Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ʻoe i ka lā i haʻi aku ai ke kauka iā ʻoe ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kanesa? A i ʻole ua loaʻa i kekahi āu i ʻike ai? I ka lohe ʻana i kēlā mau ʻōlelo, ua like me he mea lā ua hiolo ke ao holoʻokoʻa ma luna ou. ʻO nā mea a pau a mākou i noʻonoʻo ai a kūkulu a hiki i kēlā manawa, ua like ia me ka nalowale koke ʻana. He ʻike paʻakikī loa ia a he ʻeha puʻuwai. A laila, i nā manawa pōʻeleʻele e hoʻomaka ana, hoʻopiha nā nīnau i ko mākou manaʻo. Hoʻomaka ka hapa nui o kēlā mau nīnau me ka huaʻōlelo 'no ke aha?'. "No ke aha i hana ʻia ai kēia iaʻu?", "He aha kaʻu i hana hewa ai?"... Ua lilo mākou i mea kaumaha loa i ko mākou ʻimi ʻana i nā pane i kēia mau nīnau. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ʻaʻole mākou e loaʻa nā pane.
"Ua hana ʻia kēia no kou ikaika" - he mea hōʻoluʻolu maoli anei kēia mau moʻolelo?
I loko o kēia mau manawa paʻakikī, i kekahi manawa, ʻōlelo mai ko kākou mau hoaaloha a me nā hoahānau i nā mea e hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻoluʻolu iā kākou, akā ʻoi aku ka hōʻeha ʻana iā kākou. Ua lohe paha ʻoe i nā moʻolelo e like me, "Ua hāʻawi mai ke Akua iā ʻoe i kēia maʻi no ka mea ua ikaika ʻoe, a no ka mea ua ʻike ʻo ia hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui." A i ʻole aia kekahi poʻe e ʻōlelo wale ana, "Mai hopohopo, e maikaʻi ana ia." ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe manaʻo o kēia poʻe. Ke hoʻāʻo nei lākou e hana maikaʻi iā kākou. Akā, ʻaʻole lākou i maopopo i ka ʻeha, ka makaʻu, a me ka kānalua e hele nei ke kanaka e hakakā nei i ka maʻi kanesa. No laila, ʻaʻole lawe mai kēlā mau ʻōlelo i ka hōʻoluʻolu. ʻO ka mea a lākou e hana ai, ʻo ia ka hoʻolilo iā mākou i mea mehameha loa. Ke hoʻomaka ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻoi aku hoʻi ma hope o
ka chemotherapy, hiki ke ʻoi aku ka ʻino o ke kūlana. Ma ke ʻano he hopena ʻaoʻao o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, hoʻomaka ka loli o ke ʻano o ke kino. ʻO ka nalowale o ka lauoho ka pilikia nui e kū nei i nā poʻe he nui.
Ua manaʻo paha ʻoe e like me ka poʻe i ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu e kamaʻilio me ʻoe ke loli kou helehelena? Ua manaʻo paha ʻoe e like me lākou e pale aku nei iā ʻoe?
ʻAʻole pinepine kēia he mea a lākou e hana ai me ka manaʻo. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea e ʻōlelo aku ai iā ʻoe a pehea e hoʻohauʻoli ai iā ʻoe. No laila, hoʻāʻo lākou e pale i ka hālāwai ʻana me ʻoe. Ke hui pū ʻia kēia mau mea a pau, hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo e like me ʻoe wale nō ma ka honua.
He aha kāu e ʻōlelo ai a he aha kāu e ʻōlelo ʻole ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi maʻi kanesa?
Inā loaʻa i kāu hoaaloha a ʻohana paha ka maʻi kanesa, he mea nui e kākoʻo iā lākou. Akā, he mea nui nō hoʻi e ʻike pehea e hana ai. Eia kahi manaʻo iki e pili ana i kēlā.
| Nā Mea Kōkua ʻole e ʻŌlelo ai | Nā Mea Kōkua e ʻŌlelo Ai |
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| "Ua ʻike au i kou manaʻo." (ʻAʻole ʻoe i manaʻo maoli.) | "Inā makemake ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia, e hoʻolohe wau." |
| "E noʻonoʻo pono. E maikaʻi nā mea a pau." | "Pehea ʻoe i kēia lā? Pono ʻoe i kekahi kōkua mai iaʻu?" |
| "ʻO ka mea i maʻi i ke awakea, ua ola hou aʻe." (He ʻokoʻa ka ʻike o kēlā me kēia kanaka.) | "Haʻaheo loa wau i ke ʻano āu e lawelawe nei i kēia." |
| "ʻAʻohe mea nui inā ua nalowale kou lauoho, e hoʻi hou mai nō ia." | "ʻOiai nā mea e hana ʻia iā ʻoe, he waiwai nui ʻoe iaʻu." |
E ho'āʻo wale e hoʻomaopopo iā ia, ma mua o ke aloha aku iā ia.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kahi mea e ʻōlelo ai, ʻo ka paʻa wale ʻana i ko lākou lima a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "Aia pū wau me ʻoe" he ikaika nui ia. Inā makemake lākou e kamaʻilio, e hoʻolohe pono. E mahalo i ko lākou mau manaʻo. He kākoʻo maoli kēlā.
