Ðe tagbɔdɔ le viwòa ŋua? Aleke ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwòe?

Naneke mele vevie wu mía viwo ƒe dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ kple lãmesẽ o. Gake ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ne míelé ŋku ɖe woƒe kuxiwo kple woƒe agbenɔnɔ ƒe tɔtrɔ ŋu la, míesena le mía ɖokui me hã be agba gã aɖe le míaƒe dziwo dzi. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, míesusuna be, ‘Nukae gblẽ le vinye ŋu?’ Ðe meli oa? Ðeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala nye amesi ate ŋu akpe ɖe mía ŋu le ɣeyiɣi siawo tɔgbe me.

Amekae nye ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala sia?

Kpuie ko la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala nye amesi si hehe tɔxɛ kple dɔdamɔnu ƒe aɖaŋu le be wòada susu, seselelãme, hadome, kple nuwɔna ƒe lãmesẽkuxiwo kpɔ ahada wo le ɖeviwo, tso vidzĩwo dzi va ɖo ɖevi tsitsiwo dzi, kple sɔhɛ tsitsiwo gɔ̃ hã me.

Wose ɖeviwo ƒe susu me nuhiahiã veviwo gɔme nyuie, kpakple alesi woƒe hadomenuwɔnawo, abe ƒometɔwo, suku, kple xɔlɔ̃wo ene, kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe nusiawo dzii. Ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi siawo ate ŋu anye:

• Hadomegbenɔnɔ kple seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ
• Ŋgɔyiyi ƒe ɖoɖowo
• Nuwɔna ƒe tɔtrɔ ɖe nɔnɔmewo ŋu

Susu kple agbenɔnɔ ƒe nɔnɔme siwo gblẽa nu le ɖeviwo ŋu hã ŋuti sidzedze deto le wo si.

Nukae ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala wɔna?

Ðeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala zãa mɔnu kple aɖaŋu vovovowo ne ele dɔ wɔm kple ɖeviwo. Bu nuwo abe:

• Wowɔa dodokpɔ vovovowo (`dodokpɔ kple dodokpɔ`) tsɔ daa ɖevia ƒe susu, susu, susu, kple nuwɔna ƒe kuxiwo kpɔ.
• Wozãa atikewɔwɔmɔnu abe ``Tagbɔdɔdada`` - si nye ``nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ`` - kple ``nuwɔna dzikpɔkpɔ``.
• Wole mɔxexeɖedɔléle nu ƒe ɖoɖowo wɔm be woatsɔ axe mɔ ɖe anyrawɔwɔ, atike muamewo zazã, kple ƒewuiviwo ƒe fufɔfɔ nu le ɖeviwo dome le sukuwo me.
• Woɖoa aɖaŋu kple dɔnyala kple ɖɔkta bubu siwo wɔa dɔ kple ɖeviwo eye woɖoa aɖaŋu na wo.

Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ne ɖevi aɖe ƒe dɔléle aɖe le eŋu, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne alɔ̃dɔdɔ sesẽ nɛ, ese veve ɣeyiɣi didi, alo ne dɔléle aɖe le fu ɖem nɛ atraɖii la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo hã kpɔa gome le eme be woakpe ɖe ɖevi mawo ŋu.

Wowɔa nu ɖe ​​ɖeviwo ŋu wòto vovo na ame tsitsiwo elabena woƒe ƒexɔxɔ, woƒe susu ƒe dɔwɔwɔ, kple woƒe tsitsi to vovo. Eyata ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo ate ŋu azã atikewɔwɔmɔnu vovovowo le viwòa ƒe ƒexɔxɔ kple nɔnɔme tɔxɛ nu. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, le viwò ƒe ƒexɔxɔ kple eƒe nuhiahiãwo nu la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala ate ŋu aƒo nu kpli wò (alo dɔnɔdzikpɔlawo) ɖeɖe aƒo nu tso vihehe ƒe aɖaŋuwo alo mɔ nyuitɔ si dzi nàto akpɔ viwòa ƒe nuwɔna gbɔ ŋu.

