Yu smɔl pikin kin wet di bed na nɛt? (Enuresis) Mek wi tok abaut dis!

Adu! Tide wi go tɔk bɔt wan prɔblɛm we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt, ɛn we wi smɔl pikin dɛnsɛf kin gɛt, ɛn sɔntɛnde dɛn kin mek dɛn wɔri bad bad wan. Dat min se fɔ wet di bed na nɛt. Insay mɛrɛsin, wi kin kɔl dis `(Enuresis)` (Enuresis). We yu yɛri dis, sɔntɛm yu go mɛmba yu yon ɛkspiriɛns we yu bin gɛt we yu bin smɔl, ɔ sɔntɛm yu dɔn si pɔsin we yu sabi in pikin we gɛt dis prɔblɛm. So, no rizin nɔ de fɔ mek wi fred ɔ shem fɔ dis. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis klia wan ɛn wit kol at.

Wetin i min fɔ wet di bed na nɛt?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wet na bed na we pikin we dɔn ol fɔ gɛt kɔntrol pan in blad, wet di bed we i nɔ no, we dɛn de slip. Bɔku pikin dɛn kin ebul fɔ kɔntrol dɛn blad na nɛt we dɛn ol fayv ia. Bɔt sɔm pikin dɛn kin gɛt dis fɔ sɔm tɛm pas dat. I kin rili kɔmɔn, mɔ pan pikin dɛn we nɔ rich siks ia yet.

Bɔrku tɛm, dis nɔr kin sho se i gɛt siriɔs sik ɔr big prɔblɛm na di pikin in maynd. So nɔ wɔri. Dis kin bi pat bak pan di pikin in divεlכpmεnt. As tɛm de go, dis sik kin dɔn fɔ insɛf pan bɔku pikin dɛn.

Wetin mek pikin dɛn kin wet di bed na nɛt? Wetin na di rizin dɛn?

Ivin dɔktɔ dɛn nɔ kin rili ebul fɔ tɔk klia wan wetin mek dis kin apin ɔ aw fɔ stɔp am. Bɔt bɔku tin dɛn de we kin afɛkt dis.

Tink bɔt am, sɔntɛnde di pikin in blad kin stil smɔl fɔ in ej, ɔ di urine we dɛn kin mek na nɛt kin bɔku smɔl. Ɔda tɛm dɛn, di signal to di bren we de sho se di blad ful-ɔp we i de slip nɔ kin sɛn fayn, so di pikin nɔ kin wek. Dɛn tin ya na di men tin dɛn we kin afɛkt am.

Di impɔtant tin na dat, bɔku tɛm dis nɔto sɔntin we di pikin kin du bay wilful. I nɔ kin izi bak fɔ am fɔ kɔntrol dis.

Yu tink se famili kɔnekshɔn de?

Yɛs, i kin rɔn insay famili dɛn. Dat min se, bɔku pikin dɛn we kin wet di bed na nɛt kin gɛt famili mɛmba – mama, papa, ɔ ɔda fambul we de nia dɛn – we kin wet di bed na nɛt we dɛn bin smɔl. If dɛn mama ɛn papa dɛn ɔl tu wet di bed na nɛt we dɛn bin smɔl, dɛn pikin kin du di sem tin. So, if yu bin du am we yu bin smɔl, fɔ tɔk bɔt am wit yu pikin kin rili gi yu pawa. If yu se sɔntin lɛk, "Mama, na so i bin de we yu bin smɔl, ɛn i go go insay sɔm tɛm" i kin ɛp fɔ ridyus di pikin in fred ɛn shem.

Aw wi kin dil wit dis prɔblɛm? Wetin wi go du as mama ɛn papa?

Dis kin rili mek di pikin ɛn in mama ɛn papa strɛs. Pikin dɛn kin shem ɛn fil gilti fɔ dis. Dɛn kin fred fɔ slip na dɛn padi in os ɔ fɔ slip na skul fɔ go skul. Mama ɛn papa dɛnsɛf kin fil se dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du natin ɛn dɛn nɔ kin no aw fɔ stɔp dis.

Bɔt mɛmba se pan ɔl we dis kin bɛtɛ fɔ insɛf, i kin tek sɔm tɛm.Insay da tɛm de, di lɔv, sɔpɔt, ɛn ɔndastandin we yu de gi yu pikin na di tin dɛn we yu go valyu pas ɔl.

Ɛnkɔrej ɛn sɔpɔt di pikin

Fɔs, tɛl yu pikin se dis nɔto dɛn fɔlt, dis nɔto sɔntin we go las sote go, ɛn as tɛm de go i go bɛtɛ. Mek dɛn biliv tranga wan bay we yu se, "Nɔto jɔs yu, bɔy pikin/grɔn pikin, dis kin apin to bɔku ɔda smɔl pikin dɛn lɛk yu. I go bɛtɛ as tɛm de go."

As wi bin dɔn tɔk, if pɔsin na di famili wet di bed lɛk dis we dɛn bin yɔŋ, tɛl yu pikin dɛn stori dɛn de. If yu se sɔntin lɛk, "Yu no, yu ɔnkul bin tan lɛk dat we i bin yɔŋ. I bin stɔp am afta sɔm tɛm," i go mek yu pikin fil fayn pasmak.

Wi go tray fɔ chenj di abit dɛn we wi de du ɛvride smɔl?

