Lɔv ɛn mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we yu gɛt bɛlɛ (Intimacy): Aw fɔ Mek Yu Rilayshɔnship Strɔng?

I tink se: "Oh my... i fayn pas ɛni ɔda tɛm, a lɛk am bad bad wan!" Yu tink se: "A go trowe, a wik so, a tan lɛk balɔ... if i tɔch mi, a go ala!" Yɛs, dis na wetin bɛlɛ min. Insay dis tɛm, bɔku mared pipul dɛn lɔv layf tan lɛk we dɛn de rayd rɔla kɔsta. Nɔn pan dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ tɔk wetin go apin, aw dɛn go fil, ɔ aw di ɔda pɔsin go fil. Yu dɔn gɛt di sem tin dɛn we apin to yu? Dɔn nɔ fred. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am.

Aw fɔ kam insay di we fɔ yu lɔv layf

I rili kɔmɔn fɔ mek mared pipul dɛn gɛt smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we kin ambɔg dɛn rilayshɔnship we dɛn gɛt bɛlɛ. Bɔku rizin dɛn de fɔ dis. Di chenj we di ɔmon dɛn kin chenj na di bɔdi , di we aw dɛn de fil kin chenj wantɛm wantɛm , we dɛn kin taya we dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ bia , we dɛn kin tink bɔt aw dɛn bɔdi de chenj, we dɛn kin fred bɔt tumara bambay, ɛn sɔntɛnde dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs lɛk aw dɔktɔ dɛn tɛl dɛn fɔ du, ɔl dis kin afɛkt dis. Pan ɔl we una tu fɔ de nia unasɛf insay dis tɛm, sɔntɛnde, di kɔmɔn tin kin apin. Bɔrku filin kin de bitwin una. Imajin, fil lɛk se di we aw una bin de nia una fɔ lɔng tɛm dɔn stɔp wantɛm wantɛm, bɔt una ɔl tu nɔ ɔndastand wetin mek. Masta sabi bukman dɛn se fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na di wangren we fɔ mek tu pipul dɛn gɛt tayt padi biznɛs. Ivin if yu nɔ ebul fɔ du am, bɔku ɔda we dɛn de we yu go mek yu padi biznɛs kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs. Fɔ tɔch unasɛf wit lɔv, fɔ kɔt kɔt, sidɔm togɛda ɛn tɔk, ɛn sɔntɛnde ivin jɔs kɔd togɛda we una nɔ wɛr klos ɛn sheb da filin de, dat kin ɛp fɔ mek una tayt tayt padi biznɛs.

Fɔ tɔk to pɔsin na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl.

Di tin we pawaful pas ɔl we kin mek tu pipul dɛn fil lɛk se dɛn lɛk dɛnsɛf na fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf . We yu de tɔk bɔt yu drim, yu op, yu fred, yu sikrit tin dɛn we yu want, i de mek yu padi biznɛs strɔng. Bɔt na dis prɔblɛm de. Imajin, yu jɔs want fɔ kɔt yu ed pan yu man in sholda. Bɔt i tink se na inviteshɔn fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. We i tray fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, yu nɔ gri wit am. We i dɔn, i kin vɛks, yu kin fil bad, ɛn una ɔl tu kin fil gilti. Wetin bin rɔng na ya? I simpul. No kɔmyunikeshɔn nɔ bin de, no ɔndastandin nɔ bin de bitwin una tu. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek yu patna ɔndastand. We yu se, "A nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs rayt naw," i nɔ min se yu de rijek am ɔ yu rilayshɔnship. na da tεm de, yu ful atenshכn de fכs pan di pikin we de na yu bכdi, εn wetin de apin na yu bכdi.Mek i ɔndastand wit lɔv se yu de fil dis kayn we bikɔs ɔf di chenj dɛn we de apin na di bɔdi .

Sɔntɛnde, dis kin at ivin fɔ di man.

Pan ɔl we uman we gɛt bɛlɛ nɔ kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, nɔto ɔltɛm dis kin apin. Sɔntɛnde, man kin gɛt miks filin bak bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Pan ɔl we i lɛk yu, i kin tray fɔ lɛf yu smɔl. Wan rizin fɔ dis na bikɔs i jɔs de si yu lɛk ‘mama’. If uman jɔs de tink bɔt insɛf as ‘mama’ ɛn de biev lɛk wan, ɛn if in man jɔs si am as ‘mama’, i kin bi big tin we de ambɔg pɔsin fɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs. So, pan ɔl we yu na ‘mama’, nɔ fɔgɛt se yu na wɛf we lɛk dɛnsɛf ɛn yu na pɔsin we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin. Infakt, bɔku man dɛn kin si se dɛn wɛf dɛn we gɛt bɛlɛ kin rili fayn ɔltɛm, ilɛksɛf dɛn bɔdi difrɛn. We una ɔndastand dis, una ɔl tu kin kɔntinyu fɔ lɛk una lɛk aw una bin lɛk trade. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ ɔndastand ɛn rɛspɛkt wetin unasɛf nid. Fɔ ɛgzampul, maredman kin mek in wɛf masaj in fut we i fil fayn fɔ du. Maredman kin ɔndastand wetin in man nid ɛn ɛp am fɔ fil gladi, ilɛksɛf i nɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit am.

7 prɛktikal we dɛn fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ lɛk pɔsin we i gɛt bɛlɛ

Na sɔm fayn advays dɛn we go ɛp yu fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ lɛk ɛn tayt padi biznɛs wit yu. Dɔn, di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ trit unasɛf wit sɔri-at, ɔndastandin, ɛn lɔv. Pan ɔl we dis na tɛm we tin nɔ izi, na fayn tɛm bak we nyu pɔsin kam na yu layf. Bɛlɛ, rilayshɔnship, mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, lɔv, intimacy, bɛlɛ , kɔmyunikeshɔn