Koj tus me nyuam puas zoo li hais lus lig? Peb puas yuav tham txog qhov qeeb ntawm kev hais lus?

Ib qho kev txhawj xeeb loj tshaj plaws rau ntau tus niam thiab txiv yog tias lawv tus menyuam yaus hais lus qeeb me ntsis piv rau lwm tus menyuam yaus hnub nyoog li nws. Qee zaum, txawm tias thaum piv nws rau lwm tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg, rau nws tus tij laug lossis tus muam laus, nws ntshai heev, xav tias, "Vim li cas kuv tus tub/ntxhais thiaj li zoo li no xwb?" Qhov no puas yog qhov ib txwm muaj? Lossis peb puas yuav tsum txhawj txog qhov no? Hnub no, cia peb tham ntxiv me ntsis txog qhov kev hais lus qeeb no, lossis '(Kev Ncua Lus)'.

Cov menyuam mos puas zoo ib yam? Cov lus hais "ib txwm"

Ua ntej tshaj plaws, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas peb txhua tus yuav tsum nkag siab yog tias tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos zoo ib yam. Ib yam li peb tsib tus ntiv tes tsis zoo ib yam. Qhov ceev uas lawv loj hlob, lub sijhawm uas lawv pib hais lus, lub sijhawm uas lawv pib taug kev, txhua yam no tuaj yeem sib txawv heev. Xav txog nws, txawm tias ntawm cov kwv tij neej tsa hauv tib tsev neeg, peb tuaj yeem pom qhov txawv no meej meej, puas yog? Ib txhia neeg hais lus thaum ntxov, ib txhia neeg hais lus tom qab me ntsis. Yog li lo lus "ib txwm" muaj ntau yam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog rau kev loj hlob lus.

Txawm li cas los xij, qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias peb yuav tsum tsis txhob tshawb nrhiav txog peb tus menyuam. Ua niam txiv, yog tias peb muaj kev tsis ntseeg lossis ntshai me ntsis txog ib kauj ruam twg hauv peb tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tshawb nrhiav nws. Muaj qee cov lus qhia me me uas tuaj yeem pab peb txheeb xyuas seb peb tus menyuam puas muaj kev ncua hauv kev hais lus, uas yog, '(Kev Ncua Lus)'. Cov no tsis yog cov cai tseeb, tab sis feem ntau lawv yog qhov uas cov menyuam yaus muaj hnub nyoog li no tuaj yeem xav tau.

Cov menyuam muaj ob xyoos - peb yuav tsum xav li cas?

Tam sim no cia peb saib seb peb yuav xav li cas txog kev loj hlob ntawm kev hais lus ntawm ib tug menyuam yaus thaum muaj li ob xyoos. Tsis txhob ntshai rau cov no, cov no tsuas yog qib nruab nrab xwb.

• Kab lus ob lo lus: Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum tau pib hais cov kab lus yooj yim ob lo lus xws li "Kuv xav tau dej," "Kuv xav tau mov," "Niam yuav mus," thiab "Coj lub pob tuaj."
• Nkag siab cov lus qhia yooj yim: Nws yuav tsum nkag siab thiab ua raws li cov lus qhia yooj yim ob kauj ruam, xws li "Coj tus menyuam roj hmab los, ces muab lub rooj zaum tso rau saum."
• Kev muab lub npe rau tej yam yooj yim: Koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm muab lub npe rau tej yam yooj yim uas siv txhua hnub xws li "pob", "khob", "dev", "miv".
• Cov Lus: Nws yuav tsum muaj tsawg kawg yog 50 lo lus hauv nws cov lus. Tej zaum yuav ntau dua.
• Kev Nkag Siab Rau Cov Niam Txiv: Ob leeg niam thiab txiv yuav tsum nkag siab tsawg kawg yog ib nrab (50%) ntawm yam uas tus menyuam hais. Tej zaum tus neeg sab nraud, yawg koob yawm txwv, yuav tsis nkag siab ntau npaum li ntawd, tab sis niam thiab txiv yuav tsum nkag siab txog yam uas lawv tus menyuam tab tom sim hais.

