Ðe nuxexlẽ sesẽna na viwòa? Mina míasrɔ̃ nu tso nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia ŋu.

Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, sukudɔdasiwo ɖea fu na mía viwo vie, alo? Vevietɔ nuwo abe nuxexlẽ ene. Eyata ne viwòa tsi megbe vie le ɖevi bubuwo nu le nuxexlẽ me la, ate ŋu anye be dɔléle aɖe si woyɔna be nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi aɖe le eŋu. Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu kpuie, alo?

Nukae Nye Nuxexlẽ ƒe Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie?

Kpuie ko la, nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi nye nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi. Gake ɖe wònye nu nyui aɖea ? Esesẽna vie na ɖevi si ŋu nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi le be wòase nyawo, ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo, kple ɣeaɖewoɣi xexlẽdzesiwo gɔme ahazã wo. Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi ƒomevi vovovowo li abe esia ene. Eyata ne ɖevi aɖe le agbagba dzem vevie kple veviedodo be yeasrɔ̃ nu, gake nuxexlẽ sɔsrɔ̃ sesẽ nɛ la, ke emae míeyɔna be nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi. Nu vevitɔe nye be, esia mefia be viwòa medze aɖaŋu o. Woate ŋu adze aɖaŋu ŋutɔ, gake nuxexlẽ ɖeɖe dzaa ate ŋu asesẽ.

Nukae hea nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia vɛ?

Abe alesi míegblɔe va yi ene la, nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi menye dɔléle o. Enye nɔnɔme si wodzina kple ame. Zi geɖe la, ne dɔlélea le ame aɖe ŋu le ƒomea me la, ate ŋu adze ɖeviwo hã dzi. Ame siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le la menye bometsilawo o, eye womenye kuviatɔwo hã o. Ame akpa gãtɔ ƒe tagbɔ le mamã dedie nu alo de ŋgɔ wu gɔ̃ hã. Wowɔa dɔ sesĩe ale gbegbe be yewoaɖu yewoƒe nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxiwo dzi.

Numekukuwo ɖee fia be vovototo sue aɖe le alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa nyatakakawo ŋudɔe gbɔe nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia tsona. Bu eŋu abe kɔmpiuta ene. Eyata amesi ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ wɔa nyatakaka siwo ku ɖe nyawo kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo ŋu la ŋudɔ le mɔ si to vovo vie na amesi ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi mele o. Ne dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo lé ŋku ɖe ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ŋu la, wokpɔe be ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe akpa siwo ame siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le zãna ne wole nu xlẽm la to vovo na akpa siwo ame siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi mele o zãna. Azɔ hã, amesiwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ mewɔa dɔ nyuie nenema ne wole nu xlẽm o. Esia tae nuxexlẽ ate ŋu adze nu sesẽ na wo eye wòasesẽ na wo ɖo.

Nuka tututue dzɔna le nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi me?

Ðevi sue akpa gãtɔ dzea nuxexlẽ gɔme to gbeɖiɖi ƒe akpa sue siwo wɔ nya aɖe la nyanya sɔsrɔ̃ me (míeyɔa esia be gbeɖiɖi ƒe dzesidede – si nye ŋutete si le ame si be wòade dzesi gbeɖiɖi ɖekaɖeka siwo le nya aɖe me) eye emegbe to nusɔsrɔ̃ be woatsɔ gbeɖiɖi mawo asɔ kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesi siwo le ŋɔŋlɔdzesiawo me (míeyɔa esia be gbeɖiɖi – si nye ŋutete si le ame si be wòasrɔ̃ gbeɖiɖi siwo zɔna kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesi ɖesiaɖe). Ema ko hafi wosrɔ̃a gbeɖiɖi mawo ƒoƒo ƒu ɖekae be woatsɔ awɔ nyawoe. Le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe la, woate ŋu ade dzesi nya siwo bɔ la to nukpɔkpɔ me.

Bu nuxexlẽ abe gasɔdodo ene. Ele be nàwɔ nu geɖe le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me, eye le ɣeyiɣi nyuitɔ dzi ŋutɔ. Ne wosrɔ̃e la, ɖevi siwo te ŋu xlẽa nu nyuie la, adze nuxexlẽ gɔme vivivi ne wonya kpɔ nyawo ko. Emegbe woate ŋu azã ŋusẽ si le woƒe ahɔhɔ̃ me atsɔ ase nusi woxlẽ gɔme ahaɖo ŋku edzi.

