɛhwɛ no nyɛ biribi a wɔde wo obiara. Ɛyɛ biribi a wɔnam osuahu so sua koraa (`adwuma mu ntetee`). Sɛ́ ebia woyɛ ɛna anaa agya no, mo baanu nyinaa sua saa nneɛma yi nkakrankakra, ka abofra no ho.
Nhwehwɛmu ahorow ada no adi mpo sɛ sɛ agyanom ne wɔn mma a wɔawo wɔn foforo wɔ hɔ a, wɔne wɔn kasa, yɛ wɔn atuu, wosow wɔn, na wɔserew te sɛ ɛnanom ara pɛ. Agyanom tumi te akokoaa nteɛm ase na wɔyɛ ho biribi te sɛ ɛnanom ara pɛ (sɛ́ ebia ɔkɔm de wɔn, wohia nna, anaa atuu).
Eyi ne nea ɛba: Sɛ Paapa twe ne ho kɔ nkyɛn, na osusuw sɛ, "Mintumi, minnim" a, Maame fi ase yɛ saa nneɛma no nyinaa. Bere bi akyi no, Maame ho yɛ den wɔ saa nneɛma no mu, na Paapa fi ase te nka kɛse mpo sɛ ontumi nyɛ hwee. Enti, nsuro , fi mfiase pɛ na fa wo ho hyɛ adwuma mu. Bere bi akyi no, w’ankasa wo tumi bɛyɛ wo nwonwa.
Wobɛyɛ dɛn atumi de saa bere yi adi dwuma sɛ hokwan de ahyɛ mo abusuabɔ mu den?
Nyinsɛn yɛ bere a emu yɛ den, nanso ɛyɛ sika kɔkɔɔ a wubetumi ahyɛ wo ne wo yere ntam abusuabɔ mu den. Ade titiriw a ɛbɛma yɛatumi ayɛ saa ne nkitahodi a ɛda adi pefee.
Ma wo yere nka nsakrae a ɛba ne nipadua mu ne adwene mu nsakrae a hormone ahorow de ba no ho asɛm kyerɛ wo. Tie nea ɔwɔ ka no yiye. Afei nso, ka wo suro ne wo dadwen ho asɛm kyerɛ no. Bisa sɛ, "Me te nka saa, wo ho te dɛn?" bɛboa mo baanu nyinaa ma woate nka sɛ ɛnyɛ mo nkutoo na worefa akwantu yi mu.
Akwan pii wɔ hɔ a wubetumi afa so de wo ho ahyɛ mu wɔ ɔkwan a mfaso wɔ so sɛ agya. Ɛwom sɛ saa nneɛma yi sua de, nanso ɛma nsonsonoe kɛse ba.
| Nea wubetumi ayɛ sɛ agya | Mfaso a ɛwɔ so |
|---|---|
| Wo ne wo yere kɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn. | Wobɛnya hokwan abɔ wo amanneɛ wɔ nyinsɛn no ho na wode wo ho ahyɛ mu tẽẽ. |
| Bisa wo yere ne nkate na tie no yiye. | Ɔte nka sɛ ɛnyɛ ɔno nko ara, na abusuabɔ a ɛda wɔn baanu ntam no mu yɛ den. |
| Kenkan nhoma ahorow a ɛfa nyinsɛn ne awo ho na nya nsɛm a ɛfa ho. | Nea wonnim ho suro so tew na ahotoso a obi wɔ sɛ ɔbɛyɛ agya no yɛ kɛse. |
| Boa ma wonsiesie akokoaa no ahiade (ntade, mpa). | Asɛyɛde a wɔbɛkyɛ na wɔasua agya dwumadi wɔ nneyɛe mu. |
| Wo ne wo yere anaa w’adamfo bi a wowɔ ne mu ahotoso nka wo suro ne wo nkate ho asɛm. | Ɛboa ma adwennwen so tew na ɛmma wonte nka sɛ wo nkutoo na wowɔ hɔ. |
Abusuabɔ a wo ne abofra no benya
Nnipa pii susuw sɛ abusuabɔ a wo ne wo ba benya ne nneɛma akɛse a wobɛyɛ. Nanso nea ɛho hia ankasa ne nneɛma nketenkete a woyɛ da biara da no. Wo ba no mpaboa a wobɛsesa, aguare no, nufusu a wobɛyɛ bere a ɔkɔm de no , na wode akɔ sotɔɔ mu ne nneɛma a ɛma wobɛn wo ba no kɛse. Mma nnsusuw eyinom sɛ "asɛyɛde ahorow," na mmom, susuw ho sɛ "hokwan ahorow" a wunya de bere ne wo ba nya. Dodow a wode wo ho hyɛ wo ba no asetra mu fi mfiase no, dodow no ara na mo abusuabɔ mu bɛyɛ den.
Afei nso, sɛ́ ɛna no, ɔyere no di dwuma kɛse wɔ ha. Sɛ agya no ba bɛboa abofra no adwuma a, ɛho hia sɛ ɔma ɔyɛ nneɛma sɛnea ɔpɛ, a ɔremfa ne ho nnye biribiara mu denam ka a ɔbɛka sɛ, "Eyi nyɛ nea ɛteɛ, eyi yɛ bɔne." Sɛ wɔn baanu nyinaa bom fa saa akwantu yi mu, boa wɔn ho wɔn ho a, ɛde anigye bɛbrɛ abusua no nyinaa.
Nkrasɛm a Wɔde Kɔ Fie
- Nyinsɛn yɛ bere a ɛho hia yiye, nkate mu de, na ɛsakra ɔyere no ne nea ɔpɛ sɛ ɔyɛ agya no nyinaa.
- Wo ne wo yere nka wo suro, wo dadwen, ne w’anigye ho asɛm pefee. Nkitahodi pa yɛ ade titiriw.
- Hwɛ hu sɛ wobɛkɔ aduruyɛ mu nhwehwɛmu, scan (ultrasounds) , ne nea ɛkeka ho Eyinom bɛboa wo ma woasua agya dwumadi.
- Abofra ntetee yɛ biribi a wofa osuahu so sua. Nsusuw sɛ, ‘Mintumi nyɛ’, nsuro, na boa wo ba no wɔ ne fie nnwuma mu fi mfiase pɛɛ.
- W’adwene mu akwahosan nso ho hia yiye wɔ saa bere yi mu. Sɛ wote adwennwen nka a, wo ne obi a wowɔ ne mu ahotoso nkasa. Sɛ ɛho hia a, hwehwɛ afotu fi wo duruyɛfo hɔ .
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