Naw, bɔku pipul dɛn, mɔ di yɔŋ man ɛn uman dɛn, de put ɔf fɔ stat famili fɔ sɔm tɛm bikɔs ɔf dɛn edyukeshɔn, wok we dɛn dɔn go bifo , ɛn ɔda tin dɛn.Bɔku tɛm wi kin yɛri aydia dɛn lɛk "Lɛ wi wet fɔ sɔm ia mɔ," "Lɛ wi ɛnjɔy layf smɔl," "Lɛ wi tink bɔt fɔ bɔn pikin afta wi dɔn sɛtul." Natin nɔ bad wit dis. Bɔt sɔm tin dɛn de we gɛt layf we wi fɔ rili no we wi de disayd fɔ du dis. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dɛn tide.
Yu tink se i dɔn let fɔ bɔn pikin? Yu tink se di ej rili impɔtant?
Dis na di big kwɛstyɔn we bɔku pipul dɛn gɛt. Di shɔt ansa na, yes, di ej na sɔntin we rili impɔtant, mɔ fɔ uman dɛn.
Imajin dis tin we go apin. Sandamali na bin nɔs we bin de wok na klinik dɛn fɔ mek uman bɔn pikin dɛn. I nɔ bin ɛva tink se fɔ gɛt in yon pikin go bi prɔblɛm. Bikɔs in ɛn in man bin bizi wit dɛn wok, dɛn disayd fɔ tray fɔ bɔn pikin we dɛn ol lɛk 30 ia so. Bɔt afta we Sandamali bin dɔn tray fɔ lɔng tɛm, i nɔ bin ebul fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ. Fɔ dɔn, wan spɛshal dɔktɔ tɛl dɛn sɔntin we dɛn nɔ bin ɛva tink se go apin. Dat na dat di kwaliti fɔ in eg dɛn bin dɔn go dɔŋ we i de ol, ɛn dis bin mek i nɔ izi fɔ am fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ.
Dɔn we dɛn ol 37 ia, dɛn tray fɔ yuz in vitro fɛtilayzeshɔn (IVF) . Pan ɔl we Sandamali bin ebul fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ, i bin gɛt bɛlɛ bikɔs di eg nɔ bin fayn. Fɔ dɔn, bifo dɛn kɔntinyu fɔ tray ɛn sɔfa bikɔs dɛn gɛt bɛlɛ ɛn dɛn at pwɛl, dɛn disayd fɔ go fɔ ɔda tin. Tide, dɛn gladi fɔ mared wit tu fayn fayn bɔy pikin dɛn we dɛn dɔn adopt.
Di big lɛsin we wi kin tek frɔm Sandamali in stori na dat, ilɛk aw wi no ɛn aw wi plan, wi nɔ go ebul fɔ kɔntrol wi bɔdi in bayolojikal klok lɛk aw wi want.
Di American Society for Reproductive Medicine se tu-tɛd pan di uman dɛn kin lɔs di ebul fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ bay we dɛn ol 40. Di men rizin fɔ dis na we di eg kwaliti kin go dɔŋ ɛn di ovaria dɛn kin chenj.
Ivin di wan dɛn we de mɛn uman dɛn we de bɔn pikin ɛn di wan dɛn we de mɛn uman dɛn kin tɔk se dɛn kin rili wɔri bɔt uman dɛn we kin kam to dɛn we dɛn ol 38, 39 ia ɛn se, "Wi go bɔn pikin insay lɛk tu ia so." Na bikɔs dɛn de ple wit big risk we dɛn nɔ no. ivin if ovulesh כn de apin nכmal wan, di kwaliti fכ dεn eg dεm de pwεl, so di chans fכ mek uman nכ gεt bεlε כ fכ bכn bכku bכku wan.
Na ɔnfɔni, no mɛdikal tɛst nɔ de we go tɛl yu ɛksaktɔli "Aw lɔŋ a dɔn lɛf?" So, dɔktɔ dɛn se di tɛm we yu fɔ bɔn pikin na we yu ol 20 ia .