Gake le ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le gome la, gbeɖiɖi ƒe sidzedze kple gbeɖiɖi ƒe ŋutete le vevie.Kuxia le (gbeɖiɖi kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesi) ƒe kadodowo ŋu. Eyata nuxexlẽ meva na wo le dzɔdzɔme nu o, enye nusi wòle be woawɔ sesẽ ŋutɔ, sesẽ ŋutɔ. Ne ɖevi aɖe le avu wɔm kple afɔɖeɖe gbãtɔ siawo le nuxexlẽ me la, mewɔ nuku o be nusi xlẽm wòle gɔmesese sesẽna na wo, eye dzi ɖena le wo ƒo.

Nukpɔsusu totro si bɔ ɖe nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi ŋue nye be ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo alo nyawo dzena le anyigba – le kpɔɖeŋu me, ‘was’ dzena abe ‘saw’ ene. Kuxi sia ƒomevi ate ŋu anye nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia ƒe akpa aɖe. Ke hã, ebɔ ŋutɔ be ɖevi suewo kpɔa lɛtawo heŋlɔa wo ɖe anyigba vaseɖe esime wova ɖo woƒe ƒe gbãtɔ alo evelia me. Menye ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le koe esia nye o. Kuxi vevitɔ siwo le ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ŋue nye gbeɖiɖi ƒe sidzedze, ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo kple gbeɖiɖi dome ƒomedodo (gbeɖiɖi), kple nyawo nyanya kabakaba ƒe akpawo.

Dzesi kawoe ate ŋu ade dzesi ame aɖe si ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le?

Nɔnɔme siawo ate ŋu ato vovo tso ɖevi ɖesiaɖe gbɔ, gake nu ʋɛ aɖewo li siwo woate ŋu akpɔ le ɖekawɔwɔ me. Na míakpɔ nusiwo wonye ɖa.

Do ŋgɔ na sukudede kple gɔmedzesukuviwo ƒe nɔnɔmewo

Ne viwò suea le do ŋgɔ na sukudede alo gɔmedzesuku dem la, ke lé ŋku ɖe nusiawo ŋu:

• Ne etsi megbe akpa be woadze nuƒoƒo gɔme.
• Ne nya didiwo yɔyɔ sesẽ (e.g. ‘da’ ɖina abe ‘safir’ ene).
• Ne nyawo yɔyɔ sesẽ na wò la, di nya siwo me nyawo sɔ kple wo nɔewo (e.g. nuŋlɔti, asi, nuɖuɖu, nunono).
• Ne esesẽ na wò be nàsrɔ̃ ɖoɖo si nu ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo le, kwasiɖaa ƒe ŋkekewo, amadedewo, nɔnɔmewo, kple xexlẽdzesiwo.
• Ne esesẽ na wò be nàsrɔ̃ ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo ƒe ŋkɔwo kple woƒe gbeɖiɖiwo (e.g. ŋɔŋlɔdzesi ‘A’ ƒe gbeɖiɖi nye ‘a’, ŋɔŋlɔdzesi ‘B’ ƒe gbeɖiɖi nye ‘b’).
• Ne wò ŋkɔ xexlẽ kple eŋɔŋlɔ sɔsrɔ̃ sesẽ na wò.
• Ne esesẽ be woade vovototo gbeɖiɖiwo (e.g., ‘am-ma’) kple gbeɖiɖiwo (gbeɖiɖiwo - e.g., ‘b’, ‘a’, ‘l’ le nya abe ‘ba-l-di-ya’ me) dome le nya aɖe me.
• Ne esesẽ na wò be nàse nya bɔbɔewo to ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo ƒoƒo ƒu me (e.g., gblɔ be 'ಗಾ-ಸ' = 'ಗಾಸ').
• Ne esesẽ na wò be nàda ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo ɖe ɖoɖo nyuitɔ nu ne èle nyawo xlẽm alo le wo ŋlɔm (le kpɔɖeŋu me, èŋlɔa alo xlẽa nane abe ‘nyaselawo’ ene ɖe ‘nuƒoƒo’ teƒe).
• Ne asinuŋɔŋlɔ nyuie kple nu suewo wɔwɔ nyuie sesẽ na wò (fine-motor coordination – e.g., buttoning buttons, tiing afɔkpawo).