Dɔdamɔnu kawoe wozãna?

Atikewɔwɔ siwo woate ŋu azã dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• `Aɖaŋudɔwo ƒe atikewɔwɔ` (atikewɔwɔ to nuwo abe nutata, zemela, kple bubuawo ene me)
• `Nuwɔna ƒe atikewɔwɔ` (atikewɔwɔ be woatrɔ nuwɔna ƒe ɖoɖowo) .
• `Fefe ƒe atikewɔwɔ si wotu ɖe ɖeviwo dzi`
• `Ðevi kple dzila dome ƒomedodo ƒe atikewɔwɔ`
• `Ðeviwo ƒe dziku dzi kpɔkpɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ` (atikewɔwɔ si kpena ɖe ɖeviwo ŋu be woaɖu woƒe dziku dzi)
• `Ðeviwo ƒe nuveviwɔame ƒe atikewɔwɔ` (nuteƒekpɔkpɔ dziŋɔ siwo ɖevi dze ŋgɔe ƒe atikewɔwɔ)
• Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) (atikewɔwɔ si kpena ɖe ame ŋu wòtrɔa susu kple nuwɔna) .
• Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) (atikewɔwɔ si kpena ɖe ame ŋu wòɖua seselelãme sesẽwo dzi) .
• `Seselelãme ƒe atikewɔwɔ si ŋu wotsia dzi ɖo`
• `Ƒuƒoƒo alo ƒome ƒe atikewɔwɔ`
• `Hadzidzi ƒe atikewɔwɔ`
• Dɔwɔwɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ (kpekpeɖeŋunana le gbesiagbedɔwo kple aɖaŋuwo tutuɖo me) .
• `Dzila kple vi dome kadodo ƒe atikewɔwɔ`

Vovototo kae le ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala kple ɖeviwo ƒe atikewɔla dome?

Esia nye nyabiase si le ame geɖe si. Vovototo vi aɖe le ``Ðeviwo ƒe Dɔdamɔnufiala`` kple ``Ðeviwo ƒe Susuŋutinunyala`` dome.

Kpuie ko la, ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdamɔnufiala nye amesi xɔ master ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽ le susuŋutinunya, aɖaŋuɖoɖo na susuŋutinunya, alo srɔ̃ɖeɖe kple ƒome ƒe atikewɔwɔ me. Ðeviwo ƒe dɔdamɔnufiala dze be wòada ɖeviwo ƒe susu kple agbenɔnɔ ƒe lãmesẽ kpɔ eye wòazã atikewɔwɔmɔnu, abe nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ene. Zi geɖe la, woƒe susu nɔa kuxiwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ ŋu wu.

Le go bubu me la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala nye amesi xɔ ɖɔkta ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽ (ɖaseɖigbalẽ abe PhD alo PsyD ene) eye zi geɖe la, hehe geɖe le esi le susuŋutinunya me numekuku alo atikewɔnyawo me. Vevietɔ wu la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo ate ŋu awɔ dodokpɔ geɖe siwo atikewɔlawo mate ŋu awɔ o. Dodokpɔ siawo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu woakpɔ susu ƒe lãmesẽ kple nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxiwo abe ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), Autism Spectrum Disorder, kple nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe vovototowo.

Ðe vinyea hiã susuŋutinunyala alo atikewɔla? Aleke mawɔ atia esi sɔ?

Enyo, fifia ɖewohĩ èle eŋu bum be, ‘Ameka tututue vinyea hiã?’ Le nyateƒe me la, togbɔ be nu geɖe ɖi wo nɔewo le dɔ si ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdamɔnufialawo kple ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo wɔna me hã la, vovototo aɖewo dze ƒã le dɔ siwo wowɔna na wò kple viwòa hã me.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ atikewɔla?

Atikewɔla ate ŋu akpe ɖe viwòa ŋu wòasrɔ̃ alesi wòanɔ te ɖe nɔnɔme sesẽwo nu, akpɔ seselelãme sesẽwo gbɔ, eye wòatu ƒomedodo nyui ɖo le ƒomea me.