Wetin na di tin dɛn we dɛn kin yuz fɔ kɔntrol pikin dɛn tide?
We yu de plan fɔ mek famili, bɔku fayn fayn we dɛn de fɔ mek dɛn nɔ bɔn pikin tide, fɔ di wan dɛn we want fɔ delay fɔ bɔn pikin ɛn fɔ di wan dɛn we want fɔ mek dɛn pikin dɛn spɛshal. I bɛtɛ fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dɛn tin ya ɛn pik di we we go fayn fɔ yu. Na sɔm pan di tin dɛn we pipul dɛn lɛk fɔ du tide.
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Di spays bitwin pikin ɛn famili saiz impɔtant?
Dis na sɔntin bak we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink bɔt. Ɔmɔs pikin dɛn fɔ gɛt ɛn aw fɔ mek dɛn spɛshal na disizhɔn we kin difrɛn frɔm wan famili to ɔda famili.
Di gap bitwin pikin dɛn
Di wan dɛn we de stɔdi bɔt pikin dɛn maynd se if tu pikin dɛn gɛt difrɛns bitwin 3 to 3 1/2 ia .
- Di rizin? Bɔku tɛm, pikin we ol 2 ia kin fil se i de dipen pan in mama ɛn papa ɛn i nɔ kin fil sef. Na dis kayn tɛm, we nyu pikin kam na di famili, dat kin mek di big pikin gɛt kɔmpitishɔn ɛn jɛlɔs.
- Bɔt we pikin dɛn ol 3 ia, dɛn kin ɔndastand sɔm tin dɛn. Dɛn kin yus fɔ tɛl ɔda pɔsin we dɛn mama ɛn papa lɛk ɛn pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn.
Frɔm di we aw di dɔktɔ dɛn de si am, wan stɔdi we di US Sɛntral fɔ Kɔntrol ɛn Prɛvenshɔn fɔ Sik (CDC) bin du, sho se 18 to 23 mɔnt bitwin we dɛn bɔn wan pikin ɛn we dɛn gɛt di nɛks pikin, dat go bɛnifit di pikin we dɛn jɔs bɔn. Pikin dεm we dεn bכn insay dis tεm intaval nכ kin bכn wit lכw wet we dεn bכn dεm εn dεn kin bכn dεm bifo tεm.
Fɔ dɔn, bɔku uman dɛn tide de giv ɔp fɔ tray fɔ bi "supermom" ɛn de tray fɔ liv gladi layf ɛn put dɛn famili fɔs. Dɛn dɔn no se i fayn fɔ liv balans layf pas fɔ tray fɔ du ɔltin wan tɛm ɛn taya fɔ dɛnsɛf ɛn dɛn famili.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- We yu de plan fɔ famili, mɔ di ej we uman gɛt na sɔntin we rili impɔtant.
- If yu put pikin bifo yu bɔn pikin te yu rich 30 ɔ 40 ia, dat kin rili ridyus yu ebul fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ di we aw yu want ɛn yu nɔ kin ebul fɔ bɔn pikin.
- Bɔku fayn ɛn difrɛn we dɛn de fɔ kɔntrol bɔn pikin tide. Mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt di bɛst we fɔ yu ɛn yu patna.
- Fɔ kip di rayt distans bitwin pikin dɛn kin gɛt fayn impak pan di wɛlbɔdi fɔ di nyu pɔsin we dɛn ad to di famili, ɛn bak pan di pikin in maynd wɛlbɔdi.
- Ɔlman in bɔdi ɛn in layf difrɛn, so i impɔtant fɔ aks fɔ advays frɔm yu dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ bɔt yu pasɔnal sityueshɔn pas fɔ abop pan jɔs di jenɛral infɔmeshɔn we dɛn kin fɛn na di intanɛt.
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