When your child, or someone you know , is diagnosed with autism, you may feel a sense of shock, fear, and confusion. It's normal. We all feel the same way when we learn that someone we love has a health problem. But don't be afraid. Let's face this journey with the right knowledge about this condition and where to get help. That way, your fear and confusion will disappear. It will also give you the strength to get the support you and your child with autism really need.
What exactly is autism?
Simply put, autism is a developmental disorder that begins in early childhood. This means that a child's brain develops and functions in a slightly different way. Autism is not a single disease with the same set of symptoms. It is more like a spectrum. We call it Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASDs). This category of ASDs includes other related conditions such as Asperger's syndrome and Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD).
This condition can sometimes be difficult to diagnose because the symptoms and severity of the condition vary from child to child. Some children may have very mild symptoms, while others may have severe symptoms.
The main features that are usually seen are:
- Desire to stay away from society.
- Difficulty communicating verbally or in other ways.
- Repeating the same thing over and over again and having rigid, inflexible behaviors.
In severe cases, a child with autism may never speak or look others in the eye. But remember that most children can live normal lives with the right treatment and support .
What are the symptoms of an autistic child?
Typically, a child begins to show signs of autism before the age of 3. Sometimes, some signs can be seen as early as 10-12 months, and certainly as early as 18 months. These signs vary greatly from child to child. Let's look at the main signs that can be seen.
| Characteristics category | Examples and descriptions |
|---|---|
| Communication problems | Reluctance to look others in the eye, not responding to their name, speaking late, or speaking in an odd way (e.g., repeating what others say). |
| Repetitive behaviors | Things like arm flapping, constantly shaking the head or banging it somewhere, and continuously spinning the same toy. |
| Reluctance to change | Inability to tolerate even small changes in routine or environment. For example, if things are moved around the house or meal times change, they may become very upset. |
| Limited interest | Showing intense interest in only a very limited range of things. For example, some children may only be interested in trains, or may only talk about a certain cartoon character. |
Why does autism develop? What is the cause?
Experts still don't know exactly what causes this. In the past, some thought that this condition was caused by parental upbringing mistakes. That led to unnecessary guilt feelings for parents who were struggling with such a child.
But today, scientists agree that autism is not the fault of the parents .
The current view is that the condition is caused by a combination of genetic and environmental factors . Recent research has identified several genes that contribute to autism. Research is also underway to determine whether environmental factors, such as changes in the body's biochemical processes and exposure to certain viruses, may also play a role.
The most important thing is that extensive research conducted around the world has repeatedly confirmed that there is no scientific truth to the myth that vaccines cause autism . So please do not be afraid of such myths. Give your child the vaccines that are due on time, as advised by your doctor.
What are the treatments for an autistic child?
Child development experts agree that it is best to start treatment as soon as possible after autism is diagnosed. Although there is no "cure," early intervention, including behavioral training and skill development, can yield very good results. These educational and behavioral treatments address the core characteristics of autism (social problems, communication difficulties, repetitive behaviors). This greatly increases a child's chances of attending school and participating in regular activities.
Other treatment options
1. Medication
Sometimes doctors prescribe medication for children with autism, but not for the autism itself, but for other symptoms that may be associated with it. For example, to control things like depression, anxiety, seizures, or hyperactivity.
2. Alternative Therapies
You may have heard of various alternative treatments, such as giving vitamins, making dietary changes, and ``Chelation'' (a process of removing heavy metals from the body). Although some parents claim that these treatments have results, their effectiveness has not been scientifically proven.
Warning: Chelation therapy in particular is very dangerous , and has even been linked to deaths. Therefore, never try any alternative treatment without first talking to your doctor . Before trying any treatment, be sure to discuss its safety and effectiveness with your doctor.
How can you get help as a parent?
If you have a child with autism, you need support too. Taking care of your child and running around to get the treatment they need can be a huge stressor on a daily basis. At the same time, you are constantly worried about your child's future. With all this, it is very important to take care of yourself as well as your child. Try to find the support you need.
- Educate yourself: Learn as much as you can about this condition. Read trusted websites and books. Ask your doctor questions. Stay informed about new research.
- Create a support group: Find out if there are any organizations or support groups for parents of autistic children in your area. Ask your doctor about them. Join such groups online. The experiences of other parents can be a great source of strength.
- Make time for yourself: Go out with your partner, friends, and find some time to do things you enjoy. You can only take good care of your child if you are mentally healthy.
- Seek help: If you or your partner are experiencing persistent stress, anxiety, or depression, don't hesitate to seek help. See a qualified counselor or therapist. Your doctor can refer you to this.
Take-Home Message
- Autism is a developmental disorder, not something caused by parental upbringing mistakes.
- It is very important to identify the condition early and begin behavioral and skill development treatment at an early stage.
- There is no scientifically proven link between vaccines and autism, so don't be afraid of myths.
- Be sure to discuss alternative treatments, especially dangerous treatments like chelation, with your doctor before resorting to them.
- While caring for your child, it's essential to take care of your own mental and physical health as a parent. Don't hesitate to ask for support if needed.
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