Cov no yog cov khoom yooj yim uas feem ntau xav tau los ntawm tus menyuam muaj ob xyoos.

Thaum koj muaj hnub nyoog ob mus rau peb xyoos - lwm qhov kev txhim kho!

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos, koj tus menyuam cov lus yuav loj hlob sai dua, thiab lawv cov kev nkag siab yuav zoo dua qub. Thaum lawv muaj li peb xyoos, peb yuav tsum xav tias yuav muaj tej yam zoo li no:

• Cov kab lus peb lo lus: Koj yuav tsum hais tau cov kab lus peb lo lus xws li "Niam tab tom noj mov", "Kuv tab tom ua si", thiab "Kuv xav tau lub pob loj".
• Ib lo lus ntau heev: Nws yuav tsum muaj cov lus ntau tshaj 200 lo lus! Hais yooj yim xwb, nws yuav tsum paub thiab siv ntau lo lus ntau tshaj li koj suav tau.
• Kev Nkag Siab los ntawm cov neeg feem coob: Tam sim no, tsis yog niam thiab txiv xwb, tab sis kuj yog lwm tus neeg uas lawv ntsib ntau zaus (piv txwv li, yawg koob yawm txwv, cov txheeb ze ze) yuav tsum nkag siab txog 75%, lossis txog peb feem plaub, ntawm yam lawv hais.
• Nkag Siab Txog Cov Lus Qhia Ua Ntej: Nkag Siab Txog Cov Lus Qhia Ua Ntej, xws li cov lus zoo li "saum toj", "hauv qab", "sab hauv", "sab nraud". Piv txwv li, thaum koj hais tias 'muab cov khoom ua si tso rau ntawm lub rooj' lossis 'muab lub pob los ntawm hauv qab txaj', nws yuav tsum nkag siab thiab ua tau li ntawd.
• Siv cov lus piav qhia: Nws pib siv cov lus piav qhia, uas yog, cov lus zoo li 'Kuv', 'koj', 'nws', 'nws', thiab lwm yam, hauv nws cov lus.

Yog koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau txog cov theem no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog kws kho mob txog nws.

Vim li cas qee tus menyuam yaus thiaj hais lus lig? (Tej zaum yuav ua rau qeeb lus)

Zoo, tam sim no tej zaum koj yuav xav paub tias, "Vim li cas qhov no thiaj tshwm sim rau kuv tus menyuam xwb?" lossis "Dab tsi ua rau qhov no?" Muaj ntau yam ua rau muaj kev qeeb lus. Tsis txhob txhawj, tsis yog txhua yam no yuav siv tau rau koj tus menyuam, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum paub txog lawv.

• Teeb Meem Hnov Lus: Qhov no feem ntau yog thawj qhov uas yuav tsum nrhiav. Cov menyuam yaus me me muaj teeb meem hnov ​​lus. Piv txwv li, pob ntseg nplaum, ib qho mob uas cov kua dej sib sau ua ke hauv pob ntseg, ua rau lawv nyuaj hnov ​​lus. Xav txog nws, lawv yuav kawm hais lus li cas yog tias lawv hnov ​​lus tsis tau zoo, puas yog?
• Tej yam kev loj hlob: Qee yam kev loj hlob, xws li autism spectrum disorder (ASD), kuj tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev qeeb hais lus. Tab sis nco ntsoov, tsis yog txhua yam kev qeeb hais lus yog los ntawm ib qho mob loj heev. Tsuas yog kws kho mob thiaj li kuaj tau qhov tseeb. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob maj nrawm mus xaus lus.
• Txo kev txhawb nqa los ntawm ib puag ncig: Qhov no feem ntau tshwm sim thaum tus menyuam lub tsev tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa, xws li tham nrog nws, ua si nrog nws, thiab nyeem phau ntawv. Tus menyuam kawm lus los ntawm kev mloog thiab ua raws li.
• Teeb meem ntawm lub qhov ncauj thiab lub cev: Qhov tsis muaj zog lossis teeb meem nrog cov leeg ntawm lub qhov ncauj, tus nplaig, thiab daim di ncauj tuaj yeem ua rau nws nyuaj rau hais cov lus kom raug.
• Cov Neeg Hais Lus Lig:Muaj ib txhia menyuam uas, txawm hais tias lawv loj hlob zoo hauv txhua yam xws li kev taug kev, kev ua si, thiab kev nkag siab txog tej yam, tab sis lawv hais lus lig me ntsis. Cov no hu ua "Cov Neeg Hais Lus Lig." Txawm li cas los xij, feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam no rov qab sib tham nrog lwm cov menyuam tom qab ib ntus.
• Keeb Kwm Tsev Neeg: Qee zaum, yog tias ib tug neeg hauv tsev neeg hais lus lig thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus, qhov ntawd kuj tuaj yeem muaj feem cuam tshuam.

