Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe he mehameha pū kekahi? (Mehameha) E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia?

ʻAuē, i kekahi manawa ke manaʻo nei mākou ua mehameha loa, ʻeā? Me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea a puni, me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻomaopopo iā mākou. He mea kēia a mākou a pau e manaʻo ai i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole wale no nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui loa ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia manaʻo o ka mehameha, a i ʻole e like me ka mea i kapa ʻia ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, ``(Loneliness)'', a e hoʻāʻo e lanakila ma luna o ia mea.

He aha maoli kēia mehameha?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka mehameha ke makemake ʻoe e pili kokoke i kekahi, akā manaʻo ʻoe ua mamao loa ʻoe mai iā lākou. E noʻonoʻo, makemake ʻoe e noho pū me kāu mau hoaaloha, akā manaʻo ʻoe ua haʻalele ʻia, me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea e mālama iā ʻoe. A i ʻole, ke makemake ʻoe e noho pū me kāu mau hoaaloha, manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha ʻoe. Ua like kēia manaʻo me ke kaumaha iki, kahi mehameha e puka mai ana mai loko mai.

Mehameha kākou a pau i kekahi manawa. He mea maʻamau ka manaʻo iki ʻana i ka mehameha i kekahi manawa. Ua like ia me ke ao e hele mai ana a hele aku. I ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ʻaʻole lōʻihi kēlā manaʻo o ka mehameha. Nalo aku ia ma hope o kekahi manawa. He mea maʻamau kēia no kahi keiki liʻiliʻi, kahi ʻōpio, a i ʻole kahi pākeke.

Ke manaʻo ʻoe he mehameha, ʻo ka mea a mākou e makemake nui ai, ʻo ia ka launa pū ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e manaʻo ua maopopo lākou iā mākou, ua mālama lākou iā mākou, ua mahalo lākou iā mākou. A i ka wā e hana ʻia ai kēlā, e heheʻe ana kēlā manaʻo mehameha, e like me ka hau e heheʻe ana i ka wai wela.

No ke aha lā mākou e mehameha ai? He aha nā kumu?

I kēia manawa, e nānā kākou i ke kumu o ko kākou mehameha. Hiki ke nui nā kumu. ʻOiai he ʻokoʻa ka ʻike o kēlā me kēia kanaka, eia kekahi mau mea e hiki ai ke hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i mehameha:

Ke manaʻo ʻoe mehameha me ka ʻole o kekahi

E noʻonoʻo, inā hele aku kou makuahine a makuakāne paha no ka hana, a inā ʻaʻole pili loa kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa e like me ma mua, a inā ua hele lākou i kahi kula ʻē aʻe. A laila mehameha loa ia me ka ʻole o lākou, ʻeā? ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kali e noho hou me lākou, e kamaʻilio me lākou. Ke hoʻi mai kēlā mau mea hauʻoli, kēlā mau kamaʻilio ʻana, nalowale koke kēlā mehameha. Ua like ia me ka hele ʻana i ke kauhale no kahi hoʻomaha a me ka hauʻoli me kou mau kūpuna, a laila hoʻi mai i ka home me ka manaʻo mehameha iki me ka ʻole o lākou.

Ke huhū mai kekahi iā ʻoe.

Malia paha ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kūʻē iki a hakakā paha me kou kaikuahine, kaikunāne, a hoaaloha paha. A i ʻole ua huhū iki kou makuahine a makuakāne paha no kekahi mea āu i hana ai. Ke ʻole ka hauʻoli o ka poʻe kekahi i kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo mehameha, kaʻawale, a me ke kaumaha. Akā, ke kamaʻilio ʻoe a lilo hou i mau hoaaloha, a i ʻole ke ʻōlelo mai kekahi 'e kala mai,' nalowale kēlā mamao a kokoke hou kou puʻuwai. A laila lele aku nō hoʻi ka mehameha.

