Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin rili want ɛn drim fɔ ad bɔy pikin ɔ gyal pikin to dɛn famili. Sɔntɛnde, i kin bi fɔ kɔmplit di famili. Ɔda tɛm dɛn, i kin bi bikɔs ɔf di kɔlchɔ we di famili gɛt. Dɔn bak, sɔm sik dɛn de we pɔsin kin gɛt we i kam pan jɛnɛtiks we na wan man ɔ uman nɔmɔ kin gɛt. Fɔ protɛkt di pikin frɔm dɛn kayn sik dɛn de, sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink klia wan bɔt udat na di pikin. Ilɛk wetin na di rizin, bɔku pipul dɛn kin gɛt di kwɛstyɔn we se, “Fɔ tru, we de fɔ pik di pikin we wi go bɔn wit man ɔ uman?” Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis tide.
Wetin di mɛdikal sayɛns rili se bɔt dis?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, if yu gɛt bɛlɛ wit pikin tru nɔmal mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, di chans fɔ bɔn bɔy pikin ɔ gyal pikin na 50/50. Dat min se tu ikwal chans dɛn . Bɔt bɔku pipul dɛn de luk fɔ si if dɛn kin inkrisayz dis prɔbabiliti smɔl fɔ dɛn favɔ.
Bɔt na dis na wan tin we de mɔna pipul dɛn we dɔktɔ ɛn pipul dɛn we sabi bɔt wɛlbɔdi biznɛs de tɔk bɔt. Dat min se sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt bɔku op fɔ dɛn we ya ɛn dɛn kin rili fil bad if dɛn nɔ du wetin dɛn bin de op fɔ. Imajin, wetin yu go du if yu fala wan patikyula we we yu de op fɔ gɛt bɔy pikin, bɔt yu dɔn gɛt gyal pikin? Ɔ wetin yu go du if yu gɛt bɔy pikin lɛk aw yu bin de op fɔ, bɔt i nɔ gɛt di kwaliti dɛn we yu bin de imajin? If na so i bi, da disapɔyntmɛnt de kin afɛkt di pikin in tumara bambay ɛn in maynd.
So di impɔtant tin fɔ mɛmba na dat nɔr pan dɛn we ya nɔ go ebul fɔ gi garanti fɔ bi 100% ifɛktiv. Sɔm we dɛn we pipul dɛn lɛk kin jɔs kɔmɔt frɔm lay lay stori dɛn.
Akchuali, som "gem" de we wi granpa en granma dem bin de ple. Dɔktɔ dɛn kin laf dɛn ɛn se, "If dɛn we dɛn de nɔ du bad to di mama ɛn di pikin, i nɔ bad fɔ tray dɛn."
Yu tink se di we aw dɛn de du tin na di wɔl rili wok?
Di natura we we pipul dɛn sabi pas ɔl fɔ pik di sɛks we pikin gɛt na di Shettles we . Na Dɔktɔ Landrum B. Shettles bin mek am bɔku bɔku ia bifo dis tɛm. dis mכtכd de bays pan di de we di ovuleshכn de εn di posishכn we dεn de du mami εn dadi biznεs.
Wetin na di we aw Shettles de du?
Dɔktɔ Shettles bin tɔk se na di sperm we de mek man pikindi man in sεl dεm (we gεt Y kromozom) sכm, fast, εn i de liv sכt. כltu di sεl dεm we de mek uman pikin (we gεt X kromozom) big, slo, εn i kin liv lכng.
So akɔdin to dis tiori, i de prɔpos sɔntin lɛk dis.
| If yu want | Di we aw dɛn fɔ fala (akɔdin to di we aw Shettles de du am) . |
|---|---|
| Wan bɔbɔ | Sɛks fɔ de nia di uman in ovuleshɔn as i pɔsibul . dis de mek di Y sεl dεm we fast fast fכ rich di eg bifo di X sεl dεm. כlso, di posishכn dεm we de put di sεl dεm nia di sεviks (e.g., di rεar εntry) na di bεst. |
| Gal | Yu fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs tu to 4 dez bifo yu pul di ovuleshɔn. we di eg kכmכt, di Y sεl dεm we de liv sכt layf go dכn day, we nכmכ di X sεl dεm we de liv lכng tεm, we de rεsist. Dɛn se di mishɔnari pozishɔn, wit di man we de ɔp, na di bɛst pozishɔn. |
pan ɔl we dɛn ripɔt se di Shettles Mɛtɔd na lɛk 75% saksesful, sɔm ɔbstetrishan ɛn gaynekɔlɔjis dɛn kin aks kwɛstyɔn bɔt di sakses rɛt fɔ dɛn natura mεtכd ya. Dɛn se di chans fɔ bɔn pikin wit ɔ atɔl dɛn we ya nɔ pas 50/50.
