As Krismas de kam nia, ɔl os kin fil gladi ɛn fresh. Pikin dɛn lɛk dis tɛm pan di ia pas ɔlman. Pan dɛn wan ya, Santa Klɔs na di pɔsin we dɛn de wet fɔ mɔ. Pikin dɛn lɛk fɔ yɛri stori bɔt dis pɔsin we dɛn lɛk wit wayt biad, we wɛr rɛd sus, ɛn kɛr bag we gɛt gift, ɛn dɛn kin op fɔ gi gift frɔm am. At di sem tɛm, as mama ɔ papa , yu kin gɛt dis kwɛstyɔn bak na yu maynd: "I rayt fɔ tɛl yu pikin bɔt Santa Klɔs we nɔ rili de? We wi du dis, wi nɔ de tich wi pikin fɔ lay? Yu tink se di pikin nɔ go trɔst wi we dɛn kam fɔ no di trut wan de?" Dis na rili big kwɛstyɔn fɔ bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl mɔ dip wan, frɔm di pikin in saykolojik pɔynt.
Tu-sayd agyumɛnt: gud ɛn bad
Difrɛn opinion dɛn de na sosayti bɔt fɔ tɛl pikin dɛn bɔt Santa Klɔs. Sɔm pipul dɛn se na di ɛkspiriɛns we fayn pas ɔl we i bin smɔl. Ɔda pipul dɛn se na di big lay we pikin kin lay. Lɛ wi si wetin na dɛn tu opinion dɛn ya.
| Argument frɔm di wan dɛn we se i "bad" fɔ tɔk bɔt Santa Klɔs | Argument frɔm di wan dɛn we se i "gud" fɔ tɔk bɔt Santa Klɔs |
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| Fɔ lay: Pan ɔl we wi de tich wi pikin dɛn se dɛn nɔ fɔ lay, wisɛf de tɛl dɛn big lay. Wan de, we dɛn kam fɔ no di trut, dɛn kin lɛf fɔ abop pan dɛn mama ɛn papa. | Di Fayn we Pikin De: Pikin tan lɛk majik. Nays stori dɛn lɛk dis kin ad inosɛnt gladi at ɛn op to da tɛm de. Wetin mek wi de rɔsh fɔ pwɛl da fayn fayn tin de? |
| Lɔs kɔnfidɛns: We dɛn tɛl pikin se "Santa Klɔs de gi gift to gud pikin dɛm," pikin we nɔ de gɛt gift bikɔs ɔf mɔni prɔblɛm kin tink se, "Mi na bad pikin?" Dis kin pwɛl di pikin in sɛf. | Divεlכpmεnt imajinεshכn: Stori dεm lεk dis de εp fכ divεlכp pikin dεn imajinεshכn εn kriaytiv, we rili imכtant fכ dεn kכgnitiv divεlכpmεnt. |
| Trade promoshɔn:Di kɔmni dɛn de yuz di abit we Santa Klɔs gɛt fɔ mek dɛn sɛl mɔ ɛn mɔ, ɛn dis de mek pipul dɛn lɛk fɔ bay tin dɛn we nɔ nid fɔ du natin instead fɔ yuz di tru minin fɔ Krismas. | Tich fɔ fri-an: Santa Klɔs na sayn fɔ gi ɛn sheb, we kin tich pikin dɛn di valyu fɔ fri-an. |
| Di tranga wok we mama ɛn papa dɛn de du nɔ gɛt wan valyu: Wetin na di bɛnifit fɔ wok tranga wan fɔ bay gift fɔ pikin ɛn afta dat yu gi di kredit to pɔsin we dɛn mek lɛk se na tru? | Fɔ no di trut na ɛkspiriɛns bak: Bifo dɛn at pwɛl we pikin dɛn lan di trut, dɛn kin prawd se na dɛnsɛf kam fɔ no di trut. Dat na step bak fɔ mek dɛn gro. |
Wetin di wan dɛn we sabi bɔt pikin dɛn maynd se bɔt dis?
Okay, naw lɛ wi si wetin dɔktɔ ɛn pikin dɛn sayɛnsman dɛn tink bɔt dis.
Dɔktɔ Bɛnjamin Sigel, we na prɔfɛsɔ fɔ pikin dɛn na Bɔston Yunivasiti Skul fɔ Mɛdisin, bin tɔk se aw pikin kin gɛt Santa Klɔs kin dipen pan aw wi kin sho di pɔsin to di pɔsin .
"If wi sho Santa as pɔsin we lɛk, we gud, we gɛt fri-an, ɛn we de tink bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn, i go bi rili gladi gladi ɛkspiriɛns fɔ di pikin."
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, i bɛtɛ fɔ prɛzɛnt Santa as sayn fɔ lɔv ɛn sheb, pas fɔ bi pɔsin we de mek pɔsin fred we se, "If yu nɔto gud bɔbɔ, a nɔ go gi yu prɛzɛnt."