Ðevi tsitsiwo, ɖevi suewo, kple ame tsitsiwo ƒe nɔnɔmewo

Dzesi siwo míeyɔ ɖe etame ate ŋu anɔ ɖevi tsitsiwo, sɔhɛ tsitsiwo, kple ame tsitsiwo hã ŋu. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, àte ŋu akpɔ nu siawo hã:

• Ne wogbɔdzɔ sã le nuxexlẽ kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo me wu ame bubu siwo xɔ ƒeme.
• Ne wodze agbagba be yewoaƒo asa na nuxexlẽ kple nuŋɔŋlɔ (e.g., wogblɔna be yewonye kuviatɔwo akpa be yewoaxlẽ agbalẽwo, gake ne wobia tso yewo si be yewoaŋlɔ nu la, woɖea ta).
• Ne èku kutri ŋutɔŋutɔ le nuxexlẽ, nuŋɔŋlɔ ƒe dɔdasiwo, kple dodokpɔwo me, eye nèxɔa ɣeyiɣi didi wu ame bubuwo.
• Ne dutagbe (e.g. Eŋlisigbe, Fransegbe) sɔsrɔ̃ sesẽ ŋutɔ.

Aleke nàwɔ anya nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia nyuie?

Zi geɖe la, wokpɔa nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia ne ɖevi le gɔmedzesuku. Gake ɣeaɖewoɣi la, eva dzena ne ɖevi tsi vie eye wokpɔ mɔ be wòaxlẽ nya didi siwo gɔme sese sesẽ la ahase wo gɔme. Ne nuxexlẽ kple nuŋɔŋlɔ gakpɔtɔ sesẽna na ɖevi sue si ƒe tagbɔ kɔ eye wònye nusrɔ̃la nyui la, esia hã ate ŋu anye nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi ƒe dzesi.

Ne nuxexlẽ ŋuti nunyala alo susuŋutinunyala da ŋku ɖe eŋu bliboe ko hafi woate ŋu anya nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia le se nu. Woate ŋu awɔ esia to sukua dzi alo le egodo. Viwòa ƒe ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala hã nya nu tso nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi ƒe dzesiwo ŋu eye ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe kpekpeɖeŋu nyuitɔ.

Nu vevitɔe nye be zi alesi nèhea kpekpeɖeŋu nana ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ɖe megbe la, zi nenemae nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia lolona ɖe edzi eye ɖevia ƒe bubudede eɖokui ŋu dzi ɖena kpɔtɔnae. Eyata ele vevie ŋutɔ be woade dzesi dzesi siawo eye woadze nuxexlẽ ƒe hehe tɔxɛ nana gɔme le gɔmedzesuku me.

Aleke woawɔ akpɔ nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxia gbɔe?

Nya nyuiae nye be ne wona kpekpeɖeŋu kple kpekpeɖeŋu nyuitɔ la, ɖevi geɖe siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ate ŋu asrɔ̃ nuxexlẽ eye woato mɔnu siwo akpe ɖe wo ŋu woasrɔ̃ nu le sukuxɔ si wowɔna edziedzi me vɛ.

Zi geɖe la, wowɔa dɔ kple nufiala, hehenala, alo nuxexlẽ ŋuti nunyala bibi aɖe si wona hehee etɔxɛe be woasrɔ̃ alesi woaxlẽ nu, aŋlɔ nu, ahakpɔ nɔnɔmea gbɔe. Viwò ƒe nufiala, susuŋutinunyala, alo ɖeviwo ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyala ate ŋu akafui be nàzã atikewɔla le sukudede me (si woyɔna ɣeaɖewoɣi be sukudede ŋuti dɔdamɔnufiala alo gbegbɔgblɔ ŋuti nunyala si srɔ̃a nu). Ame siawo nye amesiwo wona hehe etɔxɛe be woawɔ dɔ kple ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le.

