Ib qho kev txhawj xeeb loj tshaj plaws rau ntau tus niam txiv yog seb lawv tus menyuam me puas yuav hais lus raws sijhawm thiab raws li qhov kev txiav txim zoo, zoo li lwm tus menyuam. Qhov tseeb, zoo li lwm yam kev txawj, lub hnub nyoog uas tus menyuam kawm lus thiab pib hais lus tuaj yeem txawv ntawm ib tus menyuam mus rau lwm tus. Txawm li cas los xij, kev nkag siab me ntsis txog qhov kev hais lus thiab kev loj hlob ntawm lus no tuaj yeem pab cov niam txiv nkag siab seb lawv tus menyuam puas yuav tsum txhawj xeeb tsis tsim nyog lossis yog tias nws yog ib yam dab tsi uas lawv yuav tsum txhawj xeeb txog.
Kev hais lus thiab lus puas yog ob yam sib txawv?
Yog, muaj qhov sib txawv me ntsis ntawm ob qho no. Cia peb saib seb nws yog dab tsi.
- Kev hais lus, hais yooj yim xwb, yog txoj kev uas peb hais lus. Nws txhais tau tias txoj kev uas peb ua suab, txoj kev uas peb hais cov lus. Qhov no yog kev hais tawm ntawm hom lus.
- Lus dav dua li ntawd me ntsis. Nws txhais tau tias sib pauv cov ntaub ntawv. Nkag siab txog yam uas lwm tus hais, qhia koj lub tswv yim thiab kev xav tau hauv txoj kev uas lwm tus nkag siab - qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav los ntawm kev hais lus (hais lus), kev taw tes (tsis hais lus), lossis kev sau ntawv (sau ntawv).
Yog li ntawd, cov lus qeeb lossis lus qeeb no yog dab tsi?
Txawm hais tias teeb meem hais lus thiab teeb meem lus yog ob qho teeb meem sib cais, feem ntau lawv pom ua ke. Xav txog nws li no.
- Ib tug me nyuam uas muaj teeb meem hais lus qeeb yuav hais tau cov lus zoo, tab sis lawv tsuas muab ob lo lus ua ke los ua ib kab lus luv luv xwb. Lawv muaj teeb meem hais tau ib lub tswv yim tiav.
- Ib tug me nyuam uas hais lus qeeb yuav sim qhia nws txoj kev xav los ntawm kev siv cov lus thiab kab lus, tab sis nws nyuaj rau peb nkag siab txog yam nws hais kom meej. Cov lus yuav tsis meej lossis lub suab hais tsis meej.
Qee zaum ib tug me nyuam muaj ob qho mob no tib lub sijhawm.
Cov cim qhia tias tus menyuam hais lus qeeb lossis hais lus qeeb yog dab tsi? Peb yuav paub li cas?
Yog koj tus me nyuam tsis teb cov suab lossis hais lus li, nws yog ib qho cim qhia tias koj yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob tam sim ntawd. Tab sis feem ntau nws nyuaj rau cov niam txiv kom paub seb lawv tus me nyuam puas pib hais lus lig me ntsis lossis puas muaj teeb meem tiag tiag.
Nov yog qee yam uas yuav tsum tau ceev faj. Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj ib qho ntawm cov no, nws yog ib lub tswv yim zoo los tham nrog kws kho mob:
- Txawm tias thaum muaj 12 lub hlis los xij: Yog tias koj tsis siv tes taw xws li taw tes lossis hais tias "tata bai".
- Thaum muaj 18 lub hlis: Yog tias koj nyiam qhia koj tus kheej los ntawm kev ua tes ua taw es tsis yog hais lus.
- 18 lub hlis: Yog tias nws nyuaj rau ua raws li cov suab.
- Thaum muaj 18 lub hlis: Nyuaj rau kev nkag siab cov lus thov yooj yim (piv txwv li, "Coj lub pob los").
