Momma yensua wo ba a wadi mfe 2-3 a ɔretu mmirika no nkitahodi ho ade.

Yɛn mmofra nkumaa a yɛne wɔn bɛkasa, ne wɔn adi nkitaho no yɛ anigye kɛse a yenya sɛ awofo no mu biako, ɛnte saa? Nsɛmfua ntumi nkyerɛkyerɛ anigye a yɛte nka bere a yɛte saa nne nketewa, nsɛm foforo, ne nsɛm nketenkete a wɔka no mu. Mmofra nkumaa sua biribi fi nkɔmmɔ a yɛne wɔn bɔ da biara da, nneɛma a wohu na wɔte wɔ wiase a atwa wɔn ho ahyia no mu. Enti, ɛnnɛ yɛbɛka sɛnea wo ba a wadi mfe abien kosi abiɛsa kasa , kyerɛ sɛ, kasa ho nimdeɛ, nya nkɔso, ne sɛnea yebetumi aboa wɔ ɛno mu ho asɛm.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na wo ne wo mma kasa nnansa yi?

Wɔ mfe abien kosi abiɛsa ntam no, mmofra kasa ho nimdeɛ, kyerɛ sɛ, ɔkwan a wɔfa so kasa na wɔte nsɛmfua ase no nya nkɔso ma ɛyɛ nwonwa. Ɛte sɛ nea woreforo antweri! Saa bere yi mu no, wɔn nsɛmfua nyin, wofi ase hyehyɛ kasamu, na wotumi te nea afoforo reka no ase.

Wote dɛn wɔ mfe abien mu?

Sɛ wo ba kumaa no di bɛyɛ mfe abien a, wobefi ase ayɛ nneɛma te sɛ eyi:

• Nsɛmfua abien a wɔbɛbom aka: Anyɛ yiye koraa no, mmofra a wɔretu mmirika dodow no ara fi ase ka nsɛmfua abien bom. Susuw kasamu nketewa te sɛ "Maame, aburow," "Akokoaa, mmirikatu," ne "Mepɛ nsu" ho. Eyi yɛ ahurututu kɛse wɔ wɔn kasa mu.
• Wɔ asram 30 (mfe 2 1⁄2) mu no:
• Ka nsɛmfua 50 anaa nea ɛboro saa: Ebedu saa bere yi de, wɔde nsɛmfua bɛyɛ 50 aka wɔn nsɛmfua ho. Mmofra binom nim nsɛmfua pii mpo.
• Nkurɔfo te nea wɔka no fã pɛ: Nkurɔfo te nea wɔka no fã pɛ ase pefee. Ɛtɔ mmere bi a, egye sɛ wususuw nneɛma ho kakra na ama woate nea wɔka no ase, na ɛno yɛ ade a ɛfata. Mma ɛnhaw wo wɔ ho.
• Wɔde nsɛmfua te sɛ "me", "me", ne "yɛn" di dwuma: Wofi ase de saa nsɛmfua yi di dwuma de ka wɔn ho ne nneɛma a wɔpɛ ho asɛm.
• Te akwankyerɛ a ɛwɔ anammɔn abien ase na di akyi: Mmofra a wɔretu mmirika dodow no ara betumi ate akwankyerɛ a ɛnyɛ den abien a wɔde ama wɔn nnidiso nnidiso ase na wodi akyi. Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ yɛka sɛ, "Fa bɔɔl no na fa brɛ Paapa" a, wobetumi ayɛ. Nhwɛsoɔ foforɔ ne sɛ, "Hyɛ wo mpaboa na bra dan mu."

Sɛ wudi mfe abiɛsa a, dɛn na ɛba?

Edu bere a wo ba kumaa no bedi mfe abiɛsa no, ɛsɛ sɛ wɔn kasa nya nkɔso kɛse. Nneɛma bi a ɛsɛ sɛ wususuw ho ni:

• Nsɛmfua a ɛboro nsɛmfua 200: Mpɛn pii no, abofra a ɔretu mmirika no nsɛmfua boro nsɛmfua 200. Wo de susuw sɛnea ɛno yɛ nsɛmfua pii no ho hwɛ! Wɔn ani gye ho sɛ wobesua nsɛmfua foforo wɔ saa mfe yi mu.
• Wotumi hyehyɛ kasamu a nsɛmfua abien anaa abiɛsa wom: "Akokoaa no renom nufusu", "Papa kɔɔ adwuma", "Mepɛ sɛ midi agoru" na wɔkasa.
• Wobetumi abɔ nkɔmmɔ: Wobetumi ne wo abɔ nkɔmmɔ ketewaa bi, anyɛ yiye koraa no, wɔabɔ nkɔmmɔ mprenu. Sɛ wubisa biribi a, wubua, wɔka biribi, na wubua.
• Afoforo taa te ase sɛ: Mpɛn pii no, nea wo ba no bɛka no bedu baabi a afoforo (ɛnyɛ abusua mufo nkutoo, na mmom ahɔho mpo) betumi ate ase.

