Ib qho kev txhawj xeeb uas ntau tus niam txiv feem ntau txhawj yog seb lawv tus menyuam puas hais lus lig dua lawv cov phooj ywg. Qee zaum, kev piv koj tus menyuam rau ib tug kwv tij laus dua lossis cov kwv tij txheeb ze tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab loj heev: "Vim li cas kuv tus menyuam thiaj li muaj teeb meem tib leeg xwb?" Qhov no puas yog qhov ib txwm muaj, lossis nws puas yog ib yam dab tsi uas koj yuav tsum txhawj txog? Cia peb tshawb nrhiav txog qhov teeb meem ntawm Kev Ncua Sijhawm Lus ua ke ntawm Nirogi Lanka.
Cov menyuam puas zoo ib yam? Cov lus hais "ib txwm"
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab tias tsis yog txhua tus menyuam zoo ib yam . Ib yam li tsis muaj ob tug ntiv tes zoo ib yam, qhov ceev uas cov menyuam yaus ncav cuag cov theem tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob - xws li kev hais lus lossis kev taug kev - txawv ntawm ib tus menyuam mus rau lwm tus. Tej zaum koj yuav pom cov qhov sib txawv no meej meej ntawm koj cov menyuam. Txawm hais tias qee tus hais lus ntxov, lwm tus siv sijhawm ntev dua me ntsis. Yog li ntawd, lo lus "ib txwm" npog ntau yam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog rau kev loj hlob lus.
Txawm li cas los xij, qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum tsis quav ntsej txog koj tej kev txhawj xeeb. Ua ib tug niam txiv, yog tias koj txhawj me ntsis txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev kawm, nws yog ib qho kev coj ua zoo los nrhiav kev qhia los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij. Txawm hais tias cov lus qhia hauv qab no tsis yog cov cai nruj heev, lawv ua cov cim qhia txog yam uas feem ntau xav tau ntawm ntau lub hnub nyoog sib txawv los pab koj txheeb xyuas qhov ua rau muaj kev qeeb lus .
Tus menyuam muaj ob xyoos - koj yuav tsum xav li cas?
Cia peb saib seb peb feem ntau xav tau dab tsi ntawm tus menyuam muaj ob xyoos txog kev hais lus. Thov tsis txhob ntshai; cov no tsuas yog cov qauv kev loj hlob ib txwm muaj.
- Kab lus ob lo lus: Koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum pib sau cov kab lus yooj yim ob lo lus, xws li "xav tau dej," "xav tau mov," "Niam mus," lossis "coj pob tuaj."
- Nkag siab cov lus qhia yooj yim: Lawv yuav tsum ua tau raws li cov lus qhia yooj yim, ob kauj ruam, xws li "Chaw khaws tus menyuam roj hmab thiab muab tso rau ntawm lub rooj zaum."
- Kev muab lub npe rau tej yam yooj yim: Lawv yuav tsum muaj peev xwm muab lub npe rau tej yam khoom siv niaj hnub xws li "pob," "khob," "dev," lossis "miv."
- Cov Lus: Lawv cov lus yuav tsum muaj tsawg kawg yog 50 lo lus, txawm hais tias nws yuav ntau dua.
- Kev Nkag Siab: Yam tsawg kawg ib nrab (50%) ntawm yam koj tus menyuam hais yuav tsum nkag siab rau koj, lawv niam lawv txiv. Txawm hais tias ib tug neeg txawv lossis txawm tias yawg koob yawm txwv yuav nyuaj rau nkag siab lawv, koj ua niam txiv yuav tsum nkag siab koj tus menyuam lub hom phiaj.
Cov no yog cov theem tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob uas xav tau ntawm tus menyuam muaj ob xyoos.
Txij hnub nyoog ob mus rau peb xyoos - Kev nce qib ntxiv!
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos, koj tus menyuam cov lus yuav loj hlob sai, thiab lawv lub peev xwm nkag siab txog cov ntsiab lus yuav zoo dua qub. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog peb xyoos, feem ntau peb xav tias yuav pom cov hauv qab no:
- Cov kab lus peb lo lus: Lawv yuav tsum hais tau cov kab lus peb lo lus xws li "Niam tab tom noj mov," "Kuv tab tom ua si," lossis "xav tau lub pob loj."
- Cov lus ntau: Lawv yuav tsum muaj cov lus ntau tshaj 200 lo lus! Hais yooj yim xwb, lawv yuav tsum siv thiab paub ntau lo lus uas nyuaj rau koj suav.
- Kev nkag siab dav dav: Tam sim no, tsis yog koj xwb, tab sis cov neeg uas nrog lawv sib tham ntau zaus (xws li yawg koob yawm txwv lossis cov txheeb ze ze) yuav tsum nkag siab txog 75% - lossis peb feem plaub - ntawm qhov lawv hais.