Ate ŋu anyo be viwòa nadi kpekpeɖeŋu tso atikewɔla gbɔ le nɔnɔme siwo gbɔna me:

• Ƒo nu tso eƒe seselelãmewo ŋu na viwòa, ne ehiã seselelãme ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu.
• Ne ɖevia le avu wɔm kple dzimaɖitsitsi, blanuiléle, dziku, alo agbenɔnɔ ƒe tɔtrɔ gãwo.
• Ne èhiã kpekpeɖeŋu le alesi nàwɔ nu ɖe ​​viwòa ŋu nyuie kple alesi nàwɔ akpɔ viwòa ƒe nuwɔna sesẽwo gbɔe ŋu.
• Ne èdi be viwòa nakpɔ ame aɖe edziedzi ahaƒo nu kple ame aɖe, eye mèle mɔ kpɔm be atike alo kpekpeɖeŋu le susumedɔléle sesẽwo me o.

Ke hã, ne èhiã ``dɔléle didi`` na viwò ƒe sukudɔwo, le kpɔɖeŋu me, na ``IEP`` (Ame ɖekaɖekawo ƒe Hehenaɖoɖo) la, ɖewohĩ atikewɔla manye ame nyuitɔ na ema o. Zi geɖe la, sukuwo bia tso asiwò be nàwɔ dɔ kple susuŋutinunyala aɖe hena nu sia ƒomevi wɔwɔ.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ susuŋutinunyala?

Esi susuŋutinunyala ateŋu awɔ dodokpɔ geɖe siwo atikewɔlawo mateŋu awɔ o ta la, ateŋu akpeɖeŋu ŋutɔ le nusi tututu gbɔ ɖevi ƒe kuxiwo tso didi me, alo ne ɖevia hiã nane abe `IEP` ene.

Ate ŋu anyo be viwòa nadi kpekpeɖeŋu tso susuŋutinunyala gbɔ le nɔnɔme siwo gbɔna me:

• Ne èsusu be nɔnɔme aɖe le viwò ŋu si le ŋusẽ kpɔm ɖe woƒe nusɔsrɔ̃ alo hadomenuwɔnawo dzi, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ADHD, nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe vovototo, alo Autism Spectrum Disorder.
• Ne ɖevia hiã kpekpeɖeŋu le seselelãme alo nuwɔna me kuxiwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ me.
• Ne èhiã be woanya dɔléle si me kɔ wu tso viwòa ŋu.
• Wò atikewɔwɔ ƒe taɖodzinuwo dometɔ ɖekae nye be nànya tɔtrɔ siwo woate ŋu awɔ le aƒeme kple tɔtrɔ siwo woate ŋu awɔ le viwò ƒe suku atsɔ ado alɔ viwòa.

Àte ŋu ana atike wo ame evea siaa?

Esia hã le vevie ŋutɔ. Abe ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdamɔnufialawo ene la, ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo mate ŋu aŋlɔ atike na wo o. Ne viwòa hiã atike be wòatsɔ akpɔ tagbɔdɔ sesẽ aɖe gbɔ la, ele be nàkplɔe ayi ɖeviwo ƒe tagbɔdɔdala gbɔ . Tagbɔdɔdala nye atikewɔla si bi ɖe susu, seselelãme, kple nuwɔna ƒe kuxiwo didi, wo dada, kple mɔxexe ɖe wo nu me. Woawoe nye amesiwo ate ŋu aŋlɔ atike na ame.

Nɔnɔme kawoe ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala daa dɔ na?

Ðeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyalawo ate ŋu ada nuwɔna, seselelãme, hadome, kple susu ƒe lãmesẽkuxi vovovowo le ɖeviwo kple sɔhɛwo ŋu. Woate ŋu akpe asi ɖe nuteɖeamedzi kple kuxi siwo doa mo ɖa le suku, ƒome, kple agbe bliboa me hã ŋu.