Thaum twg peb yuav tsum xav ntxiv txog qhov no? Peb yuav tsum ua li cas?

Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam me me tseem qis dua cov theem uas tau hais los saum toj no, thov tsis txhob txhawj txog qhov ntawd, tab sis nrog koj tus kws kho mob lossis kws kho menyuam yaus tham. Qhov no yog kauj ruam zoo tshaj plaws thiab tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau.

Tus kws kho mob yuav mloog zoo rau yam koj hais thiab kuaj tus menyuam.

Yuav kuaj pob ntseg ntawm tus menyuam seb puas muaj teeb meem hnov ​​lus. Yog tias tsim nyog, yuav muaj kev kuaj pob ntseg.

Ntxiv mus, yog tias tsim nyog, koj yuav raug qhia kom mus ntsib kws kho kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus. Cov kws kho kev hais lus no yog cov neeg uas tau kawm tshwj xeeb los pab cov menyuam yaus uas muaj teeb meem hais lus, nkag siab lus, thiab kev sib txuas lus. Lawv tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam hauv txoj kev uas tsim nyog rau lawv.

Nco ntsoov tias, yog tias muaj tej yam zoo li no tshwm sim thaum ntxov thiab tau txais kev pab tsim nyog, cov txiaj ntsig yuav zoo dua. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob ntshai lossis ncua sij hawm los ntawm kev hais tias, "Cia peb tos me ntsis ntxiv," thiab nrhiav kev pab kho mob sai li sai tau.

Tej yam uas cov niam txiv ua tau hauv tsev

Ntxiv rau cov lus qhia kho mob thiab, yog tias tsim nyog, cov kev pab kho mob, muaj ntau yam yooj yim, tab sis tseem ceeb heev uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau hauv tsev los pab koj tus menyuam me txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci hais lus.