Aw wi kin tink bɔt "lay".
Wan ɔda tin we sayɛnsman dɛn kin tɔk bɔt na dat wi kin tich wi pikin dɛn "sɔshial lay" na wi ɛvride layf. Fɔ ɛgzampul, ivin if pikin nɔ lɛk gift frɔm in fambul, wi kin tɛl dɛn fɔ "tanki fɔ am." Wi kin du dis fɔ tich dɛn se i nɔ fayn fɔ mek di ɔda pɔsin fil bad. So, we yu luk am da we de, dɛn se dɛn nɔ fɔ tek di stori bɔt Santa Klɔs as big mistek.
Pikin dɛn kin ebul fɔ bia pas aw yu tink. Dɛn kin ebul fɔ win di smɔl smɔl pwɛl at we dɛn kin fil we dɛn lan di tru bɔt Santa Klɔs. Dɛn no as dɛn de gro se na jɔs fayn fayn stori, lɛk Sindɛra ɛn Lil Rɛd Raydin Hud.
Di pikin in imajinari wɔl ɛn in impɔtants
Di impɔtant tin we wi nid fɔ ɔndastand na dat pikin dɛn we rili yɔŋ de liv na wɔl we pipul dɛn kin imajin . Da wɔl de rial to dɛn.
- 1-4 ia: Pikin dεm we de na dis ej kin כnli כndastand tin dεm we wi kin si. So Santa Klɔs, in slɛj, ɛn rɛndia na rial pɔsin to dɛn. Na dis ej, dεn nכ kin כndastand abstrakt kכnsεpt lεk "simbol."
- Ej 4-6: We yu pikin rich dis ej, i go bigin fɔ aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk, "Santa rili de?" ɔ "Aw i kin travul ɔlsay na di wɔl insay wan nɛt?"
- Ej 6-8: Dis na di ej we pikin dɛn kin bigin fɔ ɔndastand di trut bɔku tɛm. As dɛn de tink di rayt we, dɛn kin bigin fɔ notis tin dɛn we nɔ gri wit di stori.
Di wan dɛn we de stɔdi bɔt pikin dɛn maynd se fɔ imajin ɛn fɔ ple wit fantasi impɔtant fɔ mek pikin ebul fɔ no mɔ . Imajin se yu gyal pikin de trit dɔl lɛk mama. Ɔ yu bɔy pikin de ple dɔktɔ. Insay dɛn gem ya, dɛn de praktis fɔ situeshɔn dɛn we dɛn go gɛt na di rial wɔl. So wan stori lɛk Santa Klɔs de mek da wɔl we dɛn kin imajin, fayn mɔ ɛn mɔ.
Wetin yu kin du we yu pikin aks kwɛstyɔn?
We yu pikin aks se, "Santa Klɔs na rial pɔsin?" insted fכ jכs se "yes" כ "no," yu kin yus am lεk chans fכ divεlכp yu pikin in krεs tinkin. Yu kin aks se:
" So wetin yu tink, pikin/gita? Aw yu tink se dat de hapun?"
I rili valyu fɔ ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ tink fɔ dɛnsɛf dis kayn we, ɛn alaw dɛn fɔ kam to dɛn yon kɔnklushɔn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Dis na yusɛf sɛf disayd: If yu ɛn yu famili fɔ tɛl yu pikin bɔt Santa Klɔs ɔ yu nɔ fɔ tɛl am. No "rayt" ɔ "rɔng" ansa nɔ de fɔ dis. Ilɛk wetin yu disayd fɔ du, i nɔ go ambɔg yu pikin tumɔs.
- Di men tin we de insay di stori impɔtant: If yu tɛl dis stori, tich yu pikin bɔt di valyu dɛn we de insay de, lɛk fɔ gɛt fri-an, fɔ lɛk pɔsin , ɛn fɔ tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn. Nɔ yuz am as tul fɔ kɔrɛkt pikin dɛn bay we yu se, "If yu gud, yu go gɛt gift, if yu nɔ gud, yu nɔ go gɛt."
- Di moment we di trut de sho: We yu pikin lan di trut, nɔ mek i laf ɔ tɔk tin lɛk, “Wi trik yu.” Bifo dat, prez am bay we yu se, "Yu na big bɔbɔ naw, yu smat fɔ fɛn am fɔ yusɛf." Naw insɛf kin bi "rial granpa" pan Krismas ɛn tich am fɔ ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Lisin to di pikin:We yu pikin aks kwɛstyɔn bɔt dis, nɔ avɔyd am. Gɛt dɔŋ to dɛn lɛvul, lɛ dɛn tink, dɔn tɔk.
- Gladi at ɛn fɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs na di men tin: Fɔ dɔn, di gol fɔ ɔl dis fɔ bi fɔ mek di famili gɛt mɔ gladi at, lɔv, ɛn gɛt tayt padi biznɛs insay Krismas. Santa Klɔs na jɔs wan fayn we fɔ du dat.
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