Ke manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea i ʻike i kou manaʻo

I kekahi manawa, loaʻa iā kākou nā mea paʻakikī, nā pilikia like ʻole, a me nā hopohopo. Ke mālama mākou iā lākou iā mākou iho me ka haʻi ʻole aku i kekahi, manaʻo mākou he mehameha loa a kaumaha. Akā, ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kou manaʻo a me kou mea e kū nei me kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi nei, ua hoʻemi nui ʻia kēlā pilikia, kēlā kaumaha.Ke hoʻolohe kekahi iā ʻoe, hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe, a ʻōlelo mai, "ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi, eia wau ma ʻaneʻi," e nalo aku ana kēlā mehameha.

Ke manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻowahāwahā ana kekahi iā ʻoe

I kekahi manawa, inā paha ma ke kula, ma kāu wahi hana, a i ʻole ma nā wahi pilikanaka ʻē aʻe, e hoʻohenehene paha kekahi iā ʻoe, a hoʻokaʻawale paha iā ʻoe mai nā hana a i ʻole nā ​​​​pāʻani hui. Hiki ke mehameha loa a ʻeha hoʻi ke manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻae ʻia, ʻaʻole ʻoe no kēlā hui. Akā inā kamaʻilio kekahi iā ʻoe, inā ua hoʻokomo ʻia ʻoe - a inā ʻoe e hoʻoholo a hui pū me lākou - ua pani ʻia kēlā mehameha e kahi manaʻo mahana e lilo pū ana ʻoe i ʻāpana o kēlā hui, kēlā kaiāulu.

Ke paʻahana loa nā kānaka a pau

He mea kēia a ka poʻe he nui e manaʻo nei i kēia mau lā. I kekahi manawa ua paʻahana loa nā mākua me kā lākou mau hana, nā hana o ka home, nā kaikaina me kā lākou mau haʻawina, nā hoaaloha me kā lākou hana, a i ʻole nā ​​mea ʻē aʻe me kā lākou kelepona. A laila, i ka wā ʻaʻohe o lākou manawa e kamaʻilio ai, e ʻakaʻaka ai, a i ʻole e hoʻolilo manawa pū ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo iki i ka mehameha a me ka huhū. Akā i ka wā e hoʻokaʻawale ai ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha i ka manawa e kamaʻilio iki ai me ʻoe, e pāʻani i kahi pāʻani, e inu kī pū ai, a i ʻole e nīnau iā ʻoe i kahi mea ma kou manaʻo, ma kahi o kēlā mehameha, ʻike ʻoe i ko lākou aloha, pili, a me ka waiwai.

He aha kā kākou e hana ai ke manaʻo mākou ua mehameha loa?

ʻAe, e ʻōlelo kākou ua mehameha ʻoe. A laila, ma kahi o ka hakakā ʻana me kēlā manaʻo, e nānā kākou i kāu mea e hiki ai ke hana e lanakila ai a hoʻomāmā i kou manaʻo.

ʻO ka mea mua, e kuhikuhi i kēia manaʻo, e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi inoa.

Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha ʻoe, e nānā mua i ka manaʻo. E ʻōlelo iā ʻoe iho, "Ke manaʻo nei au ua mehameha wau i kēia manawa." Inā ʻike ʻoe i ke kumu o kou manaʻo pēlā, e ʻōlelo iā ʻoe iho, "Malia paha ua mehameha wau no ka mea ua hala koʻu makuahine," a i ʻole "Malia paha ua huhū koʻu hoaaloha iaʻu..."

"Mai hakakā i kēia manaʻo mehameha. Mai hōʻeha hou aku iā ʻoe iho ma ka manaʻo he mea ʻino ia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake ʻoe e hoʻopau iā ia. E nalo aku ana ia i kekahi manawa. Akā ma mua o kēlā, e hoʻomaopopo he loaʻa iā ʻoe kēlā manaʻo, e hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i kahi manawa iki e ʻae ai."

A laila, e ho'āʻo e hana i kekahi o kēia mau mea e hoʻomaha ai i kou manaʻo.