- Txawm tias tom qab 2 xyoos:Tsuas yog ua raws li cov lus hais lossis kev ua xwb, tshwj tsis yog tias lawv hais cov lus lossis kab lus ntawm lawv tus kheej ('Spontaneously').
- Thaum muaj 2 xyoos: Tseem hais tau qee lub suab lossis ob peb lo lus, tab sis tsis muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus lwm yam tshaj li lawv cov kev xav tau tam sim ntawd.
- 2 xyoos: Yog tias koj ua tsis tau raws li cov lus qhia yooj yim (piv txwv li, "Muab lub rooj zaum tso").
- Txawm tias tom qab 2 xyoos lawm los xij: Yog tias lub suab tsis zoo li qub (piv txwv li, suab rasp lossis qhov ntswg).
Koj puas nkag siab txog yam uas tus me nyuam hais?
Yog tias tus me nyuam cov lus tsis meej txaus rau nws lub hnub nyoog, koj kuj yuav tsum txhawj txog qhov ntawd.
Feem ntau,
* Cov niam txiv thiab cov neeg uas nrog tus menyuam tas li yuav tsum nkag siab txog li 50% ntawm yam uas tus menyuam 2 xyoos hais.
* Thaum muaj 3 xyoos, ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum nkag siab txog li 75% ntawm yam uas lwm tus hais.
* Thaum muaj 4 xyoos , txawm tias ib tug neeg uas tsis paub tus menyuam zoo li ntawd los yuav tsum nkag siab feem ntau ntawm yam uas tau hais.
Yog tias nws nyuaj rau nkag siab txog yam uas tus menyuam hais dhau ntawm cov theem no, nws yog ib qho kev txawj ntse kom nrhiav kev pab kho mob.
Ua cas ho lig ua luaj rau peb hais lus? Yog vim li cas?
Muaj ntau yam ua rau kev hais lus qeeb.
- Kev tsis zoo ntawm qhov ncauj: Piv txwv li, yog tias muaj teeb meem nrog tus nplaig lossis lub qhov ncauj (sab saud ntawm lub qhov ncauj).
- Qhov frenulum luv: Qhov no yog qhov quav hauv qab tus nplaig . Thaum qhov no luv, nws tuaj yeem txwv kev txav ntawm tus nplaig, uas tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau kev hais lus.
Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus uas muaj teeb meem hais lus qeeb muaj teeb meem hauv qhov ncauj thiab lub cev . Cov no yog tshwm sim los ntawm qhov tsis muaj zog ntawm cov qhov ntawm lub hlwb uas cuam tshuam nrog kev hais lus. Qhov no ua rau nws nyuaj rau daim di ncauj, tus nplaig, thiab lub puab tsaig kom sib koom ua ke kom zoo los tsim cov suab. Cov menyuam yaus no kuj tseem yuav muaj teeb meem noj mov.
Teeb meem hnov lus kuj yog ib qho ua rau muaj teeb meem hais lus. Yog li ntawd, yog tias muaj kev xav tias muaj teeb meem hais lus, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau kuaj xyuas kev hnov lus ntawm tus menyuam. Rau qhov no, peb yuav tsum tau ntsib nrog tus kws kho mob hnov lus. Ib tug menyuam uas muaj teeb meem hnov lus muaj teeb meem hais lus, nkag siab, ua raws li, thiab siv lus.
Kab mob pob ntseg, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov kab mob ntev, tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau kev hnov lus. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias ib lub pob ntseg noj qab nyob zoo, kev hais lus thiab lus feem ntau yuav loj hlob tuaj.
Koj kuaj mob li cas kom meej?
Yog koj xav tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem zoo li no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws mus ntsib kws kho mob hais lus (SLP) sai li sai tau.Qee zaum peb tsuas hu cov neeg no ua "Cov Kws Kho Kev Hais Lus." Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav ib tus los ntawm kev nug koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg, lossis koj tuaj yeem nrhiav ib tus ncaj qha.
Qhov 'SLP' no ua dab tsi?
