Ðe viwò sue la lé fu agbalẽwo xexlẽ le dzomeŋɔli mɔkekewo mea? (Dzomeŋɔli Nuxexlẽ) Mina míaƒã numame sia ɖe ame me!

Ne dzomeŋɔli mɔkekewo dze egɔme la, edoa dzidzɔ na ɖevi suewo ɣesiaɣi, alo? Tso ŋdi vaseɖe zã me la, woƒua du, tia kpo, ƒoa fefe kple xɔlɔ̃wo, le tsaɖibɔ me, le ƒuta... Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, wodoa gasɔ, yia ƒometɔwo ƒe aƒewo me, yia mɔzɔzɔwo dzi. Le dɔ siawo katã wɔwɔ me la, ɣeyiɣi didi atsɔ axlẽ agbalẽ aɖe kple dzidedeƒo na viwò suewo be woaxlẽe ate ŋu anye kuxi na wò vie. Gake, mègaŋlɔ be o be ele be woƒe nuxexlẽ ƒe ŋutete kple sidzedze nayi edzi anɔ tsitsim le suku ƒe mɔkeke sia gɔ̃ hã me, alo?

Nukatae agbalẽwo xexlẽ le vevie nenema gbegbe le dzomeŋɔli mɔkeke sia me?

Àte ŋu anɔ eŋu bum be, "Oo, Ðɔkta/Aƒenɔ, nukae dzɔna ne èɖe mɔ na viwòwo wofe eye wogblẽ wo ɖeɖe ɖi le ŋkekenyuiwo ɖuɣi?" Enye nyateƒe be fefe kple modzakaɖeɖe le vevie ŋutɔ. Gake nuxexlẽ hã le nenema. Kpɔ nyateƒenya siawo ɖa.

1. Ahɔhɔ̃a le tsitsim le eƒe nɔnɔme nyuitɔ kekeake me!

Kpuie ko la, nuxexlẽ le abe nunyiame nyui kple kamedede nyui ene na ɖevi sue ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe tsitsi. Ne èxlẽ agbalẽ aɖe la, ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe akpa vovovowo wɔa dɔ zi ɖeka. Ne èkpɔ nya yeyewo, kpɔ nudzɔdzɔ siwo le ŋutinyaa me le susu me, eye nèbu ameawo ŋu la, esiawo katã naa ahɔhɔ̃meka yeyewo va nɔa ahɔhɔ̃a me. Esia nana woƒe tamebubu ŋutete, ŋkuɖoɖonudzi, susu tsɔtsɔ ɖo nu ŋu, kple kuxiwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ ƒe ŋutete nyona ɖe edzi, siwo nye susu ƒe dɔwɔwɔ veviwo ŋutɔ. Ne míagblɔe tututu la, ɖevi si xlẽa agbalẽ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ le abe anyigba nyui, si te ŋu léa nusianu bɔbɔe ene.

2. Àte ŋu asrɔ̃ nya geɖe, eye wò nuƒoƒo ƒe atsyã hã adze tugbe wu!

Ne ɖeviwo le agbalẽwo xlẽm la, wosrɔ̃a nya yeye geɖe . Ne wokpɔ alesi wozãa nya mawo kple alesi wotsɔa nyagbewo ƒoa ƒui la, woƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutetewo nyona ɖe edzi le wo ɖokui si. Esia nye kpekpeɖeŋu gã aɖe le nuƒoƒo nyuie, eme kɔ, kple ɖekawɔwɔ me, kple le woƒe susuwo gbɔgblɔ me. Esia xɔ asi ŋutɔ menye na sukudɔwo ɖeɖeko o, ke le gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ hã me.

3. Woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe "Dzomeŋɔli Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe Bubu" nu!

Esia nye nusi ŋu wòle be míaɖɔ ŋu ɖo. Ne ɖeviwo le adzɔge tso agbalẽwo gbɔ ɣeyiɣi didi aɖe le suku megbe la, woate ŋu aŋlɔ nu siwo wosrɔ̃ la dometɔ aɖewo be vivivi. Míeyɔa esia be "Dzomeŋɔli Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe Bubu" . Ele abe mɔ̃ si womezãna o la xɔa gbeɖuɖɔ le ŋkeke ʋɛ aɖewo megbe ene. Gake ne ɖevia xlẽa agbalẽwo le ŋkekenyuiwo gɔ̃ hã me la, woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe nusi bu sia nu le akpa gãtɔ me elabena ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa dɔ ɣesiaɣi. Emegbe ne ŋkekenyuiawo wu enu eye ɖevia trɔ yi suku la, anɔ bɔbɔe ŋutɔ be wòaɖo nusɔsrɔ̃ yeyewo gbɔ.