Ke ʻike ʻoe i kēlā manaʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i hoʻokahi a ʻoi aku paha o kēia mau mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu a pale aku i ka mehameha:

• E huli i hoaaloha: Kāhea aku i kekahi a kamaʻilio no kekahi manawa, e pāʻani i kahi pāʻani, a i ʻole e hana pū i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. Ke hui pū ʻolua, ke ʻakaʻaka pū ʻolua, nalowale koke kēlā manaʻo mehameha, e like me ka uahi e puhi ana i ka makani.

• E hoʻolilo i ka manawa me ka ʻohana: E kāhea aku i kou makuahine, kou makuakāne, kou kupuna wahine, kou kupuna kāne, a i ʻole kou mau kaikaina a noi iā lākou e hoʻolilo i kekahi manawa me ʻoe. Malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani pū i kahi pāʻani liʻiliʻi, e hele wāwae pōkole, a i ʻole e kōkua i ka lumi kuke e hana i kahi meaʻai.Ke ʻakaʻaka ʻolua, kamaʻilio, a hauʻoli pū, manaʻo ʻolua ua aloha ʻia a mālama ʻia, a ʻaʻole e nalowale ka mehameha.

• E lokomaikaʻi, e hana i kekahi mea: E hana i kahi lokomaikaʻi no kekahi, e ʻōlelo i kahi ʻōlelo lokomaikaʻi. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i kou hoalauna, he kumu, he mea hele wāwae, a i ʻole kekahi ma ka home. Ke kōkua ʻoe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, manaʻo ʻoe he ʻāpana waiwai ʻoe o kou ʻohana, kula, a i ʻole ke kaiāulu. Ke manaʻo ʻoe no kekahi a pono ʻia ʻoe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e mehameha.

• E ʻoluʻolu: E minoʻaka a ʻōlelo aku, "Pehea ʻoe?" i nā mea a pau āu e hālāwai ai. Hiki ke lilo i hoaaloha, he hoa papa, he kanaka hou. A i ʻole he kumu, he alakaʻi kaʻa, a he kōkua hale kūʻai paha. Ke ʻoluʻolu ʻoe (ʻoiai inā he minoʻaka a he huaʻōlelo wale nō), a he ʻoluʻolu nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe, e nalowale ana ka manaʻo o ka mehameha.

• E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo: Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha ʻoe, e haʻi aku i kekahi āu e hilinaʻi nei i kou manaʻo a me ke kumu. Hiki iā ia kou makuahine, kou makuakāne, kou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, kou kaikunāne, kou kaikuahine, ke kumu - malia paha ʻo kāu holoholona. Ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kou mau manaʻo, ke hoʻolohe a hoʻomaopopo kekahi iā ʻoe, manaʻo ʻoe i kahi manaʻo nui o ka pili a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ma kahi o ka mehameha. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i nā manaʻo hauʻoli ma kēia ʻano.

• E hauʻoli i kou manawa hoʻokahi: I kekahi manawa he mea maikaʻi ka noho hoʻokahi, hoʻokuʻu ia i kou manaʻo. Makemake paha ʻoe e noho hoʻokahi a heluhelu i kahi puke, kaha kiʻi, hoʻolohe i kahi mele, hula, holo paikikala, hīmeni, hana i kahi hana lima, hana i kahi mea hoihoi - a i ʻole e noho wale a noʻonoʻo ma waho o ka puka makani. ʻAʻole pono ka noho hoʻokahi ʻana e manaʻo mehameha i nā manawa a pau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i hoaaloha maikaʻi loa nou iho, e hoʻolilo ana i ka manawa me kou mau manaʻo ponoʻī, e hana ana i nā mea āu e hauʻoli ai.