Nɔnɔme kple wɔna siwo me wokpena ɖe ame ŋu le dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Ŋutasẽnuwɔwɔ, si fia ŋutilã, seselelãme, kple gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ alo ɖeviwo ƒe ɖekematsɔleme.
• Dzikunyawo.
• Dze ŋgɔ dɔléle yeye si wokpɔ alo agbenɔnɔ kple dɔléle si nɔa anyi didi.
• Dzilawo ƒe srɔ̃gbegbe alo ƒomekuxi bubuwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ.
• Tsitsi kple nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxiwo, le kpɔɖeŋu me `ADHD` (susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒe dɔléle), `susu ƒe nuwɔametɔnyenye`, `Autism Spectrum Disorder`, `Dyslexia` (nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxiwo) kple `kadodo ƒe kuxiwo`.
• Nuwɔna siwo gblẽa nu le ame ŋu ƒe kuxiwo, abe agbenɔnɔ ƒe kuxi kple tsitretsiɖeŋu ƒe tsitretsiɖeŋu ƒe kuxi ene.
• Nuɖuɖukuxiwo, le kpɔɖeŋu me Anorexia, Bulimia kple Binge eating disorder.
• Nuxaxa kple nusiwo bu.
• Amenyenye kple bubudede ame ɖokui ŋu ƒe nyawo, abe Body Dysmorphic Disorder (dzimaɖitsitsi ɖe ŋutilã ƒe dzedzeme ŋu si mesɔ o).
• Susu ƒe lãmesẽ ƒe nɔnɔmewo, le kpɔɖeŋu me, blanuiléle, dzimaɖitsitsi, vɔvɔ̃, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) (susu kple nuwɔna siwo womedi o) kple Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (nuteɖeamedzi si dzɔna le nuveviwɔame megbe).
• Kuxi siwo le hadome nɔnɔmewo me.
• Alɔ̃dɔdɔ ƒe kuxiwo, abe alɔ̃madɔmadɔ, drɔ̃e baɖawo, kple alɔ̃dɔdɔ ƒe dzimaɖitsitsi ene.
• Nuteɖeamedzi si do ƒome kple tɔtrɔ gãwo le agbe me.

Aleke mawɔ anya ne vinyea hiã ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu?

Esiae nye biabia gãtɔ kekeake si le dzila geɖe si. Susu le eme be míabia mía ɖokui be, ‘Ðe vinyea hiã kpekpeɖeŋu tso susuŋutinunyala gbɔ nyateƒea?’ Le nyateƒe me la, atikewɔwɔ nye dɔwɔnu vevi aɖe na ame tsitsiwo kple ɖeviwo siaa, si naa teƒe si le dedie be woaƒo nu tso agbe me nuteɖeamedziwo, susumedɔlélewo, alo ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ƒe kuxiwo ŋu ahakpɔ wo gbɔ.

Wòe nya viwòa nyuie wu. Ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be viwòa le avu wɔm kple sukudɔwo, ƒomedodo kple xɔlɔ̃wo, seselelãme ƒe ɖoɖowɔwɔ, nuwɔna, kple/alo nusɔsrɔ̃ la, ate ŋu anyo be nàxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu tso ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala gbɔ.

Nɔnɔme kple nuwɔna siwo bɔ siwo ŋu nàte ŋu alé ŋku ɖo be wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàtso nya me nenye be ele be viwòa nayi ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala gbɔ kple ɣeyiɣi si wòle be wòakpɔ ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala gbɔ la dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Ne viwòa le tɔtrɔ gã aɖe me tom alo nɔnɔme si me nuteɖeamedzi le me tom, le kpɔɖeŋu me, anyrawɔwɔ le ame ŋu le suku, lãmesẽkuxi aɖe, dzilawo ƒe srɔ̃gbegbe, alo ʋuʋu yi du alo suku yeye me.
• Ðevia ƒe susu, seselelãme, kple/alo nuwɔna me kuxiwo meganyona ɖe edzi le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe o.Ne edze abe ɖe wòle gbegblẽm ɖe edzi ene.
• Ne viwò alo wò ƒomea me tɔ aɖe to nuteƒekpɔkpɔ dziŋɔ aɖe (nuveviwɔame) me kpɔ, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ku, afɔku, alo ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ.
• Ne ède dzesi tɔtrɔ gãwo le viwòa ƒe amenyenye kple/alo eƒe nuwɔna me. Tsɔe be edze abe viwò si ƒoa nu vevie hekoa alɔgbɔnu tsã la le eƒe xɔ me ɣesiaɣi eye meƒoa nu na ame aɖeke o ene.
• Ne esesẽna na ɖevia be wòadze xɔlɔ̃wo ahalé ƒomedodo nyui me ɖe asi kpli wo.
• Ne viwò ƒe dzesiwo le ɖiɖim le suku, alo ne nuwɔna me kuxiwo le fu ɖem nɛ ɣesiaɣi le suku.