Le Sri Lanka la, kpekpeɖeŋu si ɖevi siawo xɔna le suku ate ŋu ato vovo. Gake ele vevie be nàƒo nu kple nufialawo le sukua eye nàdzro nufiafiamɔnu tɔxɛ siwo viwòa hiã, abe ɣeyiɣi bubu na dodokpɔwo alo sukudɔdasiwo ene, alo akpe asi ɖe nuŋlɔɖiwo wɔwɔ ŋu. Ðewohĩ ɖoɖo tɔxɛ aɖewo anɔ suku aɖewo si be woatsɔ akpe ɖe ɖevi siawo ŋu. Eya ta mègavɔ̃ be yeaƒo nu kple nufialawo o. Azɔ hã, bia eŋutinunyala siawo tso mɔ siwo dzi nàto akpe ɖe viwòa ŋu le aƒeme ŋu.

Nukae wògahiã be míanya tso esia ŋu?

Ðevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le ate ŋu ase le wo ɖokui me be yewomedze aɖaŋu abe yewo hatiwo ene o le esi dɔwɔwɔ kple ame bubuwo sesẽna na yewo ta. Kuxi siawo ate ŋu asẽ ɖe edzi ne wole dzi yim le gɔmedzesukuwo me, afisi nuxexlẽ va le vevie wu le na nusɔsrɔ̃. Esia wɔe be ɖeviwo magatsɔ ɖeke le sukudɔdasiwo me o.

Zi geɖe la, ɖevi siwo nye nuwɔametɔwo ƒoa asa na nuxexlẽ elabena esesẽna na wo eye wòtea ɖeɖi wo ŋu. Esia fia be nuxexlẽ ƒe hehexɔxɔ xɔasi aɖe toa wo ŋu eye wogatsia megbe na ɖevi bubuwo.

Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàdo alɔ viwòa ƒe agbagbadzedzewo, ade dzi ƒo nɛ be wòaxlẽ nu le aƒeme, eye nàkpe ɖe eŋu. Kafu wo ne woxlẽ nya sue aɖe gɔ̃ hã. Azɔ hã, dze agbagba nàtu viwòa ƒe kakaɖedzi ɖo eye nàna mɔnukpɔkpɔ wo be woakpɔ dzidzedze le nu bubuwo me – abe kamedefefewo, modzakaɖeɖewo, hadzidzi, aɖaŋudɔwo, kple drama ene. Bu alesi nutala, kamedefefewɔla, dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyala, asitsala, ɖɔkta, senyalawo, kple dutadɔnunɔla gbogbo aɖewo le xexeame siwo nuxexlẽ sesẽ gake wowɔ nu gãwoe ŋu kpɔ! Eya ta mègasusui be esi nu ɖeka aɖe sesẽ ta la, viwòa ƒe etsɔme katã do viviti o.

Ne èsusu be nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi ate ŋu anɔ viwòa ŋu la, ƒo nu kple wò ɖɔkta, viwòa ƒe nufiala, alo nuxexlẽ ŋuti nunyala bibi aɖe. Zi alesi wokpɔ nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi aɖe dze sii kaba la, zi nenemae nàte ŋu ana kpekpeɖeŋu nyuitɔ viwòa kaba.

Eyata nu vevi kawoe wòle be míatsɔ ayi aƒemee tso ŋutinya sia me?

• Nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi menye dɔléle o, eye menye nunya ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ hã o. Enye nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ si tso vovototo sue aɖe si le alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa nyatakakawo ŋudɔe me.
• Esia nye nusi dona tso vidzidzi me, eye zi geɖe la, tso ƒomea me. Eyata mègana ɖevia alo wò ŋutɔ nàse le ɖokuiwò me be yeɖi fɔ le esia ta o.
• Ele vevie be woade dzesi dzesiawo kaba eye woana kpekpeɖeŋu eŋutinunyalawo ale be ɖevia nate ŋu asrɔ̃ nuxexlẽ eye kakaɖedzi nanɔ eɖokui ŋu.
• Do alɔ viwòa ƒe agbagbadzedzewo eye nàde dzi ƒo nɛ. Tsɔ kpe ɖe nuxexlẽ ŋu la, de dzi ƒo na viwòa be wòati nunya bubuwo yome be wòatu eƒe ŋutetewo ɖo.
• Mègavɔ̃ o! Mègatsi dzodzodzoe o! Ne kpekpeɖeŋu nyuitɔ na ɖevi siwo ŋu nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi le hã ate ŋu anɔ agbe si me dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ le, si me dzidzɔ le. Menye viwò ɖeka koe o, ame geɖewo li siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ɖeviwo ŋu alea.

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