• E hoʻolilo i kekahi manawa me ke kūlohelohe: Inā hiki, e hele i waho. E hoʻokaʻawale i kekahi manawa e nānā i ka lewa, nā ao, nā lāʻau nani, nā pua. E hoʻolohe i nā manu e mele ana, nā lau e neʻe ana. E ʻike i nā ʻala a me nā leo a puni ʻoe. E ʻike i ka makani ma kou alo, ka honua ma lalo o kou mau wāwae. Inā makemake ʻoe, e kīkoʻo i kou mau lima i luna a nānā i ka lewa. E hanu hohonu a hanu mālie. E ʻike i ka manaʻo kupaianaha o ka lilo ʻana i ʻāpana o kēia ao nui, kēia ʻano nani.

He mea hou aʻe e pili ana i ka mehameha...

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe hewa o ka manaʻo mehameha i kekahi manawa. He manaʻo kanaka maʻamau ia. Ke manaʻo ʻoe pēlā, e lokomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho, e aloha iā ʻoe iho. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, mai ʻae i kēia manaʻo mehameha e kāohi i kou lā holoʻokoʻa, kou ʻano holoʻokoʻa, kou hauʻoli. Ke hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i kou manaʻo, ua ʻike ʻoe i kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā mea e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a e hoʻopau i kēlā mehameha.

ʻO kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, hiki i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.E noʻonoʻo, inā ʻoe e manaʻo nei i kēia manaʻo mehameha no nā lā, a i ʻole he mau pule paha, inā hoʻopilikia ia i kāu mau hana o kēlā me kēia lā (haʻawina, hana, hana hale), inā ʻoe e kaumaha mau i nā manawa a pau, inā huhū mau ʻoe, a inā manaʻo ʻoe e pono ana ʻoe i ke kōkua hou aku, a laila e kamaʻilio pono me kahi pākeke āu e hilinaʻi nei - he makua paha, he kumu, he kākāʻōlelo kulanui, a i ʻole he kauka āu e hilinaʻi nei - e pili ana i kēia. He mea nui loa ia. He mea ʻoi aku paha ia ma mua o ka mehameha, no laila he mea maikaʻi ke loaʻa ke kōkua loea.

No laila, he mea maikaʻi anei ke hoʻomanaʻo i kēia?

Manaʻo wau ua nui kāu i aʻo ai mai nā mea a kākou i kamaʻilio ai. ʻO ka mehameha kekahi mea a kākou e manaʻo ai i kekahi manawa. Nui nā mea hiki iā kākou ke hana e hoʻomanawanui ai a puka i waho, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻolilo ʻana iā ia i pilikia nui.

• He manaʻo kaumaha ka mehameha, kahi āu e manaʻo ai ua mehameha ʻoe, me he mea lā ʻaʻohe ou mea ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe. Akā, he mea ia a kākou a pau e manaʻo like ai.
• No ke aha ʻoe e mehameha ai? Nui nā kumu, e like me ka mehameha me ka ʻole o kahi āu e aloha ai, ka huhū me kekahi, ka ʻole o kekahi e kamaʻilio pū me ia, ka haʻalele ʻia e haʻi, a me ka paʻahana ʻana me kā lākou hana ponoʻī.
• Inā manaʻo ʻoe mehameha, e ʻike mua a ʻae i kēlā manaʻo. A laila e ho'āʻo e hoʻolilo i ka manawa me kahi hoaaloha, ʻohana, kōkua i kekahi, e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo, e hauʻoli i kou manawa hoʻokahi, a e pili pū me ke kūlohelohe.
• ʻOiai he mea maʻamau kēia manaʻo, inā hoʻomau ia, inā manaʻo nui ia, inā hoʻopilikia ia i kou ola a me nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā, e kamaʻilio pono me kahi pākeke hilinaʻi, kauka, a i ʻole ke kākāʻōlelo. E hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka nui o ka hōʻoluʻolu.

ʻO ka mea nui, ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokahi wale nō. Aia mau kekahi e noi ai i ke kōkua, kekahi e kamaʻilio pū me, kekahi e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo. ʻO kāu wale nō e hana ai, ʻo ke kōkua aku.

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