Tide wi go tɔk bɔt wan kwɛstyɔn we de na yu ɛn yu mama ɛn papa we yu go gɛt tumara bambay in maynd , bɔt we yu go shem smɔl fɔ aks. Wan pan di tin dɛn we bɔku pipul dɛn kin wɔnda na if we pɔsin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we i gɛt bɛlɛ, i go ambɔg di pikin. Dis na kwɛshɔn wae kin ɔltɛm, ɛn fɔ no bɔt dis fayn fayn wan na impɔtant tin fɔ una ɔl tu na yu maynd wɛl bɔdi. So lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am opin wan.
Yu tink se di pikin rili nɔ gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, if yu bɛlɛ gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn i nɔ kɔmplikt, i nɔ bad fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. I nɔ go du bad to di pikin. Sɔm tin dɛn de we bɔku pipul dɛn kin fred. Lɛ wi luk dɛn wan bay wan.
Imajin, yu pikin de na wan smɔl os we rili sef. Dat min se, insay di uterus. dis uterus de rawnd strכng mכsul dεm. Wetin pas dat, di pikin de insay bag we ful-ɔp wit wata. Wi kin kɔl dis di `amniotic sac`. biכs fכ di `amniotic fluid` we de insay dis, di pikin lεk we i de pan wata matres. So, di pikin nɔ de fil ɛni push ɔ shɔk we de kɔmɔt na do dairekt wan.
di ɔda impɔtant tin na dat di sɛviks de kɔba wit tik mכkus plɔg . I tan lɛk se dɛn de lɔk get ɛn sial am. dis kin mek eni jεm nכ go insay di uterus frכm do. Dɔn bak, di fred we di man in bɔdi go tɔch di pikin we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, nɔ nid fɔ apin atɔl. No rum nɔ de fɔ dat.
So, insay nɔmal, wɛl bɔdi bɛlɛ, dis nɔ fɔ bi tin we de ambɔg yu lɔv.
So, yu nɔ tink se na tɛm fɔ lɛ wi tek tɛm?
Yɛs, i rili de. Insay sɔm spɛshal kes dɛn, lɛk if yu dɔktɔ dɔn tɔk se yu bɛlɛ kin gɛt bɔku prɔblɛm , i go fayn fɔ lɛ yu nɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Yu dɔktɔ go dɔn advays yu fɔ du dat if dɛn kayn tin ya apin.
Tek tɛm mɔ bɔt dɛn tin ya we de kam biɛn ya.
| Situeshɔn we yu fɔ wɔri bɔt | Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan... |
|---|---|
| Plɛsinta Previa | if di plasεnta de lכw na di uterus, we de kכba di sεviks, den we yu du mami εn dadi biznεs i kin mek i bכn. |
| Risk fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm | If yu dɔktɔ dɔn tɛl yu bɔt di prɔblɛm we kin apin we yu bɔn pikin bifo tɛm. |
| If dɛn dɔn stich di sɛviks (Cerclage) . | if di sεviks wik, dεn kin put wan spεshal sutura we dεn k כl sεklaj fכ mek i kכlכs. |
| Amniotic Fluid we de lik | If yu ‘wata bag’ dɔn brok ɛn yu fil lɛk se yu wata de lik. |
| Blɔd we dɛn nɔ ɛksplen | If blɔd de kɔmɔt na di vagina fɔ no rizin. |
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, if yu ivin gɛt smɔl dawt bɔt ɛni wan pan dɛn sik ya, fɔ tru, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ . Nɔ jɔs gɛs.
Nɔto sef nɔmɔ, bɔt fɔ izi fɔ du ɛn fɔ want fɔ du sɔntin impɔtant!
I impɔtant fɔ tink bɔt sef ɛn bak di kɔmfɔt ɛn wetin una ɔl tu want pan dis. Bεlε na tεm we uman in bכdi εn in maynd kin gεt big chenj dεm.