- Nkag Siab Txog Cov Lus Qhia Ua Ntej: Lawv yuav tsum nkag siab txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm qhov chaw xws li "rau ntawm," "hauv qab," "sab hauv," thiab "sab nraud." Piv txwv li, yog tias koj hais tias, "Muab cov khoom ua si tso rau ntawm lub rooj" lossis "Tau lub pob los ntawm hauv qab txaj," lawv yuav tsum nkag siab thiab ua raws li qhov kev taw qhia ntawd.
- Siv cov lus piav qhia: Lawv yuav pib siv cov lus piav qhia xws li "Kuv," "koj," "nws/nws," thiab "nws" hauv lawv cov lus.
Yog koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau mus txog cov theem no, qhov kev nqis tes ua zoo tshaj plaws yog tham nrog tus kws kho mob.
Vim li cas qee tus menyuam yaus thiaj hais lus qeeb? (Tej zaum yuav ua rau hais lus qeeb)
Nws yog ib qho ntuj tsim uas yuav xav tias, "Vim li cas qhov no thiaj tshwm sim rau kuv tus menyuam?" lossis "Ua cas ho ua li ntawd?" Muaj ntau yam uas ua rau muaj kev qeeb lus. Tsis txhob ntshai; tsis yog txhua yam ua rau koj tus menyuam qeeb, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum paub zoo.
- Teeb Meem Hnov Lus: Qhov no feem ntau yog thawj yam uas peb yuav tsum xyuas. Ib tug me nyuam yuav muaj teeb meem hnov lus, xws li ib qho mob zoo li "Pob Ntseg Uas Muaj Kua Nplaum" uas cov kua dej sib sau ua ke hauv qhov ncauj ua rau hnov lus tsis meej. Xav txog qhov no: yog tias lawv hnov lus tsis tau meej, lawv yuav kawm hais lus li cas?
- Tej yam kev loj hlob: Tej zaum kev hais lus qeeb yuav cuam tshuam nrog tej yam kev loj hlob, xws li Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Txawm li cas los xij, nco ntsoov tias tsis yog txhua yam kev hais lus qeeb yog los ntawm tej yam mob loj heev no. Tsuas yog ib tus kws kho mob thiaj li muab tau qhov kev kuaj mob tseeb, yog li thov tsis txhob txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej.
- Tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa los ntawm ib puag ncig: Yog tsis muaj kev sib cuag hauv tsev—xws li tham lus, ua si, lossis nyeem ntawv rau tus menyuam—yuav ua rau qeeb. Cov menyuam kawm lus feem ntau yog los ntawm kev mloog thiab xyaum ua raws li lwm tus.
- Teeb meem ntawm lub qhov ncauj thiab lub cev: Qhov tsis muaj zog lossis teeb meem sib koom tes ntawm cov leeg ntawm lub qhov ncauj, tus nplaig, lossis daim di ncauj tuaj yeem ua rau nws nyuaj rau tus menyuam hais cov lus kom raug.
- Cov Menyuam Hais Lus Lig: Muaj ib txhia menyuam, feem ntau hu ua "Cov Menyuam Hais Lus Lig," ncav cuag txhua lub hom phiaj kev loj hlob—xws li kev taug kev, kev ua si, thiab kev nkag siab—raws sijhawm, tab sis lawv cov lus hais tsuas yog qeeb xwb. Feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam no thaum kawg ncav cuag lawv cov phooj ywg.
- Keeb kwm tsev neeg: Qee zaum, keeb kwm tsev neeg uas muaj kev qeeb hais lus tuaj yeem ua lub luag haujlwm.
Thaum twg koj yuav tsum txhawj xeeb thiab koj yuav tsum ua li cas?
Yog koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam tsis tau ua tiav raws li cov hom phiaj uas tau hais ua ntej lawm, thov tsis txhob nyob ntsiag to. Teem caij nrog koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis kws kho mob menyuam yaus. Qhov no yog kauj ruam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj ua tau.
Tus kws kho mob yuav mloog koj cov kev txhawj xeeb thiab kuaj koj tus menyuam.
Lawv yuav kuaj pob ntseg kom paub tseeb tias tsis muaj teeb meem pob ntseg. Yog tias tsim nyog, lawv yuav xa koj tus menyuam mus kuaj pob ntseg nrog kws tshaj lij.
Tsis tas li ntawd xwb, raws li lawv qhov kev ntsuam xyuas kev kho mob, lawv yuav xa koj mus rau tus kws kho mob hais lus. Cov kws tshwj xeeb no tau kawm los pab cov menyuam yaus uas muaj teeb meem hais lus, nkag siab lus, thiab kev sib txuas lus. Lawv tuaj yeem muab cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb rau koj tus menyuam.
Nco ntsoov tias, kev kuaj pom thaum ntxov thiab kev kho mob ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig zoo tshaj plaws. Tsis txhob ntshai, thiab tsis txhob ncua sijhawm los ntawm kev siv txoj hauv kev "tos thiab saib" - nrhiav kev qhia los ntawm kws kho mob sai li sai tau.
