Naw, mama ɛn papa dɛn kin rili wɔri bɔt dɛn pikin dɛn, nɔto so? Yu tink se di pɔsin we fɔ kia fɔ di smɔl pikin we yu go wok go kia fɔ am fayn? Yu tink se di pikin we go skul rili de na skul? Wetin i de luk fɔ na di Intanɛt? Bikɔs ɔf dɛn kayn kwɛstyɔn dɛn de, sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin want fɔ wach dɛn pikin dɛn wit di ɛp we tɛknɔlɔji de ɛp dɛn. Bɔt yu tink se dis go mek di pikin gɛt kolat, ɔ i go mek di padi biznɛs wit di pikin at mɔ? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis dip smɔl.
Di "peace of mind" we de kɔmɔt frɔm teknɔlɔji rial?
Tide, wɔndaful tin dɛn de we dɛn de yuz fɔ wach pikin dɛn. Smɔl kamɛra dɛn we dɛn kin instɔl sikrit wan na os (`nannycams`), kɔmpyuta softwe we de list ɛvri wɛbsayt we pikin go, ɔ `GPS` divays dɛn we dɛn kin ayd insay pikin in bag ɔ wach ɛn sho usay dɛn de na jɔs sɔm pan dɛn. Di wan dɛn we de sɛl dɛn tin ya se dɛn kin rili pul di lod pan mama ɛn papa dɛn we bizi.
Infakt, sɔntɛnde, ilɛktronik monitarin kin rili yusful. Imajin se yu gɛt pɔsin na os fɔ kia fɔ yu smɔl pikin we yu de go wok. Bɔt yu gɛt big dawt na yu maynd. Wi dɔn yɛri bɔt mama ɛn papa dɛn we bin ebul fɔ kech wan mɔnt lɛk dis bikɔs dɛn bin put kamɛra na di os, ɛn lɛf dɛn pikin de kray ɔl di de we di pɔsin we de kia fɔ dɛn bin bizi wit ɔda tin dɛn. Dɔn bak, sɔm daycare sɛnta dɛn naw de gi mama ɛn papa dɛn di fasiliti fɔ si dɛn pikin tru wan `Wɛbkam`. I kin fayn fɔ mek mama ɛn papa dɛn si aw dɛn pikin de spɛn dɛn de ivin we dɛn de wok.
Yu tink se na fɔ ambɔg pɔsin in prayvet pat?
Pan ɔl dɛn fayn tin ya, bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin si dɛn tin ya wit dawt. Sɔm mama dɛn kin se, "A kin si dɛn tin ya rili strenj ɛn mek a fred . If wi mama dɛn bin de spay wi da we de, wi fɔ dɔn rɔnawe kɔmɔt na os." Dɛn se di fred we mama ɛn papa dɛn we de yuz dɛn kayn tin dɛn de kin fred na dɛn maynd, kin jɔs de bɔku.
Ɛspɛshali, we yu wach pikin we de du wɛl ɛn nɔ mek ɛni mistek dis kayn we, i tan lɛk se yu de ɛnkɔrej am fɔ mek mistek. I de mek di pikin tink se, "Mama ɛn Papa nɔ trɔst mi."
Di kwɛstyɔn we sayɛnsman dɛn kin aks na, "Yu de du dis fɔ di pikin in gud, ɔ yu de du dis fɔ satisfay yu yone dawt ɛn fɔ want fɔ no mɔ we yu nɔ nid?" Yu nid fɔ tink tumɔs bɔt am.
Fet ɔ fɔ si tin? Aw dis kin chenj wit di ej
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl we wi nid fɔ ɔndastand ya na dat wi nɔ fɔ trit smɔl pikin lɛk dis, .Di nid fɔ trit yɔŋ pikin (tinja).
Smɔl pikin dɛn
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, pikin we ol 3-4 ia nɔ kin gɛt big sɛns fɔ gɛt prayvet pat. So i kin fayn fɔ di pikin fɔ si dɛn mama ɛn papa de wach dɛn pikin na kindagarten tru wan `Wɛbkam`. Dɛn kin gladi fɔ se, "Mama, a de wach yu ple."
Yɔŋ pikin dɛn (Teenagers) .
Bɔt, yɔŋ pikin na difrɛn stori atɔl. Dat na di ej we dɛn kin de fa smɔl smɔl frɔm dɛn mama ɛn papa ɛn tray fɔ establish dɛn yon aydentiti. Dɛn nid sɔm fridɔm. Dɛn kin mek mistek, bɔt dɛn kin lan frɔm dɛn mistek dɛn de. So, fɔ wach pikin sikrit wan we i ol dis ej , dat kin mek dɛn nɔ abop pan yu kpatakpata . I tan lɛk se yu de tɛl dɛn fes se, "Yu na tifman, a nɔ trɔst yu."