Na sɔm tin dɛn ya fɔ tray:

• Gi yu pikin bɔku wata fɔ drink insay di de. Bɔt ridyus di wata we yu de drink as i de kam nia fɔ go slip, mɔ lɛk tu awa bifo yu go slip.
• Nɔ gi drink dɛn we gɛt kafin (lɛk ti, kɔfi, sɔm chɔklɛt drink dɛn, ɛn kola) na ivintɛm. Kafin de mek pɔsin ebul fɔ pis.
• Mɛmba yu pikin fɔ go na di bafa wan las tɛm bifo i go slip. Mek dis bi yu abit.

Wan smɔl insentif sistɛm

Dis we ya dɔn rili wok fɔ sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn. Dat min se yu fɔ yuz we we go ɛnkɔrej di pikin.

• Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kin put stika na kalenda ɔ chɔt fɔ di de we yu nɔ wet di bed na nɛt.
• We dɛn gɛda wan patikyula nɔmba pan dɛn kayn stika dɛn de (e.g. 5 ɔ 7 stika dɛn), gi di pikin wan smɔl gift we i lɛk (lɛk fayn stori buk, bɔks we gɛt buk dɛn fɔ kɔlɔ). Pikin dɛn kin rili gladi fɔ tin dɛn lɛk dis, ɛn dis na fayn tin we kin mek dɛn want fɔ du sɔntin.
• Spɛshal divays dɛn de bak we dɛn kɔl ``Bedwetting alarms''. Dɛn tin ya kin wek di pikin bay we dɛn kin mek sawnd jɔs lɛk aw di pikin bigin fɔ wet di bed. dis de tren di pikin in bכdi fכ wek we di blad fulכp. If nid de, yu kin tɔk to di dɔktɔ bɔt dis bak.

Aw yu kin biev we yu wet di bed?

Dis rili impɔtant.

• Nɔ ɛva kɔl yu pikin, pɔnish, ɔ shem yu pikin bifo ɔda pipul dɛn. If yu du dat, i go jɔs mek di pikin in at pwɛl mɔ ɛn mɔ ɛn di prɔblɛm go wɔs.
• We yu pikin wet di bed, jɔyn dɛn fɔ chenj di sheet dɛn. Nɔ du dis as pɔnishmɛnt, bɔt du am as we fɔ se, "Lɛ wi mek dɛn du dis togɛda." Dis go ɛp dɛn fɔ fil lɛk se dɛn de ɛp, ɛn dɛn go ɔndastand se dɛn gɛt wok fɔ du.
• Fɔ di de we yu pikin nɔ wet di bed, mek shɔ se yu prez dɛn, tɛl dɛn se yu proud fɔ dɛn, ɛn tɔk sɔntin lɛk, "Si, yu rili smat tide!" Dat na big ɛnkɔrejmɛnt fɔ yu pikin.

Ustɛm yu fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

Pan ɔl we bɔku tɛm dis kin sɔlv fɔ insɛf, i impɔtant fɔ go to dɔktɔ fɔ advays pan sɔm kes dɛm. Ɛspɛshali if fɔ wet na bed bigin wantɛm wantɛm, ɔ ɔda sayn dɛn de kam wit am, i kin bi sayn fɔ ɔda wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm.

Di dɔktɔ kin chɛk fɔ si if i gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk urinary tract infection (UTI), kɔnstipɛshɔn, blad prɔblɛm, dayabitis, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn Sɔntɛnde dis kin bi bak bikɔs ɔf siriɔs strɛs.

If yu gɛt dɛn sik ya, go to dɔktɔ:

Na sɔm tin dɛn we yu fɔ wach bɔt. If yu gɛt ɛni wan pan dɛn tin ya, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to dɔktɔ fɔ advays:

• If yu dɔn de du wɛl we yu nɔ wet di bed na nɛt fɔ at le 6 mɔnt insay wan row, ɛn afta dat, wantɛm wantɛm bigin fɔ wet di bed bak.
• If i de pis we i nɔ want insay di de ( wet in pant).
• If yu snor na nɛt (dis kin bi sayn fɔ sɔmtin lɛk slip apnea, we kin mek bak yu de wet na bed).
• If di pikin se bɔn ɔ pen de we i de pis .
• If yu drink bɔku wata ɔ it bɔku it pas aw yu kin it.
• If di pikin lɔs in wet wantɛm wantɛm.
• If swel de na di leg ɔ ankles.
• If yu pikin ol 7 ia ɔ pas dat ɛn stil kɔntinyu fɔ wet di bed na nɛt. (Bɔku tɛm, bɔku pikin dɛn kin gro pas dis sik we dɛn ol 7 ia. Bɔt if i stil de, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to dɔktɔ.)

Dɔn bak, if yu fil se yu pikin gɛt bɔku strɛs ɛn sɔri bikɔs ɔf dis prɔblɛm, ɔ if yu as mama ɔ papa de fil se dis tin de ambɔg yu, if yu fil se yu nid ɛp, nɔ shem fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ. I go ebul fɔ gi yu di gayd we yu nid.

Fɔ dɔn, a fɔ se... (Tek-Home Message)

Mɛmba se fɔ wet na bed nɔto sik we nɔ de mɛn. Bɔku tɛm, na sɔntin we kin bɛtɛ as tɛm de go. Bɔku pikin dɛn go dɔn rich "bedwetting-free" de dɛn.

Te da tɛm de, di lɔv we yu gɛt, di peshɛnt we yu de peshɛnt, ɛn di sɔpɔt we yu de gi yu pikin, na di tin we yu go gɛt pas ɔl fɔ mek i nɔ gɛt dis prɔblɛm. Ɔndastand yu pikin, sɔpɔt am, bil in maynd, ɛn de wit am.

A op se dis atikul bin ɛp yu. If yu gɛt ɛni ɔda kwɛstyɔn, duya mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ.

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