Aleke ame awɔ azu ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala?

Ðeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala nyenye menye mɔzɔzɔ bɔbɔe o. Ebia ɖokuitsɔtsɔna kple hehexɔxɔ geɖe. Kpuie ko la, ele be nàwu afɔɖeɖe siawo nu:

• Ƒe ene ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽ (`bachelor's degree`) tso yunivɛsiti.
• Emegbe woxɔa ƒe ene va ɖo ade ƒe sukunuwuwu ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽ, alo ɖɔkta ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽ (PhD alo PsyD). Esia ku ɖe ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunya ŋu koŋ.
• Ƒe ɖeka ƒe ɣeyiɣiawo katã ƒe dɔsrɔ̃ƒe le sukunuwuwu ƒe ɖaseɖigbalẽa xɔxɔ me.
• Ele be nàto dukɔa ƒe dodokpɔ kple dodokpɔ bubu siwo ku ɖe dukɔ/nutome si me nèwɔa dɔ le ŋu.
• Le teƒe akpa gãtɔ la, ele be nàwu ƒe ɖeka ƒe dɔwɔwɔ si dzi wokpɔna nu hafi nàte ŋu axɔ mɔɖegbalẽ abe ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala ene. Emegbe ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala geɖe yia hehe bubuwo xɔxɔ dzi be yewoanya nu tso eŋu.
• Wobia tso ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala siwo si mɔɖegbalẽ le hã si be woawu hehexɔxɔ si yia edzi ƒe ɖoɖowo, abe takpekpewo, numekukuwo, kple klasswo ene nu ƒe sia ƒe le woƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe agbenɔɣi katã be woanya nu yeye siwo le ŋgɔ yim le woƒe dɔa me.

Eyata àte ŋu akpɔ alesi gbegbe esia bia ɖokuitsɔtsɔnae. Esia tae nunya le wo si be woakpe ɖe viwòa ŋu ɖo. Zi geɖe la, ate ŋu axɔ ƒe 8 va ɖo 12 alo esi wu nenema gɔ̃ hã hafi woazu ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala si si mɔɖegbalẽ le.

Mlɔeba la, nu vevitɔ kekeake!

Mlɔeba la, ate ŋu asesẽ be nàlɔ̃ ɖe edzi be viwòa le avu wɔm le susu, seselelãme, hadome, alo nuwɔna me, gake ele vevie be nàxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu tso dɔnyala gbɔ.

Ðeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala ate ŋu ana viwòa nanɔ dedie, akpe ɖe eŋu, eye wòanye ʋɔnudɔdrɔ̃ manɔmee be wòaƒo nu tso woƒe seselelãmewo ŋu ahase wo gɔme. Wonye woƒe dɔa ŋuti nunyalawo eye wose numekuku kple atikewɔwɔ yeye siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe viwòa ŋu la gɔme nyuie.

Ðo ŋku edzi be viwòa ƒe susuŋutinunyala awɔ dɔ kple wò kple viwòa awɔ atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo si asɔ na viwòa wu. Menye wò ɖeka koe o, eye metsi megbe gbeɖe be nàbia kpekpeɖeŋu o.

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