Yu kin gɛt gud aidia bɔt dis frɔm dis tebul.
| We aw tin bi naw | I Fayn ɔ I Nɔ Fayn? |
|---|---|
| If yu gɛt dawt bɔt di pɔsin we de kia fɔ smɔl pikin | I kin fayn fɔ sɔm tɛm fɔ mek dɛn kɔnfirm di saspekshɔn. |
| Fɔ gi Wɛbkam fasiliti na wan daycare wit di awareness fɔ ɔl mama ɛn papa | Bɔku tɛm, prɔblɛm nɔ kin de. Na wan opin prɔses. |
| Sikrit wan fɔ wach yɔŋ pikin we de biev fayn ɛn we nɔ gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm | I nɔ rili fayn. Dis kin mek di pikin nɔ trɔst am kpatakpata ɛn i kin ɛnkɔrej di pikin fɔ biev lɛk se i nɔ want fɔ du wetin rayt. |
| If di pikin gɛt siriɔs prɔblɛm lɛk drɔgs ɔ tif | I kin fayn, if dɛn ɔl tu gri, fɔ tɔk opin wan wit di pikin ɛn as pat pan wan program fɔ mek dɛn gɛt trɔst bak. |
If yu go wach, yu nid fɔ du am di rayt we.
Okay, so lɛ wi se yu pikin dɔn rili pwɛl di trɔst we yu gɛt. Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kam fɔ no se dɛn de yuz drɔgs , lay, ɔ dɛn de kam wit bad kɔmpin dɛn. Insay dis kayn tin, dɛn divays ya kin yusful we di pikin de na prɔbeshɔn. Bɔt sɔm impɔtant lɔ dɛn de we wi fɔ fala.
Masta sabi bukman dɛn se nɔ fɔ ɛva du dɛn tin ya sikrit wan . Dat go jɔs mek di tin wɔs.
Bifo dat, yu fɔ tɔk to yu pikin bɔt dis opin wan. Ɛksplen se, "Pikin/ gyal pikin, bikɔs ɔf wetin yu du, a dɔn lɔs di trɔst we a bin gɛt pan yu. Te da trɔst de kam bak, a go gɛt fɔ monitar yu dis we fɔ yu sef." Dis nɔ fɔ prɛzɛnt as pɔnishmɛnt, bɔt as sɔntin we yu de du fɔ bil bak di trɔst we yu dɔn lɔs.
Wetin mek dɛn de mɔna mama ɛn papa dɛn?
Wetin mek mama ɛn papa dɛn kin fil fɔ du dɛn tin ya? Wan rizin na di bizi layf we wi de liv tide. Mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt bɔku prɔblɛm wit dɛn wok prɔblɛm ɛn di kɔst fɔ liv. So, dɛn nɔ kin gɛt bɛtɛ tɛm fɔ spɛn wit dɛn pikin dɛn. Pikin dɛn nɔ tan lɛk aw dɛn bin de, dɛn de rɔn rawnd frɔm mɔnin te nɛt wit klas, tichin, ɛn spɔt trenin. Bikɔs ɔf dis, di padi biznɛs bitwin mama ɛn papa ɛn pikin dɛn de fa smɔl smɔl.
Bikɔs ɔf dis distans, mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tɔn to teknɔlɔji fɔ no wetin de apin na dɛn pikin in layf. Bɔt wetin dɛn rili nid fɔ du difrɛn.
Sɔntɛnde, we yu pikin de tɔk bɔt di myuzik, fim, ɛn gem dɛn we i lɛk, yu go si dɛn tin dɛn de we go mek i nɔ gladi. Bɔt, tek tɛm lisin ivin we dɛn de tɔk bɔt tin dɛn we nɔ impɔtant to yu . Na da tɛm de dɛn go gɛt inof trɔst ɛn kɔnekshɔn fɔ tɔk to yu bɔt siriɔs tin lɛk drɔgs ɔ mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. I impɔtant fɔ kam na ples usay dɛn invayt dɛn pas fɔ slip insay yu pikin in layf.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Tink tu tɛm bifo yu yuz divays dɛn fɔ wach. Dis kin pwɛl di tin we yu gɛt wit yu pikin we gɛt valyu pas ɔl: fɔ abop pan am .
- Big difrɛns de bitwin smɔl pikin ɛn titi. Fɔ alaw yɔŋ pikin dɛn fɔ gɛt prayvet pat ɛn fɔ gɛt fridɔm impɔtant fɔ mek dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi na dɛn maynd.
- If i nid fɔ wach am na say we di pikin in trɔst dɔn brok siriɔs wan (e.g., yuz drɔgs), tɛl di pikin dis opin wan ɛn jɔs du am as pat pan di trɔst-ribildin prɔses.
- Nɔ ɛva wach yu pikin sikrit wan. I go jɔs mek di padi biznɛs wɔs ɛn mek yu nɔ ebul fɔ sɔlv di prɔblɛm.
- Bil tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin. Lisin gud wan to wetin de apin na dɛn wɔl. Dis go mek am izi fɔ dɛn fɔ tɔk to yu bɔt ɛni prɔblɛm. If prɔblɛm de, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt fɔ rifer yu pikin fɔ gɛt advays.
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