4. Nuŋububu ƒe mɔnu kekena ɖe enu, eye dɔmetɔtrɔ hã dzina ɖe edzi!

Ne ɖeviwo le ŋutinyagbalẽwo xlẽm la, wonɔa agbe kple ame ɖesiaɖe. Wodzea agbagba be yewoase yewoƒe seselelãmewo abe dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ, blanuiléle, vɔvɔ̃, kple movidzɔdzɔ ene gɔme. Esia tua nɔnɔme veviwo abe veveseseɖeamenu kple veveseseɖeamenu ene ɖo le woƒe susu me. Menye ema ɖeɖeko o, ke wosrɔ̃a nu tso dekɔnu vovovowo, ame vovovowo, kple agbenɔnɔ vovovowo hã ŋu, si kpena ɖe wo ŋu wosea ameawo gɔme hesea veve ɖe wo nu.Xexemenukpɔsusu kekena ɖe enu, susuŋudɔwɔwɔ kple nutovɛwo nyona ɖe edzi.

5. Ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò hã be nàdzo le wò telefon kple tablɛt ƒe numame gbɔ!

Fifia la, sɔhɛ geɖe zãa woƒe ɣeyiɣi akpa gãtɔ tsɔ ƒoa fefe kple videowo kpɔkpɔ le woƒe telefonwo dzi. Menye ɖeko esia gblẽa nu le woƒe ŋkuwo ŋu ko o, ke egblẽa nu le woƒe ahɔhɔ̃ hã ŋu. Agbalẽwo xexlẽ nye mɔnu nyui aɖe si le lãmesẽ me ɖe screen time sia teƒe.

Aleke nàwɔ ana viwò suea nalɔ̃ agbalẽwo xexlẽ? Aɖaŋuɖoɖo ʋɛ aɖewo!

Enyo, eyata aleke nàwɔ ana viwò suewo nakpɔ dzidzɔ ɖe agbalẽwo xexlẽ ŋu le ŋkekenyuiɖuɣi sia? Susu ʋɛ aɖewo siwo mesusu be akpe ɖe ŋuwòe nye esi.

1. Mina míadze xɔlɔ̃wo le agbalẽdzraɖoƒea!

Kplɔ viwò suea yi agbalẽdzraɖoƒe le miaƒe du alo kɔƒea me edziedzi. Na wòanye mɔzɔzɔ tɔxɛ aɖe, abe blemanudzraɖoƒe yiyi ene.

• Fia agbalẽa ƒe akpa siwo le amadede vovovowo me kple magazine siwo le afima la viwò suea. Xexe yeye aɖe aʋu nɛ ne ekpɔ agbalẽ siwo mekpɔ kpɔ o.
• Agbalẽdzraɖoƒe geɖe wɔa ɖoɖo ɖe nuxexlẽ ƒe ɖoɖo tɔxɛwo, agbalẽhabɔbɔwo, aɖaŋudɔwo ƒe hoʋiʋliwo, kple ŋutinyawo ƒe ɣeyiɣiwo ŋu na ɖeviwo le ŋkekenyuiwo ɖuɣi. De dzi ƒo na viwòa be wòakpɔ gome le nusiawo me. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ne woɖu dzi le wɔna siawo me la, ate ŋu ana woakpɔ fetu suesuesuewo, siwo dome agbalẽ siwo woaxɔ femaxee hã le.
• Ne wotsɔ woawo ŋutɔ ƒe agbalẽdzraɖoƒegbalẽvi na ɖevi suewo , woadi vevie wu eye woatsɔ agbanɔamedzi geɖe wu le agbalẽwo tiatia kple wo dzi kpɔkpɔ me. Bu dzidzɔ si woakpɔ ne woyi agbalẽdzraɖoƒea eye wova aƒeme kple agbalẽ si woawo ŋutɔwo tia la ɖa!

2. Agbalẽ siwo le mɔ dzi!

Zi geɖe la, míezɔa mɔ le ŋkekenyuiwo ɖuɣi, alo? Àte ŋu azã ɣeyiɣi sia atsɔ axlẽ agbalẽwo kokoko.

• Mɔzɔzɔ didi aɖe yiyia? Eɖanye ʋu, bɔs, keteke, alo yameʋu mee nèle mɔ zɔm o , kpɔ egbɔ be yetsɔ agbalẽ siwo viwòa lɔ̃na wu la dometɔ aɖewo ɖe asi.
• Ne mèle ʋu kum o la, àte ŋu axlẽ agbalẽ mawo sesĩe be amesiame nase. Ekema nu maɖe fu na wò ne èle mɔ dzi o, eye ànɔ agbalẽ aɖe xlẽm.
• Fifia odio gbalẽwo li, si nye `(Odiobooks)`. Woawoe nye esiwo me ame aɖe xlẽa ŋutinya aɖe nyuie le. `(Odiobooks)` ƒe ƒuƒoƒo gã aɖe le agbalẽdzraɖoƒewo abe esia ene. Alo àte ŋu ake ɖe wo ŋu le Internet dzi hã. Àte ŋu ase esiawo ne èle mɔ zɔm. Esia hã naa nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si sɔ kple nuxexlẽ sua asiwò.