Ka mana o ke kākoʻo mai nā kumu i manaʻo ʻole ʻia
Ke mehameha mākou a ʻeha hoʻi e like me kēia, i kekahi manawa loaʻa iā mākou ke kōkua mai nā wahi a mākou i manaʻo ʻole ai he hiki. Ke hele ʻoe i kahi hale kūʻai, ma ke kaʻa ʻōhua, a ma ke alanui paha, e hālāwai paha ʻoe me kekahi i hele i ka ʻike like me ʻoe, a i ʻole e hele ana i ia mea. Hiki i kahi malihini ke hele mai iā ʻoe a kaʻana like i ko lākou ʻike ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "Ua hele pū wau i kēia." A i ʻole e hāʻawi paha lākou iā ʻoe i ka ikaika ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "E noho ikaika, hiki iā ʻoe ke lanakila i kēia." ʻOiai i kahi manawa pōkole e like me kēia, ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻike ʻia ka ikaika a me ka hōʻoluʻolu e loaʻa mai ana i nā huaʻōlelo. No ka mea, i kēlā manawa ua ʻike ʻoe,
"ʻAʻole wau hoʻokahi. Aia kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaopopo ana i kēia ʻeha a me kēia mau manaʻo aʻu e hele nei." ʻO ke kākoʻo noʻonoʻo e loaʻa mai ana mai ia mea he mea waiwai ʻole. Ua like ia me kahi kukuna liʻiliʻi o ke kukui āu e ʻike ai i kou nalowale ʻana i ka pouli.
No ke aha he mea nui e kaʻana like i kahi ʻike e like me kēia?
- Nalowale ka mehameha : Ke ʻike nei ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō ke alo nei i kēia.
- Ua ʻae ʻia nā manaʻo e kahe: Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe e pili ana i kou mau makaʻu, ke kaumaha, a me ka huhū me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohewa ʻana.
- E kiʻi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kūpono: Nā hopena ʻaoʻao o nā lāʻau lapaʻauHiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kūpono mai ka ʻike e pili ana i ka pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia a me nā mea e hana ai.
- Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka manaʻolana: Ke ʻike ʻoe i nā poʻe i ho'ōla ʻia mai kēia maʻi a ke ola nei i nā ola maʻamau, hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka manaʻolana nui.
Inā makemake ʻoe i kēia ʻano kākoʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kāu
kauka a ʻike e pili ana i nā hui kākoʻo maʻi kanesa.
Ke ola ma hope o ke kanesa: He makana i loaʻa
He ʻike weliweli ka maʻi kanesa, akā i kou hoʻōla ʻana mai ia mea, loli loa kou manaʻo i ke ola. Ua like ia me ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi makana. Nānā mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana. Manaʻo maikaʻi mākou i ka ʻeha o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka mea nui loa, i kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻoe i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai e hōʻoluʻolu i kekahi e hakakā nei me ka maʻi kanesa. Malia paha e hālāwai ʻoe me kekahi e like me ia ma ka hale kūʻai nui, ma kahi hale kūʻai lole. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hele aku iā lākou, e haʻi iā lākou i kāu moʻolelo, a lilo i ikaika no lākou. No ka mea, no lākou pū kekahi, ʻo ke kākoʻo a lākou e loaʻa ai mai kahi kumu i manaʻo ʻole ʻia he mea waiwai nui ia i kēlā manawa.
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- ʻO ka makaʻu, ke kaumaha, ka huhū, a me ka mehameha he mau manaʻo maʻamau ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi maʻi kanesa. Mai manaʻo ʻino no ia mea.
- Mai manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha ʻoe no ka mea ua loli kou helehelena a i ʻole no ka mea ke pale aku nei nā kānaka iā ʻoe. E kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe.
- He mana loa ke kākoʻo o kekahi i ʻike like me ʻoe. E hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka manaʻolana a me ka ikaika.
- Inā loaʻa i kāu hoaaloha a ʻohana paha ka maʻi kanesa, e hoʻolohe iā lākou a hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ma mua o ke aloha aku iā lākou.
- He paʻakikī kēia huakaʻi, akā, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. E noi i kāu kauka a me nā hui kākoʻo no ke kōkua i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e pono ai.
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