• Tham nrog koj tus menyuam ntau zaus: Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam txog txhua yam koj ua thiab pom hauv cov lus yooj yim uas nws nkag siab. Tej yam zoo li "Niam tab tom ua mis rau koj tam sim no", "Saib lub paj zoo nkauj no", "Cia peb mus da dej tam sim no". Txawm tias nws tsis teb los xij, tsis txhob tso tseg tham.
• Nyeem phau ntawv, qhia cov duab: Yuav cov phau ntawv uas muaj cov duab loj thiab muaj yeeb yuj thiab tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog cov khoom hauv lawv. Piv txwv li, "Nov yog dev, saib tus dev ua suab 'buh buh'." Nws tsis muaj teeb meem yog tias koj nyeem tib phau ntawv ntau zaus hauv ib hnub, cov menyuam yaus nyiam nws, thiab nws ua rau nws yooj yim dua rau kev nco qab cov lus.
• Hu nkauj, hu nkauj cov nkauj menyuam yaus: Lawv mloog nrog kev txaus siab thaum koj hu cov nkauj zoo li cov nkauj menyuam yaus thiab cov nkauj raws li lub suab. Thiab cov lus ntawd nkag mus rau hauv lawv lub taub hau.
• Mloog zoo rau yam lawv tab tom sim hais: Thaum koj tus menyuam tab tom sim hais ib yam dab tsi, ua tib zoo mloog nws. Txawm tias lawv hais ib lo lus tsis raug los xij, tsis txhob cem lawv los ntawm kev hais tias, "Qhov ntawd tsis yog, nws yog li ntawd."Xwb, koj yuav tsum hais lo lus kom raug thiab qhia tias koj nkag siab txog qhov nws tab tom sim hais. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tus menyuam hais tias "tata" thiab thov dej, koj yuav tsum hais tias, "Nyob zoo, tub, koj puas xav tau dej? Nov yog dej."
• Nug cov lus nug, tab sis tsis txhob yuam kom teb: Qee zaum nws zoo dua los hais cov lus rau koj tus kheej dua li nug tas li tias, "Qhov no yog dab tsi?" Zoo li, "Qhov no yog lub tsheb liab loj." Nws yuav teb thaum nws npaj txhij.
• Txuas ntxiv qhov nws hais: Yog tias koj tus me nyuam hais tias "tsheb," koj tuaj yeem ntxiv ntau lo lus rau qhov nws hais, xws li "Yog lawm, qhov ntawd yog lub tsheb liab loj, puas yog? Nws mus sai heev," thiab hais nws ua kab lus ntev dua. Qhov no hu ua `(Kev nthuav dav)`.
• Khaws koj tus menyuam kom deb ntawm cov ntxaij vab tshaus xws li TV, xov tooj, thiab ntsiav tshuaj: Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua ob xyoos, kev tso lawv rau cov ntxaij vab tshaus no tuaj yeem ua rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob lus cuam tshuam loj heev. Thaum lawv saib cov no, lawv plam lub sijhawm muaj nqis los tham, ua si, thiab sib tham nrog lwm tus. Hloov chaw, nws muaj txiaj ntsig ntau dua los tham nrog lawv ncaj qha thiab ua si ua ke.
• Ua Si: Ua si nrog koj cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem pab lawv txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci lus. Ua tej yam xws li tham nrog cov menyuam roj hmab, ua suab tsiaj, thiab tham txog kev ua tej yam nrog cov blocks.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Qhia Coj Mus Tsev)

Thaum kawg, kuv yuav tsum qhia rau koj qhov no. Txhua tus menyuam yaus loj hlob raws li lawv lub sijhawm thiab raws li lawv txoj kev. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob txhawj koj tus kheej yam tsis tsim nyog los ntawm kev muab lawv piv rau lwm tus menyuam yaus. Tab sis, ua ib tug niam lossis txiv, yog tias koj muaj me ntsis kev ua xyem xyav lossis kev ntshai hauv koj lub siab, hais tias, "Kuv tus menyuam hais lus zoo li lig me ntsis, puas yog?", thov tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej nws.

Qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum ua yog tham nrog koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis kws kho mob menyuam yaus txog qhov kev tsis ntseeg me me uas koj muaj. Lawv yuav qhia koj raws nraim li cas.

Thaum koj muab kev txhawb nqa thiab kev qhia uas tsim nyog rau koj thaum koj tseem yau, koj yuav pab tau koj tus menyuam kom hais lus zoo nkauj thiab meej. Tsis txhob txhawj, koj tsis yog tib tug xwb hauv txoj kev no! Muaj ntau tus niam txiv ntsib cov kev paub zoo sib xws. Qhov tseem ceeb yog kom paub txog nws raws sijhawm thiab ua cov kauj ruam tsim nyog.

Kev qeeb lus, menyuam yaus hais lus, kev qeeb hais lus, kev loj hlob lus ntawm cov menyuam yaus, menyuam yaus ob xyoos, menyuam yaus peb xyoos, Kws Kho Kev Hais Lus