Bɔt, difrɛn tin de we pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt dis. Dɔktɔ J. Martin Young, we na dɔktɔ, se di we aw dɛn de du Shettles kin rili wok fayn pan smɔl pasɛnt we na lɛk 39%. I prɛzɛnt wan opinion we de agens Shettles in opinion.
- If yu want gyal pikin , du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs as klos to ovuleshɔn as yu ebul .
- If yu want bɔy pikin , du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs sɔm dez bifo yu ovuleshɔn.
Yu si, no wanwɔd nɔ de bitwin difrɛn masta sabi pipul dɛn ivin bɔt dɛn natura l we ya.
Wetin na di Ay-Tek Mɛtɔd dɛn?
Bɔku mɔdan tɛknik dɛn de bak we de tɔk se dɛn kin gi mɔ tin dɛn we go wok pas di we aw dɛn de du tin na di wɔl. Dɛn tin ya dia ɛn dɛn nɔ de ɔlsay.
Di we aw dɛn de du MicroSort
Dis na di we we bɔku pipul dɛn gri wit ɛn we de wok fayn naw fɔ pik mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. I min fɔ yuz spɛshal day, lɛsa layt, ɛn mashin we dɛn kɔl flɔ saytomita fɔ separet di X- ɛn Y-sperm dɛn. afta dat dεn kin put di sεl we dεn want insay di uman in uterus. Bɔku tɛm dɛn kin du dis we wit In Vitro Fɛtilayzeshɔn ( IVF ) .
Ripɔt dɔn sho se dis we fɔ du tin gɛt 91% sakrifays fɔ di wan dɛn we de op fɔ gyal pikin ɛn 73% sakrifays fɔ di wan dɛn we de op fɔ bɔy pikin .
Di We dɛn we dɛn kin yuz fɔ mek tin dɛn we pipul dɛn kin agyu bɔt
Tu ɔda we dɛn de, bɔt big big tin dɛn de we gɛt fɔ du wit gud abit ɛn lɔ bɔt aw fɔ yuz dɛn.
2. Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS): dis mכtכd kin no di sεks fכ di pikin bay we dεn de egzamin di kromozom dεm na di pikin ali we i bεlε.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl: Dɛn rili mek PGD ɛn CVS fɔ tɛst fɔ siriɔs jenɛtik sik dɛn. Fɔ yuz dɛn fɔ pik di man ɔ uman fɔ pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, dɛn kin tek am se i nɔ fayn na bɔku kɔntri dɛn. Ripɔt dɔn de se sɔm pipul dɛn kin pwɛl bɛlɛ we dɛn kam fɔ no se dɛn dɔn gɛt pikin we nɔ rayt na in man ɔ uman tru dɛn we ya. So, di mɛdikal ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn nɔ kin se dɛn fɔ yuz dɛn we ya fɔ mek dɛn balans di famili.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Tipikli, yu gɛt 50/50 chans fɔ gɛt bɔy pikin ɔ gyal pikin.
- Pan ɔl we natura l we dɛn de, lɛk di Shettles we, dɛn nɔ dɔn pruv se dɛn sakrifays 100% pan sayɛns, ɛn difrɛn opinion dɛn de ivin bitwin masta sabi pipul dɛn.
- Pan ɔl we di mɔdan tɛknik dɛn lɛk MicroSort de wok mɔ, dɛn rili dia, dɛn kɔmpleks, ɛn dɛn nɔ izi fɔ gɛt na wi kɔntri.
- di mεtכd dεm lεk PGD εn CVS na fכs fכ no di jεnεtik sik dεm. Fɔ yuz dɛn fɔ pik man ɔ uman na sɔntin we pipul dɛn kin agyu bɔt bad bad wan.
- Bifo yu tray ɛni we, kip wetin yu de op fɔ rial . I impɔtant fɔ avɔyd di strɛs we kin kam wit disapɔyntmɛnt.
- Mɛmba se, pas di pikin in man ɔ umanFɔ gɛt pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi na in impɔtant.
- Bifo yu tray ɛni we fɔ du dis, mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɛn gɛt di rayt advays.
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