Kae sɛ ɛnyɛ nkokoaa nyinaa na wɔyɛ pɛ. Nkokoaa binom fi ase kasa ntɛm kakra, ebinom nso akyiri kakra. Eyinom yɛ akwankyerɛ ahorow a wɔde ma wɔ ɔkwan a ɛkɔ akyiri so ara kwa.

Yɛbɛyɛ dɛn aboa yɛn ba ma ne kasa anya nkɔso?

Nneɛma pii wɔ hɔ a yebetumi ayɛ de ama yɛn mma kasa ho nimdeɛ atu mpɔn. Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, dodow a yɛne wɔn kasa na yɛne wɔn di agoru no, dodow no ara na wosua nneɛma foforo. Ɛte sɛ nea wogugu afifide bi so nsu na wode dɔte gu so na woma enyin.

Nneɛma nketenkete kakraa bi a wubetumi ayɛ ni:

• Ka biribiara ho asɛm: Ka nea ɔyɛe saa da no ne nea ɛsɛ sɛ ɔyɛ ɔkyena ho asɛm kyerɛ wo ba kumaa no. Bisa nneɛma te sɛ, "So osu ntɔ nnɛ? Dɛn na yɛreyɛ wɔ dan mu?" Anaasɛ ka nea esii da a edi kan ansa na woada no ho asɛm. "Yɛkɔɔ nanabea fie nnɛ, ɛnte saa? Dɛn na wuhui wɔ hɔ?" Saa nsɛm yi boa wɔn ma wosua nsɛmfua foforo na wɔka nneɛma te sɛ sɛnea nsɛm a esisi nnidiso nnidiso.
• Di agoru a wogye di: Di ​​agoru a wɔyɛ wo ho te sɛ oduruyɛfo, ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo, sotɔɔ wura. Eyinom bɛboa wɔn ma wɔanya nsusuwii ho nimdeɛ, asua nsɛmfua foforo, ne ɔhaw ahorow ano aduru ho nimdeɛ. Wo ne wɔn di agoru na wobesua pii.
• Bom kenkan nhoma: Bom kenkan nhoma a w n ani gye ho. Paw nhoma ahorow a mfonini ahorow a ɛyɛ fɛ wom. Twe adwene si mfonini ahorow a ɛwɔ nhoma no mu no so na bisa nsɛm te sɛ, "Dɛn ne eyi?", "Dɛn na ɔkraman no reyɛ?", "Kɔla bɛn na eyi yɛ?" Hyɛ wɔn nkuran ma wɔmfa nsɛm mmua. Anaasɛ ma wɔn "kenkan" asɛm no nkyerɛ wo. Nsɛm a wɔhyehyɛ no bɛyɛ anigye kɛse! Ɛnyɛ sɛ nhoma akenkan ma wɔn nsɛmfua ne atie ho nimdeɛ nko na ɛma wonya nkɔso, na mmom ɛma wɔn adwene nso nya nkɔso.
• To nnwom na ka nsɛm ma ɛbɔ: Mmofra nkumaa ani gye ho sɛ wobetie nnwom na wɔate nsɛm a wɔka ma ɛbɔ no. Wo ne wɔn to nnwom a ɛnyɛ den. Sɛ woto nnwom no bere a woretutu wo nsa ne wo nan a, wɔn ani begye kɛse mpo.
• Bisa nsɛm, bua wɔn nsɛmmisa: Fa boasetɔ bua wɔn nsɛmmisa te sɛ "Dɛn ntia?" ne "Dɛn?" Bisa wɔn nsɛm a ɛnyɛ den nso. Te sɛ "Dɛn na wodii nnɛ?" ne "Dɛn ne agode a w'ani gye ho paa?"
• Hwɛ nea wɔka no yiye: Sɛ wo ba rebɔ mmɔden sɛ ɔbɛka biribi akyerɛ wo a, hwɛ no na tie nea wɔreka no yiye. Eyi bɛma wɔahu sɛ w’ani sɔ wɔn na wɔn ani begye nkɔmmɔ ho kɛse.
• Teɛ, nanso brɛoo: Sɛ wo ba no ka asɛmfua bi wɔ ɔkwan a ɛnteɛ so a, sɛ anka wobɛkasa atia wɔn sɛ "Dabi, dabi, ɛnyɛ nokware" no, kyerɛ wɔn sɛ wopɛ sɛ woka asɛmfua no yiye. Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ wo ba ka sɛ "Papa" a, serew na ka sɛ, "Yiw, Paapa wɔ ha."

Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mekɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn?

Mpɛn pii no, kasa mu nkɔso wɔ mmofra a wɔretu mmirika mu no yɛ ade a ɛfata. Nanso, ɛtɔ mmere bi a, ebetumi akyɛ kakra. Sɛ wowɔ adwenem naayɛ anaa dadwen bi wɔ wo ba kasa anaa nsɛmfua a ɔde di dwuma ho a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wo ne oduruyɛfo bɛkasa afa ho.

Nneɛma bi a ɛsɛ sɛ wohwɛ yiye ni, titiriw sɛ wo ba ketewa no ntumi nhu eyinom bere a wadi bɛyɛ mfe abiɛsa no a:

• Sɛ anyɛ yiye koraa no, wo ba no nka nsɛmfua 50 ansa na asram 30 (mfe 2 1⁄2) adu.
• Wɔ asram 30 mpo mu no, sɛ wotwe adwene si biribi so wɔ nhoma bi mu na wobisa sɛ, "Dɛn ne eyi?" na ontumi mmɔ din (sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ wode wo nsa kyerɛ bɔɔl bi so na wobisa sɛ, "Bole" na wuntumi nka a) .
• Sɛ woadi mfeɛ 3 mpo a, sɛ woantumi ankyerɛkyerɛ adeyɛ bi mu wɔ mfonini bi mu, sɛ nhwɛsoɔ no, "mmirikatuo", "didi", anaa "da".
• Sɛ wɔammisa nsɛm te sɛ "Hena?", "Dɛn?", "Ɛhe?", "Dɛn ntia?" (Wɔn ho pere wɔn yiye sɛ wobebisa nsɛm wɔ saa mfe yi mu)
• Sɛ wuntumi nka wo din a edi kan bere a wobisa wo no a.
• Wɔn abusua mufo mpo nte nea wɔreka no ase ankasa, na mpɛn pii no, wɔn nsɛm mu nna hɔ.
• Sɛ wususuw sɛ wo ba no nte asɛm yiye (sɛ wanhwɛ n’akyi bere a worekasa a, sɛ wannye nnyigyei ho mmuae yiye a) .

Sɛ wuhu biribi a ɛte sɛɛ a, yɛsrɛ sɛ nsuro anaasɛ wommɔ hu na kɔ w’abusua oduruyɛfo anaa mmofra oduruyɛfo nkyɛn . Ɛtɔ mmere bi a, ebetumi ayɛ biribi a ɛnyɛ den. Anaasɛ, ebia wubehia mmoa kakra, ebia ɔkasa ho ɔyaresafo . Dodow a wuhu saa nneɛma yi ntɛm no, dodow no ara na wo ba no betumi anya mmoa a ohia no yiye na waboa no ma watu mpɔn wɔ ne kasa mu. Ɛtɔ da bi a, oduruyɛfo bi nso betumi de wo akɔ aso nhwehwɛmu bi mu akɔhwɛ sɛnea wo ba no te asɛm.

Ade a ɛho hia sen biara a ɛsɛ sɛ wokae (Take-Home Message) .

Enti, Maame ne Paapa, eyi yɛ bere a ɛyɛ anigye a mo ba kumaa no kasa renya nkɔso.

• W’adwene, wo kasa, wo agodie yɛ wɔn akyerɛkyerɛfo akɛse. Wo ne wɔn nkasa, wo ne wɔn nni agoru, kenkan nhoma sɛnea wubetumi biara.
• Ɛsono akokoaa biara. Wonya nkɔso wɔ wɔn ankasa ahoɔhare so. Mfa wɔn ntoto nkokoaa afoforo ho.
• Sɛ w’adwene mu yɛ wo naa a, hwehwɛ mmoa. Oduruyɛfo a wobɛkɔ no bɛboa ma w’adesoa no so atew na ama wo ba kumaa no anya mmoa a wohia.

Wobɛnya berɛ a ɛyɛ fɛ berɛ a wo ba kumaa no nne ahyɛ fie hɔ nyinaa ma na wɔn nsɛm nketewa no ayɛ wo koma ma anigyeɛ!

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