Cov niam txiv ua tau dab tsi hauv tsev
Ntxiv rau cov lus qhia kho mob thiab kev pab kho mob, muaj ntau yam yooj yim tab sis muaj txiaj ntsig uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau hauv tsev los pab txhawb koj tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob lus.
- Tham nrog koj tus menyuam tas li: Qhov no yog kauj ruam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Piav qhia txhua yam koj ua thiab txhua yam koj pom hauv cov lus yooj yim thiab meej.Piv txwv li, hais tej yam xws li, "Niam tab tom ua koj cov mis nyuj tam sim no," "Saib lub paj zoo nkauj thiab muaj yeeb yuj ntawd," lossis "Cia peb mus da dej." Txawm tias lawv tsis teb los xij, txuas ntxiv kev sib tham.
- Nyeem cov phau ntawv thiab saib cov duab: Khaws cov phau ntawv uas muaj cov duab loj thiab muaj yeeb yuj thiab tham txog yam nej pom ua ke. Hais tej yam xws li, "Nov yog dev; saib seb, tus dev hais tias 'woof woof'." Nws zoo heev rau kev nyeem tib phau ntawv ntau zaus hauv ib hnub; cov menyuam yaus nyiam rov ua dua, thiab nws pab lawv nco qab cov lus tshiab sai dua.
- Hu nkauj thiab cov nkauj menyuam yaus: Cov menyuam yaus nyiam mloog cov nkauj menyuam yaus thiab cov nkauj uas muaj lub suab sib dhos. Kev hu nkauj pab lawv nkag siab cov qauv lus thiab txhim kho lawv cov lus yam tsis muaj teeb meem.
- Mloog zoo rau lawv tej kev sim: Thaum koj tus me nyuam sim hais ib yam dab tsi, muab koj lub siab rau lawv tag nrho. Yog tias lawv hais tsis raug ib lo lus, tsis txhob kho lawv ncaj qha lossis cem lawv los ntawm kev hais tias, "Qhov ntawd tsis yog." Hloov chaw, rov hais dua lo lus kom raug thiab qhia tias koj nkag siab lawv lub ntsiab lus. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tus me nyuam hais tias "wa-wa" kom thov dej, tsuas yog hais tias, "Auj, koj puas xav tau dej? Nov yog koj cov dej."
- Nug cov lus nug, tab sis tsis txhob yuam kom teb: Es tsis txhob nug tas li tias "Qhov no yog dab tsi?", feem ntau zoo dua los sau cov npe rau lawv. Siv cov kab lus zoo li, "Qhov no yog lub tsheb loj, liab." Lawv yuav teb thaum lawv npaj txhij.
- Nthuav dav txog yam lawv hais: Yog tias koj tus me nyuam hais tias "tsheb," koj tuaj yeem hais tias, "Yog lawm, qhov ntawd yog lub tsheb liab loj, puas yog? Nws tsav ceev heev." Ntxiv cov lus ntxiv rau lawv lub tswv yim qub yog ib txoj kev hu ua kev nthuav dav .
- Txwv lub sijhawm saib TV (TV, xov tooj, ntsiav tshuaj): Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua ob xyoos, cov ntxaij vab tshaus tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam loj rau kev loj hlob ntawm kev hais lus zoo. Lub sijhawm saib TV hloov lub sijhawm muaj nqis thiab sib tham uas koj siv los tham, ua si, thiab sib txuas lus nrog lawv. Kev sib txuas lus ncaj qha, ntsej muag rau ntsej muag thiab ua si muaj txiaj ntsig zoo dua.
- Ua si ua ke: Kev koom nrog kev ua si yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev txhim kho kev txawj hais lus. Ua si ua txuj nrog cov menyuam roj hmab, ua raws li cov suab tsiaj, lossis tham txog yam koj tab tom tsim thaum ua si nrog cov blocks.
Cov Lus Qhia Txog Kev Coj Mus Tsev
Thaum kawg, nco ntsoov tias txhua tus menyuam loj hlob raws li lawv lub sijhawm thiab raws li lawv txoj kev. Tsis txhob ntxhov siab rau koj tus kheej los ntawm kev muab lawv piv rau lwm tus menyuam. Txawm li cas los xij, ua niam txiv, yog tias koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg lossis kev txhawj xeeb me ntsis - yog tias koj pom koj tus kheej xav tias, "Kuv tus menyuam puas hais lus qeeb?" - thov tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej qhov kev xav ntawd.
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas koj ua tau yog tham txog koj tej kev txhawj xeeb nrog koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis tus kws kho mob menyuam yaus. Lawv yuav muab cov lus qhia zoo rau koj.
Los ntawm kev nrhiav kev txhawb nqa thiab kev taw qhia thaum ntxov, koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus menyuam hais lus meej thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab. Tsis txhob txhawj, koj tsis yog tib leeg ntawm txoj kev no! Ntau tus niam txiv ntsib cov kev paub zoo sib xws. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom paub txog thiab ua cov kauj ruam tsim nyog rau lub sijhawm zoo. Koj cov neeg koom tes ntawm Nirogi Lanka nyob ntawm no rau koj.
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