Nws yuav ntsuam xyuas tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus thiab kev txawj hais lus. Muaj cov kev ntsuam xyuas tus qauv rau qhov ntawd. Lawv kuj tseem yuav ntsuam xyuas seb tus menyuam puas tau mus txog qhov kev kawm hais lus thiab kev txawj hais lus uas haum rau lub hnub nyoog.
Ib tug SLP kuj saib tshwj xeeb rau cov no:
- Tus me nyuam nkag siab li cas? (Qhov no hu ua 'lus txais tos')
- Tus me nyuam hais tau dab tsi? (Qhov no hu ua lus qhia tawm)
- Lub peev xwm los tsim cov suab thiab qhov meej ntawm kev hais lus.
- Tus menyuam lub qhov ncauj thiab lub cev ua haujlwm li cas: Qhov no hais txog seb cov kabmob xws li lub qhov ncauj, tus nplaig, thiab lub qhov ncauj ua haujlwm ua ke li cas los hais lus, noj mov, thiab nqos.
Raws li cov txiaj ntsig ntawm cov kev ntsuam xyuas no, tus kws kho kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus yuav pom zoo seb koj tus menyuam puas xav tau kev kho kev hais lus.
Kev kho kev hais lus yuav pab tau li cas?
Tus kws kho kev hais lus yuav pab koj tus menyuam txhim kho lawv cov kev txawj hais lus thiab lus los ntawm kev ua ntau yam kev ua ub no nrog lawv. Tsis yog li ntawd xwb, lawv tseem yuav qhia koj yuav ua li cas pab koj tus menyuam hauv tsev. Vim tias kev txhawb nqa ntawm niam txiv yog qhov tseem ceeb rau txoj kev no.
Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem yog tus pab tau zoo tshaj plaws!
Yog, niam txiv yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev pab ib tug me nyuam uas muaj teeb meem hais lus lossis lus. Muaj qee yam yooj yim uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau hauv tsev los pab txhim kho koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus:
- Ua kom kev sib txuas lus tseem ceeb: Tham nrog koj tus me nyuam ntau zaus, hu nkauj, thiab txhawb kom nws xyaum ua suab thiab ua tes ua taw. Saib nws lub ntsej muag thaum koj hais lus, thiab hais lus kom meej thiab yooj yim.
- Nyeem cov phau ntawv rau koj tus menyuam: Pib thaum koj tus menyuam tseem me. Yuav cov phau ntawv mos mos, cov phau ntawv ua los ntawm cov ntoo, thiab cov phau ntawv uas muaj duab loj uas haum rau hnub nyoog. Txhawb kom koj tus menyuam saib cov duab thiab sim kov lawv thaum koj qhia lawv txog lawv.
- Siv cov xwm txheej txhua hnub: Txhim kho koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus thiab lus, tham txog tej yam koj ua thoob plaws hnub. Piv txwv li, thaum koj mus rau lub khw, qhia rau lawv cov npe ntawm cov zaub thiab txiv hmab txiv ntoo. Piav qhia txog yam koj ua thaum koj ua noj lossis ntxuav chav. Taw tes rau cov khoom ua si thiab cov khoom nyob ib puag ncig lub tsev thiab qhia rau lawv tias lawv yog dab tsi. Hais lus yooj yim, tab sis tsis txhob "hais lus rau menyuam yaus". Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom koj tus menyuam hnov cov lus kom raug.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)
Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los paub txog cov kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus qeeb no sai li sai tau thiab pib kho qhov tsim nyog.
Yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb lossis kev txhawj xeeb txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus lossis kev siv lus, tsis txhob khaws cia thiab txhawj, tab sis tam sim ntawd sab laj nrog koj tus kws kho mob tsev neeg lossis kws kho mob menyuam yaus kom tau lus qhia. Yog tias tsim nyog, lawv yuav xa koj mus rau tus kws kho mob hais lus. Kev kho mob thaum ntxov tuaj yeem ua qhov sib txawv loj rau koj tus menyuam!
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