3. Ðe míawɔ mía ŋutɔwo míaƒe agbalẽwoa?

Esia nye nuwɔna si doa dzidzɔ na ame ŋutɔ. Dzi adzɔ ɖevi sueawo gɔ̃ hã ŋutɔ be yewoawɔ ɖeka kplii.

• Tia nusiwo nèlɔ̃ wu siwo nèwɔ le wò dzomeŋɔli mɔkekea me la dometɔ ɖeka. Fefe kple xɔlɔ̃wo, mɔzɔzɔ, asaɖa me nɔnɔ, kriket ƒoƒo, ice cream ɖuɖu, tsiƒuƒe yiyi... Ate ŋu anye nusianu.
• Emegbe gblɔ na ɖevia be wòata nɔnɔmetatawo tso eŋu alo atso nɔnɔmetatawo tso magazine xoxowo me atsɔ akpe ɖe wo ŋu .
• Kpe nɔnɔmetata siawo ɖe pepa alo kakɛ A4 dzi be nàwɔ agbalẽ. De dzi ƒo na wo be woaŋlɔ nya ʋɛ aɖewo alo nyagbe ɖeka alo eve ɖe axa ɖesiaɖe dzi.
• Ne viwòa metsi akpa be wòate ŋu aŋlɔe o la, àte ŋu aŋlɔ ŋutinya si wògblɔ la ɖi.(Zã nya siwo wògblɔ la ke, le eya ŋutɔ degbe me.) Ne wo katã wu enu la, mixlẽ agbalẽa ɖekae.
• > Bu dada si wòase ne exlẽ agbalẽ aɖe si wòŋlɔ na wò ŋu kpɔ! Anye nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si maŋlɔ be akpɔ gbeɖe o.

4. Mina míanɔ kadodo me kple xɔlɔ̃wo (to nuŋɔŋlɔ me) .

Nuxexlẽ, abe nuŋɔŋlɔ ene, nana gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete nyona ɖe edzi.

• Ne mèyi mɔkeke le afi aɖeke o hã la, de dzi ƒo na viwòwo be woaɖo posugbalẽviwo, lɛtawo, alo e-mailwo ɖe wo xɔlɔ̃wo kple ƒometɔwo . Bia wo be woaŋlɔ nu tso nusiwo wowɔ kple nusiwo wokpɔ le mɔkeke me ŋu.
• Anyo ŋutɔ ne àte ŋu ana tɔgbuiwò, nyruiwò, tɔɖiayɔvi, alo xɔ̃wò aɖe si le didiƒe nanye viwòa ƒe ‘nuŋlɔti’ . De dzi ƒo na wo be woaɖɔli lɛtawo kple posugbalẽviwo abe zi ɖeka le kwasiɖa me ene.
• Menye ɖeko esia nana nuxexlẽ nyona ɖe edzi ko o, ke enaa nuŋɔŋlɔ kple nyagbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete hã nyona ɖe edzi.

5. Mègana nuxexlẽ gbesiagbe ƒe numame na wò o!

Nu vevitɔ kekeakee nye esia.

• Togbɔ be nu bubu ɖesiaɖe trɔna le dzomeŋɔli ƒe ɖiɖiɖemeɣi hã la, yi nuxexlẽ ƒe ɖoɖo siwo le asiwò xoxo le aƒeme la dzi.
• Xlẽ agbalẽwo kple viwò suewo gbesiagbe. Ate ŋu anye ŋutinya si wogblɔ do ŋgɔ na mlɔƒe , alo ate ŋu anye anyinɔƒe le ati te le ɣeyiɣi si me tomefafa le le ŋkekea me, anɔ anyi ɖe abɔtazikpui dzi. Aɖabaƒoƒo 15-20 gbesiagbe gɔ̃ hã sɔ gbɔ.
• Nu vevitɔe nye be nàna nuxexlẽ nanye vivisese si me lɔlɔ̃ le na wò kple viwò sue siaa. Mègana wòanye amedzizizi alo nusi tea ɖeɖi ame ŋu gbeɖe o.

Nu suesuesue geɖe wu... ɖo ŋku esia hã dzi!