Chenj dɛn na yu bɔdi ɛn maynd
Sɔm uman dɛn kin fil se dɛn rili lɛk dɛn ɛn sɛxy bɔt dɛn bɔdi, dɛn bɔdi we de gro, ɛn dɛn shep we de chenj insay dis tɛm. Bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn kin tek sɔm tɛm fɔ mek dɛn gri wit dɛn chenj ya. Tin dɛm lɛk fɔ nɔr de fil fayn na yu bɔdi, yu nɔr de fil fayn, ɛn yu taya kin mek yu nɔr want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs (libido). Sɔntɛnde, we yu chenj di ɔmon kin mek yu want fɔ du mɔ. Dis ɔl na rili nɔmal tin . I bɛtɛ fɔ tɔk opin wan wit yu patna bɔt aw yu de fil.
Aw valyu sɔpɔt we pɔsin we de patna de gi?
Di wok we di patna de du rili impɔtant na ya. Chenj dɛn na in wɛf in bɔdiWe yu luk am wit lɔv, tɔk tin dɛn lɛk, "Yu stil fayn," ɔ "Dis chenj we yu chenj na yu so at fɔ si," dat kin mek i gɛt bɔku trɛnk na in maynd. Dis go mek una tu tayt mɔ ɛn mɔ.
Us pozishɔn dɛn we yu ɔl tu go fil fayn?
As di bɛlɛ de go bifo, mɔ we di bɛlɛ de gro, i kin at fɔ mek i nɔ ebul fɔ tinap. Speshali, i nɔ fayn fɔ mek uman we gɛt bɛlɛ ledɔm na in bak fɔ lɔng tɛm . Dis kin mek di big blɔd vesel dɛn kɔnstrikt ɛn ambɔg di blɔd flɔ.
So, yu kin tray fɔ poz lɛk dɛn wan ya:
- Spɔn: I izi fɔ mek dɛn ɔl tu de na di sem say. No prɛshɔn nɔ de na di bɛlɛ.
- Woman on top: Dis kin mek i ebul fɔ kip in yon spid ɛn kɔntrol .
- Na an ɛn ni: Dis pozishɔn de ridyus di prɛshɔn pan di bɛlɛ bak.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ pik di pozishɔn we una ɔl tu go fil fayn, we nɔ go mek una fil pen, ɛn we una ɔl tu go ɛnjɔy. Nɔ fred fɔ tray fɔ du sɔntin.
If yu nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs...
Sɔntɛnde, una ɔl tu, mɔ di mama we gɛt bɛlɛ, nɔ go want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs igen. Dat na tin bak we rili nɔmal. Mɛmba se fɔ mek padi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin nɔto jɔs fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Yu kin:
- Stay klos to unasɛf.
- Du sɔntin lɛk fɔ masaj yu fut.
- Mek wi tok fo som taim.
- Una was togɛda insay wam wata.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ kip di lɔv we de bitwin una lɛk aw i de. Di pikin go kam na dis wɔl insay sɔm dez. Spend dis tɛm wit gladi at ɛn wit lɔv.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Sεks we yu de du nכmal, hεlty bεlε na tin we sef atɔl. I nɔ go du bad to di pikin.
- di uterus, di amniotic fluid, εn di mכkus mεmbran de protεkt yu pikin fayn fayn wan.
- If yu gɛt ‘high-risk’ kɔndishɔn, lɛk plasεnta prɛvia ɔ prɛterm bɔn, nɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. If yu gɛt ɛni dawt, go to yu dɔktɔ.
- Apat frɔm sef, di kɔvinant, kɔmfɔt, ɛn di tin we ɔl tu di pati dɛn want, impɔtant bak.
- Tray pozishɔn dɛn we kɔmfyut fɔ una ɔl tu (e.g., tɔn saydway, uman pan tap).
- Intimacy nɔto jɔs bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Strɔng yu padi biznɛs tru tin dɛn lɛk fɔ kɔt kɔt, tɔk, ɛn masaj.
- I rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk opin wan bɔt aw yu de fil wit yu patna.
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