• Nye kpɔɖeŋuɖola: Ne èkpɔ viwòwo wole agbalẽwo xlẽm la, woawo hã atsɔ ɖe le eme. Xlẽ agbalẽ aɖe le wo ŋkume. Ƒo nu tso nuxexlẽ ŋu kple dzonɔameme kple dzidzɔ. Ma wo, gblɔ be, "Egbea mexlẽ ŋutinya dzeani aɖe."
• Mina míaxlẽ nu ɖekae abe ƒome ene: Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ƒome bliboa ate ŋu aƒo ƒu eye woaɖɔli wo nɔewo axlẽ ŋutinya ɖeka ma ke sesĩe. Ate ŋu anye nuteƒekpɔkpɔ dodzidzɔname kple kadodo si me kadodo le ŋutɔ.
• Do ka kple agbalẽwo kple agbe ŋutɔŋutɔ: Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne èyi lãwo dzikpɔƒe vɔ la, xlẽ agbalẽ aɖe si ƒo nu tso lãwo ŋu. Ne èyi ƒuta la, xlẽ ŋutinya aɖe si ku ɖe atsiaƒu kple tɔmelãwo ŋu. To mɔ sia dzi la, anɔ bɔbɔe na wo be woatsɔ nusiwo le agbalẽa me asɔ kple nuteƒekpɔkpɔ mawo.
• Tia agbalẽ siwo sɔ ɖe ƒe si wòxɔ nu eye wodoa dzidzɔ na ame: Tia agbalẽ siwo sɔ ɖe ƒe si wòxɔ nu, siwo ku ɖe nyati siwo me viwòa tsɔ ɖe le ŋu (abe dinosaur, yamenutome, gliwo, lãwo, afɔku ŋutinyawo ene). Yi agbalẽdzraƒe alo agbalẽdzraɖoƒe eye nàna wòatiae na eɖokui. Mègazi edzi be wòaxlẽ agbalẽ siwo ƒo nu tso nyati siwo medi be yeaxlẽ o ŋu o.
• De dzi ƒo, ke menye zitɔtɔ o: Mègana nuxexlẽ nase le eɖokui me abe tohehe alo agba si wòle be nàwɔ ene o. Na wòanye nusi doa dzidzɔ na wò eye nàɖe dzi ɖi. Mègagblɔ nyawo abe, "Ne èxlẽ agbalẽ sia egbea ko hafi mana nàfe."
• Ne woda asɔ kple dɔ bubuwo:Fefe, gododo, kple ɣeyiɣi zazã kple xɔlɔ̃wo hã le vevie ŋutɔ le dzomeŋɔli mɔkekewo me. Nuxexlẽ nye nusi wòle be woada asɔ kple nu mawo katã. Mègazi ɖokuiwò dzi be nàxlẽ agbalẽwo ŋkeke bliboa o.
• Ðo agbalẽawo ɖe ɖoɖo nu nyuie: Ne àte ŋu awɔ nuxexlẽƒe sue aɖe le aƒeme si me agbalẽdzraɖoƒe, kplɔ̃ sue, kple zikpui le la, ema hã nye mɔ nyui aɖe si dzi nàto ahe ɖevi suewo ava nuxexlẽ me. Na nɔnɔme aɖe nanɔ anyi si me woate ŋu axlẽ agbalẽwo faa eye woalɔ̃ faa.

Nusiwo ŋu woabu (Take-Home Message) .

Eyata, Dada kple Papa, ɖewohĩ miese ɣeyiɣi nyui si wònye be dzomeŋɔli mɔkeke sia nye be nàtu viwòa ƒe nuxexlẽ ƒe ŋutete, sidzedze, kple susuŋudɔwɔwɔ ɖo gɔme.

• Bu viɖe siwo nuxexlẽ ate ŋu akpɔ ɖe eƒe ahɔhɔ̃, gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete, nunya, kple seselelãme ƒe tsitsi dzi ŋu kpɔ ! Ele abe gadede eƒe etsɔme me ŋutɔ ene.
• Ne èzã aɖaŋuɖoɖo sue siawo la, àte ŋu ana nuxexlẽ nanye dzidzɔ, vivisese, kple vivisese le eƒe agbe me godoo.
• > Ðo ŋku edzi be mɔnukpɔkpɔ gã aɖe le ɖevi si xɔ agbalẽ aɖe egbea la si be wòazu kplɔla kple nunyala si ate ŋu aɖu xexeame dzi etsɔ!
• Ʋu nuxexlẽ ƒe xexe wɔnuku la ƒe ʋɔtru na viwò suea. Anye nunana xɔasitɔ kekeake, si xɔ asi wu ɖesiaɖe si nàna wo kpɔ. Ŋkekenyui nyuiwo na mi katã!

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